Professor

I'm crazy, and I'd leave myself as an opening statement.

But what would you do if you wife went to dinner (a few times a week) with your only daughter's best friend's dad? His house is twice mine, and he supposedly has a girlfriend in another state. He has custody of his only child. But they all go together and sit as one happy family.

They roll in around midnight, and she (my wife) can never produce a receipt where she paid for herself and my daughter. David always pays... such a gentlemen.

I really would not give a crap, but I pay every bill coming into the house. She takes her money and spends it as a sailor, and then two days after being paid she wants money for gas in the Acura RL I bought.

I may be signing off, there is limited access to the net in prison.

Lawyer up or Load Up?

HEAVY_RL

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Just remember if you shoot the .45 at his house the dog will come over too.

Professor

Good idea... maybe he'll eat them and be no evidence.

justnspace

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Dont know how youre getting away with that avy, Heavy.

rossv1

It's just a tomato?

1StGenCL

Confront her, ask what is going on, and go from there. How is the rest of marriage? Are you two on good terms? Why aren't you taking her to dinner?

benben01

Prof, sounds like you really need to have a heart to heart with the wife and figure things out. When women do things like that it's usually in response to something they are not getting at home. Having been through a similar situation like that, my best advice is not to go off the deep end and do your best to stay calm and listen. React and respond later once you get a chance to digest the information. You and I are too old and wise enough to know once you say something you can't take it back....

MySoCalLife

+1 I knew a few buddy that has their GF cheated on them with other dudes they hang out with regulary. I know a few dudes that cheat on their girlfriends, sometimes this world makes me sad, lol.

1StGenCL

Sorry, I forgot to mention this when you talk to her, stay calm. Even if you hear the worst news, take a step back and plan your next move and don't get mad.

Professor

Old Klingon proverb... revenge is a dish best served cold.

But I have contacted my lawyer... he was funny. He said this will be so easy, I may end up paying you.

HEAVY_RL

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I didn't, got my official warning this morning.

haha, it was indeed just a tomato, but I understand the mods views on it.

No biggie.

benben01

Sorry to hear you are going down this path. Let us know how things work out.

doopstr

http://www.cheaters.com/ let them get to the bottom of this.

sasha

Why don't you try talking with your wife? Mention that the regular dinners doesn't make you feel comfortable, especially since the guy seem to always pay for the meals.

By the way, has the dad of your daughter's best friend extended a dinner invitation to you? Or is it always just with your wife?

1StGenCL

Doopstr ftmfw. Post link or airtimes pls

myron

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kill, dissolve body in chemicals in a big plastic drum, pour the remains into the river or any other body of water

MTEAZY

call that shit hot lava

Professor

Never called me or otherwise introduced himself even though my daughter stays over at least 3 nights a week.

I've been talking about this estranged relationship for years now. And the reason I'm still in it is hoping to have a father/daughter relationship, being lazy to go through a divorce, wanting to keep my house, etc.

I mean where will the dog eat a 1908 rug at?

I'm glad she has found somebody to talk to (and probably screw). Given the same option, I can't blame her.

oo7spy

Let her eat his money. Pocket money saved. Buy yourself a hooker with said money.

1Louder

You know, I'm usually the last one to be on side of divorce. I don't know a lot about your situation. But this sounds over the line to me, even for an estranged relationship.

I think this situation is only going to lead to very unhealthy tension if it hasn't already, which will put your daughter in the middle of it. One has to wonder if your relationship with your daughter wouldn't be better by distancing yourself from the drama this is going to kick up.

FWIW, what would I think? Wife is being totally inappropriate. I don't get how she thinks that going out on dates behind your back is in your daughter's best interest.

alexSU

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Удалите ее

Problem solved, money saved.

Professor

Полезные советы

alexSU

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Haha I had to say that.

Anyways, I'd like to offer help/advice but never been in this situation myself so I wouldn't know what's best.

Good luck professor!

Aman

The daughter comes along as well?

I don't know how well your relationship with your daughter is, but if anything happened between your wife and the dad and she knows about it, you should see some signs from her, especially if she's old enough to know what's going on.

But if it's always with the kids, you might be okay. Even if I or one of my parents hated the other parent, I would make sure the estranged parent knows what's going on.

Just ask if you can tag along one day. If your wife is uncomfortable or dinner is awkward, that might raise some red flags.

If it ever got to that point, I would seriously consider renting a car and tailing them to see what goes on when you're not around.

OR

You go to dinner, everyone has a good time, and you make a new friend. . It's very important to have an open mind and realize either situation is equally possible, so you don't come off as the bat-shit crazy one. Nothing's probably happening.

oo7spy

Does she at least bring home left overs?

Majofo

Fuck his daughter. /game

justnspace

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Pedobear?

Majofo

Fine.

Fixed.

97BlackAckCL

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Fly in Justin to bang daughter, and give her crabs #winning

Majofo

Acura_Dude

Woah... Sorry to read about this prof. This situation does raise some red flags though. I'd have a talk with the Misses 1st.

TeknoKing

Advice #1: don't seek advice on any forum

Advice #2: Californication is a show, not a way of life

Advice #3: Talk to the wify and her parents.

Advice #4: Only a low life loser would continue to get him self involved with a married woman and her kids. The douche deserves a beating, but abstain from it, you will win the in the long run. If your wife has respect for you, she will cease t immediately. I just wonder what the explanation would be.

Advice #5: Take it easy, everything will be alright, life is funny this way. A few curved balls keep us young, healthy and motivated.

97BlackAckCL

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oo7spy

^THIS! /thread

Stoianoff31

Hire a private investigator to tail her for a couple weeks and gain some evidence for the divorce... In my opinion your wife shouldn't be coming home at midnight from a family dinner.

oo7spy

Eating out can take a while sometimes...

justnspace

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how old is the daughter?

Ken1997TL

Either a P.I. followed by a lawyer or quicklime.

97BlackAckCL

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Great idea

silver3.5

go hang out with his wife and see how he feels about it!