Need to break things off
06-24-2004, 04:05 PM
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Need to break things off
Well, I gotta do it. Intellectually, this girl is not going to cut it, we just don't have anything in common enough to make something work on another level. We've been on 3 "dates" fooled around twice (no intercourse) and chatted on the phone a bit. I'm attracted to her, but that is as far as it goes, and I get the feeling that she wants more than that. I see her again Sunday night, should I say somthing then? I don't want to just blow her off, that sucks...but I could pull the "busy" card...
Any suggestions on an easy let down...she now knows where I hang out on Sundays and I can't end it badly, cause I don't want to have to deal with her there if it does.
Plus, she left me hanging one night, after I took care of her...that hurt, and I'm not talking about the ego either...
Any suggestions on an easy let down...she now knows where I hang out on Sundays and I can't end it badly, cause I don't want to have to deal with her there if it does.
Plus, she left me hanging one night, after I took care of her...that hurt, and I'm not talking about the ego either...
06-24-2004, 06:00 PM
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Dude do her like they do us, just stop calling and don't answer her calls so she has to figure out all on her own that you're no longer interested.
06-24-2004, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Waddy
Dude do her like they do us, just stop calling and don't answer her calls so she has to figure out all on her own that you're no longer interested.
thats what I do. works great.
06-24-2004, 06:04 PM
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I am going to need to see a pic of her before offering counseling. 
06-24-2004, 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Waddy
Dude do her like they do us, just stop calling and don't answer her calls so she has to figure out all on her own that you're no longer interested.
She'll get over it.
Not like you were dating long-term, etc.
06-24-2004, 08:58 PM
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I hope she will. I'll go this Sunday and next (I told her I'd meet her there this Sunday) and then bag it if she just shows next Sunday. With no calls and what not, I think she'll get the picture. I told her I'd call her for this sunday, but I won't, although I think she is being brough by a friend of hers...who happens to be a meddling bitch that should be put in her place.
Which is the whole reason I have to aviod the plcae on Sunday now possibly...
Which is the whole reason I have to aviod the plcae on Sunday now possibly...
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06-25-2004, 05:55 AM
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if this is your only source of getting ass, then i'd maintain it until you found someone else and dont do anything to her until she returns the favor! unless she becomes really attached.... you dont want to lead her on
....too much
....too much
06-25-2004, 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Gilgamesh
I'd just feel like a bastard if I dropped her when one better came along.
girls are like that these days. you cant get in trouble for telling the truth. then sometime down the road keep her number so if plan A doesnt work, u can use her as plan B for a quick hookup.
06-29-2004, 04:11 PM
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Gilg, I'm surprised with you. Speeches don't work and make you look like a jerk. What are you gonna say? You and I have no chemistry? No matter what you say, speeches are a bad idea. Do what the rest of us do, don't call or return her calls. She'll get the message sooner or later.
06-29-2004, 04:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Batin Dean
Gilg, I'm surprised with you. Speeches don't work and make you look like a jerk. What are you gonna say? You and I have no chemistry? No matter what you say, speeches are a bad idea. Do what the rest of us do, don't call or return her calls. She'll get the message sooner or later.
or tell her to just read the goddamn board.
HI MICHELLE!
06-29-2004, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Batin Dean
Gilg, I'm surprised with you. Speeches don't work and make you look like a jerk. What are you gonna say? You and I have no chemistry? No matter what you say, speeches are a bad idea. Do what the rest of us do, don't call or return her calls. She'll get the message sooner or later.
*hangs head in shame*
I guess so, one last date tonight to see if things flow. But Jesus...her name.,...man...it just had to be what it is...that is one MAJOR stumbling block. Hopefully the ignore thing would work, but we have mutual friends, maybe I would need to aviod the Sunday routine, for a few weeks. (this is a different one than I have mentioned there before)
06-30-2004, 12:23 AM
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UPDATE: No need, just went on the date, from body language and unskpon cues and awkward sliences, I think she knows this is not going anywhere, booty call is all it could ever be, if that. I'm pretty sure this is what she sees as well, so I'm gonna tell her that I like her yadda yadda, but don;t see it going anywhere, yadda, and then if we are friends and hang out and she uses me for sex, then that's cool too. 
But at least we both know there is no R word in our future.
But at least we both know there is no R word in our future.
07-19-2004, 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Waddy
Dude do her like they do us, just stop calling and don't answer her calls so she has to figure out all on her own that you're no longer interested.
needless to say that when i called her back i was pissed...told her that 40+ calls within that span of time should be illegal.
07-19-2004, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Waddy
She bombed your voicemail after one weekend of you not calling?
whats funny is that at voicemail number 10 or something..i get the "ok, call me when you get the message, i dont want to keep calling and bugging".....ahhhh yeah oooooh k.
07-19-2004, 05:03 PM
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Damn thats super psycho, I thought this one chick was psycho for calling me five times in one night, by my scale that makes your chick 8 times more psycho .
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07-19-2004, 06:22 PM
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[/QUOTE=Waddy]Damn thats super psycho, I thought this one chick was psycho for calling me five times in one night, by my scale that makes your chick 8 times more psycho .[/QUOTE]
oh wait, why I'm I laughing..... 
.[/QUOTE] oh wait, why I'm I laughing.....
07-19-2004, 06:29 PM
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I just remember listening to the voicemails on www.psychoexgirlfriend.com
07-19-2004, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by RaptorCLS
haha...weirdness..haha..the girl I'm seeing now calls me everyday...I had to work this last weekend and I left my phone at work...I dont remember numbers...thats what speed dial is for...so I couldnt call her...turns out when I actually went to the office on Sunday, I had 40+ missed calls from Friday afternoon up to Sunday morning. also about 20+ voicemails. They slowly progressed to..."blah blah...I'd like to know whats going on"...like WTF??? First she knew I was working and second..what the hell do you mean 'whats going on" Then her sis calls and leaves voicemail (i know her sis) and says she has been leaving several voicemails for you...can you call her and let her know if you are still interested or not........again WTF?!
needless to say that when i called her back i was pissed...told her that 40+ calls within that span of time should be illegal.
needless to say that when i called her back i was pissed...told her that 40+ calls within that span of time should be illegal.
07-19-2004, 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Gilgamesh
UPDATE: No need, just went on the date, from body language and unskpon cues and awkward sliences, I think she knows this is not going anywhere, booty call is all it could ever be, if that. I'm pretty sure this is what she sees as well, so I'm gonna tell her that I like her yadda yadda, but don;t see it going anywhere, yadda, and then if we are friends and hang out and she uses me for sex, then that's cool too.
But at least we both know there is no R word in our future.
But at least we both know there is no R word in our future.
07-20-2004, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted by RaptorCLS
haha...weirdness..haha..the girl I'm seeing now calls me everyday...I had to work this last weekend and I left my phone at work...I dont remember numbers...thats what speed dial is for...so I couldnt call her...turns out when I actually went to the office on Sunday, I had 40+ missed calls from Friday afternoon up to Sunday morning. also about 20+ voicemails. They slowly progressed to..."blah blah...I'd like to know whats going on"...like WTF??? First she knew I was working and second..what the hell do you mean 'whats going on" Then her sis calls and leaves voicemail (i know her sis) and says she has been leaving several voicemails for you...can you call her and let her know if you are still interested or not........again WTF?!
needless to say that when i called her back i was pissed...told her that 40+ calls within that span of time should be illegal.
needless to say that when i called her back i was pissed...told her that 40+ calls within that span of time should be illegal.
07-20-2004, 04:28 PM
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Dear God...why me?
She texted me today (seriously she fucking texted me :ghey: )
She wnats to hang out, like two weeks after the date from hell, Jesus...time to go into evasion mode.
She texted me today (seriously she fucking texted me :ghey: )
She wnats to hang out, like two weeks after the date from hell, Jesus...time to go into evasion mode.
