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Old 07-09-2004, 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted by agui
he didn't say to cheat and tell her you are cheating(thereby hurting ur partner). he said u should cheat first and not get caught, just in case ur partner does cheat.
That's not the point.

Why would you intentionally cheat first? Someone who cheats hurts the other person, who in turn some time in the future, might hurt another because of some issues created by the pain of having been cheated. It's an endless cycle that just has to stop!

Just do not go into a relationship if you think you can't be monogamous.
Old 07-09-2004, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
That's not the point.

Why would you intentionally cheat first? Someone who cheats hurts the other person, who in turn some time in the future, might hurt another because of some issues created by the pain of having been cheated. It's an endless cycle that just has to stop!

Just do not go into a relationship if you think you can't be monogamous.
Good idea.
Old 07-09-2004, 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted by kensteele
I didn't read everything posted here but I'm surprised no one has mentioned putting the fear of death in someone to keep them faithful. Happens more often than you think.....

its understood between him and I.
Old 07-09-2004, 09:36 PM
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
its understood between him and I.
If Joe cheats, Rachael kicks his ass all over the place. That's the understanding.
Old 07-14-2004, 11:34 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
How do you trust a girl?

And more specifically, how do you trust a girl when she's going on a trip, let's say to Mexico for a solid week, with a friend of hers?
If you trust God, and she trusts God (and you know this for a fact), then you can trust her, if not...it's all suspect...
Old 07-14-2004, 11:35 PM
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Originally Posted by kensteele
I didn't read everything posted here but I'm surprised no one has mentioned putting the fear of death in someone to keep them faithful. Happens more often than you think.....
Death is under-rated....you know that!!
Old 07-15-2004, 08:01 AM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithCL
If you trust God, and she trusts God (and you know this for a fact), then you can trust her, if not...it's all suspect...



right.. you should see some of the "highly religous" girls i went to school with. Oh sure they were really devoted to their religion..

but god damn they were untrustful whores.
Old 07-15-2004, 09:31 AM
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Old 07-20-2004, 02:14 AM
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Originally Posted by evilstorm
what happens when the person you love screws you over? Maybe most of us have just been dicked over at one time or another and are sick of it. better to not care and not hurt.
I have been cheated on twice by different men...including a man who begged me to have his child for a year...when I fell in love with darksith, the thought never crossed my mind not to trust him completely. If God is in charge of your life and relationship, you have faith, not doubt.
Old 07-20-2004, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithGirl
I have been cheated on twice by different men...including a man who begged me to have his child for a year...when I fell in love with darksith, the thought never crossed my mind not to trust him completely. If God is in charge of your life and relationship, you have faith, not doubt.
ive went to church with women who didnt care
Old 07-21-2004, 12:46 AM
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Originally Posted by evilstorm
ive went to church with women who didnt care
I'm not saying just becuase she goes to church, she is trustworthy...you have to know for a personal fact that she has faith and trust in God...
Old 07-21-2004, 10:56 AM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
i'm not sure... but if it were me, i wouldn't be going w/ my friend, i'd be going w/ my boyfriend... :-/

but i'll ask you this: how long have you been going out? has trust been an issue before? if you have been dating for a while and have a solid secure relationship, then i think you can just rest and know that she is just having a fun vacation with one of her (best?) friends.

it's a tough one, b/c if you bring it up she could throw a hissy fit "you don't trust me blah blah" and it could just be a mess.
Would it really matter to you? judging from your other posts, it seems like you would bang just about anything that walked in front of you but maybe i should keep my to myself
Old 07-21-2004, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Marc S
Would it really matter to you? judging from your other posts, it seems like you would bang just about anything that walked in front of you lf
ouch, that was harsh
Old 07-23-2004, 03:06 PM
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