fbuddy rant...
11-04-2005, 01:50 PM
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fbuddy rant...
so last night i hook up with my fbuddy..she seems a lil cold so i ask her whats up..shes like we need to talk..i was like uhh ok sure..so she tells me she has feelings for me and she wants to know if i have feelings for her..it was all her idea to do the whole friends with benifits deal and yada yada and she says she doesn't want it to be weird..whats even crazyer is that i was her first..and she is one of my coworkers...uhh yahh..so thats not strange at all. i'm just wonder why all these damn girls always seem to fucking fall for me and when i tell them it's just a physical deal they get pissed...even if it was there idea to start with..
lots and lots more drama going on and i didn't really need this at the time..
oh well
/rant
lots and lots more drama going on and i didn't really need this at the time..
oh well
/rant
11-04-2005, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS
so last night i hook up with my fbuddy..she seems a lil cold so i ask her whats up..shes like we need to talk..i was like uhh ok sure..so she tells me she has feelings for me and she wants to know if i have feelings for her..it was all her idea to do the whole friends with benifits deal and yada yada and she says she doesn't want it to be weird..whats even crazyer is that i was her first..and she is one of my coworkers...uhh yahh..so thats not strange at all. i'm just wonder why all these damn girls always seem to fucking fall for me and when i tell them it's just a physical deal they get pissed...even if it was there idea to start with..
lots and lots more drama going on and i didn't really need this at the time..
oh well
/rant
lots and lots more drama going on and i didn't really need this at the time..
oh well
/rant
Strike one
Strike two
Strike three.
You're out dumbass
11-04-2005, 02:01 PM
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been there, done that, doing it now.
like my friend told me, never f--k a virgin.
haunt you till the end of days.
and ps, i've never seen fbuddies end on good terms, one person always develops feelings. not knocking you, like i said i'm in a very similar situation, but we were both dumb and blind not to see it coming.
at least you got some ass though, right?
like my friend told me, never f--k a virgin.
haunt you till the end of days.
and ps, i've never seen fbuddies end on good terms, one person always develops feelings. not knocking you, like i said i'm in a very similar situation, but we were both dumb and blind not to see it coming.
at least you got some ass though, right?
11-04-2005, 02:06 PM
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very few girls will have sex with you without and emotional attachment. you can attempt to cover your ass by saying "i told her what this was, she knew it was a phsyical thing only," but in the end you must have known she thought it was more.
i've been there multiple times and although some of them ended worse than others, they all ended with a pissed off girl.
i've been there multiple times and although some of them ended worse than others, they all ended with a pissed off girl.
11-04-2005, 02:07 PM
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Who the hell turns a virgin into a fbuddy?
By the way, I tried the fbuddy thing many years ago. I told her flat out, we are doing this for sex, not love. A week later she is all "I love you". Hell we never even went out (not even McD). We just
, how can that be love? Plus she even had a BF. Well that was the last time I saw her. I also never attempted to have a fbuddy again.
By the way, I tried the fbuddy thing many years ago. I told her flat out, we are doing this for sex, not love. A week later she is all "I love you". Hell we never even went out (not even McD). We just
, how can that be love? Plus she even had a BF. Well that was the last time I saw her. I also never attempted to have a fbuddy again.
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11-04-2005, 02:11 PM
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BTW, I think most fbuddy relationships end up like this. There is no such thing as a fbuddy. One night stand is one thing, hitit a second time and you have drama coming.
11-04-2005, 02:32 PM
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well we didn't start bangin..we started with the basics...and it just progressed to sex..how that happened..yah..i was drunk one night and got took advantage of..shrug..i wouldn't really care but this other chick i was accually interested in is driving me up the wall..so it's like i just lost 2 sources of sex in like 30 mins (accually 3 hrs but whats the difference?)
11-04-2005, 03:27 PM
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Originally Posted by doopstr
Who the hell turns a virgin into a fbuddy?
yeah, bad idea, don't really know how that one happened...
but then again, who turns down free poon?
11-04-2005, 03:41 PM
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I concur with what everyone said. Next time you pull your cawk out; remember that most girls can't handle booty calls.
Let me explain what I mean by most. I met this girl and I was totally infatuated with her. She would call me up and tell me "take off from work tomorrow!" I would of course and she would come over to my house, have her way with me, then leave! This went on for a long while until I revealed that I wanted more.
She flipped the script on me, but boy was she an awesome lay!
Let me explain what I mean by most. I met this girl and I was totally infatuated with her. She would call me up and tell me "take off from work tomorrow!" I would of course and she would come over to my house, have her way with me, then leave! This went on for a long while until I revealed that I wanted more.
She flipped the script on me, but boy was she an awesome lay!
11-04-2005, 04:25 PM
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Originally Posted by cazzy
I concur with what everyone said. Next time you pull your cawk out; remember that most girls can't handle booty calls.
Let me explain what I mean by most. I met this girl and I was totally infatuated with her. She would call me up and tell me "take off from work tomorrow!" I would of course and she would come over to my house, have her way with me, then leave! This went on for a long while until I revealed that I wanted more. She flipped the script on me, but boy was she an awesome lay!
Let me explain what I mean by most. I met this girl and I was totally infatuated with her. She would call me up and tell me "take off from work tomorrow!" I would of course and she would come over to my house, have her way with me, then leave! This went on for a long while until I revealed that I wanted more.
She flipped the script on me, but boy was she an awesome lay!
11-04-2005, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted by NBP_TSXY
Did you know she was a virgin?
she said she was..but when i was fingering her it didnt feel like it (i've got big hands) and when i fucked her the first time, even though i was drunk, i didn't feel anything...so..yes and no..
11-04-2005, 04:57 PM
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Guys make matters worse when they lead the girl on with false hopes so be kind enough to tell her upfront that you don't want a serious relationship. That will stop her from hoping for any future between the 2 of you. At that point, she will decide whether she'll lose the expectations and just enjoy the benefits or move on.
11-04-2005, 05:11 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Guys make matters worse when they lead the girl on with false hopes so be kind enough to tell her upfront that you don't want a serious relationship. That will stop her from hoping for any future between the 2 of you. At that point, she will decide whether she'll lose the expectations and just enjoy the benefits or move on.
thats what she did...and i agreed..i wasn't really even interested in her as anything more then friends..but i got taken advantage of when i was drunk (the first time we hooked up...) so..yah..i duno what to tell you but thats not true and doesn't work..
11-04-2005, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS
she said she was..but when i was fingering her it didnt feel like it (i've got big hands) and when i fucked her the first time, even though i was drunk, i didn't feel anything...so..yes and no..
nice answer....Well you know (drunk o not) that usually taking a girls virginity its going to be more than just sex- even if they say it isnt.
11-04-2005, 06:55 PM
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i dunno..just plain drama..damn women..messin up my day 
she sent me a email earlier asking her if i wanted to drive her to her car since it was in the shop..i was like uhh can't busy..and she got all mad...i didn't like her to start, it was simply booty in my eyes but i guess thats not the case..argh! now i have to deal with her everyday..good thing shes not in my department
she sent me a email earlier asking her if i wanted to drive her to her car since it was in the shop..i was like uhh can't busy..and she got all mad...i didn't like her to start, it was simply booty in my eyes but i guess thats not the case..argh! now i have to deal with her everyday..good thing shes not in my department
11-04-2005, 07:33 PM
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Originally Posted by doopstr
Damn, doesn't it suck when the woman treats you like the bitch? (I'm not saying this has never happened to me)
11-04-2005, 08:52 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Guys make matters worse when they lead the girl on with false hopes so be kind enough to tell her upfront that you don't want a serious relationship. That will stop her from hoping for any future between the 2 of you. At that point, she will decide whether she'll lose the expectations and just enjoy the benefits or move on.
11-05-2005, 06:37 PM
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hmmm.....just ignore her until she get's so hungry for some more 'D' that she cums knocking on your door again....then tell her you have a gf
women make things way too complicated....why confuse 'casual sex' with love?? sh!t....
i met this girl at a club a few years ago, we got along well(heavy flirting in the club), came back to my place and fucked....i told her i was not looking for anything serious because i was graduating soon and would be moving blah blah blah blah....anyway, we started hooking up every other day or so, but we never went on a date or anything....shit, we never even went to BK or McD's or any place outside of my apartment....then out of the blue two weeks later she starts saying "oh i can see this working out" and "i want to be with you" and "i think im falling for you" WHILE im boning her and i'm thinking to myself...."no bitch, you are falling for my amazing/wonderful cock".....anyway, nothing, to me at least, is a bigger turn off then hearing some cock-guzzling skank tell me that she is developing feelings for me while im porking her....it's so bad that i go limp and ask them to leave (i usually tell them i just realized i was supposed to meet some ppl)
women make things way too complicated....why confuse 'casual sex' with love?? sh!t....
i met this girl at a club a few years ago, we got along well(heavy flirting in the club), came back to my place and fucked....i told her i was not looking for anything serious because i was graduating soon and would be moving blah blah blah blah....anyway, we started hooking up every other day or so, but we never went on a date or anything....shit, we never even went to BK or McD's or any place outside of my apartment....then out of the blue two weeks later she starts saying "oh i can see this working out" and "i want to be with you" and "i think im falling for you" WHILE im boning her and i'm thinking to myself...."no bitch, you are falling for my amazing/wonderful cock".....anyway, nothing, to me at least, is a bigger turn off then hearing some cock-guzzling skank tell me that she is developing feelings for me while im porking her....it's so bad that i go limp and ask them to leave
(i usually tell them i just realized i was supposed to meet some ppl)
11-05-2005, 06:39 PM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS
cherry's are overrated
11-09-2005, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted by 95gt
Strike one
Strike two
Strike three.
You're out dumbass
Strike two
Strike three.
You're out dumbass
..............1. They usually always fall in love
2. Gotta set the rules and stick to them, & remind her
3. NEVER, EVER EVER EVER get involved with someone you work with.........
11-09-2005, 11:52 AM
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All these threads are constantly confirming why I really don't want a daughter.
1. She wanted you all along: She hoped that by hooking up with you constantly, you would start to develop the same feelings as she had. Of course she was wrong because she failed to remember one key difference..........YOU'RE A GUY!! Us guys think differently. She probably thought it was a start of a beautiful relationship, while all you wanted was piece of ass from time to time.
2. You don't make a virgin into a fuck buddy: What hell is a matter with you? Are you completely stupid!!!!! Of course she was going to try and hold on to her first! That’s like every naïve girls fantasy, marrying their first. Did you really think she would be content with just being a booty call?
3. Cut your loses, drop her fast and end things completely: If you keep up the same routine, chances are she is going to go psycho, get stalkative and make going to work everyday really uncomfortable and unpleasant.
4. Never get involved with anyone at work: When the relationship goes down hill you are stuck with seeing the stupid bitch every day. And depending on what type of person she is, she will most likely try to make you feel uncomfortable and like complete shit.
A toilet doesn't follow you around and annoy you after you use it, but a stupid girl will.
1. She wanted you all along: She hoped that by hooking up with you constantly, you would start to develop the same feelings as she had. Of course she was wrong because she failed to remember one key difference..........YOU'RE A GUY!! Us guys think differently. She probably thought it was a start of a beautiful relationship, while all you wanted was piece of ass from time to time.
2. You don't make a virgin into a fuck buddy: What hell is a matter with you? Are you completely stupid!!!!! Of course she was going to try and hold on to her first! That’s like every naïve girls fantasy, marrying their first. Did you really think she would be content with just being a booty call?
3. Cut your loses, drop her fast and end things completely: If you keep up the same routine, chances are she is going to go psycho, get stalkative and make going to work everyday really uncomfortable and unpleasant.
4. Never get involved with anyone at work: When the relationship goes down hill you are stuck with seeing the stupid bitch every day. And depending on what type of person she is, she will most likely try to make you feel uncomfortable and like complete shit.
A toilet doesn't follow you around and annoy you after you use it, but a stupid girl will.
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11-09-2005, 12:41 PM
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Dude u need to cut her off and do it fast. Dont b a dick or anything but just explain whats up, a reminder. If you keep ignoring her she might go phycho on you. Women can be very inpredictable.
11-09-2005, 06:09 PM
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so does your fbuddy need a new friend? 