Divorcing my husband
04-16-2008, 10:40 AM
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Ok this thread is really starting to bring me down with all this slow singing and flower bringing. Sara wants to go out and have a good time. What the hell is wrong with that? The last thing that she should do is crawl in a hole and wither away because her relationship died. Not her, the relationship. Did anyone actually read her post, or did you all stop at the title? 
Sara knows we love her...what she wants to know is will we MAKE love to her! Sara, yes, I will tear your ass up! You are probably still sexy, and you still have some good years in you! Now if you can WORK a stick like you shift a stick, then girl dayyuuummm!
Let all subsequent posts reflect that...
Sara knows we love her...what she wants to know is will we MAKE love to her! Sara, yes, I will tear your ass up! You are probably still sexy, and you still have some good years in you! Now if you can WORK a stick like you shift a stick, then girl dayyuuummm!
Let all subsequent posts reflect that...
04-16-2008, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted by wndrlst
There are a million different reasons for 2 people to divorce. I've said it before, but if you're not one of the two people in the relationship, you really have no idea what's happening, regardless of how it looks on the surface.
I'm 31. I'm really supposed to be alone the rest of my life? No partner, no sex, no potential to have a family, no companionship?
And who said anything about immediate? I've read some of Sara's posts on here - they've been working on things for a very long time.
And if you're referring to me when you say immediate - my marriage effectively ended September 12, 2006 when that horse handed me the traumatic brain injury. It just took a while for the dust to settle and for us to realize (and then admit to) the consequences.
Life goes on - why would you speak of throwing in the towel that way? The lucky ones will have the fortitude to make the best of what's in front of them at any given moment.
I'm 31. I'm really supposed to be alone the rest of my life? No partner, no sex, no potential to have a family, no companionship?
And who said anything about immediate? I've read some of Sara's posts on here - they've been working on things for a very long time.
And if you're referring to me when you say immediate - my marriage effectively ended September 12, 2006 when that horse handed me the traumatic brain injury. It just took a while for the dust to settle and for us to realize (and then admit to) the consequences.
Life goes on - why would you speak of throwing in the towel that way? The lucky ones will have the fortitude to make the best of what's in front of them at any given moment.
04-16-2008, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Ok this thread is really starting to bring me down with all this slow singing and flower bringing. Sara wants to go out and have a good time. What the hell is wrong with that? The last thing that she should do is crawl in a hole and wither away because her relationship died. Not her, the relationship. Did anyone actually read her post, or did you all stop at the title?
Sara knows we love her...what she wants to know is will we MAKE love to her! Sara, yes, I will tear your ass up! You are probably still sexy, and you still have some good years in you! Now if you can WORK a stick like you shift a stick, then girl dayyuuummm!
Let all subsequent posts reflect that...
Sara knows we love her...what she wants to know is will we MAKE love to her! Sara, yes, I will tear your ass up! You are probably still sexy, and you still have some good years in you! Now if you can WORK a stick like you shift a stick, then girl dayyuuummm!
Let all subsequent posts reflect that...
She's a woman not a Buick.
04-16-2008, 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted by mrsteve
She's a woman not a Buick.
I don't know...what's her blue book?
04-16-2008, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted by gsi00154
Why do people get divorced and then immediatly jump back out in the dating scene looking for another relationship. If I ever get divorced, I will not be getting married again.
Never say never unless you were once faced with that situation.
04-16-2008, 10:56 AM
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Originally Posted by gsi00154
I am not refering to you in my post and did not know that you were recently divorced. I was speaking mainly from my point of view towards marriage as well as some of my married friends. I love my wife and kids to death but if things went south I don't think I would have the strength, will or patience to start a new relationship that would lead to marriage.
I think we can't really know what we'll do in a given situation until we're actually in it. Particularly the more difficult, complicated ones. May you never have to find out.
04-16-2008, 10:57 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
This is the ONLY reason that we have asked for noods. Really....the ONLY reason.
04-16-2008, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted by gsi00154
I love my wife and kids to death but if things went south I don't think I would have the strength, will or patience to start a new relationship that would lead to marriage.
I divorced when my daughter was 5, and vowed to be semelparous, as she was such a blessing to me. I snipped, snipped and made sure of that later on. But before I did, I am sure that if I found someone else I would've given my all to it once again and had another one if need be. It's commonplace as a man to swear off future marriages or serious relationships that might lead to one. But life is so fulfilling when we share it with another of equal importance. So the best thing to always do is to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back on that horse and ride!
After all, the ability to adapt is inherent in us all...
04-16-2008, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted by wndrlst
Well sure. You can't be expected to take her word for her claims of no dents and no rust under the hood. That's understandable.
04-16-2008, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
See, now that's good thinking on your part.
04-16-2008, 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Ok this thread is really starting to bring me down with all this slow singing and flower bringing. Sara wants to go out and have a good time. What the hell is wrong with that? The last thing that she should do is crawl in a hole and wither away because her relationship died. Not her, the relationship. Did anyone actually read her post, or did you all stop at the title?
Sara knows we love her...what she wants to know is will we MAKE love to her! Sara, yes, I will tear your ass up! You are probably still sexy, and you still have some good years in you! Now if you can WORK a stick like you shift a stick, then girl dayyuuummm!
Let all subsequent posts reflect that...
Sara knows we love her...what she wants to know is will we MAKE love to her! Sara, yes, I will tear your ass up! You are probably still sexy, and you still have some good years in you! Now if you can WORK a stick like you shift a stick, then girl dayyuuummm!
Let all subsequent posts reflect that...
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH.
I got to try that with my girl. If u can work a stick like u shift a stick... lol
You are crazy dude..
04-16-2008, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted by dom
You'll have no problems finding someone else.
Thanks, dom. Sweet of you to say.
04-16-2008, 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted by dom
You'll have no problems finding someone else.
04-16-2008, 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted by mrsteve
Out of your league. Take my word for it.
Stop it...I'm no such thing. You're sweet, too. 
Now knock it off.
04-16-2008, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted by wndrlst
Stop it...I'm no such thing. You're sweet, too. Now knock it off.
See guys... that's how you be nice without e-dry humping her across town.
Jesus Christ some people on this forum.
04-16-2008, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted by wndrlst
Stop it...I'm no such thing. You're sweet, too. Now knock it off.
04-16-2008, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I was due...
Sorry to hear laides, but hopefully you're better off in the long run.
04-16-2008, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted by mrsteve
See guys... that's how you be nice without e-dry humping her across town.
Jesus Christ some people on this forum.
Jesus Christ some people on this forum.
Were you the king of leghump, or was that Kurt?
04-16-2008, 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Were you the king of leghump, or was that Kurt?
The last time I was leg humping was before I dated Michi which was in '05
04-16-2008, 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Fixed...
04-16-2008, 12:05 PM
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Things generally work out for the best. There are reasons relationships work and there are reasons they don't and noone necessarily needs to be blamed one way or another. So, close that door and find the one that's opening. Post away, we're here for you.
04-16-2008, 12:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Ashburner
I feel your pain and I'm pretty much in the same boat- except we were only engaged but we have 2 kids together. She asked me to leave the house Monday night 
Did your Chinese friend call?
04-16-2008, 05:02 PM
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O.M.G... SHOES! AND SHOPPING TIME!
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^^ what? no more embedding?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wCF3ywukQYA
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^^ what? no more embedding?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wCF3ywukQYA
04-16-2008, 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by wndrlst
I don't know...what's her blue book?
seriously though- good luck.
04-16-2008, 05:07 PM
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Whaaaa???? You split too? You know you right in my backyard girl! Hold up, let me sniff the air real quick and see if I smell some fresh meat out here! AAHHHHHH!!! Hahahahaha!! 
You better watch your back...nah, that's my job sugar! Hey Sara, I think with a little practice between the three of us, I can whip both of ya'll back into dating shape!! You know how I do!
You better watch your back...nah, that's my job sugar! Hey Sara, I think with a little practice between the three of us, I can whip both of ya'll back into dating shape!! You know how I do!
04-16-2008, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted by mrsteve
See guys... that's how you be nice without e-dry humping her across town.
Jesus Christ some people on this forum.
Jesus Christ some people on this forum.
with no hope of scoring. Everyboy else is just having fun while you are "policing" the action. My guess is you are either gay or an old fart that doesn't get any so you want to spoil the fun of the local faithful? 
Guess what...I'm still fucking the Buick...and the Caddy (Sara) too...
04-16-2008, 06:05 PM
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Originally Posted by darksom1
And that's how you kiss ass with no hope of scoring. Everyboy else is just having fun while you are "policing" the action. My guess is you are either gay or an old fart that doesn't get any so you want to spoil the fun of the local faithful?
Guess what...I'm still fucking the Buick (Sara)...and the Caddy (wndrist) too...
with no hope of scoring. Everyboy else is just having fun while you are "policing" the action. My guess is you are either gay or an old fart that doesn't get any so you want to spoil the fun of the local faithful? Guess what...I'm still fucking the Buick (Sara)...and the Caddy (wndrist) too...
04-16-2008, 06:18 PM
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Oh jesus, what have we done here?
How the hell did this thread get soo off track?
I am sure at this point in life, you both have a wonderful set of friends and also some fun hobbies. Use them to meet new people through, and I am sure you will find someone to make you happy. Or at least someone to make you breakfast.
How the hell did this thread get soo off track?
I am sure at this point in life, you both have a wonderful set of friends and also some fun hobbies. Use them to meet new people through, and I am sure you will find someone to make you happy. Or at least someone to make you breakfast.
04-16-2008, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted by darksom1
I divorced when my daughter was 5, and vowed to be semelparous, as she was such a blessing to me.
Shit, I had to check the dictionary on that word - thought it was some ebonics at first. Can I axe you another question, do you actually pick up skanky hoes with your vociferousness???