Would you date a girl that was BI?
06-13-2006, 10:46 PM
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Would you date a girl that was BI?
So I was hanging out with some friends from my old work and I met this girl that my one friend knew(also female). Anyways the chick was laid back and we got along great. We were comfortable with eachother and had a lot in common. My friend says she wants to hook up.....come to find out though she used to be or still is BI-sexual(maybe for fun?)....
So whats your take on the situation guys. She is pretty...not a super model but pretty. I am just afraid that this could have benefits...or...I may get jealous of the other girl!LOL
Put yourself in my shoes.
So whats your take on the situation guys. She is pretty...not a super model but pretty. I am just afraid that this could have benefits...or...I may get jealous of the other girl!LOL
Put yourself in my shoes.
06-13-2006, 10:50 PM
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A lot of women are bi. I suspect a lot more than admit it... 
Should you stay with her--are you kidding? This is a woman who knows good sex. Don't get jealous/self conscious--enjoy it...
Should you stay with her--are you kidding? This is a woman who knows good sex. Don't get jealous/self conscious--enjoy it...
06-14-2006, 01:34 AM
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Well usually...
Bi = Attention whore = slut = Higher probability of having an STD = Burnt dick = Sad Face
Date one: No
Fuck one with industrial condom: Yes
I say no logically but would I fuck one, no strings attatched...if I was in the situation...YES
Bi = Attention whore = slut = Higher probability of having an STD = Burnt dick = Sad Face
Date one: No
Fuck one with industrial condom: Yes
I say no logically but would I fuck one, no strings attatched...if I was in the situation...YES
06-14-2006, 04:41 AM
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I wouldnt, but thats just me.
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06-14-2006, 07:48 AM
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Find out if she likes butch lesbians or lipstick ones.
06-14-2006, 08:51 AM
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I've dated 3 girls/women that were Bi, 2 of them... I went into the relationship -knowing beforehand, the other one was a surprise.
...anyway, if this girl just wants to "hookup"? Heck! Go for it! But if you think you might wanna get emotionally involved ? ...meh, the fact that she's a bi may surface later in a conflict... And... NOT that I understand how's it like being "bi", but I think there's different degrees of bisexuality... 2 of the 3 that I dated told me that when it came down to it... they preferred a cawk -hands down... and would never be in a full on relationship with another girl. As for that 3rd one... last I heard... she's in a relationship with a girl currently... before we broke up... she was considering setting up a 3some for me (FFM), but never got around to it...
...but honestly? hookup, but don't get "involved"
...anyway, if this girl just wants to "hookup"? Heck! Go for it! But if you think you might wanna get emotionally involved ? ...meh, the fact that she's a bi may surface later in a conflict... And... NOT that I understand how's it like being "bi", but I think there's different degrees of bisexuality... 2 of the 3 that I dated told me that when it came down to it... they preferred a cawk -hands down... and would never be in a full on relationship with another girl. As for that 3rd one... last I heard... she's in a relationship with a girl currently... before we broke up... she was considering setting up a 3some for me (FFM), but never got around to it...
...but honestly? hookup, but don't get "involved"
06-14-2006, 11:22 AM
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Like others have said, it depends on the degree of their "Bi-ness." Does she just make out with girls at clubs and call herself Bi, or does she have short hair and eat puss? If anything, I would just do it for fun, wouldn't let it get serious.
06-14-2006, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted by SaraWI
A lot of women are bi. I suspect a lot more than admit it...
Should you stay with her--are you kidding? This is a woman who knows good sex. Don't get jealous/self conscious--enjoy it...
Should you stay with her--are you kidding? This is a woman who knows good sex. Don't get jealous/self conscious--enjoy it...
that made me laugh out loud at work 
06-14-2006, 11:56 AM
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Why not? If Kinsey is accurate most women are some mix of gay/straight.
The only challenge that I know of in doing a three-way with two women who are into women as well as men is being "left out". Not fun unless you're into voyeurysm, which has its moments, but not..............
The only challenge that I know of in doing a three-way with two women who are into women as well as men is being "left out". Not fun unless you're into voyeurysm, which has its moments, but not..............
06-14-2006, 12:42 PM
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Being bisexual doesn't necessarily mean she'll want to have a threesome with you and another girl. It's possible, but even if she would want that, don't you want to try it out?
In any case, the whole point of dating is to get to know someone. Find out what kind of person she is before making any assumptions based on her sexual orientation and go from there. But if you are not looking for anything serious, then go ahead and have some fun. Just don't forget to wrap your tool.
In any case, the whole point of dating is to get to know someone. Find out what kind of person she is before making any assumptions based on her sexual orientation and go from there. But if you are not looking for anything serious, then go ahead and have some fun. Just don't forget to wrap your tool.
06-14-2006, 12:45 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Being bisexual doesn't necessarily mean she'll want to have a threesome with you and another girl. It's possible, but even if she would want that, don't you want to try it out?
In any case, the whole point of dating is to get to know someone. Find out what kind of person she is before making any assumptions based on her sexual orientation and go from there. But if you are not looking for anything serious, then go ahead and have some fun. Just don't forget to wrap your tool.
In any case, the whole point of dating is to get to know someone. Find out what kind of person she is before making any assumptions based on her sexual orientation and go from there. But if you are not looking for anything serious, then go ahead and have some fun. Just don't forget to wrap your tool.
Thank you! Geez..you men are harsh...
06-14-2006, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Being bisexual doesn't necessarily mean she'll want to have a threesome with you and another girl. It's possible, but even if she would want that, don't you want to try it out?
In any case, the whole point of dating is to get to know someone. Find out what kind of person she is before making any assumptions based on her sexual orientation and go from there. But if you are not looking for anything serious, then go ahead and have some fun. Just don't forget to wrap your tool.
In any case, the whole point of dating is to get to know someone. Find out what kind of person she is before making any assumptions based on her sexual orientation and go from there. But if you are not looking for anything serious, then go ahead and have some fun. Just don't forget to wrap your tool.
06-14-2006, 02:37 PM
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I guess i should go have some fun then. She's safe also.
Just wanted people's opinion on the matter.....kinda funny some of the responses.
Just wanted people's opinion on the matter.....kinda funny some of the responses.
06-14-2006, 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Being bisexual doesn't necessarily mean she'll want to have a threesome with you and another girl. It's possible, but even if she would want that, don't you want to try it out?
In any case, the whole point of dating is to get to know someone. Find out what kind of person she is before making any assumptions based on her sexual orientation and go from there. But if you are not looking for anything serious, then go ahead and have some fun. Just don't forget to wrap your tool.
In any case, the whole point of dating is to get to know someone. Find out what kind of person she is before making any assumptions based on her sexual orientation and go from there. But if you are not looking for anything serious, then go ahead and have some fun. Just don't forget to wrap your tool.
I dated one girl that was openly bi. It didn't work out, we remained friends though. It was kinda weird going out to the bars and checking out the same girls.
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06-14-2006, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted by swift22
She's safe also.
Strap up and give it the ol' college try. Worst case scenario, she'll be a learning experience.
06-14-2006, 04:06 PM
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date? no. to me, being bi is more of a fad. i've never met a true bisexual. i haven't studied it a whole lot, so i don't really know for sure. i think many men confuse a woman's ability to admit another woman is attractive with the notion that she is attracted to women. but men themselves don't often admit another man is attractive because he is afraid to be mistaken for gay or whatever.
to clarify: just because someone thinks someone else is attrative, doesn't mean he/she wants to have sex with the person. i think the whole bi thing is overrated.
to clarify: just because someone thinks someone else is attrative, doesn't mean he/she wants to have sex with the person. i think the whole bi thing is overrated.
06-15-2006, 08:00 AM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
date? no. to me, being bi is more of a fad. i've never met a true bisexual. i haven't studied it a whole lot, so i don't really know for sure. i think many men confuse a woman's ability to admit another woman is attractive with the notion that she is attracted to women. but men themselves don't often admit another man is attractive because he is afraid to be mistaken for gay or whatever.
to clarify: just because someone thinks someone else is attrative, doesn't mean he/she wants to have sex with the person. i think the whole bi thing is overrated.
to clarify: just because someone thinks someone else is attrative, doesn't mean he/she wants to have sex with the person. i think the whole bi thing is overrated.
Would you go down on another girl?
06-15-2006, 01:01 PM
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I dated a BI-Sexual girl for about 6 months once. she was up front in the beginning and told me straight up! After about two weeks it was cool about it and I will freely admit it was the best sexual experience of my life. i would marry a bi-sexual girl and it would not bother me cause you will get two women in bed and your marriedl. Life does not get any better than that! When your married and you can sleep with women other than your wife(when shes present of course). you cant ask for a better life!!!!!!!!!!!
06-15-2006, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by blktl1
I dated a BI-Sexual girl for about 6 months once. she was up front in the beginning and told me straight up! After about two weeks it was cool about it and I will freely admit it was the best sexual experience of my life. i would marry a bi-sexual girl and it would not bother me cause you will get two women in bed and your marriedl. Life does not get any better than that! When your married and you can sleep with women other than your wife(when shes present of course). you cant ask for a better life!!!!!!!!!!!
Ya right...I am never that lucky
06-15-2006, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted by TLuscious
Hellz yeah I would date one..... I am one. Hubby dont mind as long as he can watch.
Just watch? He hasnt asked to take part in the action?
Would he be OK watching you get plowed by a dude? I'm just curious.
06-16-2006, 02:47 AM
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Originally Posted by TLuscious
Hellz yeah I would date one..... I am one. Hubby dont mind as long as he can watch.
I'm currently after a bi guy I knew in high school. Saw him at the gym a few days ago and he seemed really excited to see me so I think I might have a chance. So I think my opinion on bi people is pretty clear in this matter.
06-18-2006, 11:00 PM
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Originally Posted by JJ4Short
From the gay and bi people here of the people you know that are like that how many of them have a history of sexual abuse? Just curious.
One. One of my exes was raped by his ex-boyfriend. We couldn't really have intercourse because it was too difficult emotionally for him (not like I want to do that anyway).
06-19-2006, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
One. One of my exes was raped by his ex-boyfriend. We couldn't really have intercourse because it was too difficult emotionally for him (not like I want to do that anyway).
06-20-2006, 08:00 AM
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Originally Posted by swift22
My friend says she wants to hook up.....come to find out though she used to be or still is BI-sexual(maybe for fun?)....
So whats your take on the situation guys. She is pretty...not a super model but pretty. I am just afraid that this could have benefits...or...I may get jealous of the other girl!LOL
Put yourself in my shoes.
So whats your take on the situation guys. She is pretty...not a super model but pretty. I am just afraid that this could have benefits...or...I may get jealous of the other girl!LOL
Put yourself in my shoes.
