lets put a spin on things: WHERE / HOW was your 1st Time?!
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my first time wasn't like the whole wonderful thing that losing your virginity is supposed to be. He was 20 i was 22, we were drinking at a christmas party for this sport truck club i used to chill with. It was towards the end of the night and he was talking to me (me and this guy always had this "tension" between us and we had been friends for a couple months), he asked me if i had seen the office in the house we were at, i said no, so he took me back there and wow...there's a bed...long story short, bam it was done...BUT it wasnt anything really spetcular, the 2nd guy was MUCH more fun....
still waiting on the 3rd.....brrrr is it cold in NY #3?????
still waiting on the 3rd.....brrrr is it cold in NY #3?????
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Me an dthis girl were talking for a couple months, I met her that summer and she was going with someone else but i was flirting with her and we almost kissed. (I was 15) Later that year for christmas break we all went to my friends house in ny, we were all from different states. We were into eachother all day, we went to a party that night (remebered to bring a helmet with me) and we shared a futon that night. Well there were like 7 people all our friends kinda trying to fall asleep and we waitin like 10 min and got at it. It was great, she put the condom on and we had to try and be quit and not move to much. The next morning while everyone was up and about, going to the bathroom and puttin on clothes we did it again under the covers with people walking in and out of the room. That time i used the pull out method, and the girl whose party it was was kinda pissed about her blanket. Then about an hour later she was brusing her teeth and i took her again on the bathroom floor.
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at the Newark Airport Sheraton, room 911. senior year, highschool. that was 5 years ago, and after ?? partners later, somehow, we ended up back together....
as for the seeing another dood naked thing...
its weird seeing another dood naked, kinda a turnoff, but it kinda cancels itself out when 3 other girls are naked in the room at the same time.... very cool experience.... wish i was more sober tho... did NOT touch the guy
as for the seeing another dood naked thing...
its weird seeing another dood naked, kinda a turnoff, but it kinda cancels itself out when 3 other girls are naked in the room at the same time.... very cool experience.... wish i was more sober tho... did NOT touch the guy
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Originally posted by YuppieCL
wish i was more sober tho... did NOT touch the guy
wish i was more sober tho... did NOT touch the guy
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chicks that get double stuffed have some self-esteem issues. id never want to be with a girl that had done that in her past. if i found out, id dump her on the spot, even if i was in love with her. to think she had no concern or respect for herself and would allow 2 dudes who obviously didnt even really care about her do that to her would crush me forever. lets face it, any guys that double stuff a girl dont give a shit about her, shes nothing but a fuck toy. you dont double stuff a woman you love with another guy. no offense toward anyone, thats just pretty dirty in my opinion. and no i dont have a double standard as in "oh if you had the chance to bone 2 chicks at the same time, youd do it" because while the prospect of such a thing sounds really exciting. the fact remains, if i find 2 chicks willing to do that, obviously, neither one really cares about me. no woman who loves you would want to watch you bang another chick and share pussy juice with the girl. and if one of these women DID happen to be a serious girlfreind and allow this to happen, thats a pretty good indication that shes got her own shit going on on the side...probably fucking 2 of your best guy freinds at the same time.
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Originally posted by jimcol711
chicks that get double stuffed have some self-esteem issues. id never want to be with a girl that had done that in her past. if i found out, id dump her on the spot, even if i was in love with her. to think she had no concern or respect for herself and would allow 2 dudes who obviously didnt even really care about her do that to her would crush me forever. lets face it, any guys that double stuff a girl dont give a shit about her, shes nothing but a fuck toy. you dont double stuff a woman you love with another guy. no offense toward anyone, thats just pretty dirty in my opinion. and no i dont have a double standard as in "oh if you had the chance to bone 2 chicks at the same time, youd do it" because while the prospect of such a thing sounds really exciting. the fact remains, if i find 2 chicks willing to do that, obviously, neither one really cares about me. no woman who loves you would want to watch you bang another chick and share pussy juice with the girl. and if one of these women DID happen to be a serious girlfreind and allow this to happen, thats a pretty good indication that shes got her own shit going on on the side...probably fucking 2 of your best guy freinds at the same time.
chicks that get double stuffed have some self-esteem issues. id never want to be with a girl that had done that in her past. if i found out, id dump her on the spot, even if i was in love with her. to think she had no concern or respect for herself and would allow 2 dudes who obviously didnt even really care about her do that to her would crush me forever. lets face it, any guys that double stuff a girl dont give a shit about her, shes nothing but a fuck toy. you dont double stuff a woman you love with another guy. no offense toward anyone, thats just pretty dirty in my opinion. and no i dont have a double standard as in "oh if you had the chance to bone 2 chicks at the same time, youd do it" because while the prospect of such a thing sounds really exciting. the fact remains, if i find 2 chicks willing to do that, obviously, neither one really cares about me. no woman who loves you would want to watch you bang another chick and share pussy juice with the girl. and if one of these women DID happen to be a serious girlfreind and allow this to happen, thats a pretty good indication that shes got her own shit going on on the side...probably fucking 2 of your best guy freinds at the same time.
just my $0.02
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Originally posted by jimcol711
chicks that get double stuffed have some self-esteem issues. id never want to be with a girl that had done that in her past. if i found out, id dump her on the spot, even if i was in love with her. to think she had no concern or respect for herself and would allow 2 dudes who obviously didnt even really care about her do that to her would crush me forever. lets face it, any guys that double stuff a girl dont give a shit about her, shes nothing but a fuck toy. you dont double stuff a woman you love with another guy. no offense toward anyone, thats just pretty dirty in my opinion. and no i dont have a double standard as in "oh if you had the chance to bone 2 chicks at the same time, youd do it" because while the prospect of such a thing sounds really exciting. the fact remains, if i find 2 chicks willing to do that, obviously, neither one really cares about me. no woman who loves you would want to watch you bang another chick and share pussy juice with the girl. and if one of these women DID happen to be a serious girlfreind and allow this to happen, thats a pretty good indication that shes got her own shit going on on the side...probably fucking 2 of your best guy freinds at the same time.
chicks that get double stuffed have some self-esteem issues. id never want to be with a girl that had done that in her past. if i found out, id dump her on the spot, even if i was in love with her. to think she had no concern or respect for herself and would allow 2 dudes who obviously didnt even really care about her do that to her would crush me forever. lets face it, any guys that double stuff a girl dont give a shit about her, shes nothing but a fuck toy. you dont double stuff a woman you love with another guy. no offense toward anyone, thats just pretty dirty in my opinion. and no i dont have a double standard as in "oh if you had the chance to bone 2 chicks at the same time, youd do it" because while the prospect of such a thing sounds really exciting. the fact remains, if i find 2 chicks willing to do that, obviously, neither one really cares about me. no woman who loves you would want to watch you bang another chick and share pussy juice with the girl. and if one of these women DID happen to be a serious girlfreind and allow this to happen, thats a pretty good indication that shes got her own shit going on on the side...probably fucking 2 of your best guy freinds at the same time.
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
so if you had 2 girls at one time, would you think it fair for your gf to dump you if she found out?
so if you had 2 girls at one time, would you think it fair for your gf to dump you if she found out?
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ok as long as you hold the same standards for yourself.
I was just making sure you werent one of those guys that thought it was ok to have sex with 2 girls, but if the girl has sex with 2 guys it makes her a whore.
I was just making sure you werent one of those guys that thought it was ok to have sex with 2 girls, but if the girl has sex with 2 guys it makes her a whore.
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
ok as long as you hold the same standards for yourself.
I was just making sure you werent one of those guys that thought it was ok to have sex with 2 girls, but if the girl has sex with 2 guys it makes her a whore.
ok as long as you hold the same standards for yourself.
I was just making sure you werent one of those guys that thought it was ok to have sex with 2 girls, but if the girl has sex with 2 guys it makes her a whore.
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that is true.
while ive always wondered what it was like, whether id actually do it is another.
my one man keeps me pretty busy anyway. i dont think i need another lol.
while ive always wondered what it was like, whether id actually do it is another.
my one man keeps me pretty busy anyway. i dont think i need another lol.
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
that is true.
while ive always wondered what it was like, whether id actually do it is another.
my one man keeps me pretty busy anyway. i dont think i need another lol.
that is true.
while ive always wondered what it was like, whether id actually do it is another.
my one man keeps me pretty busy anyway. i dont think i need another lol.
exactly, i mean of course, it makes for an interesting and exciting fantasy, but when it comes time to actually think about doing it in the context of real life, there are soooo many other factors involved that i, personally, just cant ignore or shut out.
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Originally posted by eclipse23
Jim the fucking Puritan.
Jim the fucking Puritan.
im not gonna sit here and say ive never done anything morally questionable, nor will i say that i dont continue to do things that may not be widely acceptable (not relating to sex) but yeah, i have pretty high standards as far as this this is concerned and i hold my woman to the same standards and if i were single i would seek a woman of the same standards.
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Originally posted by jimcol711
chicks that get double stuffed have some self-esteem issues. id never want to be with a girl that had done that in her past. if i found out, id dump her on the spot, even if i was in love with her. to think she had no concern or respect for herself and would allow 2 dudes who obviously didnt even really care about her do that to her would crush me forever. lets face it, any guys that double stuff a girl dont give a shit about her, shes nothing but a fuck toy.
chicks that get double stuffed have some self-esteem issues. id never want to be with a girl that had done that in her past. if i found out, id dump her on the spot, even if i was in love with her. to think she had no concern or respect for herself and would allow 2 dudes who obviously didnt even really care about her do that to her would crush me forever. lets face it, any guys that double stuff a girl dont give a shit about her, shes nothing but a fuck toy.
i've slept with 3 guys in my entire life... and like i said before, i didn't start until i was 21. i set very high ethical standards for myself, and as i also said earlier, my first experience was not something i would ever repeat. there's many reasons for that, but mostly it's the fact that i think sex is meant to be a much more intimate kinda thing than most people treat it as in our culture.
if you honestly think that no girl who has had a lapse of judgement in her life is worthy of you, i think that makes you a bit of an arrogant asshole.
and please stop to consider your audience (and how ignorant and judgemental it makes you sound) before you start making ridiculous generalizations and throwing around cute little labels like "fuck toy".
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Originally posted by mesmerize
if you honestly think that no girl who has had a lapse of judgement in her life is worthy of you, i think that makes you a bit of an arrogant asshole.
and please stop to consider your audience (and how ignorant and judgemental it makes you sound) before you start making ridiculous generalizations and throwing around cute little labels like "fuck toy".
~sara~
if you honestly think that no girl who has had a lapse of judgement in her life is worthy of you, i think that makes you a bit of an arrogant asshole.
and please stop to consider your audience (and how ignorant and judgemental it makes you sound) before you start making ridiculous generalizations and throwing around cute little labels like "fuck toy".
~sara~
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Originally posted by jimcol711
those memories stay with a person for ever, those curiousities never go away. you will remember what you did, in vivid detail, till the day you die, and it would hurt me to be your boyfreind or husband and know that you allowed yourself to be treated that way or quite possibly, look back on it in enjoyment and fantasize about a similar situation.
those memories stay with a person for ever, those curiousities never go away. you will remember what you did, in vivid detail, till the day you die, and it would hurt me to be your boyfreind or husband and know that you allowed yourself to be treated that way or quite possibly, look back on it in enjoyment and fantasize about a similar situation.
~sara~
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Originally posted by mesmerize
what the hell?? i don't think that's even worthy of a comment. and yes i still take offense to what you said (obviously), but i don't have the time or inclination to argue with people like you. it's completely pointless.
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what the hell?? i don't think that's even worthy of a comment. and yes i still take offense to what you said (obviously), but i don't have the time or inclination to argue with people like you. it's completely pointless.
~sara~
thats fine. you beleive what you beleive, i beleive what i beleive, we are obviously looking at this from 2 VERY different sides of the coin. again, im sorry if i offended you but i cant say im surprised and i may have used some terms that i couldve refrained from but at its core, my thoughts and beleifs about this are no different and will never change.
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Originally posted by jimcol711
thats fine. you beleive what you beleive, i beleive what i beleive, we are obviously looking at this from 2 VERY different sides of the coin. again, im sorry if i offended you but i cant say im surprised and i may have used some terms that i couldve refrained from but at its core, my thoughts and beleifs about this are no different and will never change.
thats fine. you beleive what you beleive, i beleive what i beleive, we are obviously looking at this from 2 VERY different sides of the coin. again, im sorry if i offended you but i cant say im surprised and i may have used some terms that i couldve refrained from but at its core, my thoughts and beleifs about this are no different and will never change.
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Jim I have to say i think you explained yourself very well. I think sara would probably take that experience back if she could but she can't and i don't think anyone should hold it against her that she did it or against jim for feeling as he would. I would probably say i would feel the same if the girl i loved did the same
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Originally posted by eclipse23
Although you will refute this, it's your insecurities that partially drive you to feel this way.
Although you will refute this, it's your insecurities that partially drive you to feel this way.
honestly, i wont refute that insecurity plays a role in it, however not a majority role and definately not nearly the role that my standards and my beliefs play in this.
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Just my please don't take it too personally.
I'm with you Jim. True, people do make bad desisions or mistakes, but does it mean they have the right to go do whatever they want to do and regret what they did later.
I'm with you Jim. True, people do make bad desisions or mistakes, but does it mean they have the right to go do whatever they want to do and regret what they did later.
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Originally posted by CCType-S
Just my please don't take it too personally.
I'm with you Jim. True, people do make bad desisions or mistakes, but does it mean they have the right to go do whatever they want to do and regret what they did later.
Just my please don't take it too personally.
I'm with you Jim. True, people do make bad desisions or mistakes, but does it mean they have the right to go do whatever they want to do and regret what they did later.
agreed, there has to be some thought process...SOMETHING that tells you certain things are simply wrong or not a good idea. you need to have the capacity to think such situations through to that point and understand and something you are about to do is something that you are going to regret later. and if that is the case, then why do it in the first place???? this thought process is someting that certian people are good at and certain people arent. simple as that. and it doesnt have to be about sex. it could be about jacking a car or hitting a crack pipe or getting into a fist fight, anything. i simply choose to open my heart to a woman who has the capacity to think situations through and keep herself from doing things she will horribly regret, in her past, present, and future.
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Originally posted by CCType-S
Just my please don't take it too personally.
I'm with you Jim. True, people do make bad desisions or mistakes, but does it mean they have the right to go do whatever they want to do and regret what they did later.
Just my please don't take it too personally.
I'm with you Jim. True, people do make bad desisions or mistakes, but does it mean they have the right to go do whatever they want to do and regret what they did later.
and how am i not supposed to take this personally...? i have people who don't even know me questioning my morals and calling me a f*ck toy. i think that's a lil messed up.
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Originally posted by mesmerize
OH my goodness, are you people even reading what i posted?? the whole point is LEARNING FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND NOT REPEATING THEM. that's LIFE kids. EVERYONE makes mistakes, sexually or otherwise, at some point in their lives. the key is how you use the knowledge and experience you gain from making those mistakes.
and how am i not supposed to take this personally...? i have people who don't even know me questioning my morals and calling me a f*ck toy. i think that's a lil messed up.
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OH my goodness, are you people even reading what i posted?? the whole point is LEARNING FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND NOT REPEATING THEM. that's LIFE kids. EVERYONE makes mistakes, sexually or otherwise, at some point in their lives. the key is how you use the knowledge and experience you gain from making those mistakes.
and how am i not supposed to take this personally...? i have people who don't even know me questioning my morals and calling me a f*ck toy. i think that's a lil messed up.
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i'm done here... i know you guys are gonna post more stuff about my misguidedness and your righteousness, but i really can't take any more of it. you're saying some very hurtful things, and this is not the kind of attitude i ever thought i'd encounter on a place like ACL from people who don't even know me.
it's been fun, but i don't need shit like this bringin me down.
bye,
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p.s. - thanx eclipse, i appreciate that
it's been fun, but i don't need shit like this bringin me down.
bye,
~sara~
p.s. - thanx eclipse, i appreciate that
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Originally posted by mesmerize
i'm done here... i know you guys are gonna post more stuff about my misguidedness and your righteousness, but i really can't take any more of it. you're saying some very hurtful things, and this is not the kind of attitude i ever thought i'd encounter on a place like ACL from people who don't even know me.
it's been fun, but i don't need shit like this bringin me down.
bye,
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i'm done here... i know you guys are gonna post more stuff about my misguidedness and your righteousness, but i really can't take any more of it. you're saying some very hurtful things, and this is not the kind of attitude i ever thought i'd encounter on a place like ACL from people who don't even know me.
it's been fun, but i don't need shit like this bringin me down.
bye,
~sara~
p.s. - thanx eclipse, i appreciate that
Jimcol... Your opinion is strictly your opinion, but I do not agree with a single word you say (thats my opinion!) I think your ways are corrupt and twisted... I bet you do not hold that same standard for yourself!!! You say you do, you think you do, but i think if you look back you dont!!! and yes now I am passing judgment on you.. so take it like you will...
now anyway... lets all get off of Sara (yet again no pun intended!) and move on....
WHO'S NEXT!?!?!!?!!
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shit.. if i knew in HS what i know now... HS would have been sooo much more fun!!!!
although Id probably have a few kids and an STD...lmao
shit.. if i knew in HS what i know now... HS would have been sooo much more fun!!!!
although Id probably have a few kids and an STD...lmao
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Originally posted by mesmerize
i'm done here... i know you guys are gonna post more stuff about my misguidedness and your righteousness, but i really can't take any more of it. you're saying some very hurtful things, and this is not the kind of attitude i ever thought i'd encounter on a place like ACL from people who don't even know me.
it's been fun, but i don't need shit like this bringin me down.
bye,
~sara~
p.s. - thanx eclipse, i appreciate that
i'm done here... i know you guys are gonna post more stuff about my misguidedness and your righteousness, but i really can't take any more of it. you're saying some very hurtful things, and this is not the kind of attitude i ever thought i'd encounter on a place like ACL from people who don't even know me.
it's been fun, but i don't need shit like this bringin me down.
bye,
~sara~
p.s. - thanx eclipse, i appreciate that
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Originally posted by mesmerize
OH my goodness, are you people even reading what i posted?? the whole point is LEARNING FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND NOT REPEATING THEM. that's LIFE kids. EVERYONE makes mistakes, sexually or otherwise, at some point in their lives. the key is how you use the knowledge and experience you gain from making those mistakes.
and how am i not supposed to take this personally...? i have people who don't even know me questioning my morals and calling me a f*ck toy. i think that's a lil messed up.
~sara~
OH my goodness, are you people even reading what i posted?? the whole point is LEARNING FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND NOT REPEATING THEM. that's LIFE kids. EVERYONE makes mistakes, sexually or otherwise, at some point in their lives. the key is how you use the knowledge and experience you gain from making those mistakes.
and how am i not supposed to take this personally...? i have people who don't even know me questioning my morals and calling me a f*ck toy. i think that's a lil messed up.
~sara~
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no, thats not me. i may fall in the minority here but i really care more about being with an honest woman who i can trust completely and who doesnt have dirty dark skelotons in her closet than finding the hottest chick that wants to fuck everyday and is a sex machine.
no, thats not me. i may fall in the minority here but i really care more about being with an honest woman who i can trust completely and who doesnt have dirty dark skelotons in her closet than finding the hottest chick that wants to fuck everyday and is a sex machine.
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
you can have kinky sex in a one on one relationship
you can have kinky sex in a one on one relationship
EXACTLY. im all for gettin down and dirty.....BUT i do it with the girl i love, the girl who loves me, the person who respects me and whom i respect.