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Old 07-16-2005, 10:34 AM
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Does your girlfriend/wife freak out over the moding?

Mine does. Does anyone elses? She says I'm obcessed and it's just a car, "it's fine the way it is". WTF!
Old 07-16-2005, 10:38 AM
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haha yea bro ive had 2 g/f's since i got the car bak in 01.. lemmie tell u was so into the car i had them both begging me to stop.. after a while i got them to love it caus like they say ... if ya cant beat em join em. and thats just what they did.. i had my last g/f pose w/ the cl.. ill post it up if i can find the pic.
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It's a trade off with my wife.

New sofas = new rims.

She spends some money on herself, I spend money the whip. As long as I consider it my hobby, and don't blow a bunch of money on other shit, she understands
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I never really pay attention when they speak.
Old 07-16-2005, 11:21 AM
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I never really pay attention when they speak.
Old 07-16-2005, 11:28 AM
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my girl is just as much into car as i am, so i lucked out there.
now me playing hockey three nights a week, i hear shit for!
Old 07-16-2005, 11:28 AM
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i guess that they can be so insecure sometimes that they have jealousy just your spending some quality time with our rides when it comes to washing, waxing, or putting in some wrench time. that complaining doesn't bother so much as she nearly goes hysterical when i give it some gas when some smart ass thinks he'd hard.
it's funny how that works, sometimes i'm by myself and looking for someone who would be worth giving it a go, and noone seems to be around. only when she's with me is when one pulls up. it's all good. i guess this will all just make them miss us more.
Old 07-16-2005, 12:00 PM
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Originally Posted by mclarenf3387
I never really pay attention when they speak.
Old 07-16-2005, 12:47 PM
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Most women will never understand our obsession with cars, much like we can never understand their obsession with clothes. My girl hates that i dump money into my car, but at the same time, we always take my car and she doesn't seem to complain when she's in riding in it. Oh well, i guess i'm safe as long as i don't dump THAT much money into my car.
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She gets jealous when I wash, wax, and install my mods. When I was making my grill she hit the roof a few times because she thought I'd rather make the grill than talk to her all day.
Old 07-16-2005, 01:48 PM
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I hear shit all the time. Before we got married, I was able to hide some of it.
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mine doesn't give me any crap anymore. i have a few 240sx's. she she is used to me spending alot of time with as she calls it "my children." she is just happy i don't dump as much money into it.
Old 07-16-2005, 08:48 PM
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that sucks man. i never get shit from my girl, she just says lets go for a ride and see if the new mod made a difference. she generally doesnt like me flooring when she is in the car too much though.
she jokes about me spending more on it then her! i cant complain when it comes to modding and woman.
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I think it's gonna end up breaking us up but whatever... I'm not gonna stop now, shit I'm just getting started! This site rocks , you are all gonna make me go broke. I love it!

To bad though, cause I'd love to mod her 6spd if she'd let me..
Old 07-17-2005, 02:45 AM
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lol, my GF always gets's sad when I spend a lot of time on my car, she saays to me "you love that car more than you love me" and of course I reply "no I don't, but pretty damn close"

it's not like I totally ignore her though. She always asks to drive my car after I mod it and she's looking to "pimp" her ride out. Unfortunatley she's got a 05 cavalier, and she wants to do ricer-esque things to it and I try to stop her, but at least she understands.
Old 07-17-2005, 05:30 AM
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Mine always says its ok and she gives me her opinion if she likes a mod then under her breath she says thats why we are still saving for a house and not living in it. And once she tried to get me to sell the bike so we could get a house quicker . So after she beggedme to take her back and promised never to speak about the all mighty r-1 like that again we are living happy saving for a house again lol.
Old 07-17-2005, 04:10 PM
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[QUOTE=ghost_masterCL]lol, my GF always gets's sad when I spend a lot of time on my car, she saays to me "you love that car more than you love me" and of course I reply "no I don't, but pretty damn close"

lol my mom says that shit to my dad about his 67 xke.
he just says"I've loved you longer." lol that really pisses her off.
Old 07-17-2005, 04:38 PM
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Wifey works every Saturday and I'm off, so I do all my mods then. Plus they have to understand it's a hobbie, sonething to keep life interesting rather than boring.
Old 07-17-2005, 06:40 PM
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My wife hates cars.... ironic, isn't it! She doesn't mind me tinkering as long as its not obsessive (which it can be at times). Generally sat (daytime) is when I fool around with the car. Regarding the money... I am quite careful, in that, its the 'out of the system' cash that I use for my car. We have our budget and car-stuff is not part of that equation. I make money buying/selling stuff and that funds my Vegas and mod requirements.

I am obviously banned from modding her car, but am required to do all the maintenance and keep it in good shape. I am waiting to move into my new house where I have a spare garage and probably a spare car too

Oh yeah... I never floor it with her in the car. There are times when I try to sneak in a little 'show of force' in 5th gear against some other car but she catches onto it. The day I had the turbo on I took her for a ride and I explicitly stated that I was going to floor it... she wouldn't talk to me the rest of the day! Scared the bajeezes outta her
Old 07-17-2005, 07:12 PM
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I look at performance mods in a way that kind of says "Here's the engineer and physics side of my intellect". I have a job (sales) where I don't use my mind or hands to make something better, or faster, or get better gas mileage. By Friday I'm half burned out from it all and I want to use my hands and mind on my CL-S to improve it. That's my side of the story...everybody's different!
Old 07-18-2005, 12:06 AM
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Damn all this guys with girls that HATES them fixing cars. My girl LOVES cars. She FIENDS for speed!!! I spend time and money on my car and she's like hey you see those fools drooling ova your car and she laughs about it. The only draw back I have is whatever I put on my car, she wants done to her car too. I dont mind it if I have money but I am only 23 and $$$ is the only problem but I am one of those lucky guys that my girls LOVE cars. She gets down and dirty. She helps me change tires, change oil, help me install all the shit on my car. On top of that, SHES HOT AND SHES 38D !!! Thats HUGE for an asian girl. I guess its her French side. oh wells. But damn sorry guys, i wish your girls can be more understanding.
Old 07-18-2005, 07:54 AM
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I told my last ex-girlfriend that if she has a problem she can take the subway whenever she feels like it. Odd how that relationship didn't work out.

My current girlfriend told me I spend a lot on mods and crap for my car, but she figured that she doesn't have a car and I drive her around, so she has no right to complain.

Current girlfriend is a lot smarter than the ex.
Old 07-18-2005, 08:15 AM
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Mine doesn't freak so much about the car. I quess because I don't dump a whole allot of money into it. She gets mad at the amount of time I spend cleaning the car. She gets more pissed with the money I spend on my bike.
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my gf doesn't care about what I do to my car, sometimes she offers me help to wash & wax.
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My girlfriend is cool about cars. However, she is not cool with
Old 07-18-2005, 03:25 PM
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i have yet to hear a complaint in 9 months w/current gf. she acutally loves cars...she has a 330ci w/all options (18" oem rims, skirts, etc.) and loves speed more than i do...


my ex loved cars and fixing them up too.

i guess i've been lucky so far.
(knock on wood)
Old 07-18-2005, 04:07 PM
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Variety is the spice of life...Im always changing the passenger seat decoration so havent had to worry about the money/time with the car factor in a while.
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Originally Posted by m&b6speed
my girl is just as much into car as i am, so i lucked out there.
now me playing hockey three nights a week, i hear shit for!
Same here.... As long as she's got money to shop....................

BTW I almost pissed myself when I saw your avatar
Old 07-19-2005, 07:24 PM
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Everyone has their vice. Doesnt bother me in the least , in fact I get off on it. Anyway, Its great but there does come a time when modding may be needed to pushed to the back burner. Houses and savings accounts become more important then going fast. But if you can enjoy both why not!
Old 07-19-2005, 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted by chevyjase
Same here.... As long as she's got money to shop....................

BTW I almost pissed myself when I saw your avatar

thanks dude
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Originally Posted by mclarenf3387
I never really pay attention when they speak.

+1
Old 07-19-2005, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted by paulff3
My girlfriend is cool about cars. However, she is not cool with

my girl is cool with cars, and
Old 07-19-2005, 09:23 PM
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Originally Posted by m&b6speed
my girl is cool with cars, and
Please stop posting. Your making my life miserable
Old 07-19-2005, 09:26 PM
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sorry dude, if it makes you feel better, your car is hotter than mine
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I was just busting your balls






Or was I
Old 07-19-2005, 09:34 PM
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i was just busting your balls




or was I

just kidding bro, your car is hot i like what you have done to it-im stock-for the moment
Old 07-19-2005, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted by m&b6speed
i was just busting your balls




or was I

just kidding bro, your car is hot i like what you have done to it-im stock-for the moment
Why thank you

Your girl doesn't happen to have a younger sister does she?

We need to make a NJ mini-meet one night next week or something.

Back to your regularly scheduled thread.
Old 07-19-2005, 11:21 PM
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^^^ That was funny!
Old 07-20-2005, 03:40 PM
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mini meet sounds good-any day but mon or tues and im in

no she doesnt have a younger sister-sorry
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