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Update: Divorced, moved to better neighborhood. New g/f. She said Yes.

Old 05-17-2017, 06:30 AM
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Hmmm, I sense we have a Ban Hammer heading in this direction.
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I give you credit for finding 75% because I can't find anything that comes close to supporting that number, not even HuffPost.
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I actually did appreciate the sincere response...
interesting point of view, I'll say.

Well, that does make sense to me though, not being tolerant to bullshit or women that aren't worthy of your time. I feel like I could probably use a little more of that myself.
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Cleaned up the posts here. now can we have a meaningful conversation. Sorry to be late for the conversation, and to hear about Ken and Jeremy's situation.
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Originally Posted by rockstar143

I actually did appreciate the sincere response...
interesting point of view, I'll say.

Well, that does make sense to me though, not being tolerant to bullshit or women that aren't worthy of your time. I feel like I could probably use a little more of that myself.
I realize I'm butting in with an unsolicited opinion but AOMech would have us all believe women are an enemy until we find one that isn't. But in his world that doesn't exist.

I would re-categorize what he calls "bullshit or women not worthy of our time" as a characteristic much more easily identifiable - selfishness. Selfishness is cancer to a relationship. If I were suddenly single tomorrow I would look for a woman who was unselfish - someone who had the capacity to place someone else's interests above her own. Of course, that has to be the same for the guy too because that has to go both ways for it to work. And for a guy, it's about finding a woman that you actually want to be unselfish towards. I think if you find two people looking out for each other in balance, you'll find a happy and healthy relationship that does not have any "bullshit" coming from either side. You would certainly avoid the type of woman AOMech thinks are out there that want to just use a guy for rent and health insurance.
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the only problem I see with AOM's position is that it forces him to be dishonest with women. If he comes on with the same level of candor that he's had here, and is still able to get a date or whatever, then kudos to him.
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I agree 1Louder...
having recently been put back into the world to date...I plan to keep my eyes peeled for the characteristics like that.
For now, I don't know shit about shit because I thought I had that with my ex wife...
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Originally Posted by rockstar143
I agree 1Louder...
having recently been put back into the world to date...I plan to keep my eyes peeled for the characteristics like that.
For now, I don't know shit about shit because I thought I had that with my ex wife...
That sucks.

Most of the folks I know that have recently gotten divorced tend to hate the first couple months just because it's not new to them. After that they tend to be just fine. All I can tell you is to learn from it.

I can call you names and say women are to be used and nothing else but it didn't work out well for the other guy.

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wtf J.. why you have to ruin the fun. If you want Azine to be great again, you need to support open dialogue.
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I guess this mag of ammo can go in the trash.
Might as well make this whole board RLX-land
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Originally Posted by brian2
the only problem I see with AOM's position is that it forces him to be dishonest with women.
I wouldn't say it's the only problem, by it is certainly a glaring one.
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Originally Posted by brian2
the only problem I see with AOM's position is that it forces him to be dishonest with women. If he comes on with the same level of candor that he's had here, and is still able to get a date or whatever, then kudos to him.
I've no issue if that what works for him and the women he's dealing with have full disclosure. To each his own.

To evangelize and carry on the way he did is what I object to. And on principle I dislike the idea of using women as just another appliance in someone's life, and to AOMech women serve no higher purpose than his refrigerator, car and cell phone. Something to use when you need it and ignore the rest of the time. I feel bad for women who may be lured into his presence expecting something more.
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Originally Posted by 1Louder
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To evangelize and carry on the way he did is what I object to.
trolls give forum communities common purpose. I don't object to any evangelizing or carrying on. It's solid entertainment.
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What was the official banning reason?
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I cannot say what the reasons were for this site, but for the sites I do moderate, any post containing a threat of violence or bodily harm is enough for a ban.
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Originally Posted by brian2
the only problem I see with AOM's position is that it forces him to be dishonest with women. If he comes on with the same level of candor that he's had here, and is still able to get a date or whatever, then kudos to him.
At $50 for 30 minutes, they really don't turn many guys down...

Plus, the rest stop men's room glory holes he frequents are a "no commitment" zone.
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Originally Posted by horseshoez
I cannot say what the reasons were for this site, but for the sites I do moderate, any post containing a threat of violence or bodily harm is enough for a ban.
I took post #105 as a threat.
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He did say he was big into pumping and dumping
Probably does both in a the glory zone bathroom stall..
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Originally Posted by 1Louder
I took post #105 as a threat.
Well... you are a snowflake.
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Originally Posted by Majofo
Well... you are a snowflake.


Yes, years of R&P have made me tender and vulnerable. We need a new forum called, "Safe Space".
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Originally Posted by brian2
trolls give forum communities common purpose. I don't object to any evangelizing or carrying on. It's solid entertainment.

Originally Posted by Doom878
What was the official banning reason?
Someone felt his posting was out of line and didn't change after an official warning.
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Yeah.. someone..

Freaking casually come up in here and turn off the damn electricity..
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well it looked like he was on roid rage as he was posting. I've listened to tom leykis before but this guy took it to a whole 'nother level. it wasn't my cup of tea, it was just radio entertainment. this guy took what Ive heard all those years ago and spit it out word for word on most occasions. sounded like he had a fire down his crotch. must be the herpes.
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Originally Posted by 1Louder
I took post #105 as a threat.
There were four or five from earlier today (since deleted) which carried much more explicit threats, hence my comment about the approach of the Ban Hammer.
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well it looked like he was on roid rage as he was posting. I've listened to tom leykis before but this guy took it to a whole 'nother level. it wasn't my cup of tea, it was just radio entertainment. this guy took what Ive heard all those years ago and spit it out word for word on most occasions. sounded like he had a fire down his crotch. must be the herpes.

Maybe one of his many "female" (let's be real, male ) partners gave it to him and that's why he's so butthurt about them
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Originally Posted by oo7spy
Someone felt his posting was out of line and didn't change after an official warning.
So he was an asshole.
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Originally Posted by thoiboi
Maybe one of his many "female" (let's be real, male ) partners gave it to him and that's why he's so butthurt about them
may very well be the case.
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
So he was an asshole.
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I think he meant aomech.
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
So he was an asshole.
Was?
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Originally Posted by Majofo
Hey.............. It had to be done.
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Yes, years of R&P have made me tender and vulnerable. We need a new forum called, "Safe Space".
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Im sure he will be back. its not a perma-ban.
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Originally Posted by asianspec
Im sure he will be back. its not a perma-ban.
You guys...I am disappoint...
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i was disappoint when you didn't make it the other weds. but i understood why.
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its not a perma-ban.
yet
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i was disappoint when you didn't make it the other weds. but i understood why.
you barely made it yourself...and I had a pretty solid reason.
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Originally Posted by asianspec
Im sure he will be back. its not a perma-ban.
the moment has passed

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