Guys Having Sex vs. Girls Having Sex
07-09-2008, 11:57 AM
#1
Guys Having Sex vs. Girls Having Sex
yep, thats right, whats your take on this subject?
they way it is...if i guy has a lot of sex with tons of different girls its ok, but when a girl has sex with lots of different guys..shes a slutt.
some guys wont even go out with a girl who is considered a "slutt" or whom they've heard rumors about.
me personally, im caught in the middle. i give girls all equal opportunity (for the most part) but just don't want to hear that my girl got fuked by this guy or did this with that guy. but i have given a girl whom i've hear rumors about a chance.
so lets hear it guys/girls
they way it is...if i guy has a lot of sex with tons of different girls its ok, but when a girl has sex with lots of different guys..shes a slutt.
some guys wont even go out with a girl who is considered a "slutt" or whom they've heard rumors about.
me personally, im caught in the middle. i give girls all equal opportunity (for the most part) but just don't want to hear that my girl got fuked by this guy or did this with that guy. but i have given a girl whom i've hear rumors about a chance.
so lets hear it guys/girls
07-09-2008, 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted by dope!
yep, thats right, whats your take on this subject?
they way it is...if i guy has a lot of sex with tons of different girls its ok, but when a girl has sex with lots of different guys..shes a slutt.
some guys wont even go out with a girl who is considered a "slutt" or whom they've heard rumors about.
me personally, im caught in the middle. i give girls all equal opportunity (for the most part) but just don't want to hear that my girl got fuked by this guy or did this with that guy. but i have given a girl whom i've hear rumors about a chance.
so lets hear it guys/girls
they way it is...if i guy has a lot of sex with tons of different girls its ok, but when a girl has sex with lots of different guys..shes a slutt.
some guys wont even go out with a girl who is considered a "slutt" or whom they've heard rumors about.
me personally, im caught in the middle. i give girls all equal opportunity (for the most part) but just don't want to hear that my girl got fuked by this guy or did this with that guy. but i have given a girl whom i've hear rumors about a chance.
so lets hear it guys/girls
Eh, I just go out with a girl and assume she's gotten it in the arse already. There aren't too many virgins/innocent girls out there any more ya know? Especially as you get older.
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07-09-2008, 12:13 PM
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Originally Posted by AZuser
So what you're saying is you're an equal opportunity pervert.
Eh, I just go out with a girl and assume she's gotten it in the arse already. There aren't too many virgins/innocent girls out there any more ya know? Especially as you get older.
Eh, I just go out with a girl and assume she's gotten it in the arse already. There aren't too many virgins/innocent girls out there any more ya know? Especially as you get older.
do you really want a girl whos been around?
im neither here nor there..
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07-09-2008, 12:18 PM
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Three Wheelin'
When a girl asks me why its ok for guys to have lots of sex,
I always give the example of spitting.
Spitting is not the cleanest. But I'm sure almost everybody can agree that you would rather spit on the floor than have somebody spit on you, or inside your mouth.
Spitting = guys
Getting spit on (or inside) = girls
So that is why I think its ok for guys to have lots of sex,
compared to girls having lots of sex.
I always give the example of spitting.
Spitting is not the cleanest. But I'm sure almost everybody can agree that you would rather spit on the floor than have somebody spit on you, or inside your mouth.
Spitting = guys
Getting spit on (or inside) = girls
So that is why I think its ok for guys to have lots of sex,
compared to girls having lots of sex.
07-09-2008, 12:20 PM
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I would prefer a girl that hasn't been around the block, but like I said before... those type of girls are kinda rare. I just try not to think about it nor do I want to know about it.
Like the saying goes, ignorance is bliss.
Like the saying goes, ignorance is bliss.
07-09-2008, 12:21 PM
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I never really thought about it too much. I've had my share of fun and night of nameless girls so I can't say that I don't want to date a girl that's been around. I think if she's been gang banged by the football team I wouldn't want to be with her but if she's been with a bunch of guys and they were either innocent fun or bf's I don't see anythign wrong with it. Been with a virgin once and I prefer that I don't be with another.
07-09-2008, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted by dope!
dont ask dont tell kinda thing? iono..i guess what you dont know wont hurt u..unless its and STD..which in that case..i would wanna know.
07-09-2008, 12:56 PM
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Oh Hullow
guys will bang most girls that will let them... girls dictate the sex... if they give it up to everyone they are sluts because they dont limit the pussy distribution... the more guys hit it, the more they have accomplished.. its the way of the world.
...i wouldnt date a slut, because i like to think i earned the pussy (im putting it in shallow terms, i mean of course there are feelings involved lol but that doesnt make for an entertaining post), not that im buying the cow when the milks free.
however, hookups are an entirely diff subject...
...i wouldnt date a slut, because i like to think i earned the pussy (im putting it in shallow terms, i mean of course there are feelings involved lol but that doesnt make for an entertaining post), not that im buying the cow when the milks free.
however, hookups are an entirely diff subject...
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07-09-2008, 01:03 PM
#18
I am not a whore therefore they shouldn't be. I think at my age a chick can have had sex with at most 6 guys. Anything more then that is hotastic. I remember my friend broke up with her boyfriend (the only guy she had had sex with) in one year she had 13 guys. I think she is now at 15 and she is 22.
07-09-2008, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted by JJ4Short
I am not a whore therefore they shouldn't be. I think at my age a chick can have had sex with at most 6 guys. Anything more then that is hotastic. I remember my friend broke up with her boyfriend (the only guy she had had sex with) in one year she had 13 guys. I think she is now at 15 and she is 22.
but dammmit..shes cute. ill see if i can dig up some pics later.
07-09-2008, 01:38 PM
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Suzuka Master
Yeah, it's a double standard that is still prevalent that's why some girls I know admitted that they want to keep their numbers below 5-6. Personally, I also want my guy to have low numbers, but you know how it is... if you fall in love with someone, whatever his/her number may be, in the end it doesn't matter. 
Yeah, my husband was a whore! 
The number of men that a woman has slept with per se does not completely dictate her sluttiness, although most people think so. I think it also matters what kind of relationship she has with each of these men. If a 30-year woman had been with, let's say 8 men and all of them were in serious relationships, I wouldn't consider her a slut. Now if you have a 24-year old woman who slept only with 4 men but they were one-night stands or flings, then I may consider her a slut.
Yeah, my husband was a whore! The number of men that a woman has slept with per se does not completely dictate her sluttiness, although most people think so. I think it also matters what kind of relationship she has with each of these men. If a 30-year woman had been with, let's say 8 men and all of them were in serious relationships, I wouldn't consider her a slut. Now if you have a 24-year old woman who slept only with 4 men but they were one-night stands or flings, then I may consider her a slut.
07-09-2008, 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Yeah, it's a double standard that is still prevalent that's why some girls I know admitted that they want to keep their numbers below 5-6. Personally, I also want my guy to have low numbers, but you know how it is... if you fall in love with someone, whatever his/her number may be, in the end it doesn't matter. Yeah, my husband was a whore!
The number of men that a woman has slept with per se does not completely dictate her sluttiness, although most people think so. I think it also matters what kind of relationship she has with each of these men. If a 30-year woman had been with, let's say 8 men and all of them were in serious relationships, I wouldn't consider her a slut. Now if you have a 24-year old woman who slept only with 4 men but they were one-night stands or flings, then I may consider her a slut.
Yeah, my husband was a whore! The number of men that a woman has slept with per se does not completely dictate her sluttiness, although most people think so. I think it also matters what kind of relationship she has with each of these men. If a 30-year woman had been with, let's say 8 men and all of them were in serious relationships, I wouldn't consider her a slut. Now if you have a 24-year old woman who slept only with 4 men but they were one-night stands or flings, then I may consider her a slut.
well said!
07-09-2008, 01:50 PM
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I have dead hookers in
Back before i met my girl i would sleep with anything that looked good. I followed the what you dont know dont hurt you mindset.LOL. Now i have a girl that has never been with a guy including myself(we are waitiing) It is nice knowing that nothing has ever penetrated the VAG
07-09-2008, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted by gr8ness97
she better keep it nice and tight...
seriously, A guy was design to spread his seed, girls aren't...chauvinistic way of looking at things, but eh...
seriously, A guy was design to spread his seed, girls aren't...chauvinistic way of looking at things, but eh...
07-09-2008, 06:32 PM
#25
Originally Posted by SportsJunkie
so then we can also look at it in terms of a woman wanting to reproduce and have offspring so she will get her seed(s) any way she can
07-09-2008, 07:27 PM
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hmm well seems everyones has a diff view on the subject. im more like..eh if i dont know ab out it who cares..as along as the girl aint dirty! and like sasha said..if its all been serious relationships, i wouldnt consider a girl a slutt. but if its just a one time deal then yes..slutt for sure
07-09-2008, 07:52 PM
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I will never fault a chick for getting her rocks off. I always said that guys and girls are a lot more alike than we like to admit. I've been with girls that had less partners than I did and girls with more partners than I had. It never bothered me.
07-09-2008, 08:17 PM
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I agree with Sasha 100%
I want to know the context of the "relationships" if any
I want to know the context of the "relationships" if any
07-10-2008, 08:57 AM
#32
Oh Hullow
Originally Posted by sixsixfour
its a double standard.
that being said, id pick a car with less-or-zero miles if i were buying too.
that being said, id pick a car with less-or-zero miles if i were buying too.
NEVER buy a demo...
07-10-2008, 09:55 AM
#34
~Da Nocturnal Cheetah~
Originally Posted by dope!
^
at "never buy a demo"
hahaha
and i got this darksom!
at "never buy a demo" hahaha
and i got this darksom!
I feel ya'll on those demos, but it is hard to get a model out there that isn't "pre-owned", but I don't want one that isn't anyway. I want someone who has been down the block, just as long as she hasn't stopped in every house ya dig?
Me and a partner of mine were discussing this about a month ago. No way would I want a virgin now. Yeah I would years ago. But I been fucking for a while now, on some vigorous, passionate type shit, and the more a chick knows how to please me the better!! A virgin would just lie there and wait for me to do everything. Hell-to-the-NAW!! Nah, with your boy, it's EOF - equal opportunity fucking! You get the opportunity to add a little action into it just like me! Get your ass up and move girl!
Women like to go just like we do. It's the new millenium. You meet somebody nowadays, chances are they have been fucked in the past, want to fuck right now, and will fuck somebody else in the future if YOU can't fuck!
So don't down women that like to have a good time. However, the sluts - give them the Heisman Trophy stiff-arm dude!! But if you do have a moment of weakness and want to tap one...just don't love dem hoes!!! I hate it when a mofo try to turn a ho into a housewife!!
Peace2fingaz!!
07-10-2008, 12:18 PM
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well I see it like, if the girl is always with a different guy, whoring around, fucking every guy that she meets, thats a slut.And I wouldnt go out with her. An occasional one night stand is fine by me if the girl is single. If they are horny, why not do something aobut it, and havign sex with a stranger huge turn-on for guys and girls (well I am a guy so I know about guys, but my female friend told me that its a turn-on for most girls too).
The same female friend was like "I am so horny today, and I wanna have sex but I dont wanna be a slut and pick up some random guy at a bar". I offered myself as a joke cuz we talk openly about sex, and she told me it wasnt a bad idea. We are still friends and we hang out with the same ppl and she has boyfriends and one night stands from time to time. But once in a while when she horny or when I am horny, we just call eachother up and its just sex. And after we go hang out with the same ppl and go drink or whatever. But the point is that I dont think shes a slut at all, as a matter of fact, I respect that she can do that without feeling like a slut cuz most girls are all weird when even talking about sex. They act like its weird and embarasing when it shouldnt be.
The same female friend was like "I am so horny today, and I wanna have sex but I dont wanna be a slut and pick up some random guy at a bar". I offered myself as a joke cuz we talk openly about sex, and she told me it wasnt a bad idea. We are still friends and we hang out with the same ppl and she has boyfriends and one night stands from time to time. But once in a while when she horny or when I am horny, we just call eachother up and its just sex. And after we go hang out with the same ppl and go drink or whatever. But the point is that I dont think shes a slut at all, as a matter of fact, I respect that she can do that without feeling like a slut cuz most girls are all weird when even talking about sex. They act like its weird and embarasing when it shouldnt be.
07-10-2008, 01:57 PM
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This was argued about on my local radio station, and a caller voiced his opinion which I thought made some sense:
A guy who has sex with a lot of women is considered the man/pimp/player because he puts in the money, time, and effort to score. He is more motivated and if he accomplishes his mission, then he deserves his due.
Whereas a woman doesn't put in time nor money, and can have sex with any guy she wants in an instant, anytime she wants, thus marking her a slut.
A guy who has sex with a lot of women is considered the man/pimp/player because he puts in the money, time, and effort to score. He is more motivated and if he accomplishes his mission, then he deserves his due.
Whereas a woman doesn't put in time nor money, and can have sex with any guy she wants in an instant, anytime she wants, thus marking her a slut.
07-10-2008, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted by XjoEnX
This was argued about on my local radio station, and a caller voiced his opinion which I thought made some sense:
A guy who has sex with a lot of women is considered the man/pimp/player because he puts in the money, time, and effort to score. He is more motivated and if he accomplishes his mission, then he deserves his due.
Whereas a woman doesn't put in time nor money, and can have sex with any guy she wants in an instant, anytime she wants, thus marking her a slut.
A guy who has sex with a lot of women is considered the man/pimp/player because he puts in the money, time, and effort to score. He is more motivated and if he accomplishes his mission, then he deserves his due.
Whereas a woman doesn't put in time nor money, and can have sex with any guy she wants in an instant, anytime she wants, thus marking her a slut.
catch is, women want to be seen as "equals". well, men are subject to double standards just the same. so if women want to be seen as equals, they should stop seeing this as a double standard and move on.
07-10-2008, 04:27 PM
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This is old "issue" and it will never change.
Nobody mentioned anything about girls doing it because they usually have feelings for the guy. Guys want to fuck. That's just how our brains are different. Not too many girls look at every guy as sex object-we do
Now if that's tru and you have this girl who fucked bunch of guys...that would mean she don't really care. I woudn't want to date someone like that. I'd say then you may have trust issues as well. It's very easy for girl to cheat.
I go by standard 1 guy a year is ok. That would usually mean at least she dating, not just fucking around. Now you just have to find out how early she started...that's whole another topic
Nobody mentioned anything about girls doing it because they usually have feelings for the guy. Guys want to fuck. That's just how our brains are different. Not too many girls look at every guy as sex object-we do
Now if that's tru and you have this girl who fucked bunch of guys...that would mean she don't really care. I woudn't want to date someone like that. I'd say then you may have trust issues as well. It's very easy for girl to cheat.
I go by standard 1 guy a year is ok. That would usually mean at least she dating, not just fucking around. Now you just have to find out how early she started...that's whole another topic