Why is my ex such a moron?
03-13-2006, 03:32 PM
#41
Originally Posted by 98CLChick
I blocked him before...it didn't work. He started e-mailing and calling my cell incessantly. Btw, he's 25 and acting like this. 
If you really want to make it stop, you can....just depends on how much you want it to stop. If he emails you --- so what --- filter his emails directly to trash. You don't even need to read them.
If he's calling you, have the phone company block his cell/house/work numbers so his calls don't go through. Or, change your phone number. It's a hassle and you shouldn't have to do it, but if you really want it to stop and nothing else has worked - those are your options. Responding to him is just encouraging him to do it again.
03-13-2006, 03:45 PM
#43
Originally Posted by Street Spirit
If you really want to make it stop, you can....just depends on how much you want it to stop. If he emails you --- so what --- filter his emails directly to trash. You don't even need to read them.
If he's calling you, have the phone company block his cell/house/work numbers so his calls don't go through. Or, change your phone number. It's a hassle and you shouldn't have to do it, but if you really want it to stop and nothing else has worked - those are your options. Responding to him is just encouraging him to do it again.
If he's calling you, have the phone company block his cell/house/work numbers so his calls don't go through. Or, change your phone number. It's a hassle and you shouldn't have to do it, but if you really want it to stop and nothing else has worked - those are your options. Responding to him is just encouraging him to do it again.
If you really want it to stop take the steps necessary to make it stop.
03-13-2006, 03:51 PM
#44
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
If you really want to make it stop, you can....just depends on how much you want it to stop. If he emails you --- so what --- filter his emails directly to trash. You don't even need to read them.
If he's calling you, have the phone company block his cell/house/work numbers so his calls don't go through. Or, change your phone number. It's a hassle and you shouldn't have to do it, but if you really want it to stop and nothing else has worked - those are your options. Responding to him is just encouraging him to do it again.
If he's calling you, have the phone company block his cell/house/work numbers so his calls don't go through. Or, change your phone number. It's a hassle and you shouldn't have to do it, but if you really want it to stop and nothing else has worked - those are your options. Responding to him is just encouraging him to do it again.
The guy is just odd. He doesnt try to contact her for months then out of the blue he will start emailings/calling/IMing her within a day. Then he goes back into hiding and does it over again when few more months go by.
If this was happening daily or even weekly.. then
But since its just a here and there thing.. it doesnt bother me as much.
03-13-2006, 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Scottman111
I guess this means CKcentral is the new king leghumper then 
03-13-2006, 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
The guy is just odd. He doesnt try to contact her for months then out of the blue he will start emailings/calling/IMing her within a day. Then he goes back into hiding and does it over again when few more months go by.
If this was happening daily or even weekly.. then
But since its just a here and there thing.. it doesnt bother me as much.
03-13-2006, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted by kurt_bradley
I don't really think anyone will stoop to the level of King again. That was "unique."
Hmm, you've made a good point.......HAIL TO THE KING!!!!! 
03-13-2006, 09:37 PM
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Because most guys are assholes and want to give girls some loving and not give a shit about the realtionship. I cant believe most girls havent realized this.
03-13-2006, 09:56 PM
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I like how the leghumpers who always complain about not getting girls are the ones who are talking shit. 
Why would I care about this guy, if she wanted him back after 10 months then she could easily do so. She doesnt even email him back or answer his phone calls. I have read everything he says... im not worried. Even boring M TYPE X has a better chance of stealing her away from me than the ex.
Some insecure kids up in this motha.
Why would I care about this guy, if she wanted him back after 10 months then she could easily do so. She doesnt even email him back or answer his phone calls. I have read everything he says... im not worried. Even boring M TYPE X has a better chance of stealing her away from me than the ex.
Some insecure kids up in this motha.
03-13-2006, 09:56 PM
#58
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Originally Posted by zeroday
jesal you should thank that guy for making you look good.
EXACTLY. I dont mind him being around.
Go read her old threads about him, makes me look like a God.
03-13-2006, 11:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
I like how the leghumpers who always complain about not getting girls are the ones who are talking shit.
Why would I care about this guy, if she wanted him back after 10 months then she could easily do so. She doesnt even email him back or answer his phone calls. I have read everything he says... im not worried. Even boring M TYPE X has a better chance of stealing her away from me than the ex.
Some insecure kids up in this motha.
Why would I care about this guy, if she wanted him back after 10 months then she could easily do so. She doesnt even email him back or answer his phone calls. I have read everything he says... im not worried. Even boring M TYPE X has a better chance of stealing her away from me than the ex.
Some insecure kids up in this motha.
I am honestly amazed she hasn't. Don't get me wrong, it's refreshing to see a chick with her head on straight. Just not expected.
03-14-2006, 03:00 AM
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Originally Posted by huckleberry
how THE HELL do chicks like you get hooked up with idiots like that ???
It's like one of life's mystries...I just don't and never will get it
It's like one of life's mystries...I just don't and never will get it
03-14-2006, 06:31 AM
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I don't know what kind of girls you guys have been meeting. The generalization of the female population in this thread is disappointing.
03-14-2006, 06:45 AM
#62
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Originally Posted by ABreece
Because 99 times out of 100 the girl takes the worthless shitbag back.
I am honestly amazed she hasn't. Don't get me wrong, it's refreshing to see a chick with her head on straight. Just not expected.
I am honestly amazed she hasn't. Don't get me wrong, it's refreshing to see a chick with her head on straight. Just not expected.
I have seen it happen.
03-14-2006, 08:35 AM
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Originally Posted by sasha
I don't know what kind of girls you guys have been meeting. The generalization of the female population in this thread is disappointing.
03-14-2006, 10:11 AM
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Recently it seems like women that I have met either want to stay single, party and get crazy, or they want to be with some dickhead that isnt going to benefit them at all in life.
I guess I need to move into the 26+ bracket, but who knows if I'll have any luck there. At what age does a girl realize they need a good man in their life, ditch the loser, and just settle down? I havent been able to answer that yet.
I guess I need to move into the 26+ bracket, but who knows if I'll have any luck there. At what age does a girl realize they need a good man in their life, ditch the loser, and just settle down? I havent been able to answer that yet.
03-14-2006, 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted by sasha
I don't know what kind of girls you guys have been meeting. The generalization of the female population in this thread is disappointing.
03-14-2006, 01:28 PM
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IF he was SUCHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH a piece of shit and SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO utterly pathetic, why is she even responding to his IMs?
Jesal, you can pretend like this doesn't bother or, maybe it doesn't, but you have to admit that her talking to him annoys the shit out of you. And, if what she says is true, that he just doesn't give up and EVENTUALLY she's given up to letting him talk, what makes you think it'll ever end?
Every 6 months you can count on a visit from the 'ole ex. SOOO fun! Welcome the new member of your relationship.
Jesal, you can pretend like this doesn't bother or, maybe it doesn't, but you have to admit that her talking to him annoys the shit out of you. And, if what she says is true, that he just doesn't give up and EVENTUALLY she's given up to letting him talk, what makes you think it'll ever end?
Every 6 months you can count on a visit from the 'ole ex. SOOO fun! Welcome the new member of your relationship.
03-14-2006, 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted by CKcentral
Recently it seems like women that I have met either want to stay single, party and get crazy, or they want to be with some dickhead that isnt going to benefit them at all in life.
I guess I need to move into the 26+ bracket, but who knows if I'll have any luck there. At what age does a girl realize they need a good man in their life, ditch the loser, and just settle down? I havent been able to answer that yet.
I guess I need to move into the 26+ bracket, but who knows if I'll have any luck there. At what age does a girl realize they need a good man in their life, ditch the loser, and just settle down? I havent been able to answer that yet.
03-14-2006, 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
ahem.. dont you play for our team??? traitor.
Okay I admit it was a generalization. But in my experience it's a true generalization. When it comes to most things, IN GENERAL, females tend towards the irrational. This isn't always a bad thing. Too much rationality makes life boring. My friend said that females always go into arguments knowing they're right (unless it's a scientific or technical argument, in which case they do follow the rules of debate).
I dunno. I don't have any intimate relationships with girls so maybe I'm way off base.
03-14-2006, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
IF he was SUCHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH a piece of shit and SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO utterly pathetic, why is she even responding to his IMs?
Totally agree, and Jen is smart enough to know how to cut contact with him completely. I guess she's just chosen not to just yet. Although I have no idea what transcribed between them except based on the IMs she posted, I'll guess that deep down she's still really hurt and angry. I think she keeps responding to him because she wants to make sure HE KNOWS and FEELS just how pissed off she is at him. I think she wants the last laugh and won't completely disconnect from him til she feels he 'gets' how much of an *** she thinks he is. To walk away and not speak to him again might mean, to her, that he might never truly understand how it really made her feel. So I think she'll keep going til she's really ready to move on -- which probably means, not really caring what he thinks anymore. 
03-14-2006, 02:24 PM
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Does it bother me, somtimes.
Do I think hes a threat, NO.
Does she care about my feelings...
I think Street Spirit nailed it. I wish she would move on but me demanding it wont make the process any faster. She can take care of herself and if she truely wants to put 100% into us then she should lose contact with him.
I was hoping sooner or later she would have stopped talking to him.. but i guess i need to realize its been 10 months and she still replies to him. Figured it was it was just a phase and she would end it someday.
Im sure she wouldnt enjoy me talking to my ex even if it was just arguing.
Do I think hes a threat, NO.
Does she care about my feelings...
I think Street Spirit nailed it. I wish she would move on but me demanding it wont make the process any faster. She can take care of herself and if she truely wants to put 100% into us then she should lose contact with him.
I was hoping sooner or later she would have stopped talking to him.. but i guess i need to realize its been 10 months and she still replies to him. Figured it was it was just a phase and she would end it someday.
Im sure she wouldnt enjoy me talking to my ex even if it was just arguing.
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03-14-2006, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
Damn you AZ, got me thinking now. 
Originally Posted by geminisdc
I think there is a reason why she hasnt blocked him . AFTER TEN MONTHS .
03-14-2006, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted by dom
So Jesal, you gonna grow a set and do something about this or not?
I mean talking to her ex only on AIM every few months to argue doesnt really affect me. Im not insecure enough where i would think she would go back to him. I know she wouldnt.
Cant go back to that when you already had
