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Old 09-26-2005, 08:40 AM
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I Need A Quick Opinion For My Dumb Ass Cuz

MY COUSIN JUST TURNED 18 sorry for the caps, and he met this chick, I gotta admit she's Fine! Until i found out how old she was......

Body is mature, attitude is mature, she looks and acts like a grown ass female, Hell, Im 21 and she acts more mature and looks older than me!

anyway my cousin wants to smash and i keep telling him dont do it dont do it, thats jailbait,


I'm at work right now, but she's skipping school today and my cousin is suppsosed to be at work at 10:30, its now 9:38am Am I taking this too hard. should he not Bang this chick who is 3 years younger than he is? I dont know, but for some reason I just dont want him to but he is really tryin to smash this chick.


I NEED OPINIONS AND PRETTY QUICK!!
Old 09-26-2005, 08:43 AM
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If she is white, don't do it or he'll get locked up
Old 09-26-2005, 08:48 AM
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Thats a damn shame too, she is white. but do you really think so? she fucks with older dudes she just got outta 6 month relation ship with a 22 year old. so I dunno. I've met the guy before, but i thought they were friends, until she told me.
Old 09-26-2005, 08:57 AM
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Whoa what the fuck....a 15yo dating a 22yo? That's a lil much...did you just hear this from her or from him too? I'd almost call unless the guy is just stupid.
Old 09-26-2005, 09:02 AM
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no your cousin is a scumbag creep if he does...

older guys like that with younger women...always makes me wonder what's wrong with them and why no one their own age wants them...
Old 09-26-2005, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted by Andrea25
no your cousin is a scumbag creep if he does...

older guys like that with younger women...always makes me wonder what's wrong with them and why no one their own age wants them...
Looks like someone got fucked by an 18yr old when she was 13

Yeah dont let him do it, especially if she is of the caucasion persuasion, if he is caught the judge will throw the book at him.
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My vote is NO!
Old 09-26-2005, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted by proaudio22
Whoa what the fuck....a 15yo dating a 22yo? That's a lil much...did you just hear this from her or from him too? I'd almost call unless the guy is just stupid.

Ive always seen them two together, but the girl told me they were dating. she told me he took her virginity, and that was her first love, if thats what she calls love, well i did talk to my cousin, he went to work, but still 10 minutes is enough time for some people to do damage anyway, so ill ask if he did it. I had to ask casue even tho he is 18 and she is 15 theres not TOO BIG of an age difference, Hell my last girlfriend is 25, and i just turned 21 so I had to ask.....
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
My vote is NO!
Old 09-26-2005, 12:11 PM
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18 - 15 isnt THAT bad. thats like a senior in high school dating a freshman in high school...
Old 09-26-2005, 12:32 PM
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18 is over the age limit, 15 is too young!

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Old 09-26-2005, 12:58 PM
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No. A young man doesn't go cruising the high schools for tang.

Plus there's the whole statuatory rape thing.
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Originally Posted by JesusJuice
Looks like someone got fucked by an 18yr old when she was 13

Yeah dont let him do it, especially if she is of the caucasion persuasion, if he is caught the judge will throw the book at him.

ok, I can let the first one slide, as maybe being a joke, but this second one is blatantly racist, and I insist that you make a public apology to me, the people in this post, and the entire Acurazine forum for your comments.
Old 09-26-2005, 03:30 PM
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i wasn't "fucking" when i was 13, ...

i'm a good girl

Old 09-26-2005, 03:32 PM
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I guess I'm the only one who thinks it's not a big deal...
Old 09-26-2005, 03:49 PM
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If she has pubes then it's fair game. Smash on!!
Old 09-26-2005, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Andrea25
i wasn't "fucking" when i was 13, ...

i'm a good girl























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Originally Posted by gary_william
ok, I can let the first one slide, as maybe being a joke, but this second one is blatantly racist, and I insist that you make a public apology to me, the people in this post, and the entire Acurazine forum for your comments.

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh NOPE
It's true, want some proof of black men having sex with white women and getting harsher sentences then with women of other races?
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Originally Posted by gary_william
ok, I can let the first one slide, as maybe being a joke, but this second one is blatantly racist, and I insist that you make a public apology to me, the people in this post, and the entire Acurazine forum for your comments.


Dude, its JesusJuice! He's allowed to say shit like that.
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" A lady reveals nothing"



LOL
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Originally Posted by Andrea25
" A lady reveals nothing"



LOL
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Old 09-26-2005, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Andrea25
" A lady reveals nothing"



LOL

So you are gonna tell us everything then right?

j/k!
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Dude, its JesusJuice! He's allowed to say shit like that.
why is that?
Old 09-26-2005, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted by jlukja
why is that?
Same reason AD is allowed to take a picture of a 12 year old girl and say "Hmm.. I wonder if she's available"
Old 09-26-2005, 11:04 PM
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make sure he has a way to blackmale her in case something comes up
Old 09-27-2005, 08:09 AM
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Originally Posted by VITEK
Ive always seen them two together, but the girl told me they were dating. she told me he took her virginity, and that was her first love, if thats what she calls love, well i did talk to my cousin, he went to work, but still 10 minutes is enough time for some people to do damage anyway, so ill ask if he did it. I had to ask casue even tho he is 18 and she is 15 theres not TOO BIG of an age difference, Hell my last girlfriend is 25, and i just turned 21 so I had to ask.....


Im tryin to be reasonable for this boy, and I keep thinking of things to make it not seem so bad because he is my family.. This is really weird, I have a Brother, and he is 16, He'll be 17 on the 24th of november, His girlfriend is 19 and her b-day is somethime in december but they are doin everything a normal couple would do.
Like I started this post to ask opinions with the assumption in my mind that yeah, thats not so bad, i dont think he should do it, but its not so bad. The more I See responses from you guys, I think Damn What teh Fuck is my cousin doing, but when I think about it again Im like well he can do his thing. I dont know, well im glad i got people that are sure on their opinions about this, because if it were me having to judge it, i would have no idea.
Old 09-27-2005, 08:55 AM
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I have a friend who was in an eerily similar situation. He was 18 and she was a very “mature” 14. He got a 10 year probated sentence with several stipulations. A few years into the probation, he ended up violating his probation and was sent off to prison. He is STILL behind bars today serving out the remainder of his 10 years in prison.

It is NOT worth it for any reason. I cannot see any tail being worth losing my freedom.

Tell your cousin to just say
Old 09-27-2005, 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted by gsclifton
I have a friend who was in an eerily similar situation. He was 18 and she was a very “mature” 14. He got a 10 year probated sentence with several stipulations. A few years into the probation, he ended up violating his probation and was sent off to prison. He is STILL behind bars today serving out the remainder of his 10 years in prison.

It is NOT worth it for any reason. I cannot see any tail being worth losing my freedom.

Tell your cousin to just say
The fact they would give a guy 10 years for that is insane. I say unless she was really raped as in he forced her to do it then he should have only gotten a slap on the wrist.
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Originally Posted by JesusJuice
The fact they would give a guy 10 years for that is insane. I say unless she was really raped as in he forced her to do it then he should have only gotten a slap on the wrist.
I tend to agree with you somewhat.

There was nothing forced about the situation. However, the bottom line is that Texas law stated that the girl (who was 14) does have the right to decide one way or the other, meaning she cannot legally give consent. That is the law. Some can argue for and others can argue against, but at the end of the day, that is what is written in the books and decided in court.

His slap on the wrist was 10 years probation. He violated some of the stipulations in the probation, and the judge revoked the probation. Thus, he was sent to prison.
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get her parents to sign a consent form
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Originally Posted by gsclifton
I tend to agree with you somewhat.

There was nothing forced about the situation. However, the bottom line is that Texas law stated that the girl (who was 14) does have the right to decide one way or the other, meaning she cannot legally give consent. That is the law. Some can argue for and others can argue against, but at the end of the day, that is what is written in the books and decided in court.

His slap on the wrist was 10 years probation. He violated some of the stipulations in the probation, and the judge revoked the probation. Thus, he was sent to prison.
damn...

i'm assuming friends began talking, and word-of-mouth eventually got out to local law enforcement?

it does sounds harsh. but, if that girl was my daughter, i would think the sentence wasn't hard enough. all about perspectives...
Old 09-27-2005, 10:29 AM
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i agree wit JJ. BADDDDDDDDD ideaaa
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So, did your cousin go for it, or he decided that the possibility of ass rape in prison was enough for him to keep his dick in his pants?
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Originally Posted by afici0nad0
damn...

i'm assuming friends began talking, and word-of-mouth eventually got out to local law enforcement?

it does sounds harsh. but, if that girl was my daughter, i would think the sentence wasn't hard enough. all about perspectives...
Actually, he violated 2 of his probabtion stipulations.

ONE - Follow ALL Laws
He got 3 speeding tickets. Even though he took care of them, that was not following the law.

TWO - Attend weekly Sexual Predator Meetings
This was the stickler. He did not rape this girl in his mind but he was in a class with people who had assaulted children, I mean like under 10 years old. He did not look at his situation as a rape of a child, even though the law does. Like I said, people can argue both ways .....

I do not have children yet. So, it is hard to say how I would react if I found out my 14 year old daughter was getting plowed by an 18 yeard old HS senior or someone older. I know what the law says, but not sure it performs in the modern era of today.
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Originally Posted by gsclifton
Actually, he violated 2 of his probabtion stipulations.

ONE - Follow ALL Laws
He got 3 speeding tickets. Even though he took care of them, that was not following the law.

TWO - Attend weekly Sexual Predator Meetings
This was the stickler. He did not rape this girl in his mind but he was in a class with people who had assaulted children, I mean like under 10 years old. He did not look at his situation as a rape of a child, even though the law does. Like I said, people can argue both ways .....

I do not have children yet. So, it is hard to say how I would react if I found out my 14 year old daughter was getting plowed by an 18 yeard old HS senior or someone older. I know what the law says, but not sure it performs in the modern era of today.
Harsh reality of life: The law is the law, if it is broken, a penalty is paid. It is immaterial if the law is good or bad, it is the law. If it is bad, then work to have it changed, until it is, either abide by it, or accept the consequences of breaking it.

That being said, do I agree that he was punished appropriately, No.
Do I think an 18 year old guy should have sex with a 15 year old girl, No. At that age three years difference is HUGE on many levels, emotionally most of all.
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
So, did your cousin go for it, or he decided that the possibility of ass rape in prison was enough for him to keep his dick in his pants?
Yeah, what happened?

Hopefully he followed the wise words of Sheriff Buford T. Justice ... "You can think about it, but don't do it"



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Originally Posted by gsclifton
Actually, he violated 2 of his probabtion stipulations.

ONE - Follow ALL Laws
He got 3 speeding tickets. Even though he took care of them, that was not following the law.

TWO - Attend weekly Sexual Predator Meetings
This was the stickler. He did not rape this girl in his mind but he was in a class with people who had assaulted children, I mean like under 10 years old. He did not look at his situation as a rape of a child, even though the law does. Like I said, people can argue both ways .....

I do not have children yet. So, it is hard to say how I would react if I found out my 14 year old daughter was getting plowed by an 18 yeard old HS senior or someone older. I know what the law says, but not sure it performs in the modern era of today.
so, assuming your friend complied with condition 2, he got screwed from condition 1.

ya, i think i would feel pretty weird going to those meetings, if i were charged with statutory rape at age 18, even though it was all consensual and we were "in love."

but, gotta take care of business. at 18, most will treat you as an adult, and that means for both better or worse...
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Louisiana used to have on their books that the age of consent varies upon the conditions; 14 years old if she was in her primary residence, 15 if she was in the boyfriend's primary residence, and 16 if they were out parking in the woods, or in a hotel, etc. Anyone know if that is still the case there?
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Originally Posted by gsclifton
Actually, he violated 2 of his probabtion stipulations.

ONE - Follow ALL Laws
He got 3 speeding tickets. Even though he took care of them, that was not following the law.

TWO - Attend weekly Sexual Predator Meetings
This was the stickler. He did not rape this girl in his mind but he was in a class with people who had assaulted children, I mean like under 10 years old. He did not look at his situation as a rape of a child, even though the law does. Like I said, people can argue both ways .....

I do not have children yet. So, it is hard to say how I would react if I found out my 14 year old daughter was getting plowed by an 18 yeard old HS senior or someone older. I know what the law says, but not sure it performs in the modern era of today.


Right, this is what im saying. I feel this way, however, I know the law. but the law says we have to pay tax and if we dont the IRS is commin for that ass. but some of us do things some dont. Just like my situation, My last girlfriend was four, damn near 5 years older than me and we get it in, we were serious. but there is no problem there, I'm trying to view this from both sides cause I know there is not only 2 sides. there are Psychologically many of them. and I am trying to be as understanding from all sides, however I still have my own opinions. Thats why im asking you guys.


BTW as far as i know he didnt smash yet, but they are still talking.
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Your cousin is an idiot and truthfully if he is considering this it's because he can't get a chick his own age. As in your case, you were 20 and she was 25 (something like that don't feel like reading back) I was in the same situation where the girl was 25 and I was 18. I knew girl was a mess and all though we never smashed the fact she was fine hanging out with an 18 yr old meant something was up. There was something up, found out she just got out of a 7 year relationship and was going on a fuckfest and still ended up with some loser...issues mayne.


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