ComptechType-S

The longest relationship i have ever been in just recently ended :'( .. I still have a ton of drama w/ my daughters mom but were working through it.

Ive been out with a couple of women since the breakup but have one in particular that i really like , BUT!! i dont know if she's feelin me .. I dont really wanna come out and ask her but i kinda wanna know . I called her after we went out but havent called her since (waiting on her to call) :shit: . I have been out of the game too long and dont want to seem desperate .

What do ya'll think?? Im going to bed now, its been a long day and Ive had a little too much to drink.

Peace!

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ComptechType-S

Damn! Ya'll are no help...

kevin79925

forget da ho.. and be a manho!

ComptechType-S

been there and done that (for a long ass time).. I kinda wanna date seriously but not have to worry about getting married (anytime soon).. My last girl was beating the shit out of me to marry her. She was kind of crazy so i kept putting it off. She popped the "common law" crap on me and i was out! Im not gonna be forced into doing anything.

kevin79925

ya fawk that... just go back to manwhorin and pimp that mangina.

Chinisimo

well if he doesn't want to be a manhoe, it's his choice.

comptech... i'm trying to figure this out myself too, so sorry, i can't help you but good luck.

when's the last time you've talked to her? how did your 1st date go? did she seem bored? if it's been days and she hasn't called, maybe she's not that interested in you. give her a call later to see if you can give it a 2nd chance.

ComptechType-S

I bumped into her last night. We are gonna do something this weekend. She seems a little timid around me but i think its just a good act and that she likes me. I catch her looking at me and when i look at her she looks away (I think shes a little shy or something).

She said that she had a good time the last time we were out.. but we were with friends and family in a big group atmosphere. It was very laid back and we had really good conversation.

I guess what is really bothering her is my "status". Everyone that knows me knew my ex and alot of them dont know that we broke up. Most of the people i work with dont even know whats up.

I guess I'll start from the beginning and give her the whole story so that she can make the decision to be friends or more than friends...

phil2

Ask Mikey he is the official A-CL ladies man!

1SICKLEX

You have 471 posts. Women like post whores. thought u knew.

supermegaglossy

just curious, how old are you? (age doesn't show up for you)

but yeah, i think being completely truthful about your situation from the beginning will definitely help. esp. the fact that you have a daughter. you don't want to be popping that stuff on her in the middle of a serious relationship..

i say, go with the flow, don't be too pushy or seem too "desperate". and for god's sake, when you go out with her, put your arm around her so she gets the right idea!

1killercls

:killer: They do!

ding069

Your either gonna have to be honest and tell her how you feel or talk/ask around with her friends, if she has any. They can prob tell you what she thinks about you. My technique is to always go through friends, clears up alot of doubts.

supermegaglossy

Also slightly resembles middle school drama. If someone likes another person, you can usually tell. And if you have any maturity about you, you can talk about it with the other person to establish some sort of relationship.

Girls don't like that sort of thing. At least none of my friends do.

SilviaGTO

yeah that he said she said stuff is bullshit.