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Old 09-24-2003, 07:48 AM
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My EX called me last night....should I call her back???

We've been done for almost a month now.....needless to say, she called me last night, but I was sleeping. She left me a voicemail....do I call her back, or let it go????
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What's your gut feelings tell you?
Old 09-24-2003, 08:27 AM
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I have no clue!!! Single life isn't all that its cracked up to be...thats for sure.
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the same one who told you that you needed to grow up and mature?


and was telling you what you could and could not do?
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ex-sex comes with no strings... usually.
call her, bang her, diss her.
Old 09-24-2003, 09:06 AM
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Yes Dr. Silvia.....I really wonder what she wants to talk to me about???
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Originally posted by Nicky Pass
I have no clue!!! Single life isn't all that its cracked up to be...thats for sure.

yeah but atleast you dont have to put up with her bullshit right now. Dont fall into that rut where you feel you have to be with her just because your used to being with her.
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The temptation is great , but from my personal experience - you end up in the same place where you started...Has anything really changed? Is she really different? Can you see yourself happy with her 1, 2, or even 5 years from now?

I would call to say Hi, but thats about it
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Dont fall into the trap Nicky!
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what was the message she left?
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she called to tell you she's pregnant with your baby!!!!!
Old 09-24-2003, 10:31 AM
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don't call her dawg. If my ex (we were together for a 1.5 year) i'd tell her where she can stick the damn phone
Old 09-24-2003, 11:47 AM
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PREGNANT......NEVER. I never "finished" inside of her.....I'm an artist...I like to "paint" if ya smell what Nick is cookin'. I think I'll call her tonight....but I'm not sure what to say!
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Originally posted by Nicky Pass
PREGNANT......NEVER. I never "finished" inside of her.....I'm an artist...I like to "paint" if ya smell what Nick is cookin'. I think I'll call her tonight....but I'm not sure what to say!
That's cool and all, but ummmm too much info man...
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Originally posted by Nicky Pass
Yes Dr. Silvia.....I really wonder what she wants to talk to me about???
well give her a call, or better yet wait for her to call you again, and see what she wants.
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I was asleep when she called.....I don't know if I would have answered if I was awake. Good thing I fell asleep early last night.
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Originally posted by Nicky Pass
I never "finished" inside of her.....
good deal... so maybe the call had something to do with....her wanting to have a threesome with you and some other hot broad!!! yeah right man... she was prolly gonna ask you something like... HOW DO I COOK A STEAK!!
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HMMMMM....3 SOME!!!!! That could be fun.
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yes, but do situations like that really happen in real life, to your advantage? lol! well, maybe if you're a pimp other'n that, I'm willing to go with the "random excuse to talk to you" idea in which case dont even think about calling her back, you're freeee!
Old 09-24-2003, 04:30 PM
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PullT...I just figured that little code out!!!
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Originally posted by Nicky Pass
PullT...I just figured that little code out!!!
hahah me too!
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Well........its 8:45 in Chicago.....and I haven't called her!
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Originally posted by Nicky Pass
PullT...I just figured that little code out!!!
oh dayum, i think i figured that one out too.
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hahah me too!
the method
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i just figured it out too. woot
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I haven't had sex in like 4 weeks......I MAY DIE SOON.......SRS is a verrrrrrrry bad thing!!!!
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call her up then
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Originally posted by Nicky Pass
I haven't had sex in like 4 weeks......I MAY DIE SOON.......SRS is a verrrrrrrry bad thing!!!!
i'm on my 7th week. i feel ur pain.... this is my longest drought ever. i may have to temporarily lower my standards...
Old 09-24-2003, 09:19 PM
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I'll never lower my standards.....life is too short to downgrade!!!
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Originally posted by Nicky Pass
I'll never lower my standards.....life is too short to downgrade!!!

That's why the make booze...it's easy on ur eyes to do shit with ugly/fat girls....
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Nicky, if she had doubts about breaking up with you before I know she more sure about it now than ever. Put yourself in her shoes. Its late and you call your ex cuz something tells you that you made a mistake. She doesn't call back so your like, 'Damn, I knew I screwed up'. I'd call her in about a day to make her think about it even more. You have the upperhand right now so don't give it up.
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I just keep thinking....its gonna be the same thing....over and over and over....nothing ever changes.
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Originally posted by Nicky Pass
I just keep thinking....its gonna be the same thing....over and over and over....nothing ever changes.
wtf did she say in the message????
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She just wants to talk...and she misses me.
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red flags wavin all over the place!!!!!!

if u call her, u better not fall into her trap, otherwise, im gonna kick yer ass...remember, it was all her idea to break it off
Old 09-25-2003, 12:39 PM
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Good point.....I think if she calls and I am by the phone when it rings..I'll pick up, but I'll also be really blunt.
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As a female....my opinion would be to not call her because you're right, you're just apt to fall into the same thing all over again. Instead send her an email or something and just say, sorry you were sleeping when she called, but honestly, you don't think it's best that the 2 of you talk at this time. Just my $0.02

ps. single life will get better....a month is too soon to tell


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