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Old 07-18-2005, 04:41 AM
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Just stay in reasonable shape, dress decently in your own style, be friendly and have something interesting to say. Yet be yourself. No one likes a fraud.
Well said.
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Response to some of the replies...Funny you always hear that looks aren't that important to woman but what is the first thing they ask "Is he hot" when a woman talks about a guy or when they are trying to fix them up with someone. Girls scream for George Clooney, not so much for George Costanza. But then again there is Pauly Shore....aye yi yi woman are confusing

As for Vin Diesel....I don't get what woman see in that guy unless it is the primitive cro magnum man biological drive kicking in. I think if I was a girl I would go for a Will Farrel he looked pretty handsome in Bewitched and funny as shit too. :theghey:
Old 07-18-2005, 07:58 AM
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who the hell am i trying to kid? of course he has to be good-looking or he ain't getting a second glance.

first comes physical attraction, then all the emotional and intellectual stuff. however, if there is no intellectual connection, he gets the boot too.
Old 07-18-2005, 07:59 AM
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Hey E-man. No worries, mate. With your user name, you are already attractive to me.
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Originally Posted by Elephantman_nosefacehead
Response to some of the replies...Funny you always hear that looks aren't that important to woman but what is the first thing they ask "Is he hot" when a woman talks about a guy or when they are trying to fix them up with someone. Girls scream for George Clooney, not so much for George Costanza. But then again there is Pauly Shore....aye yi yi woman are confusing

As for Vin Diesel....I don't get what woman see in that guy unless it is the primitive cro magnum man biological drive kicking in. I think if I was a girl I would go for a Will Farrel he looked pretty handsome in Bewitched and funny as shit too. :theghey:
I hear you man. In the perfect world, looks wouldn't matter but people who think that way needs to come back to reality. IMO, girls want the total package, looks, personality, money. If you want the foot in the door, you better be decent looking or have girl friends who will talk highly of you to their girl friends.

Bodywise though, you pretty much meet people with your shirt on, so I think you should be ok with having an ok body, but you better be somewhat good looking and a great personality.
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I do think woman have a wider variance of what is good looking then men. Have you ever been out with some girls and some ordinary or silly looking guy(at least to me) comes by and they get all goo goo eyed?
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout


Im out of shape and have a great girl.

Girls dont care about physical looks as much as guys do. Thats why you always see hot chicks with ugly guys.

really? I might have a chance with Nina then.
Old 07-18-2005, 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted by wstevens
Hey E-man. No worries, mate. With your user name, you are already attractive to me.
Old 07-18-2005, 09:22 AM
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Old 07-18-2005, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted by Elephantman_nosefacehead
Response to some of the replies...Funny you always hear that looks aren't that important to woman but what is the first thing they ask "Is he hot" when a woman talks about a guy or when they are trying to fix them up with someone. Girls scream for George Clooney, not so much for George Costanza. But then again there is Pauly Shore....aye yi yi woman are confusing

As for Vin Diesel....I don't get what woman see in that guy unless it is the primitive cro magnum man biological drive kicking in. I think if I was a girl I would go for a Will Farrel he looked pretty handsome in Bewitched and funny as shit too. :theghey:
Will Farrel?

He's got the funny part down...that's about it.
Old 07-18-2005, 09:48 AM
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You have a 6-8 inch dick???

Old 07-18-2005, 12:48 PM
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I'm a fat fuck, and in college i had no problems getting laid with hot ass I mean if i was obese then maybe i wouldnt get laid, but it's all about looks. The girls may see a guy and be like "he's hot." But when they talk to him and try and hang out with him, he may be a moron. This holds true for anyone, not just muscle bound jocks. I know plenty of fat asses that are with hot chicks, and i know plenty of muscle guys with hot chicks as well.
Old 07-18-2005, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted by bigman
But when they talk to him and try and hang out with him, he may be a moron.
Actually I've seen lots of morons who date hot chicks too. There are probably even more morons with hot chicks than there are smart guys. I wouldn't believe the stuff about how intellect matters.
Old 07-18-2005, 03:11 PM
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depends on the woman. Everyone is different. I'm pretty sure this girl I've had sex with the past month is only interested in my looks/body. I know this because I've probably only said about three words to her and she won't stop calling for some booty.
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Originally Posted by phipark
depends on the woman. Everyone is different. I'm pretty sure this girl I've had sex with the past month is only interested in my looks/body. I know this because I've probably only said about three words to her and she won't stop calling for some booty.



You put MSG on your dick didn't you
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Chloroform has a way of making their preference irrelevant.
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
Chloroform has a way of making their preference irrelevant.

we still on for saturday? I'll bring the gauze
Old 07-18-2005, 04:32 PM
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we still on for saturday? I'll bring the gauze
What are the odds we'll get 2 hemophiliacs in the same month?
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While we are on the subject of the 80's, I am desprately looking for the lyrics of "Jam on it"...I can't remember what one hit wonder sang it, but it was about that guy "Cozmo D, from outerspace"....
Nuecleus!!!!

When I was a little baby boy, my mamma gave me brand new toy. Two turn tables witha mic and I learned to rock like a dolamite

Time went by on gods creations and I knew some day I would rock the nation
So I made up my mind of just what to do and I joined with the jam on production crew......A go crazy....a go crazy....don't let your body be lazy
A don't stop the body rock untill your eyesight starts to get haizy

Just clean out your ears and open your eyes and if you wanna hear the music just come alive
and if you don't know how get ready to learn cause cosmos taking his turn to burn
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Oh. You don't know?! I'm a shemale.
Knew it! Saw that coming down the pike 10 miles away.
Old 07-18-2005, 09:58 PM
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Originally Posted by CJams
Nuecleus!!!!

When I was a little baby boy, my mamma gave me brand new toy. Two turn tables witha mic and I learned to rock like a dolamite

Time went by on gods creations and I knew some day I would rock the nation
So I made up my mind of just what to do and I joined with the jam on production crew......A go crazy....a go crazy....don't let your body be lazy
A don't stop the body rock untill your eyesight starts to get haizy

Just clean out your ears and open your eyes and if you wanna hear the music just come alive
and if you don't know how get ready to learn cause cosmos taking his turn to burn
bwahahaha...

still have it on 12" Complete with Cozmo-D rocking the place on the cover. Do I hear first bid of 300 bucks?

wickie-wickie-wickie-shun!
Old 07-20-2005, 08:55 AM
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looks get you in the door, personality keeps you there.
Old 07-20-2005, 09:26 AM
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I don't know why ANYONE would worry about getting too bulky or strong. Do you know how hard it is to get that big like the freaky people? I don't think there is one person who found himself looking like a freak by working out like most normal people. I had to train myself dedicatedly for a year just to reach 245 bench. And I couldn't even maintain it after half assing my workouts for the last year.
Old 07-20-2005, 09:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout

Girls dont care about physical looks as much as guys do. Thats why you always see hot chicks with ugly guys.


I'm surprised no one (except I think Minch00) mentioned MONEY.


Hot chicks with ugly guys? Hot chicks with fat guys? There are 2 options: Either these girls aren't as hot as you like to think, or the guys are loaded.


Money makes ANY guy attractive. Short, fat, ugly, doesn't matter. When you see good looking (and I mean smokin hot) women walking around with a type of guy that seems waaay out of his league, rest assured, the guy's got money.
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I have 2 neighbors that if you saw them, you'd think they were your average not that good looking guys, and both are short (5'4" or so) but both have hot gf / wife. My next door neighbor is a squat, not fat but stocky mexican guy. His wife is a pretty cute Texan. Another neighbor is a short bald asian guy. Nice guy, but his fiance is a hot blond chick. A little trashy but very nice. Goes to show, a little dedication, timing, and I'm sure money counted somewhat, and you've got yourself a nice hot girl.
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Originally Posted by SDCGTSX
I have 2 neighbors that if you saw them, you'd think they were your average not that good looking guys, and both are short (5'4" or so) but both have hot gf / wife. My next door neighbor is a squat, not fat but stocky mexican guy. His wife is a pretty cute Texan. Another neighbor is a short bald asian guy. Nice guy, but his fiance is a hot blond chick. A little trashy but very nice. Goes to show, a little dedication, timing, and I'm sure money counted somewhat, and you've got yourself a nice hot girl.

...hence, key word $$$
Old 07-21-2005, 01:39 AM
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I don't know... personality and confidence play a major role. You also have to take into account what girls feel comfortable around. People are really dynamic... you often can't make any strict calls.

But, as far as muscles go, I don't know if it's maybe the confidence I've gained after working out, or the actual fact that I'm in better shape, but I've noticed more girls looking in my direction after actually working hard at a gym. It certainly hasn't hurt.
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Originally Posted by GOOSE


I'm surprised no one (except I think Minch00) mentioned MONEY.


Hot chicks with ugly guys? Hot chicks with fat guys? There are 2 options: Either these girls aren't as hot as you like to think, or the guys are loaded.


Money makes ANY guy attractive. Short, fat, ugly, doesn't matter. When you see good looking (and I mean smokin hot) women walking around with a type of guy that seems waaay out of his league, rest assured, the guy's got money.
WRONG. When I met my wife who is almost 12 years my junior and very attractive, I was hardly rich. Its not money. It is THE WHOLE PACKAGE.
Old 07-21-2005, 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted by 1killercls
WRONG. When I met my wife who is almost 12 years my junior and very attractive, I was hardly rich. Its not money. It is THE WHOLE PACKAGE.

and some packages are bigger then others :ghey:
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Originally Posted by 1killercls
WRONG. When I met my wife who is almost 12 years my junior and very attractive, I was hardly rich. Its not money. It is THE WHOLE PACKAGE.

I agree with the whole package thing. you are probably a good looking dude with a personality that your wife likes. Money in this case isn't involved. I'm not saying money is the only thing that attracts women.

I'm just saying that money will make any guy more attractive.


And then again there are exceptions to everything.
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I'd have to agree with the whole package thing. I think in a lot of these hot girl / ugly guy cases, the guy provides for the girl something that she is looking for that is more important to her than just looks. First you have to have a girl who doesn't value looks THAT much. Second she has to like something that the guy provides for her (security, love, affection, devotion, etc.) that she doesn't think she can find elsewhere. Also, I think most women are better at just picking something that they like and sticking with it. Guys, or me anyhow, tend to look around to see if anything better is around. Monogamy is hard.
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Guys, or me anyhow, tend to look around to see if anything better is around. Monogamy is hard.
Tell me about it...
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WRONG. When I met my wife who is almost 12 years my junior and very attractive, I was hardly rich. Its not money. It is THE WHOLE PACKAGE.


I'm a complete cheapass.
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Ok, this thread needs to reach a page 4. I am tired of seeing the top post of me asking Rmatic if he has a big dick......
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL


I'm a complete cheapass.

Awesome new avatar Ken


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Ripped guys?

Well if you ask me....a man who has a sharp wit, takes care of himself, has a sense of humor, and can carry a conversation fares better than any guy just bustin out of a shirt...LoL..
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You bitches should read up on what the Deacon Effect is....it explains everything in this whole thread.
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You bitches should read up on what the Deacon Effect is....it explains everything in this whole thread.
Actually they should read up on the ladder theory.

www.laddertheory.com
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amen to the ladder theory
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That ladder theory thing is funny....


Another thing to watch out for is the code words women use. Here is a translation guide for dealing with women.


Says: I want a man who is motivated and has goals.
Means: I want a rich man

Says: I want a man who knows how to treat a woman.
Means: I want a rich man

Says: He's from a really good family.
Means: He's from a really rich family.

I'm sure you get the point. Let's move on


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