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Old 06-30-2006 | 03:50 PM
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Originally Posted by phipark
You wouldn't have a problem dating someone that couldn't go to a bar with you and your friends? I know I couldn't.

Fake IDs are a wonderful thing. This girl I was talking to was 19 at the time and had her sister's ID, they looked very alike, so it wasn't a problem.
Old 06-30-2006 | 04:09 PM
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...there's this 16 year old girl at the Starbucks I go to everyday... (multiple times/day, cause it's right around the corner from where I live), that flirts with me shamelessly... on one hand... I know it's wrong to "go there", but on the other hand (literally) I'll admit I've "fantasized" about her a time or two...

...shit, some of the stuff she says to me... just gives me hard-ons (of course, it's only when no other customers or employees are around)
Old 06-30-2006 | 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted by CUNextTuesday
Say what you will, but I can't get over how hot some way too young girls are...I'm only 19, but some of my friends' younger sisters just make you go wow...

"The best thing about high school girls is I keep getting older and they stay the same age."

So...what is too young?
if you need to ask. they're probably too young.
Old 07-01-2006 | 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
Fake IDs are a wonderful thing. This girl I was talking to was 19 at the time and had her sister's ID, they looked very alike, so it wasn't a problem.
A lot of bars I go to are 18 for girls, 21 for guys.
Old 07-01-2006 | 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by phipark
You wouldn't have a problem dating someone that couldn't go to a bar with you and your friends? I know I couldn't.
NOt a biggie, I liek to meet new broads at the bar, isn't that the purpose?
Old 07-02-2006 | 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted by phipark
For dating, 22-23, must be a college graduate.
The base minimums aren't enough, but that's a start for you.
Old 07-02-2006 | 08:37 PM
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"Old enough to crawl, she's assuming the position."
Old 07-02-2006 | 08:48 PM
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I think it all depends on who you are and who they are. I have a friend who is 20 and is dating a 28 yr old guy. Now I know my friend and she has never had any bills, is in college, still watches cartoons. I couldn't see myself being a 28 year old man and taking her seriously, I barely take her seriously and I am 22.

So I think it goes into who that person is. A 20 year old chick with her own apartment, working full time and going to school full time and still doing good in school is going to act totally different from a 20 year old who works 13 hours a week at the mall and parties and is constantly on campus doing party stuff.

So I go by that, when it comes to 18 and up. I have only dated one person noticably younger and that was my first real girlfriend who was 2 years younger. I prefer them my age or older but then again not much older because I am a student student, I don't work and I live at home so I don't think it would work out with a 25 year old chick working and been on her own for 3 years.
Old 07-02-2006 | 10:17 PM
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Don't do anything that will get you on a sex offenders list. Being hated by the neighborhood is not worth some tight pussy.
Old 07-02-2006 | 10:25 PM
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Don't do anything that will get you on a sex offenders list. Being hated by the neighborhood is not worth some tight pussy.
but for some tight anal...
Old 07-02-2006 | 11:57 PM
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Depends on what they look like....You can definitely tell whose young by what they wear. I agree that 22 is young enough for someone like myself. But when you're 19...you should hook up with some older chicks...they can be your sugga mama.
Old 07-03-2006 | 12:11 AM
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JJ's comments are apropros regardless of age of male and age of female.
Old 07-03-2006 | 05:55 AM
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if there's grass on the field.........
Old 07-03-2006 | 08:12 AM
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Im 19, I think 17 is fair game but 16 is too young. But I think my maturity (or lack there of) means I could do 16 if I was in a sick mood
Old 07-03-2006 | 08:17 AM
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When the girl is young enough to be my daughter, then that's too young

Shit, I've got neices that are 16 now...

But, for a 19 y/o, I guess fair game would be anything in high school... under 16, you might run the risk of legal issues (varies from state to state).
Old 07-03-2006 | 10:04 AM
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You remind me of one of my friend when he was 20. He'd hit on girls that were 16-17 every single weekend and eventually "sleep" with one of them.

It was disgusting.
Old 07-03-2006 | 10:35 AM
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for older guys who date younger women how does it go with your friends. I mean if you are 40 can you bring a 20 year old anywhere? I understand fucking a 20 year old, that's awesome, but having a serious relationship with a chick fresh out of high school isn't that a bit awkward?
Old 07-03-2006 | 08:28 PM
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Originally Posted by CUNextTuesday

"The best thing about high school girls is I keep getting older and they stay the same age."

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Old 07-04-2006 | 12:39 AM
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Originally Posted by dallison
if there's grass on the field.........
Damnit so tru. Who cares do you really get into trouble if you have sex with someone thats younger then 18? Im sure there are plenty of ppl who fuck girls that are under 18 and i never hear anything about it.
Old 07-04-2006 | 02:56 AM
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Originally Posted by dallison
if there's grass on the field.........
if not, turn her around and play in the mud
Old 07-04-2006 | 05:15 AM
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here is what I think 18-19....the youngest that is acceptable would be 17. 20 and up it has to be 18 +. Personally last year I was messing with a 18yo that had a gorgous figure...didnt connect with her emotionally, but physically that was some good stuff. However if I want something more that sex the female would have to be 21 + at this point, a difference of 5yr or less isnt bad.
Old 07-04-2006 | 06:58 AM
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Damnit so tru. Who cares do you really get into trouble if you have sex with someone thats younger then 18? Im sure there are plenty of ppl who fuck girls that are under 18 and i never hear anything about it.
I have known or heard of at least 5 guys who are on sexual offenders list for fucking 14-16 year olds.
Old 07-04-2006 | 10:01 AM
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90% of the time, guys that like "young" girls, just like these girls b/c they are too naive to know what scumbags these kinda guys are IMO
Old 07-04-2006 | 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Andrea25
90% of the time, guys that like "young" girls, just like these girls b/c they are too naive to know what scumbags these kinda guys are IMO
I agree with that, and add that they think the girls are hot too.

Me, I wouldn't date anyone under 19 or 20. I've tried stuff with a 16 year old when I was 19 and things weren't great. Relationship was garbage, sex was less than good. I ended up leaving after 2 weeks.

In summation, they have to be in the same "stage of life" kinda like JJ is implying. If I was in high school, I'd date someone in high school. Since I'm in late university (and living at home), I'd like to go with another student or someone nearing the end of their school (not a first or second year). And when I've got a career and house, I want someone who also has a career and not living at home.
Old 07-04-2006 | 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by JJ4Short
I have known or heard of at least 5 guys who are on sexual offenders list for fucking 14-16 year olds.
Oh damn i guess everyone is right stay away from youngans but how do the police find out about this do the girls snitch or something?
Old 07-04-2006 | 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted by SRK85
Oh damn i guess everyone is right stay away from youngans but how do the police find out about this do the girls snitch or something?
The parents find out and then file a report. Parents can be pretty smart when it comes to their children's safety sometimes.
Old 07-04-2006 | 02:55 PM
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Oh damn i guess everyone is right stay away from youngans but how do the police find out about this do the girls snitch or something?
First one I heard about was a senior at my highschool 18 got caught fucking a freshman 14, parents pressed charges.

Same thing again in high school where parents caught the dude only difference was her big brother was there and he went to our high school too so that was interesting basically dude got his ass kicked and charges pressed.

Other one I know was 20 and had sex with a 15 year old, never asked how he got caught. Actually got probation and fucked up so he had to go to jail for a few months.

The other ones were friends of a friend type deals so I can't back those up with details or how they got caught.

I just wouldn't risk it. I haven't heard of going to jail (with exception of the guy who broke probation) but it's not worth the risk, plus young girls suck at sex so why even do it?
Old 07-05-2006 | 12:31 AM
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Originally Posted by JJ4Short

I just wouldn't risk it. I haven't heard of going to jail (with exception of the guy who broke probation) but it's not worth the risk, plus young girls suck at sex so why even do it?
Although I don't have exact experience, .

The young ones are terrible at sex, unless they're sluts, in which case you don't want to be sleeping with them anyways (due to all sorts of things, herpes, syphillis, chlamydia, HPV, and worse! Not to mention the lack of respect for sex).
Old 07-05-2006 | 09:21 AM
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Nothing more appealing than a lovely young lady of 15 or 16, just ripening into her femininity. But - until she's 18, her playmates ought to be her age.....
Old 07-05-2006 | 12:14 PM
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I've heard of a few kids that have had parents press charges for statuatory rape. Parents get very upset when their "innocent" lil girl is caught taking two cocks at once in the highschool parking lot.
Old 07-05-2006 | 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted by CUNextTuesday
I've heard of a few kids that have had parents press charges for statuatory rape. Parents get very upset when their "innocent" lil girl is caught taking two cocks at once in the highschool parking lot.
HAHAHA really wow. Damn dont get caught if ur banging young girls.
Old 07-05-2006 | 04:17 PM
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That's why you have to make a video and take pics. So you have something to threaten them with.

Sure they could take you to court and get crimal charges pressed.

But as the long trial lingers on, nothing is worse than the thought that more and more people are seeing your daughter getting her hole reamed on the internet. They might just drop everything as their daughter's reputation for life is slowly ruined.
Old 07-05-2006 | 06:48 PM
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my buddy at work is 21 and he's dating a chick that 16 or 17. I didn't ask and don't care if he's banging her. it's none of my business.
Old 07-05-2006 | 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Water-S
my buddy at work is 21 and he's dating a chick that 16 or 17. I didn't ask and don't care if he's banging her. it's none of my business.
maybe none of yours, but im sure her parents probably care.
Old 07-05-2006 | 08:55 PM
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parents can be such CBers.
Old 07-05-2006 | 08:59 PM
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Originally Posted by the_Osk
parents can be such CBers.
So true. So are older sisters...my older sister is the biggest cockblock with all of her friends. She won't let me or any of my cousins near them.
Old 07-05-2006 | 09:06 PM
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yeah.. I could imagine that. some sisters seem to be pretty cool though, and will even try and hook their brothers up.

good female friends are the same.. they can either consistently CB you, or consistently try and hook you up..
Old 07-05-2006 | 09:50 PM
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I feel ya on the friends thing. My close female friends are always trying to get me laid - and often they're wanting me to sleep wit them.
Old 07-06-2006 | 12:19 PM
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I feel ya on the friends thing. My close female friends are always trying to get me laid - and often they're wanting me to sleep wit them.
Rucky dawg.
Old 07-06-2006 | 12:31 PM
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I feel ya on the friends thing. My close female friends are always trying to get me laid - and often they're wanting me to sleep wit them.
Would they ever consider relocating to Austin?


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