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Old 05-03-2006, 05:52 PM
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How soon is too soon to ask a girl out??

OK so there is this girl named Yvette that I study with for an accounting, and I feel like she flirts back when I flirt with her. The thing is she broke up with her boyfriend a month ago but she says her and him are just really close friends now

I don't know when is the right time to ask her out for a date or whatever....
my friend talked to her about her ex briefly and says I should wait a little while...

any ideas?

this is a bad photo but she still looks hot in it

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if your friend says you have to wait a little while from what they hear from the girl, then just listen to your friends for now IMO
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Originally Posted by yohan81718
if your friend says you have to wait a little while from what they hear from the girl, then just listen to your friends for now IMO


Or you could have me talk to her. :wingman:
Old 05-03-2006, 06:08 PM
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Originally Posted by kurt_bradley


Or you could have me talk to her. :wingman:

Dude I'm crushin hard , shes so awesome....
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Dude I'm crushin hard , shes so awesome....
I didn't post like this did I?

Who's your wingman n*****?
Old 05-03-2006, 06:14 PM
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nudes will help me come up with a good idea.
Old 05-03-2006, 06:17 PM
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Old 05-03-2006, 06:19 PM
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Well man, I went through a similar thing with the girl I've been dating (you know who) because when we started talking/hanging out she had just got out of a 2 year relationship, which obviously leaves residuals and for good reason makes someone hesitant to jump into another one. Met her through class too btw. The one thing thats potentialy a downer for you is that they are still "friends." Whatever that means because there are two ways to take that, 1) it is def. over and they just wanna not be hateful about it or 2) its not a forever breakup, they both have feelings still and will return to smashing sometime in the near future. Of course thats why you have your friend who can let you know exactly the nature of the beast. Luckily, I didn't have to deal with the friends business but I DID have to deal with the fact that she kept on finding out more and more shit about what her her ex did while they were together that would make her just generally angry AND more hesitant about wanting anything with anyone else/trust shit. SO... these are sticky situations (sometimes in good ways haha).

BUT that girl is hot man! I'll be in town tomorrow for Tays birthday, you could always ask her to come by J Wheel's for that.... Hehehe
Old 05-03-2006, 06:27 PM
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Originally Posted by NewAgePirate

BUT that girl is hot man! I'll be in town tomorrow for Tays birthday, you could always ask her to come by J Wheel's for that.... Hehehe

shes driving home to the valley....
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We should definately discuss this over a bucket of balls and a bucket of beer tomorrow after work.

Come to think of it, you still haven't played the Pitch N Putt yet. We should remedy that instead. $6 for your first 9. Grab a wedge (maybe your SW too), a 9 iron, your putter, a couple tees, a couple balls, a small cooler that fits a few beers in it and you're set.
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Get her drunk and slide your cockasaurus those titties!!!
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Originally Posted by The Sarlacc
Get her drunk and slide your cockasaurus those titties!!!

did I mention she only 5'3''
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Originally Posted by TheThirdMan
did I mention she only 5'3''


They are even bigger then I thought.
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shes driving home to the valley....
Oh man, valley rats are wild. At least at A&M they are. Some of my favorite people.

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Originally Posted by TheThirdMan
I don't know when is the right time to ask her out for a date or whatever....
my friend talked to her about her ex briefly and says I should wait a little while...

any ideas?
30 second before the next guy decides to ask her out would help your chances greatly
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So ... first I saw the face ... and then I scrolled down ...

Wow.
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smack them tatties and quit ya bitchin!


EDIT: nice stems too
Old 05-03-2006, 11:13 PM
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Um just casually ask her out to dinner or ice cream?
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Just fucking ask her out. If she likes you enough she'll say yes.
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Originally Posted by The Sarlacc
Get her drunk and slide your cockasaurus those titties!!!
...before your friend beat you to it.
but ask her out first
she's a hottie

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it is never too soon to ask out a hottie like that, though it may soon be too late. Get on with it, dumbass!
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...ever play with a cat with a ball of yarn? sometimes... when the ball of yarn is just out of reach... the cat (pussy) wants it more... and as you tug the ball away, and tease the cat, it just want it more and more... then you give the ball of yarn to the cat... sometimes... the cat keeps the ball, BUT sometimes... the cat gets over it almost as soon as it gets it... and leaves it...


you are "the ball of yarn"...

you said you flirt with her... and she flirts back, see what happens when you stop, or NOT give her as much attention... and take note how she reacts... and go from there.
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Just ask her out already dude.
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I would just ask her out... BUT is she leaving for the rest of the summer?? If so make sure to keep in touch with her. Make yourself known. It never hurts to ask...and if she is flirting back she prob likes you. But dont make the date a big deal keep it casual, that why she is more open to the idea of dating again.
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Where are you getting these pics?

If its a result of e-stalking, nevermind.

But if she gave you access to them...DO IT!
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She looks like she has a nice pair of D cup tits....5'3, huh that's and plus...
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Go buy some vodka, now.
Old 05-04-2006, 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted by SakiGT
Where are you getting these pics?

If its a result of e-stalking, nevermind.

But if she gave you access to them...DO IT!
myspace/facebook pics



her and her ex are still way too close for me to ask her out , I might just do the "hey if your goin to 6th street tonight we should meet up", and the ex is going to Hawaii for a week I just hope he does somthing stupid when hes there to piss her off, meanwhile the whole week I'll be trying to be to good guy friend ect.ect.


she will be in town this summer so I think time isn't a problem, but waiting too long has always been my problem.

she showed up to study this morning in a shirt and sweatpants, and still looked soo cute!


I'm usually not into hispanic girls but this one is different...

and her boobs look like full d's or DD's
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Originally Posted by TheThirdMan
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her and her ex are still way too close for me to ask her out , I might just do the "hey if your goin to 6th street tonight we should meet up", and the ex is going to Hawaii for a week I just hope he does somthing stupid when hes there to piss her off, meanwhile the whole week I'll be trying to be to good guy friend ect.ect.


she will be in town this summer so I think time isn't a problem, but waiting too long has always been my problem.

she showed up to study this morning in a shirt and sweatpants, and still looked soo cute!


I'm usually not into hispanic girls but this one is different...

and her boobs look like full d's or DD's
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dude thats fucking awesome...

and yet thats how I feel.....
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From the hispanic girls i have in the collection, there all great in the sack.. Will please you to no end. And i love when they talk dirty especially in spanish and i have no idea where there saying LOL
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re: Latin girls

now that I think about it... I lost my virginity to a Puerto Rican gal... She was a "freak" (in the sack, that is...)
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Them some nice tittays. You better ask her out before someone else does. And do not go into the friend zone if you ever want to get laid by her. Don't be clingy and don't be so obvious. Let her know you like her, but that if she doesn't want to be with you then it's no big deal because you're the SHIT mang! Play it cool and casual.
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Yea for real man show that you are interested before someother dude beats you to it.
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Ask now for two reasons:

1. You are in the process of being put on the friends ladder. You may already be there and it may be too late.

2. Someone else that doesn't give a crap about when she broke up with her boyfriend (or even care if she has a boyfriend) will ask her out first.

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DO HER NOW BEFORE SHE GETS BACK TOGETHER WITH HER EX!!!!!!!!!

I learned the hard way. After 2 years as friends, I finally got a chance to go out on a date with the girl of my dreams. She had broken up with her b/f at the time. We went out to dinner and to Dave and Busters and had a great time. When I gave her a kiss goodnight, she asked me if I would like to come in. I stupidly said "No thanks" trying to be a gentleman. We made out on her front porch for the next few minutes and then I went home- happy as a pig in shit.

I talked to her a few days later and she said she had gotten back with her b/f and he proposed.

I will regret that moment more than anything else as I failed to seal the deal
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go for it while u were creating/reading this shit 3 other guys asked her out already..


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