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06-29-2004, 08:13 AM
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Okay, long story short last night a friend of mine who I've been attracted to for the longest time invites me over. This wasnt the first invite, all the previous ones I had turned down because I had a bf, but now that I didnt have one I decided to take him up on the offer. Needless to say some 
went on and a lot of 
. My dilemma is that I have no idea how to act around him now. The thing is that he has a gf, who I really dont give a shit about since I dont know her and from what I've seen of her she seems like a real bitch anyway. I dont want a relationship with him, I just kind of want to keep what we have going as long as possible or until he gets caught. How do I let him know that I want to keep it going? We talked about continuing it into old age
but I dont know if he was serious and I want to let him know that I'm serious about it. A woman has to get hers somehow right 
If that made no sense I basically want to know what would be the most beneficial way to act around him now, and how to keep this going.
went on and a lot of . My dilemma is that I have no idea how to act around him now. The thing is that he has a gf, who I really dont give a shit about since I dont know her and from what I've seen of her she seems like a real bitch anyway. I dont want a relationship with him, I just kind of want to keep what we have going as long as possible or until he gets caught. How do I let him know that I want to keep it going? We talked about continuing it into old age but I dont know if he was serious and I want to let him know that I'm serious about it. A woman has to get hers somehow right If that made no sense I basically want to know what would be the most beneficial way to act around him now, and how to keep this going.
06-29-2004, 10:38 AM
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I have had a relationship like this with agirl for the past 4 years, except she is the one that has been in a relationship the whole time and I am the "other man".
Basically when we are around each other we act like the friends that we are, nobody else except two of my boys who never hang around her know what we are doing, and I don't think any of her friends knows. We have an unspoken agreement that when I invite her over to my apartment it means that we are going to fuck, to this day we have never uttered the words "lets have sex" it's just known if we are alone in a safe place we are fucking.
We fucked on Friday after she came over to "pick something up" her family and my family have been long time friends, and she has had a boyfrined for about 5 years now so nobody even thinks twice if they heard she stopped by my place they just assume she's getting something for her Mom that my aunt gave to me to give to her or whatever. She did start feeling guilty this last time though saying that she had to find a way to stop having sex with me.......as she stroked my cock I said I understood and that anytime she wanted to stop I would be cool, then she gave me a blowjob heheheheheh..............The Wad is irresistible!
Basically when we are around each other we act like the friends that we are, nobody else except two of my boys who never hang around her know what we are doing, and I don't think any of her friends knows. We have an unspoken agreement that when I invite her over to my apartment it means that we are going to fuck, to this day we have never uttered the words "lets have sex" it's just known if we are alone in a safe place we are fucking.
We fucked on Friday after she came over to "pick something up" her family and my family have been long time friends, and she has had a boyfrined for about 5 years now so nobody even thinks twice if they heard she stopped by my place they just assume she's getting something for her Mom that my aunt gave to me to give to her or whatever. She did start feeling guilty this last time though saying that she had to find a way to stop having sex with me.......as she stroked my cock
I said I understood and that anytime she wanted to stop I would be cool, then she gave me a blowjob heheheheheh..............The Wad is irresistible!
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just act normal. if you guys used to hang out, keep hanging out, even if you don't hook up that day. if you want some, go over! if you don't, that doesn't mean you can't hang out w/ him "as friends" or whatever.
i think you're in a win-win situation. i doubt you can do anything wrong girl... more power to ya!
i think you're in a win-win situation. i doubt you can do anything wrong girl... more power to ya!
06-29-2004, 03:11 PM
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I just dont believe in the cheating matter, my ex did that and it was the worst thing you could do. He should just end it with her and you two just have your "friendship". I still give you the 
for gettin yours, but what if a guy you were dating was doing that to you. 
for gettin yours, but what if a guy you were dating was doing that to you.
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I wonder the same thing myself then I see sites like:
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and then i realize why!
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and then i realize why!
06-29-2004, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted by bent09
"The thing is that he has a gf, who I really dont give a shit about since I dont know her and from what I've seen of her she seems like a real bitch anyway."
Proof girls are evil.
Proof girls are evil.
06-29-2004, 06:33 PM
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you know.. its really fucking gay that when a guy posts about sleeping with another girl behind his girlfriends back, most of you dont mind and think theres nothing wrong with it.
but oh.. no no, dont let a woman sleep with someone whos in a relationship. poo on you all.
but oh.. no no, dont let a woman sleep with someone whos in a relationship. poo on you all.
06-29-2004, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted by cmark
lemme get this straight, just because you think his GF is a bitch, it's ok for you to be his fuck buddy? 
If hes going to be an asshole anyway, whether it be with me or some other chick, why shouldnt I be the one to benefit from it?
I am not looking to STEAL him, just take advantage of an ideal situation. I dont want a relationship, as Rachael pointed out in IM why would I want a relationship with someone who is just going to cheat on me too And yeah it would suck if I were dating someone who was cheating on me, but at least that would prevent me from marrying someone who was cheating on me, granted he gets caught. Thats life though. The only reason I mentioned that I didnt know her and that she seems like a bitch anyway is to show that I dont have an obligation to her, she isnt my girl or anything or someone that as a friend I'd want him to hold on to.To everyone else thanks for the advice
I think I will just act keep things the way they are, and if it happens again it happens and if it doesnt then I guess it was good while it lasted. 
the haters.
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
you know.. its really fucking gay that when a guy posts about sleeping with another girl behind his girlfriends back, most of you dont mind and think theres nothing wrong with it.
but oh.. no no, dont let a woman sleep with someone whos in a relationship. poo on you all.
but oh.. no no, dont let a woman sleep with someone whos in a relationship. poo on you all.
Shit's wrong, no matter what.
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
you know.. its really fucking gay that when a guy posts about sleeping with another girl behind his girlfriends back, most of you dont mind and think theres nothing wrong with it.
but oh.. no no, dont let a woman sleep with someone whos in a relationship. poo on you all.
but oh.. no no, dont let a woman sleep with someone whos in a relationship. poo on you all.
i don't advocate cheating, but why is the girl always made out to be the bitch/slut? double standard is shit.
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
you know.. its really fucking gay that when a guy posts about sleeping with another girl behind his girlfriends back, most of you dont mind and think theres nothing wrong with it.
but oh.. no no, dont let a woman sleep with someone whos in a relationship. poo on you all.
but oh.. no no, dont let a woman sleep with someone whos in a relationship. poo on you all.
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
you know.. its really fucking gay that when a guy posts about sleeping with another girl behind his girlfriends back, most of you dont mind and think theres nothing wrong with it.
but oh.. no no, dont let a woman sleep with someone whos in a relationship. poo on you all.
but oh.. no no, dont let a woman sleep with someone whos in a relationship. poo on you all.
06-30-2004, 12:45 AM
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Way to go Geisha...
His cheating is a problem, but not yours, you are looking out for number one, you don't even know the girl, if you knew here, then different story.
His cheating is a problem, but not yours, you are looking out for number one, you don't even know the girl, if you knew here, then different story.
06-30-2004, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted by evilstorm
what goes around, comes around.
06-30-2004, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
lol and its came around many times, I guess I shouldn't let down my guard just yet. Thanks for the heads up!
06-30-2004, 09:34 AM
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^^that sucks...but I dont doubt what you say. It has come around many times and it wont stop coming around. There are no perfect people, so we end up just paying for our mistakes or wrongs over and over again...doesnt end anyway so screw it.
...but I dont doubt what you say. It has come around many times and it wont stop coming around. There are no perfect people, so we end up just paying for our mistakes or wrongs over and over again...doesnt end anyway so screw it.
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
you know.. its really fucking gay that when a guy posts about sleeping with another girl behind his girlfriends back, most of you dont mind and think theres nothing wrong with it.
but oh.. no no, dont let a woman sleep with someone whos in a relationship. poo on you all.
but oh.. no no, dont let a woman sleep with someone whos in a relationship. poo on you all.
No, and that is not true for all of us here so show us some respect.
In respects to Geisha, I guess that's cool if you have no consideration for the girl on the other side of the bedroom. One day you'll be that girl on the other side of the bedroom and you'll feel the burns of Karma.