lets put a spin on things: WHERE / HOW was your 1st Time?!
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From: #1 in all the land!!
Originally posted by mesmerize
i'm done here... i know you guys are gonna post more stuff about my misguidedness and your righteousness, but i really can't take any more of it. you're saying some very hurtful things, and this is not the kind of attitude i ever thought i'd encounter on a place like ACL from people who don't even know me.
it's been fun, but i don't need shit like this bringin me down.
bye,
~sara~
p.s. - thanx eclipse, i appreciate that
i'm done here... i know you guys are gonna post more stuff about my misguidedness and your righteousness, but i really can't take any more of it. you're saying some very hurtful things, and this is not the kind of attitude i ever thought i'd encounter on a place like ACL from people who don't even know me.
it's been fun, but i don't need shit like this bringin me down.
bye,
~sara~
p.s. - thanx eclipse, i appreciate that
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You Fawkin Kiddin Me!
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Originally posted by jimcol711
EXACTLY. im all for gettin down and dirty.....BUT i do it with the girl i love, the girl who loves me, the person who respects me and whom i respect.
EXACTLY. im all for gettin down and dirty.....BUT i do it with the girl i love, the girl who loves me, the person who respects me and whom i respect.
whos to say that you love someone and they love you.. you both respecteach other.. you do down and dirty things... but one day you might NOT be with her.. so is it right for another female in your future to judge you based on what your past was?!
Its a fawked up way of thinking.. like i said b4 you are entitled to that way of thinking.. but its hard to grasp...
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
but the question isnt of 1 on 1.. who loves who or who respects who... The question with you lies in: why cant you respect someone if they have made choices in there past that YOU DO NOT agree with!? What makes your views, your actions and your ways superior to those of another!?
whos to say that you love someone and they love you.. you both respecteach other.. you do down and dirty things... but one day you might NOT be with her.. so is it right for another female in your future to judge you based on what your past was?!
Its a fawked up way of thinking.. like i said b4 you are entitled to that way of thinking.. but its hard to grasp...
but the question isnt of 1 on 1.. who loves who or who respects who... The question with you lies in: why cant you respect someone if they have made choices in there past that YOU DO NOT agree with!? What makes your views, your actions and your ways superior to those of another!?
whos to say that you love someone and they love you.. you both respecteach other.. you do down and dirty things... but one day you might NOT be with her.. so is it right for another female in your future to judge you based on what your past was?!
Its a fawked up way of thinking.. like i said b4 you are entitled to that way of thinking.. but its hard to grasp...
to me, there is a big difference between a girl that had, say 5 boyfreinds, all were remotely serious, maybe 2 were long-term she slept with all of them
and
a girl who, lets say, had one serious boyfriend, 2 drunk one-nighters and a 3 way with 2 dudes pumping away, one on each end. its a totally different ballgame.
again, this is just MY opinion. not what anyone else should think or would think. its my beleif.
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Originally posted by jimcol711
to me, there is a big difference between a girl that had, say 5 boyfreinds, all were remotely serious, maybe 2 were long-term she slept with all of them
and
a girl who, lets say, had one serious boyfriend, 2 drunk one-nighters and a 3 way with 2 dudes pumping away, one on each end. its a totally different ballgame.
again, this is just MY opinion. not what anyone else should think or would think. its my beleif.
to me, there is a big difference between a girl that had, say 5 boyfreinds, all were remotely serious, maybe 2 were long-term she slept with all of them
and
a girl who, lets say, had one serious boyfriend, 2 drunk one-nighters and a 3 way with 2 dudes pumping away, one on each end. its a totally different ballgame.
again, this is just MY opinion. not what anyone else should think or would think. its my beleif.
I am sorry.. but for what its worth that is selfish and ignorant... I dont know you or how old you are.. but you have some internal issues you need to handle... you are very close minded and honestly its people taht are closed minded that cause problems in this world with there ignorance (ie racism, prejudice and hate)... and you are being very prejudice in this situation towards peoples sexual preferences, actions and choices!!!!
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
but i don't see a difference in the fact that people experience various things in life... which make them the people they are today... It woulds piss me off knowing that I would be judged by a girl or anyone, in any situation, sex, job, friendship, etc... strictly by something I had done in the past, that doesnt concern that specific individual... So if we were gonna be good friends.. and you were strongly against drugs and I had done drugs in my past, through a rough time but have been sober and live a completely different life.. you wouldnt be my friend because of a mistake I had done iin my past that you were not a part of?!
I am sorry.. but for what its worth that is selfish and ignorant... I dont know you or how old you are.. but you have some internal issues you need to handle... you are very close minded and honestly its people taht are closed minded that cause problems in this world with there ignorance (ie racism, prejudice and hate)... and you are being very prejudice in this situation towards peoples sexual preferences, actions and choices!!!!
but i don't see a difference in the fact that people experience various things in life... which make them the people they are today... It woulds piss me off knowing that I would be judged by a girl or anyone, in any situation, sex, job, friendship, etc... strictly by something I had done in the past, that doesnt concern that specific individual... So if we were gonna be good friends.. and you were strongly against drugs and I had done drugs in my past, through a rough time but have been sober and live a completely different life.. you wouldnt be my friend because of a mistake I had done iin my past that you were not a part of?!
I am sorry.. but for what its worth that is selfish and ignorant... I dont know you or how old you are.. but you have some internal issues you need to handle... you are very close minded and honestly its people taht are closed minded that cause problems in this world with there ignorance (ie racism, prejudice and hate)... and you are being very prejudice in this situation towards peoples sexual preferences, actions and choices!!!!
now imagine being her boyfreind, and running into the dudes that double stuffed her, imagine how that would feel, what they would be thinking about. theyd be laughing their asses off thinking of nothing but that memory of that one experience.
this is how i think about something like that and i would not want to be that boyfreind with a girl known for such things. again, i hold sex in a very high regard. im not a big beleiver in this idea that everyone needs to go out and fuck as many people as they can to "experience" something. what do you get out of that? one night of fun and a lifetime of (in some cases humiliating) memories.
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sara... dont sweat what jim says... its just the one persons' opinion, thats all... no need to leave...
some double standards really suck... sex is one of em. i've had girlfriends that didnt exactly have the best rep back in the day... if you're insecure, it bothers you... otherwise you know she's just as freespirited as you. dont take it to the heart. u know who you are and what others think shouldn't make a difference. props to you for actually being honest... i'm sure there are others who wouldn't even say... big deal, live it up, we're young....
some double standards really suck... sex is one of em. i've had girlfriends that didnt exactly have the best rep back in the day... if you're insecure, it bothers you... otherwise you know she's just as freespirited as you. dont take it to the heart. u know who you are and what others think shouldn't make a difference. props to you for actually being honest... i'm sure there are others who wouldn't even say... big deal, live it up, we're young....
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ok now that i read the posts that i missed, Some of you all were harsh on Sara.
Ive seen multiple posts on ACL by guys who randomly screw a girl they met, or get it one with two girls, and everyone cheers them on, and sara admits she slept with two guy, and she said it was a MISTAKE, and people are still ragging on her.
Sara,
please dont give up on ACL, Ive had Amir totally rip me apart and call me a stupid bitch, but im still around.
Most of these guys are really good guys.
You dont need to defend yourself to anyone on here, you alone know who you are and whether or not you are a "fuck toy" and as long as you know that it shouldnt matter.
please come back?
Jim,
I know i said i didnt think what you said was harsh, but i reread everything and I think you were. Your opinion is welcome, but i think going as far as calling her a fuck toy and stuff isnt right. you can say you think its morally wrong, but i dont think you shouldve said that to her
Ive seen multiple posts on ACL by guys who randomly screw a girl they met, or get it one with two girls, and everyone cheers them on, and sara admits she slept with two guy, and she said it was a MISTAKE, and people are still ragging on her.
Sara,
please dont give up on ACL, Ive had Amir totally rip me apart and call me a stupid bitch, but im still around.
Most of these guys are really good guys.
You dont need to defend yourself to anyone on here, you alone know who you are and whether or not you are a "fuck toy" and as long as you know that it shouldnt matter.
please come back?
Jim,
I know i said i didnt think what you said was harsh, but i reread everything and I think you were. Your opinion is welcome, but i think going as far as calling her a fuck toy and stuff isnt right. you can say you think its morally wrong, but i dont think you shouldve said that to her
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Originally posted by jimcol711
the degree to which you think im crazy for thinking what i think, i think you are crazy for being willing to look past something like doing 2 guys at the same time when seeking a girlfriend. there are just so so many reasons why i feel this way and its foolish to just gloss over something as serious as that. i dont think doing drugs recreationally is even comperable to this situation. dude, youre a guy, think about how many times you would brag about doing something liek that, think about how many derogetory terms you would use to describe a chick that let you and your best freind do her any which way you wanted. think how many times youd be at a bar and that topic would be brought up. think about how many times youd imagine that experience in your head. think about what you would be thinking when you saw this chick out at a bar or heard some news about her, she would always be "THAT" chick to you, the chick you and your buddy double stuffed.
now imagine being her boyfreind, and running into the dudes that double stuffed her, imagine how that would feel, what they would be thinking about. theyd be laughing their asses off thinking of nothing but that memory of that one experience.
this is how i think about something like that and i would not want to be that boyfreind with a girl known for such things. again, i hold sex in a very high regard. im not a big beleiver in this idea that everyone needs to go out and fuck as many people as they can to "experience" something. what do you get out of that? one night of fun and a lifetime of (in some cases humiliating) memories.
the degree to which you think im crazy for thinking what i think, i think you are crazy for being willing to look past something like doing 2 guys at the same time when seeking a girlfriend. there are just so so many reasons why i feel this way and its foolish to just gloss over something as serious as that. i dont think doing drugs recreationally is even comperable to this situation. dude, youre a guy, think about how many times you would brag about doing something liek that, think about how many derogetory terms you would use to describe a chick that let you and your best freind do her any which way you wanted. think how many times youd be at a bar and that topic would be brought up. think about how many times youd imagine that experience in your head. think about what you would be thinking when you saw this chick out at a bar or heard some news about her, she would always be "THAT" chick to you, the chick you and your buddy double stuffed.
now imagine being her boyfreind, and running into the dudes that double stuffed her, imagine how that would feel, what they would be thinking about. theyd be laughing their asses off thinking of nothing but that memory of that one experience.
this is how i think about something like that and i would not want to be that boyfreind with a girl known for such things. again, i hold sex in a very high regard. im not a big beleiver in this idea that everyone needs to go out and fuck as many people as they can to "experience" something. what do you get out of that? one night of fun and a lifetime of (in some cases humiliating) memories.
you ever hear the saying (from the bible - may not be quoted correctly)...
"may the one who has never sinned cast the first stone". So I hope sice you can throw rocks that you NEVER get freeaky with anyone and just have missionery sex!!! NO BJS, NO ANAL, NO 69s, NOTHING OTHER THAN MISSIONERY!!!! and you better be married first!!! Because anyone who has premarital sex is EVIL and shall never be with someone.. they should be frowned upon!!!!
Do you get my point!!??!!??!!
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
Ive seen multiple posts on ACL by guys who randomly screw a girl they met, or get it one with two girls, and everyone cheers them on, and sara admits she slept with two guy, and she said it was a MISTAKE, and people are still ragging on her.
Ive seen multiple posts on ACL by guys who randomly screw a girl they met, or get it one with two girls, and everyone cheers them on, and sara admits she slept with two guy, and she said it was a MISTAKE, and people are still ragging on her.
mind you i am not saying go screw everyone and not to be safe... but we are all guilty of something that we should not have done, may be ashamed of or may not be judge "appropriate" to some standard!!!
In Sara's behalf and in my own (and for those that agree)... I say if you cant understand that.. then FAWK OFF!!!
<<< getting off the soap box now!!
Thank you!
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Ye infidels! The filth in this den of iniquity apalls me! Thou shalt all surely perish in the firey depths. 
Sara,
Don't let things around here get to you...some of us still like you
EDIT: Ownage on pg 5.
Sara,
Don't let things around here get to you...some of us still like you
EDIT: Ownage on pg 5.
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not that i think banging an extraordinary amount of partners is wrong...
but i don't want to know if my girl banged 2 dudes at once, but that's just becuase i don't want to think about my girl banging ANY guys other than me period...
if she did get stuffed, whatever, i just don't want to know or hear about it... cuz then i'll just get an ugly feeling, and that's something i don't understand or even care to understand... (but i think that's normal)
but i don't want to know if my girl banged 2 dudes at once, but that's just becuase i don't want to think about my girl banging ANY guys other than me period...
if she did get stuffed, whatever, i just don't want to know or hear about it... cuz then i'll just get an ugly feeling, and that's something i don't understand or even care to understand... (but i think that's normal)
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What the fuck happen to this thread. Why's everyone fighting, this is about sex, the good stuff come on now. 
I ain't reading all this shit, just because well this isn't a homework assignment, so i'm jsut going to say don't pick on sara only because the girl that like i'm almost in love with is named sarah. so that's all I got to say about that. Maybe i'll read this and change my mind if i'm bored and can't get laid tonight.
I ain't reading all this shit, just because well this isn't a homework assignment, so i'm jsut going to say don't pick on sara only because the girl that like i'm almost in love with is named sarah. so that's all I got to say about that. Maybe i'll read this and change my mind if i'm bored and can't get laid tonight.
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Look, Sara is not as bad, compared to other chicks. I know that there are plenty of you guys out there that have met or known chicks much worse then Sara. So just step off the high horse, and just stick to topic please.
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Originally posted by pgatour1
What the fuck happen to this thread. Why's everyone fighting, this is about sex, the good stuff come on now.
I ain't reading all this shit, just because well this isn't a homework assignment, so i'm jsut going to say don't pick on sara only because the girl that like i'm almost in love with is named sarah. so that's all I got to say about that. Maybe i'll read this and change my mind if i'm bored and can't get laid tonight.
What the fuck happen to this thread. Why's everyone fighting, this is about sex, the good stuff come on now.
I ain't reading all this shit, just because well this isn't a homework assignment, so i'm jsut going to say don't pick on sara only because the girl that like i'm almost in love with is named sarah. so that's all I got to say about that. Maybe i'll read this and change my mind if i'm bored and can't get laid tonight.
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Originally posted by amisconception
absolutely nothing
i just wanted to see if you were still "player" about it
absolutely nothing
i just wanted to see if you were still "player" about it
Funny, she's the one I can't have.
The rest it's just fuck em and leave em, get my nut while i'm breathing. Ya know how it is.
Diamonds are forever...
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whoaaa this thread had drama...did sara ever come back? I think that whatever you have done in the past is your own personal business, unless of course you contracted AIDS or something...then your partner should know...but if you learned from your lapse in judgement and have moved on more power to you. If any guy wants to leave you for something that you can't change tell him to keep walking, because there is someone out there who will love you for everything that you are NOW...just stay away from the prudes and I'm sure you'll do fine girl
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Originally posted by Chinisimo
brought a romantic weekend getaway package from the biltmore hotel in miami http://www.biltmorehotel.com/ that comes w/ champagne and chocolate dipped strawberries and went out to buy some nice smelling candles and put them all around the room. and you know what happens after that...
brought a romantic weekend getaway package from the biltmore hotel in miami http://www.biltmorehotel.com/ that comes w/ champagne and chocolate dipped strawberries and went out to buy some nice smelling candles and put them all around the room. and you know what happens after that...
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Originally posted by jimcol711
chicks that get double stuffed have some self-esteem issues. id never want to be with a girl that had done that in her past. if i found out, id dump her on the spot, even if i was in love with her. to think she had no concern or respect for herself and would allow 2 dudes who obviously didnt even really care about her do that to her would crush me forever. lets face it, any guys that double stuff a girl dont give a shit about her, shes nothing but a fuck toy. you dont double stuff a woman you love with another guy. no offense toward anyone, thats just pretty dirty in my opinion. and no i dont have a double standard as in "oh if you had the chance to bone 2 chicks at the same time, youd do it" because while the prospect of such a thing sounds really exciting. the fact remains, if i find 2 chicks willing to do that, obviously, neither one really cares about me. no woman who loves you would want to watch you bang another chick and share pussy juice with the girl. and if one of these women DID happen to be a serious girlfreind and allow this to happen, thats a pretty good indication that shes got her own shit going on on the side...probably fucking 2 of your best guy freinds at the same time.
chicks that get double stuffed have some self-esteem issues. id never want to be with a girl that had done that in her past. if i found out, id dump her on the spot, even if i was in love with her. to think she had no concern or respect for herself and would allow 2 dudes who obviously didnt even really care about her do that to her would crush me forever. lets face it, any guys that double stuff a girl dont give a shit about her, shes nothing but a fuck toy. you dont double stuff a woman you love with another guy. no offense toward anyone, thats just pretty dirty in my opinion. and no i dont have a double standard as in "oh if you had the chance to bone 2 chicks at the same time, youd do it" because while the prospect of such a thing sounds really exciting. the fact remains, if i find 2 chicks willing to do that, obviously, neither one really cares about me. no woman who loves you would want to watch you bang another chick and share pussy juice with the girl. and if one of these women DID happen to be a serious girlfreind and allow this to happen, thats a pretty good indication that shes got her own shit going on on the side...probably fucking 2 of your best guy freinds at the same time.