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View Poll Results: Do women enjoy giving BJs?
I'm a man - and I think they really do enjoy it
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I'm a man - and I think they don't really like it, but do it as a favour or obligation
47.47%
I'm a woman - and I think most women enjoy it
3.80%
I'm a woman - and I think most women think it's a chore
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Do women actually enjoy giving BJs?

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Old 07-27-2005, 08:07 PM
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Originally Posted by SDCGTSX
Michiraces2much and sasha like to give blow jobs! Extra, extra! Read all about it!
Well yeah.
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I enjoy it.
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Originally Posted by Michiraces2much
Well yeah.

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who gives a fawk as long as they do it
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Originally Posted by youngTL
This kind of view makes a lot of sense to me. Does it carry any sexual satisfaction for you like it does for me? I've also wondered if women get aroused by giving one.
i get aroused any time i'm naked with a guy i like.. but no, the actual act itself doesn't arouse me, at least not in the same way it does a guy. i was with a guy once who CAME while he was going down on me and was getting me off. there was proof in his boxers.
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
i get aroused any time i'm naked with a guy i like.. but no, the actual act itself doesn't arouse me, at least not in the same way it does a guy. i was with a guy once who CAME while he was going down on me and was getting me off. there was proof in his boxers.
Your name isn't Nadia is it? was the guy Jim?

Sorry that seemed very American Pie'ish.... I don't see how that happens to guys but I guess we're all different.
Old 07-27-2005, 09:33 PM
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I do enjoy it; I have no problem with BJs.

The last guy I was seeing loved BJs. And when I mean loved BJs, I mean LOVED 'em. Making him happy, made me happy. And I always got something in return.
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Being there are more men on here a good poll would be to see how many guys enjoy licking the roast beef clam pie thing. Most of my black friends say that don't like to for some reason.
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It can be a job. To quote Sex and the City:
"Easy? You men have no idea what we're dealing with down there. Teeth placement, and jaw stress, and suction, and gag reflex, and all the while bobbing up and down, moaning and trying to breathe through our noses. Easy? Honey, they don't call it a job for nothin'!"
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Originally Posted by 98CLChick
I enjoy it.

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Originally Posted by Michiraces2much
It can be a job. To quote Sex and the City:
"Easy? You men have no idea what we're dealing with down there. Teeth placement, and jaw stress, and suction, and gag reflex, and all the while bobbing up and down, moaning and trying to breathe through our noses. Easy? Honey, they don't call it a job for nothin'!"
well if they know what they are doing it doesn't take too long...minutes.

The bad ones - they can sit there for 10+ minutes and its just like "jeez, your just not doing it right"
Old 07-27-2005, 11:20 PM
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BJs?
Nope....nothing of that sort. I only got it from FAF's of the past...So it's been over 4 yrs since I got head, and I don't forsee getting it anytime soon
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Originally Posted by Shoofin
Nope....nothing of that sort. I only got it from FAF's of the past...So it's been over 4 yrs since I got head, and I don't forsee getting it anytime soon
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Originally Posted by Elephantman_nosefacehead
Being there are more men on here a good poll would be to see how many guys enjoy licking the roast beef clam pie thing. Most of my black friends say that don't like to for some reason.


I'm always afraid I'll die from laughter reading your posts! Maybe you should start the aformentioned poll. I can guarantee a no vote for me.
Old 07-28-2005, 12:05 AM
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I do enjoy it, but that's only because I only go down on the guys I'm with, if they're just an FTF they don't receive the extra benefit of a BJ. I prefer to use it as a tool to keep my man coming back for more, plus I enjoy pleasing the one I love.
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Originally Posted by PsychoInDenial
I do enjoy it, but that's only because I only go down on the guys I'm with, if they're just an FTF they don't receive the extra benefit of a BJ. I prefer to use it as a tool to keep my man coming back for more, plus I enjoy pleasing the one I love.
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Old 07-28-2005, 12:46 AM
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They might enjoy it as much as I like going down on them....and I dont really like it.
Old 07-28-2005, 03:04 AM
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Old 07-28-2005, 08:23 AM
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Originally Posted by Shoofin
Nope....nothing of that sort. I only got it from FAF's of the past...So it's been over 4 yrs since I got head, and I don't forsee getting it anytime soon

Sorry dude

I think they enjoy it more than not but it can be a chore at times. Depends on the mood. I know I'm going to either get a good one or bad one depending on postioning. If she makes an effort to get comfortable than you know she's into it. If she has to stretch and doesn't bother moving than you knwo your both wasting time.
Old 07-28-2005, 08:45 AM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
hey, if you have nothing intelligent to say, shut your trap.
You know it's true.

Originally Posted by youngTL
I did that on purpose to prevent guys like you for voting for "I'm a woman..."
i didn't even think about that.
Old 07-28-2005, 10:58 AM
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Every woman I have ever been with has professed to love to give head. Why would they lie?


but then I have a gorgeous dick..or so I'm told...
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I would say to each her own.

In my experience, it's 50/50. Most I haven't stuck around long enough to ask how they feel about it.
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Originally Posted by Shoofin
Nope....nothing of that sort. I only got it from FAF's of the past...So it's been over 4 yrs since I got head, and I don't forsee getting it anytime soon

Why not? Aren't you married? Can't you just... ask her?
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Originally Posted by mfkitson
Every woman I have ever been with has professed to love to give head. Why would they lie?


but then I have a gorgeous dick..or so I'm told...
Of course they would lie! They want you to THINK they are liking it, even if they don't.
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Originally Posted by youngTL
Of course they would lie! They want you to THINK they are liking it, even if they don't.

If they can fool me into believing it, thats good enough for me.
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Originally Posted by Caliadria
Why not? Aren't you married? Can't you just... ask her?

Yes, I am..I have asked. My wife was a biology major who knows too much about the human anatomy, she's so erked out by the bacteria and stuff inside us....But she doesn't have a problem with kissing...
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Originally Posted by Shoofin
Yes, I am..I have asked. My wife was a biology major who knows too much about the human anatomy, she's so erked out by the bacteria and stuff inside us....But she doesn't have a problem with kissing...
Sounds like thats just an excuse. If shes a biology major then she'll know that there is 100000 times more bacteria in her mouth than on your dick. The mouth is a cesspool of germs.
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Originally Posted by fdl
Sounds like thats just an excuse. If shes a biology major then she'll know that there is 100000 times more bacteria in her mouth than on your dick. The mouth is a cesspool of germs.

Like I said, I really and , and in conclusion ....Then again, fellatio is against my religion...
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Originally Posted by Shoofin
Like I said, I really and , and in conclusion ....Then again, fellatio is against my religion...
Ummm...doesn't the Song of Solomon have something to say about it? At least according to some scholars...

"Awake, north wind,
and come, south wind!
Blow on my garden,
that its fragrance may spread abroad.
Let my lover come into his garden
and taste its choice fruits."

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Originally Posted by Shoofin
Yes, I am..I have asked. My wife was a biology major who knows too much about the human anatomy, she's so erked out by the bacteria and stuff inside us....But she doesn't have a problem with kissing...

Worst excuse ever
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Gotta love Family Guy.......
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Originally Posted by Shoofin
Like I said, I really and , and in conclusion ....Then again, fellatio is against my religion...
Wow, I'd be quitting that religion pretty fast, no offense man.
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Originally Posted by Shoofin
Yes, I am..I have asked. My wife was a biology major who knows too much about the human anatomy, she's so erked out by the bacteria and stuff inside us....But she doesn't have a problem with kissing...
Tell her it's like a flu shot! You have to build up antibodies against the bacteria.

Pretty lame excuse if you ask me. Does she let you stick your bare pp in her? I think there is more bacteria inside her than outside of you......
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It's ok....As much as I enjoyed the past, that's all it is. I'm used to fellatio-less sex, so it's not really a problem..We find other ways in foreplay.
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Originally Posted by Shoofin
Like I said, I really and , and in conclusion ....Then again, fellatio is against my religion...
Hmmm... I missed that part of Torah lessons. So is masturbation, though. That never stopped me (or 99.99$ of Jewish guys).

That said, I don't get it nearly enough, so I'd have to say women either think it's a chore, or just something they do to get something in return.
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Masturbation is a big nono for the Jews. This is the main reason I am Agnostic.
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Masturbation is a big nono for the Jews. This is the main reason I am Agnostic.
Well, they say "practicing religion" for a reason. No matter how much I practice, there are certain aspects I'll never get right - nor do I want to.

Edit: I just realized I used a $ instead of a % in my previous post. It was really a typo - I'm not that consumed with money!!
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Masturbation is a big nono for the Jews. This is the main reason I am Agnostic.
Is that why Jewish girls are so free with the poon in college? Very true. If it weren't for them, I don't know what I'd have done.
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Originally Posted by SDCGTSX
Is that why Jewish girls are so free with the poon in college? Very true. If it weren't for them, I don't know what I'd have done.
Well, us jews, generally aren't taught from a young age to be ashamed of our bodies or of sex. Sex before marriage isn't a sin, and truthfully i had never heard the masterbation rule although i'm not orthodox or even a practicing jew anymore.

So basically yes, thats one reason that jew poon, is good poon. I'd still like to end up with a jewish girl someday. Not really religious, just someone who was raised jewish.

But in response to the OP, i've had some girls that swear they love it and some that didn't care much either way. The ones who love it say that they just like to see me enjoying it... which is really the only reason i'd go down yonder. I don't hate giving a girl head, but it's not excactly my favorite thing to do.


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