Drunk rant...Feel free to put your 2 cents in....
08-26-2003 | 06:12 PM
#43
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Originally posted by Katies99CL
well there is a fine line between being aggressive and being an asshole.
well there is a fine line between being aggressive and being an asshole.
A very fine line indeed... Katie, you sound like a very cool chick.. and everything you said about the difference between both sides of the line makes sense, but trust me, to actually be able to walk it, it's a whole other story.
08-26-2003 | 06:27 PM
#44
I Feel Too Old Here
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Originally posted by Katies99CL
and if you're labeled as the "nice guy" trust me...when the chicks wise up and get sick of dealing with the assholes...who do you think they are gonna turn to?
and if you're labeled as the "nice guy" trust me...when the chicks wise up and get sick of dealing with the assholes...who do you think they are gonna turn to?
i dunno about any of you but it pains me to think of these really sweet girls i know suckin off some dumb fuck who just wants her for the head.
08-26-2003 | 07:52 PM
#45
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From: Bay Area
Originally posted by Katies99CL
well there is a fine line between being aggressive and being an asshole. True most girls like "take charge" kinda guys...i know i do. There is nothing wrong with being agressive and taking control of situations...but that doesnt mean you can't respect her and what she thinks and feels.
girls love the bad boy mentality...it peaks my interest, but on the same note there has to be a balance in the personalities...sure he can be a badass...but there is a time and place for everything.
Just like being TOO polite will bug the shit out of me...opening the doors (whether car or restaraunt) that is a big one...i have actually quit seeing guys because they didnt have enough respect to even open a door. say "bless you" when she sneezes and "excuse me" when you burp, get another beer for her if she runs out...look at her when she talks to you, pay attention to what she's saying. I know a guy like that and it's awesome being around him...when i get the chance to...it's the little things that make the difference.
and if you're labeled as the "nice guy" trust me...when the chicks wise up and get sick of dealing with the assholes...who do you think they are gonna turn to?
well there is a fine line between being aggressive and being an asshole. True most girls like "take charge" kinda guys...i know i do. There is nothing wrong with being agressive and taking control of situations...but that doesnt mean you can't respect her and what she thinks and feels.
girls love the bad boy mentality...it peaks my interest, but on the same note there has to be a balance in the personalities...sure he can be a badass...but there is a time and place for everything.
Just like being TOO polite will bug the shit out of me...opening the doors (whether car or restaraunt) that is a big one...i have actually quit seeing guys because they didnt have enough respect to even open a door. say "bless you" when she sneezes and "excuse me" when you burp, get another beer for her if she runs out...look at her when she talks to you, pay attention to what she's saying. I know a guy like that and it's awesome being around him...when i get the chance to...it's the little things that make the difference.
and if you're labeled as the "nice guy" trust me...when the chicks wise up and get sick of dealing with the assholes...who do you think they are gonna turn to?
08-27-2003 | 05:26 PM
#46
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From: Jacksonville, FL
lol..word up!
i'm the new Dr.Phil...that's great.
Well i am only 22, but i have been exposed to an extreme amount of guys w/ different personalities. I have an older brother...so i always hung out w/ him & his friends..plus since i am into cars i havent had "girlfriends" until recently, so i always hung out with guys...made mistakes of hooking up w/ some of them so i learned through that and just from listening to them talk...it's very interesting.
i know what i want in a guy and i know what guys like...i try to create a happy medium.
it works sometimes too hahaha
i'm the new Dr.Phil...that's great.
Well i am only 22, but i have been exposed to an extreme amount of guys w/ different personalities. I have an older brother...so i always hung out w/ him & his friends..plus since i am into cars i havent had "girlfriends" until recently, so i always hung out with guys...made mistakes of hooking up w/ some of them so i learned through that and just from listening to them talk...it's very interesting.
i know what i want in a guy and i know what guys like...i try to create a happy medium.
it works sometimes too hahaha
08-28-2003 | 02:03 PM
#47
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From: Portland Oregon
Originally posted by Katies99CL
i know what i want in a guy and i know what guys like...i try to create a happy medium.
i know what i want in a guy and i know what guys like...i try to create a happy medium.
08-28-2003 | 07:34 PM
#49
i want a bimmer =(
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From: Jacksonville, FL
Originally posted by CLS2001_97124
Haha... maybe you should teach a class on this stuff... Sometime I feel me and my girl live on two completely different planet..... :o
Haha... maybe you should teach a class on this stuff... Sometime I feel me and my girl live on two completely different planet..... :o
and dont get me wrong i can be a complete "girl" sometimes...beleive me. But more often than not i try to imagine where the guy is coming from before i start assuming shit. It 's just easier that way....
sorry about you and your girl...hopefully you guys can work it out
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