Dating & Relationships Love sucks. Now you can cry about it…

Update: Divorced, moved to better neighborhood. New g/f. She said Yes.

Old 06-29-2017, 10:53 AM
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B.. do you.. don't worry about others (the ex in particular).
A thread would be cathartic in the least.
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and entertaining
Honestly, reading that post made me feel like a POS for having 10 years with B and not really batting much of an eye and moving on...
maybe it's how things happened...or I'm a sociopath.
Old 06-29-2017, 11:01 AM
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Yeah bro, we all here had a harder time with the break up than you.
Like.. you cut B off? But she was an angel to put up with you.

Seriously tho.. she broke the circle of trust.
I don't want to air out the dirty laundry, but you were justified my friend.

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Old 06-29-2017, 11:27 AM
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yeah, that's exactly what it was...I can even pinpoint the pivotal moment I shut down.
Anyway, thanks Maj...

B...if you do make a thread, post a link or reference it here...I sincerely would read and give my shitty 2 cents.
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Thread made..probably left a lot out. I'll fill in the blanks as you guys see them
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Originally Posted by Majofo
Was the old job good tho? Maybe you needed a detour to head in the direction you really meant to go.
Or she crushed your dreams and your life. Probably the latter.. but there's plenty of crazy rebound latinas in the barrio.





or

I have a few here on my FB. They can make a ruling.
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Originally Posted by Mr. Maker
Been separated for 2 years. I didn't really discuss it.
Sorry dude. Didn't know.
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Do not be sorry at all. It was my decision and the best one I've made. Besides me being the happiest I've ever been, so are my kids.
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^This
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Old 07-03-2017, 06:23 PM
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It wasn't my idea but I've come to terms with it and likely will be better in the end.
Old 08-01-2017, 01:16 AM
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It wasn't my idea but I've come to terms with it and likely will be better in the end.
And it's over. Judge took less than 10 seconds.
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curious on how long the marriage lasted?
my parents made it 15 years
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Originally Posted by justnspace
curious on how long the marriage lasted?
my parents made it 15 years
Almost 8 years.

I helped her move the stuff out afterwards and we even had a nice lunch together and hung out with the dogs.
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7 yr itch?
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After 8 years, that's tough but also exciting! You no longer have to be home so get out and see beautiful Oregon, exercise, meet some new people, and check out some new restaurant/bars.
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Hang in there Ken.
It's obvious you're in the grief period. Every day can be a better day if you keep your mind and body active.
You need to move on though for yourself and to fight any self-loathing and depression that might be stirring.
Exercise, travel, do things you want that would have otherwise been a two person committee vote.
Meet new people or reconnect with people you lost touch with when you're ready.
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Originally Posted by Majofo
Hang in there Ken.
It's obvious you're in the grief period. Every day can be a better day if you keep your mind and body active.
You need to move on though for yourself and to fight any self-loathing and depression that might be stirring.
Exercise, travel, do things you want that would have otherwise been a two person committee vote.
Meet new people or reconnect with people you lost touch with when you're ready.
Maj has a soft side? Who'd a thunk!
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He really does.
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Originally Posted by BreezyTL
Maj has a soft side? Who'd a thunk!
Originally Posted by rockstar143
He really does.
has he tried viagra?
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I'm doing alright. Doing a roadtrip in a couple months. I plan on visiting a few people. As for right now, I've got someone from my past who is helping me along
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There's always one of those old buddies
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Makes it sound like a guy...
thanks Doom!
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Well I was meaning fuck buddies but if yours are dudes than hey congrats :gheywave:
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oh.
was hoping i was your buddy.
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He's not your buddy, guy.
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whatever, Ace...I'm not your guy
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you guysbros are all blowing each other tho right?
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL


I'm doing alright. Doing a roadtrip in a couple months. I plan on visiting a few people. As for right now, I've got someone from my past who is helping me along
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Originally Posted by rockstar143
oh.
was hoping i was your buddy.
You missed out when I was single
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Originally Posted by Doom878
You missed out when I was single
You sure, look into dem eyes

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Pan the camera lower and maybe we'll talk.
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I was gonna say... From everything I've read about J and Doom here, I think you might have that backwards.
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J has been after Doom's 3rd python for a while now
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Originally Posted by 1StGenCL
You sure, look into dem eyes

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that gif
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Ken is gay now?
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"Now"???

He and Odeh have been shacking up for months...

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