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Old 01-04-2006, 09:05 PM
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Was this supposed to be relevant?

Edit: nm, i just noticed the white text


somehow you still missed it
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Old 01-04-2006, 11:06 PM
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Good luck, hope things work out for you.
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Old 01-04-2006, 11:26 PM
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goooooood luck man, that can make things so damn complicated, no advice here, just best wishes
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Old 01-05-2006, 01:08 AM
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pick a category

friends

or

more


thats all there is to it. cuz if you pick more, you wont be friends again. thats all the advice i got. take 1 sec and think with your brain too not just your other "head" and decide if its worth it
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Old 01-05-2006, 02:01 AM
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She's playing games with you. Just play it cool. She's playing "hard to get." Don't act desperate or needy.
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Old 01-05-2006, 03:02 AM
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oh, that wont work, women know we're desperate. I mean, come on, who doesnt wanna get laid?




i wonder kinda comments that'll get?
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Old 01-05-2006, 10:01 AM
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you guys are awesome. i appreciate all of this input.
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Old 01-05-2006, 11:12 AM
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ok, so we're going out sat night. wish me luck!
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Old 01-05-2006, 11:13 AM
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Old 01-05-2006, 11:41 AM
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ok, so we're going out sat night. wish me luck!
Good luck and keep the butt hole tight
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Old 01-05-2006, 12:30 PM
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Just reassure her that no matter what might happen your friendship always cums first, or sometimes not at all!
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Old 01-05-2006, 12:47 PM
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Good luck and keep the butt hole tight
um, thanks?
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Old 01-05-2006, 03:59 PM
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Just reassure her that no matter what might happen your friend always cums first, or sometimes not at all!

Fixed.
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Old 01-08-2006, 06:24 PM
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There's goes a friendship.
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Old 01-08-2006, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted by ccarbajal08
There's goes a friendship.



it went that bad, huh?
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Old 01-08-2006, 06:48 PM
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this thread is funny


oops sorry, what happened?
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Old 01-08-2006, 07:26 PM
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do we get an explanation?
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Old 01-08-2006, 07:45 PM
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Originally Posted by ccarbajal08
There's goes a friendship.
So you scored then? Or, it went to shit in a hurry. Elaborate please.
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Old 01-08-2006, 08:51 PM
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See dude when you meet a girl and just want to be friends first it never works next time go for a girl you want to date not a friend.
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Old 01-08-2006, 11:01 PM
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Apparently, she's been into me for the past few months. Finally, she kissed me and was excited about it. However, just this week (of all weeks) she meets someone better? Haha! I took her out to dinner and was a complete bitch to me--didn't even treat me like a friend. I was willing to be friendly. She wasn't.
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Old 01-08-2006, 11:15 PM
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Old 01-09-2006, 12:19 AM
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should've fucked her the day she kissed you and she'd be all over you now.
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Old 01-09-2006, 02:59 AM
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friendship gone, oh well
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Old 01-09-2006, 03:00 AM
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fuck that, if shes going to act like that then your better off without her, you dont need people in your life that are bringing you down, and her finding someone better that quickly? highly doubtful
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Old 01-09-2006, 07:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Teh Jatt
should've fucked her the day she kissed you and she'd be all over you now.

Just sounds funny when you say it
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Old 01-09-2006, 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted by ccarbajal08
Apparently, she's been into me for the past few months. Finally, she kissed me and was excited about it. However, just this week (of all weeks) she meets someone better? Haha! I took her out to dinner and was a complete bitch to me--didn't even treat me like a friend. I was willing to be friendly. She wasn't.
What a bitch.

Never, ever, talk to her again.
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Old 01-09-2006, 09:42 AM
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At least you had the balls to find out instead of playing the "what if" game.

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thanks everyone for your support. not all that sad since she wasn't so nice. i don't need friends like that. never seen that side of her.
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At least you had the balls to find out instead of playing the "what if" game.

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exactly. after i dropped her off, i went to hang out with hotter chicks anyway.
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Damn what a bitch. O well thers millions of girls out there what made her so special?
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Old 01-09-2006, 11:07 AM
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i came home to a message from her saying "you left without giving me a hug" and IMs saying "i'm sorry." i haven't called/IMed back. what should i do with that? my natural feeling is to not respond and move on.
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Old 01-09-2006, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted by ccarbajal08
i came home to a message from her saying "you left without giving me a hug" and IMs saying "i'm sorry." i haven't called/IMed back. what should i do with that? my natural feeling is to not respond and move on.



she blew her chance. I bet she is going to try and play it off though and act as if you two are still good friends.




quite the pickle of a situation
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Just sounds funny when you say it
I learned my lesson foo... so shut up.
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Originally Posted by ccarbajal08
i came home to a message from her saying "you left without giving me a hug" and IMs saying "i'm sorry." i haven't called/IMed back. what should i do with that? my natural feeling is to not respond and move on.
Ignore her and move on.

If she ever confronts you face to face, tell her that she was a total bitch, and to get the fuck out of your life.
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Old 01-09-2006, 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted by ccarbajal08
i came home to a message from her saying "you left without giving me a hug" and IMs saying "i'm sorry." i haven't called/IMed back. what should i do with that? my natural feeling is to not respond and move on.
Do not respond and don't make it easy for her to confront you. There really is no excuse for what she did. If she is really sorry, she will go out of her way to try and make things right. You need to decide now if there is anything she can say or do to fix things. If she doesn't give you everything you need (and maybe a few things you just want ), kick her to the curb and don't turn back.
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Yikes, sounds like she realized you could be her backup guy in case the othe guy didnt work.
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Old 01-09-2006, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
Yikes, sounds like she realized you could be her backup guy in case the othe guy didnt work.
that's what her friends actually told me. if she was a true player, she could have kept him and me. i would have been fine with that. she's keeping all of her eggs in one basket.
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Originally Posted by ccarbajal08
that's what her friends actually told me. if she was a true player, she could have kept him and me. i would have been fine with that. she's keeping all of her eggs in one basket.

don't sell yourself short
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that's what her friends actually told me. if she was a true player, she could have kept him and me. i would have been fine with that. she's keeping all of her eggs in one basket.

HOLY SHIT! AMOEBA?
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