JJ4Short

Might be a repost.


Do you stay in contact with your ex? In any form?

I have friends who once they break up its done. But what I have seen a lot is people bouncing back and fourth with each other until one finds someone they really like then it stops. I know countless people who have that one "ex" they wont see for 2 years then start fucking them again, me included.

Whiskers

I haven't run across an ex is many, many years....

LuvMyTSX

Nope. I've moved on.

agean

Some yes, some no. Depends on the relationship and the break up. I've had some ex issues in the past, currently, and I'm sure in the future as well.

97BlackAckCL

iTrader: (6)

I used to talk to my crazy ex and she used to call me out of the blue, because back in the day I would get back with her and believe all the lies again that she "changed" but she never did. Now I haven't seen or heard from her in years

JediMindTricks

nope and have no desire to.

is300eater

I voted "still fucking her" even tho it's been awhile, we still talk from time to time... but she's like 2 hours away... just the thought of the gas...

videojock

Still talk to most of my ex's. Most of the break ups were due to my decisions. I believe in the open door policy.

darksom1

Exes are exes for a reason...However, I have had sex with the ex before shortly after they became an ex. Hell, after I got divorced, my ex was waiting for me down the hallway of the courthouse after it was over. We always had a saying: "No matter how many times..." Sex is never going to be a problem, it's the other shit that made them an ex that after a while you say "why am I still fucking with them?"...and just move on to other things. It was like somebody you know you can go to kind of thing while you are getting your stable together. I wouldn't consider them now though...

iTimmy

there is one ex that I still get what I can from her, we don't talk often, once or twice a year if we bump into each other. If we are both uncommitted one thing often leads to another, then we don't see each other or talk for a few months. But I agree, I refuse to pay a toll to get laid, that's where I draw the line!

JediMindTricks

so i'm assuming you're talking about stunna?

Whiskers

:ghey:

shnee

Are you interested if we've ever done this or been like this, or just at the present moment?
Because I used to get it on with my exes but am currently seeing someone.

JJ4Short

I brought it up because my ex has a boyfriend and last weekend me and her went out (dutch) to eat and a movie then a walk around a new ikea they build down here. It was kinda nice, talking etc... But I was thinking to myself "Hmm did she do this to me while I was with her" You know hanging with other dudes and shit without telling me. It was a good thing though, I wanted to see if I was over her and damn right I am. Plus she looked funny that day Usually when I havent seen her for a while I want to jump her bones but not this time.

I told her we shouldnt talk as much because I dont want to be "that dude" because I hated it when I was dating someone then found out they still talk to an ex or were doing shit behind my back.

is300eater

OMG! I can totally relate to that... I kinda left out some details about the girl I mentioned above... Well, the last time we talked... she told me that she's now stripping (full nude), and yes... we've hooked up before AFTER we broke up... so anyway, we're talking:

me: "well... you might have to give me a lap dance one of these days..."
Sarah: "...oh, I'll give you 'more than that'..."
me: "...but don't you have 'a guy'?"
Sarah: "...I'll always hook up with you..."
me: "O'Rly?"
Sarah: "...yeah, I think until the day someone puts a ring on my finger, you and I can always hook up..."

so, I was kinda flattered at first... and for a couple hours after (the phone conversation), I really wanted to call her up and say I was coming down (she's in San Diego)... but I got to thinking with my head... the one "up top" that is... The ONE year we were together... how many guys or exes, did she screwed when I wasn't around??!!

einsatz

I was gonna vote for keeping it plutonic, but really, it's more jovian or saturnic than anything.

darksom1

This is for you and all the rest of the guys who post here on this subject of banging exes and the reality that you come face to face with when you see them in an "unrestricted" light:

1) You will never have sex with the girl you used to be with...she no doubt has been drinking milk since then.

2) You may not WANT to have sex with the girl you used to be with, because she is no longer her...meaning that shit about her you didn't know, may now be revealed to you and you will see her differently because of it. So approach with caution, as I have said before that it is not for the faint at heart!

Mizouse

what strip club is this?

03silvertypeS

i keep in touch with a few, but it's just as friends and haven't seen any of them in years.

RaviNJCLs

iTrader: (4)

I don't really care either way. There are a couple of them I would talk to and some of them that I would not. But it will be as friends. I moved on from them and would not ever consider anything more than a passing friendship.

darksom1

On the outside looking in, or in hindsight, it is difficult to know where you were in that relationship huh man?

Subterfuge is not the sole province of man. Gotta stay up on those women and don't sleep fellas...

LIPPSTUH

iTrader: (2)

i completely dropped her... she has too thank god

zguy95135

No not anymore. I tried to stay friends with her (out of pity) because no one else would put up with her, but after she always tried to make me jealous and put me in awkward situations I cut her off because I was tired of dealing with her BS. She's certifiably nuts.

Ken1997TL

I believe in clean breaks.

invisiblewar

my ex was a ccrazy bitch, the more i think about it the more i wonder why the fuck did i everr put up with it...sucks because my close friend lives across the street from her so i have to see her and her fucken psycho family everry time i get home.

2jiggy4u

What is her stage name and what club is she at? lol

is300eater

I didn't ask her about stage name... and can't remember off hand right now the name of the club... but I vaguely remember her describing it being near the stadium (where the Chargers play) and they have another location by Camp Pen. Oceanside... but it's only topless...

darksom1

I thought you said your girl, I mean ex, was a full nuder?

is300eater

I did, the location she's at NOW is full nude... but the other location is topless only... and she's worked there before too... but said because they also serve alcohol the girls tend to not make as much because some of the patron's money ends up at the bar... where as full nude... they, pretty much spend most of their money on the lap dances...

shnee

I've never been to a strip club.. are the girls at topless-only clubs generally better looking than those at the full nude clubs?
It just seems like you'd get a classier (ha), more attractive group of women, rather than any ol' ho who is willing to expose it all

sixsixfour

nope. last thing you want is getting caught in the middle of a fiasco about a love child that belongs to the other guy.

is300eater

I think it depends where you go...

CLpower

I've got an Ex I talk to still...haven't in a few months but we use to talk a lot. She was one of my best friends

Yumcha

jlukja

Nope.

Georgiapeach

No they are exs for a reason, but I wouldn't mind knowing what they are up to. Like career wise, if they have kids, and if they are married. I am noisy as hell but I have no desire of seeing or talking to them ever again. They were real cool/tight with my family and every once and a while, my family get a call with all of the juicy updates.

mystikk

Nope, no need or want. She messages me every few months, I don't have the slightest clue why.

tsxgoogs

My ex actually called me after like 3 weeks, two nights ago just to talk, she wanted to hangout and i already started talking to someone else and i just didnt have time!

Trackruner228

iTrader: (1)

None of them they are an ex for a reason and espcially considering one of them had a beastality problem.

amisconception

the shitty part (one of many lol) is that my ex was one of my gmail/gchat contacts and now that i deleted her recently (after not being on it for so long as to avoid her even online) she sends me an e-mail saying, "i just realized I accidently emailed you....also realized that you deleted me from your chat contacts....understandable. I hope you are doing well...."

and after i responded she says this: " I wish you the best Warren. I have nothing but good memories of us, and always will remember them."

honestly this makes me want to throw up. i'm not even going to reply because i don't want to lie to her and tell her "yea, i have nothing but good memories too, i hope your organs are in tact"

so NO - contact is BAD, TERRIBLY TERRIBLY BAD, for me at least. the fact that she makes me uncomfortable with using damn chat programs, etc. is just a tiny and minor hint at what's possible if I did continue to speak with her. not to mention the fact that i'd want to bang her.

fyi my last relationship, although it had its good portions, was hell towards the end. even in the middle some stuff red flagged and i didn't think about it (lost perspective) till it was too late. drama.