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Dr. Love-SICK is in the house.
I will answer all your questions about chics one at a time. Ladies feel free to ask as well. I guarentee my advice will help your situation, or u can curse me out here on the net.
Some free advice:
There are codes we live by. Don't break the codes and in the long run, you will be the man.
Watch out for Wankstas.
Appear as you want to be, you don't HAVE to be that person. But to HER, you must be that way.
Good girls LOVE bad guys. They want NOTHING from you but sex and to be involved with you. These chics are great for non-relationship sex.
When girls find out you are actually a good guy, they then want to marry you, be a girlfriend, and HOLD OUT LONGER.
Now go ask on...My office hours are now.
Some free advice:
There are codes we live by. Don't break the codes and in the long run, you will be the man.
Watch out for Wankstas.
Appear as you want to be, you don't HAVE to be that person. But to HER, you must be that way.
Good girls LOVE bad guys. They want NOTHING from you but sex and to be involved with you. These chics are great for non-relationship sex.
When girls find out you are actually a good guy, they then want to marry you, be a girlfriend, and HOLD OUT LONGER.
Now go ask on...My office hours are now.
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Originally posted by Python2121
ok lets say im hanging out with a girl and its cool and we're friends, go out to lunch every now and then
how do i go from that to sex?
ok lets say im hanging out with a girl and its cool and we're friends, go out to lunch every now and then
how do i go from that to sex?
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Originally posted by Python2121
ok lets say im hanging out with a girl and its cool and we're friends, go out to lunch every now and then
how do i go from that to sex?
ok lets say im hanging out with a girl and its cool and we're friends, go out to lunch every now and then
how do i go from that to sex?
by being nice 2 her, she thinks of u as long term material, not right now material
and thus is holding out on the sex...u need 2 make ur intentions clear and stop being shy...a few compliments but dont overdo them and make some moves on her
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What's my problem?
ok lets say im hanging out with a girl and its cool and we're friends, go out to lunch every now and then how do i go from that to sex?
Or be that SHOULDER she cries on, when the other man messes up, make your move. But this requires time and patience young one.....
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Originally posted by bkknight369
unsure...your avatar is so disturbing...cant decide whether to laugh my ass off...or become aroused... @_@
unsure...your avatar is so disturbing...cant decide whether to laugh my ass off...or become aroused... @_@
hmm tough predicament there bkk, i say do whatever feels better
And I agree w/1sicklex, girls usually decide w/in a few hrs of getting 2 know you whether u will be a friend or a partner to them. If ur on the friend ladder, i'll be very difficult 2 climb on the other ladder, altho it is possible
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Sick, I got one for you...
I'm currently in a long term relationship... The girl thinks that we are going to get married... but I'm not even ready to think like that yet. Am I wrong to stay with her?? All my friends and families who knows me well, thinks that I'm a biatch for leading her on like that... But what I don't get is, whats wrong with just wanting to be with someone for the sake of being with them, but I just don't want to take the plung yet with this whole marriage thing??
I'm currently in a long term relationship... The girl thinks that we are going to get married... but I'm not even ready to think like that yet. Am I wrong to stay with her?? All my friends and families who knows me well, thinks that I'm a biatch for leading her on like that... But what I don't get is, whats wrong with just wanting to be with someone for the sake of being with them, but I just don't want to take the plung yet with this whole marriage thing??
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1sic,
if you dont mind, could u hit up this thread and leave some advice
http://www.acura-cl.com/forums/showt...hreadid=112229
thnks brotha
if you dont mind, could u hit up this thread and leave some advice
http://www.acura-cl.com/forums/showt...hreadid=112229
thnks brotha
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I'm currently in a long term relationship... The girl thinks that we are going to get married... but I'm not even ready to think like that yet. Am I wrong to stay with her?? All my friends and families who knows me well, thinks that I'm a biatch for leading her on like that... But what I don't get is, whats wrong with just wanting to be with someone for the sake of being with them, but I just don't want to take the plung yet with this whole marriage thing??
Yeah, she may be mad if ya'll don't get married but that should not scar the great times you ARE HAVING NOW!!!
Women think ahead to much, they need to appreciate now.
You are NOT wrong to stay with her. But don't verbally lie. PIMPS, don't have to lie, Players do.
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hehe 1sic...got any credentials? if so...make some money off of this
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Need Dr-slick's help fast
ok i got a date with this chick tomarrow night after i get off of work, but her aunt is awol (dunno exactly why shes not there) so this girl has to go help with the kids so she has to go home early-ish.
ok i know this isn't a bs excuse cause i was at her house to drop something off and her mom explained that that was the resason why there were kids there (yeah i ran into her mom, who liked me)
so im gonna drop her off after dinner, how do i go in for the hookup (which will probably in the car) when i drop her off?
ok i know this isn't a bs excuse cause i was at her house to drop something off and her mom explained that that was the resason why there were kids there (yeah i ran into her mom, who liked me)
so im gonna drop her off after dinner, how do i go in for the hookup (which will probably in the car) when i drop her off?
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i have a question for dr love
alright my boyfriend of 2 yrs is going to college soon.. not far away at all, but i dont give a shit it's still college. he says hes not gonna cheat, what are the chances of that actually happening? im a senior in hs.
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Re: i have a question for dr love
Originally posted by iliketospeed
alright my boyfriend of 2 yrs is going to college soon.. not far away at all, but i dont give a shit it's still college. he says hes not gonna cheat, what are the chances of that actually happening? im a senior in hs.
alright my boyfriend of 2 yrs is going to college soon.. not far away at all, but i dont give a shit it's still college. he says hes not gonna cheat, what are the chances of that actually happening? im a senior in hs.
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Re: i have a question for dr love
Originally posted by iliketospeed
alright my boyfriend of 2 yrs is going to college soon.. not far away at all, but i dont give a shit it's still college. he says hes not gonna cheat, what are the chances of that actually happening? im a senior in hs.
alright my boyfriend of 2 yrs is going to college soon.. not far away at all, but i dont give a shit it's still college. he says hes not gonna cheat, what are the chances of that actually happening? im a senior in hs.
i'm kidding.... it doesnt matter what environment he's in. if a guy is a cheater, hes a cheater. simple as that. i've know dudes :cough: Fotis :cough: who wont touch a girl even if shes outrageously hot cuz they have SOs
I've also know married men who continue to go out on their "guys night out" and their main objective is pickin girls up.
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oh yeah... and it all comes down to trust. if u dont trust him from the get-go, why should he be good? You wont believe anything he says anyway. If he knows u trust him, he should have the respectability to awknowledge that and keep his pants on...
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YuppieCL whatever to u scrub. AND GET YOUR OWN THREAD.
The hookup? What R U talking about? I am not sure. YOu want to hit? I doubt anything would happen, b/c EVEN if the girl wanted too, with her Aunt, Mom, and kids around, she will think if anything happens, you will think she is a whore and easy.
Sorry. Better luck next time.
ok i got a date with this chick tomarrow night after i get off of work, but her aunt is awol (dunno exactly why shes not there) so this girl has to go help with the kids so she has to go home early-ish.
Sorry. Better luck next time.
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alright my boyfriend of 2 yrs is going to college soon.. not far away at all, but i dont give a shit it's still college
How far? Cause DISTANCE kills young relationships. Many stay together but both people are cheating.
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Originally posted by 1SICKLEX
Ahhh, yes this is the Man vs Women miscoummunication thing. First off, don't lie about anything. Say things like "we are enjoying the moment". You are not wrong for anything ONCE you don't lie. If ya'll spend a lot of time together, she will think you love her etc but to you, you might just like her company (and head). If she's willing to wait, THAT IS ON HER. Many women can't and won't give you an ultimatum.
Yeah, she may be mad if ya'll don't get married but that should not scar the great times you ARE HAVING NOW!!!
Women think ahead to much, they need to appreciate now.
You are NOT wrong to stay with her. But don't verbally lie. PIMPS, don't have to lie, Players do.
Ahhh, yes this is the Man vs Women miscoummunication thing. First off, don't lie about anything. Say things like "we are enjoying the moment". You are not wrong for anything ONCE you don't lie. If ya'll spend a lot of time together, she will think you love her etc but to you, you might just like her company (and head). If she's willing to wait, THAT IS ON HER. Many women can't and won't give you an ultimatum.
Yeah, she may be mad if ya'll don't get married but that should not scar the great times you ARE HAVING NOW!!!
Women think ahead to much, they need to appreciate now.
You are NOT wrong to stay with her. But don't verbally lie. PIMPS, don't have to lie, Players do.
The major problem is that in today's society people seems to have this notion of thinking that if a girl stays with me for over 2 years, I better damn well married her, otherwise I've wasted her time... I mean.. what's up with that!!
Anyway, thanks for the input lex... I feel better about not being the only asshole on the planet, because I know others thinks the same way.
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The major problem is that in today's society people seems to have this notion of thinking that if a girl stays with me for over 2 years, I better damn well married her, otherwise I've wasted her time... I mean.. what's up with that
Anyway, thanks for the input lex... I feel better about not being the only asshole on the planet, because I know others thinks the same way.
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Originally posted by 1SICKLEX
Well women still feel pressure to get married, if they don't many feel they have failed.
Well women still feel pressure to get married, if they don't many feel they have failed.
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How far? Cause DISTANCE kills young relationships. Many stay together but both people are cheating.
How far? Cause DISTANCE kills young relationships. Many stay together but both people are cheating.
Thanks for the input, I was dreading checking back. I thought your response would be something like, "ARE U INSANE OF COURSE HES GOING TO CHEAT U STUPID GIRL. " I like your high level of "professionalism" haha
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btw, do any of you know who iliketospeed's boyfriend is????? heh, i hope he reads this.........cuz then you will know soon enogh
btw, do any of you know who iliketospeed's boyfriend is????? heh, i hope he reads this.........cuz then you will know soon enogh
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Originally posted by YuppieCL
tell him not to hang out with me.
i'm kidding.... it doesnt matter what environment he's in. if a guy is a cheater, hes a cheater. simple as that. i've know dudes :cough: Fotis :cough: who wont touch a girl even if shes outrageously hot cuz they have SOs
I've also know married men who continue to go out on their "guys night out" and their main objective is pickin girls up.
tell him not to hang out with me.
i'm kidding.... it doesnt matter what environment he's in. if a guy is a cheater, hes a cheater. simple as that. i've know dudes :cough: Fotis :cough: who wont touch a girl even if shes outrageously hot cuz they have SOs
I've also know married men who continue to go out on their "guys night out" and their main objective is pickin girls up.
seriously, thanks. i hope you're not bullshittin
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thats true isnt it..isnt there a stat like a women over 30 has a better chance to get hit by lightining than get married or something? some parts of american society suck
Thanks for the input, I was dreading checking back. I thought your response would be something like, "ARE U INSANE OF COURSE HES GOING TO CHEAT U STUPID GIRL. " I like your high level of "professionalism" haha
If you really want to keep him, talk to him and explain you love him and you KNOW there will be much temptation out there but think of ME first before you do it.
Listen to the song by Donell Jones "Where I wanna be" and you will see the man's perspective.
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Originally posted by TypeSAddict
btw, do any of you know who iliketospeed's boyfriend is????? heh, i hope he reads this.........cuz then you will know soon enogh
btw, do any of you know who iliketospeed's boyfriend is????? heh, i hope he reads this.........cuz then you will know soon enogh