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Old 11-02-2003, 08:02 PM
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Can some or evry1 contribute to clues women give us guys and what do they mean. For example, when a girl says " I'll call you tomorrow" what does that mean. The reason I'm posting this is after reading a few threads about guys being confused about what the women really want and most guys like me are just freakin confused!

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Old 11-02-2003, 08:06 PM
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you want the best contribution to this topic: DONT TRY TO READ ANYTHING!!!!

go with the flow, and llet whatever happens happen!!! if you have to read iinto anything.. its a game.. and who has time for that shit!!! If you do read into it, you are always guessing because your translation will be your translation and NOT really what is being expressed...

If you want to know what a woman is thinking or trying to say: ASK!!!!!
Old 11-02-2003, 08:09 PM
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from my personal experience the women always do opposite of wat they say. I totally agree Casper. that reading is bull!!! but most girls do that.
Old 11-02-2003, 10:13 PM
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but when girls flip their hair, when they're talking to you, THAT means something... FOR SURE.
Old 11-02-2003, 10:17 PM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
If you want to know what a woman is thinking or trying to say: ASK!!!!!
Yea right...

"hey, i know we just met, but are you thinking you want to suck my dick?"

"hey, what's your name? oh, nice to meet you Mary. I just wanted to ask you what your thoughts were on licking asshole, all of my friends seem to hold this opinion that it's pretty gross, but I'm curious... do you think you'd like to lick mine?"

"When you say 'I'll call you tomorrow' do you mean you want to keep talking to me? Or do you think I'm smothering you? Because if I'm smothering you, I'll stop, but if you don't think I'm smothering you, can you tell me why you want to talk tomorrow specifically?"

There are a TON of reasons why NOT to ask her for her thoughts.
Old 11-02-2003, 10:36 PM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
you want the best contribution to this topic: DONT TRY TO READ ANYTHING!!!!

that is the killer....that goes double for the ladies...a person can drive themself crazy trying to read signs!
Old 11-02-2003, 10:51 PM
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No means yes. Yes means yes.
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I don't think you should try to read EVERYTHING, but their are definite signs... like when she uses body language to express something. You would look like a complete jackass if you studied and stared into every single little thing a girl did.

I don't see why this is so difficult.

And actions speak very loud as well, if she says one thing, and does the other... you know not to trust what she says very much.
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Originally posted by amisconception
Yea right...

"hey, i know we just met, but are you thinking you want to suck my dick?"

"hey, what's your name? oh, nice to meet you Mary. I just wanted to ask you what your thoughts were on licking asshole, all of my friends seem to hold this opinion that it's pretty gross, but I'm curious... do you think you'd like to lick mine?"

"When you say 'I'll call you tomorrow' do you mean you want to keep talking to me? Or do you think I'm smothering you? Because if I'm smothering you, I'll stop, but if you don't think I'm smothering you, can you tell me why you want to talk tomorrow specifically?"

There are a TON of reasons why NOT to ask her for her thoughts.

ummm.. yea ok... well first off I dont think this conversation was going that route!!! second off i have actually straight up asked for SEX before... Its called a 1 nighter, a fling and a booty call... been there, done that and the upforward honestly is usually a winner for many women!!!!
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no matter how you slice it, men are fooked...

yer miserable when you read into shit

and yer miserable when you don't try to read into shit

anyone who tells you he's happy by not reading into what women say is lying
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Can't read shit. Don't wanna read shit.
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Originally posted by amisconception
but when girls flip their hair, when they're talking to you, THAT means something... FOR SURE.
for me it means my hair is in my face and its annoying me.

You cant read women, at least not until youve known that certain woman for a long long time. which defeats trying to read them to figure out what they think about you.

and all women have different quirks/personalities.
Me i tend to be straight up and drop obvious clues to the opposite sex (well when i was single.. i learned early that guys dont take fucking clues)

but other girls like to play mind games. Youll drive yourself crazy trying to figure us out, just.. dont.
Old 11-03-2003, 05:39 AM
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Re: Reading women

Originally posted by TL_Diplomat
Can some or evry1 contribute to clues women give us guys and what do they mean. For example, when a girl says " I'll call you tomorrow" what does that mean. The reason I'm posting this is after reading a few threads about guys being confused about what the women really want and most guys like me are just freakin confused!

Thanks in advance
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Old 11-03-2003, 06:06 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
for me it means my hair is in my face and its annoying me.
Old 11-03-2003, 07:53 AM
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a tool for decoding women will never come to be. forget about it and just play it by ear.
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Women can't be read/understood. The reason is simple.

Women = think with emotions

Emotion = unpredictable (especially during that time of the month)

Therefore: Women = unpredictable
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Originally posted by Got Rice?
Women can't be read/understood. The reason is simple.

Women = think with emotions

Emotion = unpredictable (especially during that time of the month)

Therefore: Women = unpredictable
even if we have a device or person that can read minds. Guess wat it won't work.
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i used to think with emotions, then i got used/trampled on/ whatever.

now i think rationally and that seems to work so much better
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
i used to think with emotions, then i got used/trampled on/ whatever.

now i think rationally and that seems to work so much better
that's too bad, cuz now you've basically given up thinking with your heart and are listening to your mind
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yes and my mind is 100 times smarter than my heart.

unless it comes to animals.

I could never be an agent for the goverment. I could resist most torture until they brought a small kitten or something out and then i would break down and spill.
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Top Ten Things I Know About Women...

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Get it?
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
...I could resist most torture until they brought a small kitten...
What about ice cream?
Old 11-03-2003, 11:15 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
i used to think with emotions, then i got used/trampled on/ whatever.

now i think rationally and that seems to work so much better
you are one in a billion. A woman who thinks rationally? I didnt know they existed.
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Originally posted by Got Rice?
No means yes. Yes means yes.
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Originally posted by Got Rice?
No means yes. Yes means yes.
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Originally posted by Got Rice?
Women can't be read/understood. The reason is simple.

Women = think with emotions

Emotion = unpredictable (especially during that time of the month)

Therefore: Women = unpredictable
hahahahaha

did they teach you that at Emory?
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Originally posted by Katies99CL
hahahahaha

did they teach you that at Emory?

want to help me with my logic class
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i actually used teh advise "dont try to read her" today

it probably makes life way less stressful w/ the same ends
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I haven't quite reached Rachael's level of rational thinking. I went thru a period of analyzing the hell out of every little thing that was said/done to me and it drove me up a wall. I learned that you can't drop hints with guys, you gotta just be straight up and say what you mean. Likewise, mean what you say (this goes for girls AND guys!) I am soooo tired of hearing one thing and the subsequent action contradicts the words.

Example:
Girl tells guy she's not ready to be so physical with him yet.
Guy says "It's okay, I respect you"
Girl breathes sigh of releif
Guy grabs her boob, thus negating his statement of respect

As for trying to understand girls...just dont try. I'm sorry to say it. I personally wish it wasnt like that because it makes things sooo annoying! I try to be upfront about where I'm coming from whenever I talk to guys, but like someone said, a lot of girls get off on playing mind games. You never know what you're gonna get so don't torture yourself trying
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