Gilgamesh

So one of my friends is into me, I think. She jsut broke up with her boyfriend of tow years, when he got cold feet and did not want to move in with her in January as they had planned. She has definitely been throwing some signals my way. Some of my other friends have noticed it and mentioned it to me too, so I know I am not going nuts.

Thing is he comes back in a few weeks to visit, I think...I don't know if they are still on for this, I would like to find out for sure. They do still talk. Besides what kind of advice would you all have for me?

SickAcura

Well I mean hey if you and your friends see these signals being thrown at you dont hesitate go and make a move. Fuck that other dood he got cold feet and pussed out so now its your chance to move in and get some action, next time he'll learn not to leave the door wide open for other guys to walk right in.

mesmerize

just kidding

try talkin to her more, that might help to answer a lot of your questions... definitely find out if the ex-bf is still coming to visit... what are these 'signals' that she's sending you? are you sending her signals too? do you want a girl on the rebound?

Gilgamesh

With her, it'd be nice if it was more, shes really cool. That is one reason I would like to stay away for a couple months still...so I cna be sure its not some crap that will cause problems.

She gets kinda touchy, she seems to hover around me when the group of friends is together, it seems like she interacts a little differently with me.

Though she is always giving me crap about being so responsible.

goldmemberer

Pardon my crude language, but every girl that has said that to me has really meant "forget about your girlfriend and fuck me instead." Although the g/f might not be the case with you, maybe it's a "forget about the rebound/complications" thing.

Just a thought. Don't take my word for it though man, I only have two pieces of the 1000 piece jigsaw puzzle that this is. Telling you what I learned in my (few) years.

Gilgamesh

That would be nice and I would agree with you, but she was saying this to me before when she was dating this other dude. She says it when I don't smoke an weeknights since I work early... I don't know if she means its good or bad, or a combination of both...

UNCTYPE-S

9 outta 10 times u will end up hookin up with the girl and then she will go back to her ex. ive seen that happen alot.

just create some space so u dont have any probs with the other guy, cause once he hears about u, hes gonna hae his eye out.

bukicat

These friends of yours... the ones who are seeing "the signals"... are they male or female?

Gilgamesh

Bui, they are female.

I asked her today, dude is not coming back in August, he can;t afford it and I think they are off for January, I asked her how she is doing with it and she says it feels good. I hope she understood what I was getting at with teh questions.

JHEIII850Turbo

she probably still has feelings for this guy, and don't be surprised if when he goes to visit he's tappin it too

Gilgamesh

Meh...as long as I tap it too..

Plus once you go Armenian you never go back...ERRRRRRRR

Minch00

Ummm..........OK, whatever makes you feel better.

moonraker

yea this is very true i just had this happen to me a couple months ago. girl broke up with her bf of like 6 months, we hooked up, i left town for a lil while... came back and she was back with her exbf. then she sayin she wants to break up with him again now sooo who knows.

but yea just talk to her i guess and see what she's wantin ya know and try to figure out if theres any chance she'll get back with her ex.