Help...Need advice. Soooooo Hurt.
#41
Originally Posted by bent09
how the hell did I miss this drama been away too long.
If there wasnt much trust from the beginning this was probably inevitable. Its up to you whether you want to take his apology to heart and start over...but there is always that old saying "shame on you if you fool me once, shame on me if you fool me twice" just be careful.
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^^^more like let some psycho woman go off and kill him or hurt him for doing it, that will be the day the lesson is learned.
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Originally Posted by KissMy_Type_S
We've had such a past and have known each other for so long I cant just throw that away. I understand time is needed and thats fine and your all right I dont deserve her. She was the greatest thing to ever happen to me and I will regret this for the rest of my life knowing NO ONE will ever measure up to her. I am sick to my stomach everyday knowing the hurt I caused Erin and I cant even stand that I did it. I just pray for the day when she can forgive me enough to talk to me because I already miss her so very much. All of you can continue with the "yea right heard that before" but if you all knew what I had and lost you would genuinely feel the same.
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Originally Posted by DarkSithCL
Sad thing is these sicko chicks are out there just waiting to put in work on you...as soon as you slip up...I promise!!!!!!
Chap - just pointing out the fact that women do this kind of stuff, just like when a guy goes off and kills someone because his girl cheated, not saying it is right, but it happens...
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Well, your best bet is to move on... You can "try" to forgive him for what he did to you, but never forget it. You can forgive, but not forget is what I say.
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Originally Posted by yarigh
Yeah if someone cheats on you they don't truly love you. Or if they break up with you, and you find out they are seeing someone right away then they really don't love you. I guess it depends on each different couple but if you go from happy to thinking they loved you to them breaking up with you, and you find out their friends are setting them up with new people left and right and they are going for it then their heart was never true to begin with. I love the ones that tell people that they still love them, but break up with them. What a cowardly cop out.
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Did I miss something??? this sounds like a joke and all you fockers are falling for it! Chicks don't just come on this board and start talking about their issues!
And whats with all the noobs and bible thumpers all of a sudden!?
And whats with all the noobs and bible thumpers all of a sudden!?
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Originally Posted by yarigh
Yeah if someone cheats on you they don't truly love you. Or if they break up with you, and you find out they are seeing someone right away then they really don't love you. I guess it depends on each different couple but if you go from happy to thinking they loved you to them breaking up with you, and you find out their friends are setting them up with new people left and right and they are going for it then their heart was never true to begin with. I love the ones that tell people that they still love them, but break up with them. What a cowardly cop out.
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Originally Posted by ferizzo
Did I miss something??? this sounds like a joke and all you fockers are falling for it! Chicks don't just come on this board and start talking about their issues!
And whats with all the noobs and bible thumpers all of a sudden!?
And whats with all the noobs and bible thumpers all of a sudden!?
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Originally Posted by miner
I say give him a dose of his own medicine so he knows what it feels like. Anyone want ot volunteer to be the test subject?
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Originally Posted by ferizzo
Did I miss something??? this sounds like a joke and all you fockers are falling for it! Chicks don't just come on this board and start talking about their issues!
And whats with all the noobs and bible thumpers all of a sudden!?
And whats with all the noobs and bible thumpers all of a sudden!?
er.. you obviously dont pay attention much do you.. a lot of girls get on here right away with their relationship/sex issues. :sqnteek:
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its like breaking a piece of glass. Sure it can be put back together, but will it ever be back the way it once was?
you guys both need to go in seperate directions. He's not ready for a committment, and you are. Why can't you guys find new people to be with?
you guys both need to go in seperate directions. He's not ready for a committment, and you are. Why can't you guys find new people to be with?
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
er.. you obviously dont pay attention much do you.. a lot of girls get on here right away with their relationship/sex issues. :sqnteek:
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If I was that hurt I wouldn't bring it to the board, I'd bring it straight to the person. I guess I can see your point I just think its a little unbelieveable that so many are bringing it here. If its true (I'll take kissmy's word for it) then he fucked up and she should move on. Sounds like its a re-occuring issue with him so giving him a second chance doesn't sound like the best idea. good luck to both.
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damn. can't have much respect for fellas who can't keep it real with relationships... i admit im not the best bf ever but i never have and will cheat on a girl.
if a girl is willing to date you, then it means that she's trusting you with her emotions and everything else intimate about her. how can you bring yourself to violate that?
hope u change your ways dude. otherwise, you gonna get burned and you'll regret it big time.
if a girl is willing to date you, then it means that she's trusting you with her emotions and everything else intimate about her. how can you bring yourself to violate that?
hope u change your ways dude. otherwise, you gonna get burned and you'll regret it big time.
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