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Update: Divorced, moved to better neighborhood. New g/f. She said Yes.

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Old 10-03-2018, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Yep.
Poor rockstar, he even bleached his asshole
You know he had to pay extra
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Yep. Done a few overnight trips in Arizona. Thats it so far.

Mexico next month.

Chicago for New Years.
Why are you looking to get shot on New Year's?
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Originally Posted by Majofo
with rockstar.. keep up you ninny

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Originally Posted by TacoBello
We, as in you and rockstar?
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Someone is getting lei'd!
Originally Posted by Majofo
Have lots of sex
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Woohoo getting my asshole bleached at lunch time!
We are gonna have so much fun!
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First trip with her?
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Yep. Done a few overnight trips in Arizona. Thats it so far.
Damn, Poor J. He was looking forward to it.
Old 12-06-2018, 11:15 PM
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#BetterNeighborhood

Arizona is treating me well as you can see. We've gone to Hawaii and Mexico. And now I've got a great Christmas coming up fast. Hitting up Chicago for New Year's!

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Holiday bacon?
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Bacon is almost daily 🥓
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Niiiice. That is a better neighborhood.
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I came in expecting nOodles..

I've yet to see said noodles.
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Never saw this thread before Ken, whattsup? Over two years through the hole...
Old 12-07-2018, 06:34 AM
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Ken. Ur Handsome.
She's also a looker.
More importantly, you look happy as fuck.
I can commiserate on that front, my friend.
Happily divorced is what I call it.
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Old 12-07-2018, 06:48 AM
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Originally Posted by rockstar143
Ken. Ur Handsome.
She's also a looker.
More importantly, you look happy as fuck.
I can commiserate on that front, my friend.
Happily divorced is what I call it.
Care to share you're story?


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Old 12-07-2018, 06:58 AM
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Hope Ken doesn't mind but I don't really want my own thread...

Dating for 4, engaged for 4, married for 2...Bought a House and Decided procreating would be a good idea.
When my daughter was 1 my ex damn near lost her mind and said she wasn't happy and started dating someone else.
Turns out it was a combination of poor coping skills, postpartum depression and alcohol that led her there.
My way of dealing with someone that is shutting me out and not making an effort didn't help, hence being so into my hobbies.

I ensured she was sure about her decision before opening up myself to meeting someone new, which I promptly did
(current gf). Going 2 years strong with J now with 4 kids between the two of us. With shared custody, we have a
lot going on half the time and then we can be carefree teenagers in love the other half of the time.

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J loves to share his stories. He has such s great soul.
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Old 12-07-2018, 07:08 AM
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I love you too, Kev
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OK... Thanks... Thats a lot to go through....


Scary part is I could so see myself just "changing my mind" about anything so easily... I've never touched a drink and never intend to, it's too easy to get hooked...


That's a cool pic of everyone!


I don't think Ken will mind, in fact, it's kinda proof that good things happen, and people can be happy and have it it! It really shows him support, IMO!


Congratulations to both of you!
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Old 12-07-2018, 07:14 AM
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I haven't had a drink in a year in a half because of my disgust with what it does to people's lives...
it hurt more than I let on but honestly, when I think about it, things ended up really well for me.
I took the high road most of the time always keeping in mind that one day I'd have to answer questions for
my kid and didn't want to have to lie or be ashamed of how I handled anything. I miss my old house,
my garage, the dogs (she kept and subsequently found homes for)...but the fact that I don't specifically
miss my relationship with her feels telling to me. Now, she's getting back on her feet and happy with
her new new guy (he's cool as fuck and my kid likes him) and I'm obviously happy so it feels like it
can actually work out well to choose to part ways and search for your next life.
I appreciate the sentiment, MM.
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I'm glad everything worked out for every... Had no idea any of this was going on...
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LOL...
why would you, I don't advertise the crap. That's why social media is poison...makes you think everyone is yolo living their best life
but in reality they are rocking themselves to sleep and jerking off into peanut butter jars.
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Well Ken's thread took an unexpected, yet totally predictable, turn.
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Originally Posted by cu2wagon
Well Ken's thread took an unexpected, yet totally predictable, turn.


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I'd be disappointed in you all if it didn't
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Originally Posted by rockstar143
Ken. Ur Handsome.
She's also a looker.
More importantly, you look happy as fuck.
I can commiserate on that front, my friend.
Happily divorced is what I call it.


Ken, not her.... oh wait, I mean her.... wait, I'm confused, what were we talking about?
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We're supposed to use peanut butter jars? Crap.

I know I don't know anyone personally, but it's great to see stories that are ending well and wish the best for both Ken and rockstar!
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^ +1 glad everything worked out for Ken and rockstar.

Hotels have been supplying tissues and travel sized moisturizers all these years when it should have been peanut butter jars.
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You guys are rookies...the jars keep it from hardening up. What a waste!
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Ken is actually Josh Duhamel in real life


Originally Posted by Ken1997TL

#BetterNeighborhood

Arizona is treating me well as you can see. We've gone to Hawaii and Mexico. And now I've got a great Christmas coming up fast. Hitting up Chicago for New Year's!
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Like I said, Handsome.
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No nudes to be found = false advertising

Rated this thread 0/5 for good measure
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Even if there were noodz, I'd still rate this thread 0/5.

Hey, hatters gotta hat!
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And damn Ken, your gal looks like a nice little catch. Me gusta
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No nudes to be found = false advertising

Rated this thread 0/5 for good measure
I checked, and you can only choose 1/5, “Terrible”, so that’s what I went with.
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Updates:

She moved in last month. Easiest move ever when you're only a couple streets apart.

Also, last night I popped the question... She said yes!

I can't believe the changes in the past few years but I'm in a much better place. So many have gone out of their way to say how much happier I look and it's very true.
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Shiiiit

congrats
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Give me your S2000
Congratulations! Give me your S2000
That's awesome Ken. Now you should give me your S2000
Time to start a new chapter. In which you give me your S2000
Give me your S2000
Give me your S2000
Give me your S2000
Thank you
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Give me your S2000
Congratulations! Give me your S2000
That's awesome Ken. Now you should give me your S2000
Time to start a new chapter. In which you give me your S2000
Give me your S2000
Give me your S2000
Give me your S2000
Thank you
I already asked him when he bought the RL
First dibs, get in line.
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Updates:

She moved in last month. Easiest move ever when you're only a couple streets apart.

Also, last night I popped the question... She said yes!

I can't believe the changes in the past few years but I'm in a much better place. So many have gone out of their way to say how much happier I look and it's very true.
HOLY SHEET!!

Awesome news! Congrats!
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Quick Reply: Update: Divorced, moved to better neighborhood. New g/f. She said Yes.



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