View Poll Results: Would you have sex on a first date?
Yes, I do it all the time
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Yes, but only if I was really feeling the person
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No, Its against my religion or beliefs
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No, I wait to get to know the person better
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Not sure, it totally depends on the situation
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Sex on a first date?
03-07-2006, 01:37 AM
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hahahah do you even have to ask me?
03-07-2006, 06:35 PM
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No, if a girl is willing to fuck you on the first date, shes a pig and cant be trusted. Unless if you guys are just goin to be friends with privelages. 
03-07-2006, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted by FARNIZZLE
No, if a girl is willing to fuck you on the first date, shes a pig and cant be trusted. Unless if you guys are just goin to be friends with privelages.
The girl I dated afterwards for almost 2 years was COMPLETELY trustworthy. We just had immediate chemistry. I've never felt that way about a girl.
03-07-2006, 11:52 PM
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The girl I dated afterwards for almost 2 years was COMPLETELY trustworthy. We just had immediate chemistry. I've never felt that way about a girl.
Sometimes it just clicks. I think it's hard to explain unless you've experienced it.
03-08-2006, 12:44 AM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
Sometimes it just clicks. I think it's hard to explain unless you've experienced it.Trust me it must click if your doing anal in the 1st night....
03-08-2006, 08:32 AM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
Sometimes it just clicks. I think it's hard to explain unless you've experienced it.
03-08-2006, 10:46 AM
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Actually by total accident we had anal sex too, and I busted in her ass lol....
I never had, but I'd say it denpends on the moment and alcohol.
I love where this thread is going.
03-10-2006, 05:03 PM
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while it might be true most of the time,
how could you automatically assume a girl has issues is she sleeps with you on the first date. is the converse true? do YOU have issues, for sleeping with women on the first date? don't give me this "i'm a guy, it's okay" BS.. it works both ways.
how could you automatically assume a girl has issues is she sleeps with you on the first date. is the converse true? do YOU have issues, for sleeping with women on the first date? don't give me this "i'm a guy, it's okay" BS.. it works both ways.
never thought of it that way, but most likely you'll get put in the "nice/shy/cute" guy category if you pass up an opportunity.
03-10-2006, 08:15 PM
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no way, not for passing up 1st-date sex. maybe if you pass it up after a month or so...
being a "nice guy," sucks.. but so does being the "man-slut".. once you get that reputation, GOOD LUCK finding a solid girlfriend.
being a "nice guy," sucks.. but so does being the "man-slut".. once you get that reputation, GOOD LUCK finding a solid girlfriend.
03-11-2006, 01:51 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
Really....How does that happen by accident?
I never had, but I'd say it denpends on the moment and alcohol.
I never had, but I'd say it denpends on the moment and alcohol.
You know what, I honestly can't rememeber, other than her legs where on my shoulders and the lights where off ...It was just one of those
heat in the moment things.
03-16-2006, 12:33 PM
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why not, if the chemistry is there, go to town!
03-16-2006, 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted by juniorbean
Never had sex on the first date but I have had several one night stands...
If you take her home from the bar and she leaves before you wake up it isn't a date.
03-16-2006, 02:41 PM
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I never had a GF 
but ive been on a date and there was no sex god damn women suck. You would expect them at least give you oral if you take them out to dinner. I guess I should date sluts then.
but ive been on a date and there was no sex god damn women suck. You would expect them at least give you oral if you take them out to dinner. I guess I should date sluts then.
03-16-2006, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted by SRK85
I never had a GF but ive been on a date and there was no sex god damn women suck. You would expect them at least give you oral if you take them out to dinner. I guess I should date sluts then.
but ive been on a date and there was no sex god damn women suck. You would expect them at least give you oral if you take them out to dinner. I guess I should date sluts then.Could this be? Another virgin???
03-16-2006, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted by PsychoInDenial
Could this be? Another virgin???
03-18-2006, 02:37 PM
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...what went wrong?
...so, today's my b-day, and last night... I had this chick over that I met at Starbucks... (she works there), we were going to go catch a movie.... but missed all the 7ish/8ish showing... and didn't feel like waiting... so I suggested to just go rent a movie and watch it over at my pad.. 
Anyway, I'm kinda shy (at start), so durning the first... half hour of the movie or so... we were sitting in different couches... then she started whinning about how her lower back is sooooooo sore... and asked me if I think if it's because of her boobs... 
...so I asked her... how big they were? -34DD, I told her... "...sure possibly" and asked her if she wanted me to give her a massage/rub down (her back and neck, that is...)... she didn't hesitate and took my offer... anyway, long story short... I'm thinking... "...I'm so... 'in'..." I kept bringing up the size of her tits... and finally just asked her if I can see'em... and she let me, I saw'em, felt them, and pretty much just played with them for the rest of the movie... well, after the movie ended... I asked if I can see them with her shirt/bra completely off.... and she said "NO"... I was like...
...she started whinning about her tired she was... in kinda implied that she wanted to go...
I was soooooooo hoping for.... at least a birthday b.j.... but once again... I fvcked up somewhere...
my approach sucked... I think I was going the right direction... but somehow.... somewhere... she backed off...
Anyway, I'm kinda shy (at start), so durning the first... half hour of the movie or so... we were sitting in different couches... then she started whinning about how her lower back is sooooooo sore... and asked me if I think if it's because of her boobs... ...so I asked her... how big they were? -34DD, I told her... "...sure possibly" and asked her if she wanted me to give her a massage/rub down (her back and neck, that is...)... she didn't hesitate and took my offer... anyway, long story short... I'm thinking... "...I'm so... 'in'..." I kept bringing up the size of her tits... and finally just asked her if I can see'em... and she let me, I saw'em, felt them, and pretty much just played with them for the rest of the movie... well, after the movie ended... I asked if I can see them with her shirt/bra completely off.... and she said "NO"... I was like...
...she started whinning about her tired she was... in kinda implied that she wanted to go...I was soooooooo hoping for.... at least a birthday b.j.... but once again... I fvcked up somewhere...
my approach sucked... I think I was going the right direction... but somehow.... somewhere... she backed off...
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03-19-2006, 01:27 AM
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You showed too much interest right away. Shoulda brushed off the boob comments after the first one then brought it up maybe once when applicable. Girls with big boobs cant stand people not noticing them. I bet she woulda given it up just to make you like her.
03-19-2006, 06:55 AM
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i think you need another option
"Yes, if given the opportunity"
"Yes, if given the opportunity"
03-19-2006, 09:24 AM
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Yes, if I just thought she was hot and that was the only reason for the date. However, if it was someone I was really into and wanted a relationship with, and perhaps saw her as a possible long-term girlfriend I wouldn't want to. Call me crazy, I know that's hard to understrand but that's how I operate.
03-20-2006, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted by is300eater
my approach sucked... I think I was going the right direction... but somehow.... somewhere... she backed off...
Yeah she prolly just wanted attention but if a girl is gonna let you play with her tits something has to happen. Were you guys making out on the couch while you were playing with her tits? Was it getting all hot an heavy? I guess what im sayin was it sexual feeling of her tits, or did you just feel them to feel them?
Anyways, did you guys set up another date, when do you get to see her again? If you dont get another chance to see her again then you blew it somehow, but if you guys are gonna get together soon she was prolly just taking her time with you and testing you out.
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03-20-2006, 09:57 AM
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[QUOTE=CKcentral]Yeah she prolly just wanted attention but if a girl is gonna let you play with her tits something has to happen. Were you guys making out on the couch while you were playing with her tits? Was it getting all hot an heavy? I guess what im sayin was it sexual feeling of her tits, or did you just feel them to feel them?
Any touching of the breasts are sexual unless you are a doctor, and even in those cases, it can have sexual connotations. Hell, I can't look at breasts without feeling "sexual."
Any touching of the breasts are sexual unless you are a doctor, and even in those cases, it can have sexual connotations. Hell, I can't look at breasts without feeling "sexual."
03-20-2006, 10:04 AM
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Originally Posted by is300eater
...so, today's my b-day, and last night... I had this chick over that I met at Starbucks... (she works there), we were going to go catch a movie.... but missed all the 7ish/8ish showing... and didn't feel like waiting... so I suggested to just go rent a movie and watch it over at my pad.. Anyway, I'm kinda shy (at start), so durning the first... half hour of the movie or so... we were sitting in different couches... then she started whinning about how her lower back is sooooooo sore... and asked me if I think if it's because of her boobs...
...so I asked her... how big they were? -34DD, I told her... "...sure possibly" and asked her if she wanted me to give her a massage/rub down (her back and neck, that is...)... she didn't hesitate and took my offer... anyway, long story short... I'm thinking... "...I'm so... 'in'..." I kept bringing up the size of her tits... and finally just asked her if I can see'em... and she let me, I saw'em, felt them, and pretty much just played with them for the rest of the movie... well, after the movie ended... I asked if I can see them with her shirt/bra completely off.... and she said "NO"... I was like... ...she started whinning about her tired she was... in kinda implied that she wanted to go...
I was soooooooo hoping for.... at least a birthday b.j.... but once again... I fvcked up somewhere...
my approach sucked... I think I was going the right direction... but somehow.... somewhere... she backed off...
Anyway, I'm kinda shy (at start), so durning the first... half hour of the movie or so... we were sitting in different couches... then she started whinning about how her lower back is sooooooo sore... and asked me if I think if it's because of her boobs... ...so I asked her... how big they were? -34DD, I told her... "...sure possibly" and asked her if she wanted me to give her a massage/rub down (her back and neck, that is...)... she didn't hesitate and took my offer... anyway, long story short... I'm thinking... "...I'm so... 'in'..." I kept bringing up the size of her tits... and finally just asked her if I can see'em... and she let me, I saw'em, felt them, and pretty much just played with them for the rest of the movie... well, after the movie ended... I asked if I can see them with her shirt/bra completely off.... and she said "NO"... I was like...
...she started whinning about her tired she was... in kinda implied that she wanted to go...I was soooooooo hoping for.... at least a birthday b.j.... but once again... I fvcked up somewhere...
my approach sucked... I think I was going the right direction... but somehow.... somewhere... she backed off...
Pics?
You may have been too interested. Sounds to me like she wanted attention, you gave her too much and she lost interest figuring you were too easy. At least you got to play with and see some DD's
03-20-2006, 10:12 AM
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[QUOTE=PillsburyChoboy]
Ive felt a girls tits before w/o it being sexual. Of course her were fake and she asked me if i wanted to feel. I guess he was feeling them all night though. I cant believe feeling of the tits didnt lead to more.
Originally Posted by CKcentral
Yeah she prolly just wanted attention but if a girl is gonna let you play with her tits something has to happen. Were you guys making out on the couch while you were playing with her tits? Was it getting all hot an heavy? I guess what im sayin was it sexual feeling of her tits, or did you just feel them to feel them?
Any touching of the breasts are sexual unless you are a doctor, and even in those cases, it can have sexual connotations. Hell, I can't look at breasts without feeling "sexual."
Any touching of the breasts are sexual unless you are a doctor, and even in those cases, it can have sexual connotations. Hell, I can't look at breasts without feeling "sexual."
03-20-2006, 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted by CKcentral
I cant believe feeling of the tits didnt lead to more.
He must have had blue balls by the end of the night. I don't think I've ever felt tits witout getting something of my own rubbed in return.
03-20-2006, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted by dom
He must have had blue balls by the end of the night. I don't think I've ever felt tits witout getting something of my own rubbed in return.
Usually rubbing her nips and stuff lead to kissing on her neck and tits and then the clothes start coming off and her hands start wandering....haha sorry you guys get the point!
03-20-2006, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted by CKcentral
I think you were going the right direction too but I guess one would have to be there to know exactly how you guys were feeling and what was going on. Ive been stopped half way between 1st and 2nd base before but it usually doesnt happen. A girl seems to always let you go down on her if you are willing. But that doesnt mean your gonna get the returned favor...its sad i know
Yeah she prolly just wanted attention but if a girl is gonna let you play with her tits something has to happen. Were you guys making out on the couch while you were playing with her tits? Was it getting all hot an heavy? I guess what im sayin was it sexual feeling of her tits, or did you just feel them to feel them?
Anyways, did you guys set up another date, when do you get to see her again? If you dont get another chance to see her again then you blew it somehow, but if you guys are gonna get together soon she was prolly just taking her time with you and testing you out.
Yeah she prolly just wanted attention but if a girl is gonna let you play with her tits something has to happen. Were you guys making out on the couch while you were playing with her tits? Was it getting all hot an heavy? I guess what im sayin was it sexual feeling of her tits, or did you just feel them to feel them?
Anyways, did you guys set up another date, when do you get to see her again? If you dont get another chance to see her again then you blew it somehow, but if you guys are gonna get together soon she was prolly just taking her time with you and testing you out.
...by the way, she was sitting in a way where she can totally feel my crouch... and... well, you get the point...
...I've asked a couple people about this... and they told me that she may have been a little insecure... cause, me... being a personal trainer.. and her... I have to admit... she could probably lose about 10lbs-15lbs (she's kinda tall)... maybe she didn't want me to see her "problem areas"?
...as far as seeing her again... well, she works at the Starbucks where I go everyday, it's right around the corner from where I live... and I kinda screwed up tho.... when I took her to my place... I took a funky route, knowing that she's kinda new in town... (oh, I forgot to mention... she's new in town...), when we first got to my place... I asked her if she knew where we were... and she said "no"... which is what I wanted... but when I was taking her home... I totally forgot... and took the normal route... and drove by the Starbucks where she works... and she goes.. "...oh, now I know where we're at..." I really didn't want her to know where I live...
...I also forgot to mention this too... long before I even got to massage her... we were talking about jobs... and she said that she almost did porn at one time!!