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Old 04-27-2006, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
The bottom line is that he did the wrong thing by marrying this girl in the first place (might want to rethink your views on abortion) and now he's fucked. It's going to end in either a lifetime of misery or a divorce, and in either case he can kiss a good chunk of his money goodbye. I guess it's true what they say about fools and their money...


Cant blame us. In the depression thread we told him to buy a dog.

And I wouldnt necessarily err on the side of divorce.
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Originally Posted by BEETROOT
with all that money I'm sure it wouldn't be too hard to get a good hitman to solve his problems.
I've said it once, and I'll say it again:

It's amazing the possibilites when you have a well in your basement.
Old 04-27-2006, 03:57 PM
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Damn I want to be a pharmacist near these two. CHA-CHING!!!
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Depends on the laws of the state what the split might be, and if the money from the real estate sale came prior to his marriage, it may be excluded. In addition, he can bury the assets offshore (NOT literally, please........water-S) but in unrecorded accounts. My stepson's dad did that prior to his death, and we still turn up a random bank account and cash it out.......
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Originally Posted by ric
(NOT literally, please........water-S)
Old 04-27-2006, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted by ric
Depends on the laws of the state what the split might be, and if the money from the real estate sale came prior to his marriage, it may be excluded. In addition, he can bury the assets offshore (NOT literally, please........water-S) but in unrecorded accounts. My stepson's dad did that prior to his death, and we still turn up a random bank account and cash it out.......

Yes, if the sale from the realestate came before the marriage most of it will still be his, but she can rape him for child suport and alimony. I think the longer the marriage lasts the more stake she can have to his money.
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Old 04-27-2006, 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted by fdl
Yes, if the sale from the realestate came before the marriage most of it will still be his, but she can rape him for child suport and alimony. I think the longer the marriage lasts the more stake she can have to his money.
Absolutely right on the latter. However, if he can document that she is an unfit mother due to untreated mental illness, he can gain custody and sue her for child support. It's been done, and I wouldn't take this guy's drive to pull this off, but he has a clear basis to gain custody. Leaving a daughter in the care of a woman with a serious untreated bipolar disorder is asking for disaster.
Old 04-27-2006, 04:33 PM
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I was thinking "well she claims to have bipolar to justify spending all of Water-S' money"
(he's got money you know). "She wants it all" and also "Always Dirty is nearly Always Right" (in this thread)

"kid is gonna end up with the shaft, sad as it may be" <= that was my original thought
in stream-of-consciousness
Old 04-27-2006, 05:07 PM
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Remember: these are COLLEGE-EDUCATED Buckeyes [both Mr and Mrs Water-S] that we are talking about here.

Just think about poor ole me, and all the idiotic louts around Ackron that I had to deal with for 10 months, or almost as bad, anytime I cross the border to Toledo.
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300k+ in the bank and she only has 20k in jewelry? That's your problem right there!
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oooh

....you're married, what more can you expect
Old 04-27-2006, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Scrib
One of the more interesting threads in recent D&R history.

Water... You gotta do what is right for you and your daughter. I couldn't even fathom ever leaving my wife, but if there were circumstances that presented dangers to my sons/daughters I'd take them and run for the hills. No one should take their child away from them with little to no reason why.

With regards to the money... Lock that shit up tight.
At this point I think Water-S has gotta be asking himself:

What would this man do? ==>
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Originally Posted by SakiGT


Youre just hating b/c I can visit his family's beachhouse for the cost of a 3 hour plane ticket.
You could also be shot as the capitalistic bourgeois that are holding the hard working people of Bolivia down!!! VIVA LA REVOLUTION!!!
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That's a lot of farmland you got there.....
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I swear, there should be exams before people can marry and procreate.
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Originally Posted by 1killercls
I swear, there should be exams before people can marry and procreate.
........................with a written essay................. That would have kept Water-S out of deep doodoo
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
The bottom line is that he did the wrong thing by marrying this girl in the first place (might want to rethink your views on abortion) and now he's fucked. It's going to end in either a lifetime of misery or a divorce, and in either case he can kiss a good chunk of his money goodbye. I guess it's true what they say about fools and their money...

I think he knocked her up before he married her so...


Old 04-28-2006, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted by ric
........................with a written essay................. That would have kept Water-S out of deep doodoo
and a visit to a psychologist.
Old 04-28-2006, 11:54 AM
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what happened when dad sold the land is he sold it for a million bucks. he gave me 1/2 and I paid capital gains on it.
then with the left over money I've paid off shit(like my dad for our 00 Honda, my wife's student loans,misc)
Now as far as retireing by the time I'm 40. I never could do that. Even with farming when I was in college. I'd get bored in the winter. I have to work. If I'm not working I feel useless and get depressed. so I'll probably either work until something in my body doesn't let me or I die.
Old 04-28-2006, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted by mamboking
Water, I thought you work at the Honda assembly plant?
I quit there about 2-3 months ago. Botkins grain and feed had a opening. Plus I'm real close with them becuase that's where we go with all of our grain. so It was almost a given I got the job.
Old 04-28-2006, 11:57 AM
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Without reading the whole thing. You need to tell her mom to mind her own business.
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
Damn I want to be a pharmacist near these two. CHA-CHING!!!
my sister and brother in law are both pharmacist.
Old 04-28-2006, 12:00 PM
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Originally Posted by kurt_bradley
I've said it once, and I'll say it again:

It's amazing the possibilites when you have a well in your basement.
our well is outside. I think it's 140 ft. I helped the dude drill it. I only wanted to go 100 ft down he wanted to go 150. So we agreed to 140 ft.
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Originally Posted by SwervinCL
Without reading the whole thing. You need to tell her mom to mind her own business.
been there done that about 2 times. she has 2 times. her mom doesn't listen for shit.
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Originally Posted by moomaster_99
That's a lot of farmland you got there.....
not really initally we only had 750 acres.
now we're down to about 600 acres. that's about an average farm around here.
there's guys I know with 1000s of acres they own.
if you own the land eventally it pays off BIG time.
Old 04-28-2006, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted by ric
Depends on the laws of the state what the split might be, and if the money from the real estate sale came prior to his marriage, it may be excluded. In addition, he can bury the assets offshore (NOT literally, please........water-S) but in unrecorded accounts. My stepson's dad did that prior to his death, and we still turn up a random bank account and cash it out.......
I've been talking with Dad and I've been thinking about buying a tractor(there's no way in hell it's worth this much) from him with all my assets that way if she would file for divorce all she get's 1/2 the value of the tractor(which is maybe 10 grand). dad would hold the assets until everything done. but she'd get SCREWED.
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Originally Posted by Water-S
I quit there about 2-3 months ago. Botkins grain and feed had a opening. Plus I'm real close with them becuase that's where we go with all of our grain. so It was almost a given I got the job.
Wouldn't a career with Honda Motor offer better benefits and a more promising career trajectory than one with Botkins Grain & Feed?
Old 04-28-2006, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted by SpeedyV6
Wouldn't a career with Honda Motor offer better benefits and a more promising career trajectory than one with Botkins Grain & Feed?
I wasn't happy at Honda, my boss wouldn't work with me to give me overtime, plus you couldn't listen to the stereo. It was stupid shit that was pissing me off. I went to my supervisor and talked with him and he didn't want to work with me. I gave them my 2 week notice and quit.
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Originally Posted by Water-S
I wasn't happy at Honda, my boss wouldn't work with me to give me overtime, plus you couldn't listen to the stereo. It was stupid shit that was pissing me off. I went to my supervisor and talked with him and he didn't want to work with me. I gave them my 2 week notice and quit.
Yeah I can see how that would be a pain in the ass, but you have to take the long view and picture what things will be like in five or six years. You'll have gotten rid of the wife and you'll find yourself as the BMIAO (Big Man in Anna, Ohio). I can picture all the latin mamcitas getting wet in their panties when you tell 'em you work for Honda Motor Corporation. I don't think Botkins Grain & Feed will hold the same cachet.
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Originally Posted by SpeedyV6
Yeah I can see how that would be a pain in the ass, but you have to take the long view and picture what things will be like in five or six years. You'll have gotten rid of the wife and you'll find yourself as the BMIAO (Big Man in Anna, Ohio). I can picture all the latin mamcitas getting wet in their panties when you tell 'em you work for Honda Motor Corporation. I don't think Botkins Grain & Feed will hold the same cachet.
I didn't work at Honda for the money I worked at Honda for the benefits. yes the benefits were great. but my boss was a GIANT ASS BAG. hell I didn't really care about pay at Botkins Feed and Grain as long as they gave me health care.
I make more money off the farm than working at Botkins Grain and Feed. plus I get shit for the farm at a discount.
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Originally Posted by Water-S
what happened when dad sold the land is he sold it for a million bucks. he gave me 1/2 and I paid capital gains on it.
then with the left over money I've paid off shit(like my dad for our 00 Honda, my wife's student loans,misc)
Now as far as retireing by the time I'm 40. I never could do that. Even with farming when I was in college. I'd get bored in the winter. I have to work. If I'm not working I feel useless and get depressed. so I'll probably either work until something in my body doesn't let me or I die.
Yeah but there's a big difference between HAVING to work to survive, and just working because you WANT to.
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Originally Posted by Water-S
our well is outside. I think it's 140 ft. I helped the dude drill it. I only wanted to go 100 ft down he wanted to go 150. So we agreed to 140 ft.
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
That's more like the water-s I like, and not the money talking one...
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
Right over his head
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Originally Posted by Water-S
I wasn't happy at Honda, my boss wouldn't work with me to give me overtime, plus you couldn't listen to the stereo. It was stupid shit that was pissing me off. I went to my supervisor and talked with him and he didn't want to work with me. I gave them my 2 week notice and quit.
Yeah that is stupid shit and you shouldnt need it. I dont get paid for overtime and I cant listen to the radio. Hell i cant even have my cell phone in the building i work in. I dont see what the big deal is.
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Originally Posted by mamboking
That's more like the water-s I like, and not the money talking one...
Realizing that someone with his mental capacity has that much more money than I do makes me think crazy thoughts.
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Originally Posted by mamboking
That's more like the water-s I like, and not the money talking one...

I like the money talking side...
I'm moving to OH. The way I see it, I'll have a PhD in about 2 years with little to no effort.
The hell with trading stocks.... Imma trade tractors and land, maybe a little marriage counseling on the side $$$$$$$
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Seems to me he would rather talk about tractors and farm land and the money that will come in 30years time...then taking the good advice given to him here and try save is marrage, even though sooner or later he is fucked..... this thread is a complete waste of time.
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Originally Posted by F900
trying to talk to water-s is a complete waste of time.
Fixed.


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