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Old 07-09-2008, 09:38 AM
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As often as possible. Right now it's a couple times a week on good weeks. Before we got married it was 2 - 3 times a day on GREAT days.
Old 07-09-2008, 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted by dom


That poor bastard.

Or did Rockchic change her username?
I think we're both just too freaked that I might get pregnant, so we don't have it that often. Pardon us for trying to make it more special and not routine. Not that we're not "safe sex" people, but I have to get a job, go to grad school, and move houses and/or states depending on a job - aka NO time for a kid. Oh, and we're not married, so I'd probably get shot haha
Old 07-09-2008, 10:59 AM
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Hmm...I was hoping to hear from my "Banana Republic" female sector on this subject. They always seem kinda tense, so I wonder how often they think is good...

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Old 07-09-2008, 11:02 AM
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I used to want it everyday when I was with both of my ex's...

needless to say, the last relationship ended 1.5 years ago and i have forgotten what great sex was

so i like it alot, but its not part of the relationship qualifications right now
Old 07-09-2008, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted by gr8ness97
I used to want it everyday when I was with both of my ex's...

needless to say, the last relationship ended 1.5 years ago and i have forgotten what great sex was

so i like it alot, but its not part of the relationship qualifications right now
NNNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!

(sniff) Just 22...just a baby (sniff)...and gone so soon...
Old 07-09-2008, 11:27 AM
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hmmm well i can get it whenever i want for the most part..i got about 4-5 booty calls..lol. and i got about 3 ex's that are still down for me =]

BUT ideally...3-4 times a week is fine with me...2-4 isnt bad either. like darksom said..if you get it enough..you dont want it everyday.

on another note, im with darksom on the whole more than once a day every once in a while...lol. me and my ex..wow...when we had weekends that her parents left to riverside and i spent the weekend at her house...whoa!
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Originally Posted by Gnate
I find my self continually sleeping with women I've previously slept with.
I've ruined two of my sweet ass teenage relationships because I used to fuck so often.
I guess I was just too horny for my age back then, now it's not even a big deal anymore, i'm getting more hard-ons over my CL than thinking about skeezes.

I wish my babysitter didn't touch me when I was in the 4th grade, been addicted to contact since.

I used to want it several times a day, but since my last awful breakup, I really haven't been too inclined to fucking all the time. I don't know what the issue is. I mean, my last was a really tiny asian, i'm guessing my problem is I have a serious case of yellow fever?

I don't know.
and you're only 18? so when you say "back then" did you mean like a few weeks ago? I find it funny when kids that are 18 or younger say "back then"
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Originally Posted by dom


That poor bastard.

Or did Rockchic change her username?

Old 07-09-2008, 09:02 PM
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All you young guns with working prostates and no kids....the good old days.

So I'll have to answer this by phase.

< 27 (before kids): wanted: daily, got: 2x week
27-37 (2 kids under 10): wanted: weekly, got: monthly
38+ (2 teenagers who never freaking go to bed and don't get up a 3:30 AM to go to work): wants: whenever I'm not dead tired, which is rarely, getting: you don't want to know.

As a side note, I'm amazed that there is a threat on sex started by Dark that has not mentioned being "up in dem guts" once. :wink: Oustanding!
Old 07-09-2008, 09:29 PM
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Originally Posted by 1Louder
As a side note, I'm amazed that there is a threat on sex started by Dark that has not mentioned being "up in dem guts" once. :wink: Oustanding!
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Old 07-09-2008, 09:31 PM
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Sex? I am not even kissing till marriage.
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Originally Posted by darksom1
NNNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!

(sniff) Just 22...just a baby (sniff)...and gone so soon...
Im beyond help
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Originally Posted by darksom1
(he he he)
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Originally Posted by Trackruner228
Sex? I am not even kissing till marriage.
Old 07-09-2008, 11:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Trackruner228
Sex? I am not even kissing till marriage.
Lol...that was right on time Track...I had forgotten about our resident !!
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Originally Posted by UNeeKLiNG
and you're only 18? so when you say "back then" did you mean like a few weeks ago? I find it funny when kids that are 18 or younger say "back then"
Nah, like 2-3 years ago.

You know you do go through stages of maturity, theres a big difference between age 15-18 mentally, I like to think so at least.
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I am officially changing my "need" to once a day AT LEAST!!! As long as I can generate bodily fluids and T-Rex complies...I'm fucking! I've seen the light...
Old 07-20-2008, 05:41 PM
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Sex is very important to me, I love it! Everyday though?....not even. I'll get bored too quick and start looking at if not tryin to kick it with other women. twice or 3 times a day...3 to 4 days out of the week sounds more like it.
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Oh yeahhhhh dawg, at least five or six times a day
Old 08-04-2008, 08:02 PM
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For me, it's all of the above. It can be considered an obsession, at times... like it a lot, all the time... and part of the relationship... required, not optional...
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Originally Posted by Romeo8Juliet
For me, it's all of the above. It can be considered an obsession, at times... like it a lot, all the time... and part of the relationship... required, not optional...
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Shit, I can't keep up with my gf.
She honestly cries and thinks something's wrong if we go a day without sex.
Well, that was during the school year. We live about 3.5 hours apart, so now it's not very regular. But when we visit each other, it's usually 2-3 times a day.
When I was 15-17, it's all I thought about. I couldn't get enough sex, and I was ready to go at any given moment, no matter what. I used to do it everywhere, all times of day, over and over and over, for long periods of time. My recovery time was non-existent, and my desire was insatiable.
Now, I still love it of course, but the animal-like rampage I used to go on to get it has faded (except when I see the gf after extended periods of time). I think once a day, or at least once every other day, is good enough for me.
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@darksom1 - you think.. but you have no idea.

@shnee420 - that's a bit odd.. to cry over it. But, to each their own... maybe she just thinks you're getting it elsewhere.

But, good to know other girls have an issue with guys keeping up. I don't feel so alone now. Ha.
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Originally Posted by Romeo8Juliet
@darksom1 - you think.. but you have no idea.

@shnee420 - that's a bit odd.. to cry over it. But, to each their own... maybe she just thinks you're getting it elsewhere.

But, good to know other girls have an issue with guys keeping up. I don't feel so alone now. Ha.
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Somebody hold me back!! Damn girl!
You know, VA isn't that far from MD...

Wait.. let me stop getting your hopes up...
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Originally Posted by Romeo8Juliet
You know, VA isn't that far from MD...

Wait.. let me stop getting your hopes up...
Look at you acting like 20 is the new 30 and whatnot...skills huh...stop that playin'

For the record - Dark don't wish upon a star...Dark is a star! I shine...you wind! Let it marinate!
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Depends....in a relationship gotta have it a few times a week or else she aint the one i'm marrying.
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Look at you acting like 20 is the new 30 and whatnot...skills huh...stop that playin'

For the record - Dark don't wish upon a star...Dark is a star! I shine...you wind! Let it marinate!
Playin? Ha.. it's all factual. You could only be so lucky to find out.

A star, huh? Hmm.. that means you're only good half the time... since stars are only visible at night and not day... better work on that 50%.. not good.
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Originally Posted by Romeo8Juliet
@shnee420 - that's a bit odd.. to cry over it. But, to each their own... maybe she just thinks you're getting it elsewhere.
Well she's really emotional, and there were more issues surrounding that phenomenon than I care to share. But basically it boiled down to her thinking I wasn't attracted to her anymore.
girls are nutty
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Dark after you jizz on a chick do you say to her "yo , let it marinate"
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Originally Posted by shnee420
Well she's really emotional, and there were more issues surrounding that phenomenon than I care to share. But basically it boiled down to her thinking I wasn't attracted to her anymore.
girls are nutty
I figured the emo part.. that was obvious. I sorta figured it had something to do along the "not attracted" or "with someone else" way of thinking... I get it so many times from my friends and I can never really say what I want to because I have to be the "friend" but yeah. No worries on the caring to share part.

not ALL girls are nutty... granted, 99% are.. but.. still... hope exists.
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Lol...my reputation is Legendary...you gotta do better than that to bring it down sugar, but I admire your style go-getter!
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Originally Posted by RMATIC09
Dark after you jizz on a chick do you say to her "yo , let it marinate"
That would be funny as shit...I'll put it in the memory banks playboy!
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@darksom1 - I won't comment further.. before it turns into "non constructive" posts and I get in trouble my first month here.

@ rmatic09 - That was a good one...
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Originally Posted by RMATIC09
Dark after you jizz on a chick do you say to her "yo , let it marinate"
perfect



hey darksom, if you don't have myspace, you should get it
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Originally Posted by Romeo8Juliet
@ rmatic09 - That was a good one...

sarcasm? if not....
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No, actually.. I was being serious. It made me laugh... in a good way.
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Lol...my reputation is Legendary...you gotta do better than that to bring it down sugar, but I admire your style go-getter!
That's true! But not in the way you think.

Stop setting yourself up dude, that was too easy.
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Originally Posted by Romeo8Juliet
No, actually.. I was being serious. It made me laugh... in a good way.

From your username, i can tell your a feisty one. Romeo sure did eat juliet, ate her shit like a champ.
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Originally Posted by RMATIC09
Romeo sure did eat juliet, ate her shit like a champ.


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