Trusting a girl
#41
ugh. you remind me of the seinfeld episode where no matter what elaine said to the other woman, all the guys started saying meeeooow at her, and saying she was going to get into a cat fight.
ever seen that one?
ever seen that one?
#42
Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
A lot of them on here have been cheated on and have had their hearts trampled on
anyway, so i was with her for 3 yrs and i had almost 100% trust with this girl, but not completely just because the relationship i was in before this one she cheated on me.
so now i always go into relationships expecting the unexpected and it turns out to be fine.
so i would say yes it does take trust to make a relationship work, but not 100%.
#43
Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
ugh. you remind me of the seinfeld episode where no matter what elaine said to the other woman, all the guys started saying meeeooow at her, and saying she was going to get into a cat fight.
ever seen that one?
ever seen that one?
#44
Originally Posted by UNCTYPE-S
no but thats the reason why i put that up there rofl
you should see it. like all these guys were making fun of the new girl, and they were all laughing, but then elaine chimed in, and they were like, oh ouch, meeoooow, what was that for?
and no matter what she did after that they all meowed at her.
#45
its simple folks... just don't trust anyhing or anyone that blinks, walks, talks, move, jump, skip or even breath. don't trust anything or anyone period. that way your always prepared, u don't get hurt and you don't get hurt. simple.
#46
Originally Posted by SIR_EL
its simple folks... just don't trust anyhing or anyone that blinks, walks, talks, move, jump, skip or even breath. don't trust anything or anyone period. that way your always prepared, u don't get hurt and you don't get hurt. simple.
#47
as long as you keep them satisfied in the bedroom they have less reason to cheat. anyway i dont know if you can trust a girl 100% ever. I'm very happy right now with who i'm with and i trust her, but its natural to feel a little insecure.
#48
Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
so you give neg reps because you didnt clarify enough what you meant by exploring in a relationship.
favor returned. kthnx.
favor returned. kthnx.
and come on people, shut up with the meows. that's :ghey:
#50
Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
no, i gave you neg reps b/c i don't agree w/ what you said. plus the fact that you seemingly make a point to disagree with everything i've said in the offtopic dating forum so far... and not to mention the neg reps you gave me for something on some other random post you disagreed with what i said.
and come on people, shut up with the meows. that's :ghey:
and come on people, shut up with the meows. that's :ghey:
But you know, hey, whatever, if you really think women are innocent trustful creatures and my version of them is way off base, then okie dokie, ill take that neg rep point. And since you claim that is what it is for, ill give you pos rep points to cancel out my neg.
Edit: as soon as im able to give you points again.
#51
Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
the vast majority of women suck complete ass.
Also,
There are girls on this board who I would not trust one bit based on their contibutions to this forum.
#54
Originally Posted by SIR_EL
its simple folks... just don't trust anyhing or anyone that blinks, walks, talks, move, jump, skip or even breath. don't trust anything or anyone period. that way your always prepared, u don't get hurt and you don't get hurt. simple.
Thats how I live. wise words.
#55
Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
Thats how I live. wise words.
#57
It sucks that in order to really care for someone, you have to put yourself out a limb sometimes. Just be secure in who you are, and give her a chance. If she fucks it up, move on to the next one. If she's not worth trusting, she's not worth dating, or caring about....and never worth loving.
#58
Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
hmm. Well as far as my fiance goes, i never really count him as other people.. I trust him completely, but hes the only one.
I just meant in general, trusting no one is a GOOD rule.
I just meant in general, trusting no one is a GOOD rule.
#59
Originally Posted by eclipse23
That's no way to live, and if you find comfort in living that way w/ one eye open as you lay on the mattress you will never be at peace with yourself. My general rule about relationships is if you break my trust and I find out, the relationship is over. No lovey dovey 3 month drag out drama breakups it's simply over, you are dead to me, nothing more. While it's very hard to be that cold about these things it also ensures that my partner knows the rules when it comes to these things. The only exception to this rule is if she was to come to me and be honest about it upfront and show me genuine remorse I may be pissed but I would be happy to have been not made a fool of and I would respect her honesty as a sign of truly being sorry. We've already been through a situation like this once (in the 6 years we have been together) on both sides and we still love and trust each other.
That's my way of thinking too. Each new relationship should be given a chance. It grows when both individuals are open about themselves and trust each other. When that mutual trust is respected, you'll always be happy and at peace...
Of course when the trust is broken, it's better to just end it right away then drag it on since absence of trust will eventually ruin the relationship anyway.
Eclipse23 rules!!!
#60
Originally Posted by BEETROOT
never trust anyone outside of family, actually.
As for girls...I call it emotional imbalance. They say one thing and do another. And when you ask them why they did it they go "I can't explain it...its just how I feel."
Never trust something that bleeds for 3 days and doesn't die.
#61
Originally Posted by sasha
Of course when the trust is broken, it's better to just end it right away then drag it on since absence of trust will eventually ruin the relationship anyway.
Good point....rep points awarded!
#62
Originally Posted by eclipse23
I find most of them avoid the ass altogether, and if you got one that does suck on the leather cheerio you probably don't want her after really thinking about it.
Also,
There are girls on this board who I would not trust one bit based on their contibutions to this forum.
Also,
There are girls on this board who I would not trust one bit based on their contibutions to this forum.
balloon knot as well...
That's how you show a girl you love her, eat her ass after a 25mile bike ride.
#64
Originally Posted by evilstorm
fiance? and you are only 20? what is this world coming to?
Im perfectly happy and content with the relationship I have, i have no need to lose that just to play that retarded game of dating.
#66
Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
moving on? youre not with her now?
i don't think that's the easiest thing in the world... i'm not saying i wouldn't do it... but for me it isn't that easy
#67
Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
I just found what I wanted early in life. ive been with him for 4 years, and were not getting married for another year or two, so ive got plenty of time to change my mind, if i were to do so.
Im perfectly happy and content with the relationship I have, i have no need to lose that just to play that retarded game of dating.
Im perfectly happy and content with the relationship I have, i have no need to lose that just to play that retarded game of dating.
what about being in a foreign country with buff dudes who'd want to bang you being there without your bf? could you resist? put yourself in that position...
#68
sexually, yes, he gives me everything i want.. im not suffering there.
i wouldnt cheat on him, i dont do that.
ive already been put in the position where i was seriously attracted to someone else who reciprocated the feelings and probably could have taken it further, but just some casual sex isnt worth screwing over what I have with my fiance. I just told the guy i dont play like that and that our friendship is just that..
i wouldnt cheat on him, i dont do that.
ive already been put in the position where i was seriously attracted to someone else who reciprocated the feelings and probably could have taken it further, but just some casual sex isnt worth screwing over what I have with my fiance. I just told the guy i dont play like that and that our friendship is just that..
#70
Originally Posted by TypeSKid
All women will cheat. They are just as bad as us guys. If you think for a second that they are as faithful or more faithful than us (the good guys), then u minds well step out the game.
Is that why you take the lead and cheat on your women?
#73
Originally Posted by dets
just cheat yourself. this way if anything does happen, you're in the clear!
So hurting other people first makes things better? Sorry dude, but I don't get the logic here
#74
Originally Posted by sasha
So hurting other people first makes things better? Sorry dude, but I don't get the logic here
This is usually seen in people who have trust issues given to them by a parent abandoning them or something on the side of a road as a kid. Their theory is to push the other person away so that they don't get hurt to begin with, but in the end they both suffer.
#76
Originally Posted by anothercls
This is usually seen in people who have trust issues given to them by a parent abandoning them or something on the side of a road as a kid. Their theory is to push the other person away so that they don't get hurt to begin with, but in the end they both suffer.
#79
Originally Posted by SIR_EL
its simple folks... just don't trust anyhing or anyone that blinks, walks, talks, move, jump, skip or even breath. don't trust anything or anyone period. that way your always prepared, u don't get hurt and you don't get hurt. simple.
Dad: "Focker...can you trust people? I mean...can you REALLY trust anyone?"
Greg: "Yea...I'd like to think so."
Dad: "No Focker...The answer is no."
#80
Originally Posted by dets
just cheat yourself. this way if anything does happen, you're in the clear!