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Old 11-01-2008 | 02:55 PM
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So she calls me at 2 am saying she misses me and some other stuff and then tells me to hang on while she does something so I hang up and go to bed. But I saw a pic of her in that schoolgirl outfit and dayum.
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lets break down HER evening. she went out, got fucked up, prob got fucked and/or blew one or several guys. in the end she wondered why it was not you she was blowin off/gettin railed by so she decided to holler at you to see if you wanted some late night nookie. when she wanted you to 'hang on while she does something'...that something was yet another cock.


when shes out partying she didn't send you shit about missing you...then when shes bored and not getting any attention from dick...she calls you...then while she calls you someone else whips their dick out and she says hold on while she never even bothered to call you back b/c....

i'd ditch the skank
Old 11-01-2008 | 11:31 PM
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Originally Posted by BennyUnitas
lets break down HER evening. she went out, got fucked up, prob got fucked and/or blew one or several guys. in the end she wondered why it was not you she was blowin off/gettin railed by so she decided to holler at you to see if you wanted some late night nookie. when she wanted you to 'hang on while she does something'...that something was yet another cock.
Old 11-02-2008 | 07:37 AM
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Originally Posted by BennyUnitas
lets break down HER evening. she went out, got fucked up, prob got fucked and/or blew one or several guys. in the end she wondered why it was not you she was blowin off/gettin railed by so she decided to holler at you to see if you wanted some late night nookie. when she wanted you to 'hang on while she does something'...that something was yet another cock.




Old 11-02-2008 | 07:50 AM
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Originally Posted by BennyUnitas
lets break down HER evening. she went out, got fucked up, prob got fucked and/or blew one or several guys. in the end she wondered why it was not you she was blowin off/gettin railed by so she decided to holler at you to see if you wanted some late night nookie. when she wanted you to 'hang on while she does something'...that something was yet another cock.
Damn dude.

I didn't think there was going to be this much drama in this thread.
Old 11-02-2008 | 10:13 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
Damn dude.

I didn't think there was going to be this much drama in this thread.
calling a spade a spade?
Old 11-02-2008 | 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
Damn dude.

I didn't think there was going to be this much drama in this thread.
Haha no shit... some of the comments are good for a little chuckly though.

Anyways, last night she asked me if I wanted her to come over and I was like whatever so she didn't and I still haven't seen her for a week. But she keeps texting me asking what I'm doing.
Old 11-02-2008 | 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted by imj0257
Haha no shit... some of the comments are good for a little chuckly though.

Anyways, last night she asked me if I wanted her to come over and I was like whatever so she didn't and I still haven't seen her for a week. But she keeps texting me asking what I'm doing.
so what exactly are you doing? she is asking you if you if you want to chill...and your being a dick...why? do you not want to see her? just break up with her if that's the case .
Old 11-02-2008 | 12:35 PM
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just tell her to come over and suck your dick. that will make her realize you want her.
Old 11-02-2008 | 02:13 PM
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^ hah. No I would tell her what I'm doing and she always says yes and doesn't come or maybe. So I was getting tired of that. She wanted to know what I was doing for the Cowboys game today and told her watching it at my place and said she's welcome to come join cus I haven't seen her in a week and she said 'well, I have stuff to do"- well then why ask what I'm doing for the game? wtf..
Old 11-02-2008 | 02:29 PM
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There's so much pussy you're missing out on right now during all this crap
Old 11-02-2008 | 03:16 PM
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Yeah ... looks like time to unleash yourself from the chains of this relationship ...
Old 11-02-2008 | 03:17 PM
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ya i gotta admit this is getting ridic.
Old 11-02-2008 | 04:07 PM
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everytime u update/post on this thread, she's gettin some D in one or several of her orifices.
Old 11-02-2008 | 05:11 PM
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so shes gotten 3 different Ds so far today.
Old 11-02-2008 | 05:33 PM
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Dude, I may be a page late and a post short, but she is . Looks like one of those typical stuck up girls that thinks her shit don't stink. She probably thinks you can't live without her. Show her that you can.
Old 11-02-2008 | 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted by FiftyFive
Dude, I may be a page late and a post short, but she is . Looks like one of those typical stuck up girls that thinks her shit don't stink. She probably thinks you can't live without her. Show her that you can.
Thanks :0 I guess I'm kind of a sucker but I'm doing my best. Talking to her as little as possible and not trying to initiate conversations and haven't seen her in more than a week. So yea.


Edit: According to BennyUnitas, now that is 4 D's today
Old 11-02-2008 | 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted by imj0257
Thanks :0 I guess I'm kind of a sucker but I'm doing my best. Talking to her as little as possible and not trying to initiate conversations and haven't seen her in more than a week. So yea.


Edit: According to BennyUnitas, now that is 4 D's today
Don't feel bad dude.

I dated mostly stuck up girls that thinks her shit don't stink for years. Pretty much til I met my wife. They were definitely my type. And it took a lot of them before I realized that I didn't care to deal with the bullshit anymore.
Old 11-02-2008 | 09:14 PM
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Originally Posted by imj0257
^ hah. No I would tell her what I'm doing and she always says yes and doesn't come or maybe. So I was getting tired of that. She wanted to know what I was doing for the Cowboys game today and told her watching it at my place and said she's welcome to come join cus I haven't seen her in a week and she said 'well, I have stuff to do"- well then why ask what I'm doing for the game? wtf..
this is her keeping tabs on you.
tell her youre gunna be busy one night and show up at her crib. that will be a great reason to break up with her
Old 11-02-2008 | 11:02 PM
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You know, you actually don't have to perpetuate the "random interest and teasing behavior" theme. Go out and have fun with more than one woman. You are too young to deal with this shit. If you have learned the obvious lessons from this, then start spending your time wisely. Go out and meet other women so that you don't place so much worth in this one.

If you like this girl, then continue to wait...just fuck someone else while you do and save yourself about ten pages of this crap!

After all...she is...
Old 11-02-2008 | 11:06 PM
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Yea I talk with this hot girl from work everyday and can tell we have this connection but she has a bf, but I'd be all over that by now if she didn't
Old 11-03-2008 | 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted by RMATIC09
so what exactly are you doing? she is asking you if you if you want to chill...and your being a dick...why? do you not want to see her? just break up with her if that's the case .
tell her you just got done railing a girl you met in class!

Originally Posted by imj0257
so shes gotten 3 different Ds so far today.
Ds as in dicks?
Old 11-03-2008 | 09:34 AM
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In the mean time, why don't you be useful and post up said pic of her in the school girls outfit??
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^ i would but it's on my friend's comp. hmm
Old 11-03-2008 | 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted by imj0257
^ i would but it's on my friend's comp. hmm
We'll give you til 8:00 PM.
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Old 11-03-2008 | 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted by imj0257
^ i would but it's on my friend's comp. hmm

pictures of your girl are on your friends computer? man shes fucking him.....
Old 11-03-2008 | 03:13 PM
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^ ya you are completely right. Oh oh a friend just posted two new pics of us. One she's in her skimpy harry potter costume and the other a good one of her at a bar we went to, RMATIC just MIGHT think she is hot after I post those. I might post those when i get home..

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Old 11-03-2008 | 03:17 PM
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Ask her

^ Agreed. Don't even try to figure out a woman. Seriously, she probably just isn't feeling the love at the moment and needs to see you freak out thinking you're gonna lose her just so she can see you grovel which means "I Love You" in girl talk. Just some things I learned from my own experiences and the experiences of others. Hell, my ex-wife told me to not even try to figure her out, I thought it was a joke. Know what? She was trying to help me out, I should've just listened, would've saved me a whole lotta stress
Old 11-03-2008 | 03:26 PM
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I can see that my last post was a little late
Old 11-03-2008 | 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted by imj0257
^ ya you are completely right. Oh oh a friend just posted two new pics of us. One she's in her skimpy harry potter costume and the other a good one of her at a bar we went to, RMATIC just MIGHT think she is hot after I post those. I might post those when i get home..
only one way to know for sure.
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Not much progress on the pics huh??
Old 11-05-2008 | 12:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Rock2534
Not much progress on the poosy huh??
fixed
Old 11-10-2008 | 10:28 AM
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Goddam has it really been a week since I updated? Oh well.
Anyways, ya I'm over her. I already was pretty much over her this weekend but then she invited me to a party Saturday and I was like sure I'll go and then an hr before she says 'nevermind I don't think I'm gonna go, I'm kinda tired'. Riiiiight. She prolly went with one of her girlfriends. Regardless, fuck her and her immature shit. I still do have a pair of $100 shoes of hers in my car ... should I give it to goodwill?

Yea now there's this girl I work with that just yesterday broke up with her bf and was giving me signs and shes hot but from what everyone here has said about work relationships: you shouldn't date, just fuck. correct?
Old 11-10-2008 | 11:38 AM
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just fuck her
Old 11-10-2008 | 11:45 AM
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wow this is still going?
Old 11-10-2008 | 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted by imj0257
Yea now there's this girl I work with that just yesterday broke up with her bf and was giving me signs and shes hot but from what everyone here has said about work relationships: you shouldn't date, just fuck. correct?
Well it's ok to "date" her, just make sure she knows from the start the two of you aren't exclusive...AND that she can handle that type of situation. But if she is worth dating exclusively (which you will not know for a few months) then go ahead and do it.
Old 11-10-2008 | 05:16 PM
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Originally Posted by imj0257
I still do have a pair of $100 shoes of hers in my car ... should I give it to goodwill?

Yea now there's this girl I work with that just yesterday broke up with her bf and was giving me signs and shes hot but from what everyone here has said about work relationships: you shouldn't date, just fuck. correct?
A. Craigslist
B. Don't sh-t where you work
Old 11-10-2008 | 05:40 PM
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^^^ couldnt have put it better myself, except dont shit where you eat.
Old 11-29-2008 | 07:03 PM
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Fuck it, final update:

About a week ago she and my roommate got in a big fight but before it ended she told him that she thought we were back together and everything was ok again, even though I was like and hadn't talked to her in about 3 weeks. She needed her shoes back so I stopped by her house and dropped them off and she seemed nice and mature so we decided to meet up sometime in the week and "chat" about things but we never got to it. However, I went to her new apt this morning to check it out and talk; we talked about us and I told her things weren't working but still wanna be friends and hang out every now and then and she was cool with it and took it well, like a woman (really I have no choice cus like i said, my friends are her friends). And also she was like isn't there something you wanna tell me? I was like ya I've been talking to this girl from work n stuff ; she actually took it well... probably cus she then said shes has been on a couple dates the past few weeks - im not surprised. Then we just sat and talked more so we are all good now and hmm i think we both agreed maybe later on sometime in the future after all this shit blows over, we might give it another try but guess we'll just see.

Anyways, now I can focus on that girl from my work

Sorry, but had to share. Thnx for listening everyone. And thanks rmatic for all the flaming.
Old 11-29-2008 | 08:12 PM
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Well that's cool. Handled well by both sides. Honestly I thought when you went to her new apt the story would be you seeing your roommate coming out of her room shirtless and buckling his belt

Normally I wouldn't believe that she's been on a few dates, since they usually counter with something like that just to save face. But since you haven't talked in 3 weeks I'd tend to believe her.


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