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Old 01-13-2013, 02:35 AM
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Is it cheating if your SO kisses a gay guy
What the title says. I think if we got lapdances from lesbians they would not be cool with it. Double standards, what else is new!
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Old 01-13-2013, 02:46 AM
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It varies based on who you're dating. I've dated girls who are as strict as can be about cheating, and others who view kissing "friends" as acceptable. I've not stuck with any of them so it doesn't make a damn bit of difference as far as I can tell.
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What kind of kiss?
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If the guy and flaming gay then it's okay. Bi, no.
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Damn dude, just think of all the penises in his mouth when you kiss her again.

Oh, A T M
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Old 01-13-2013, 12:26 PM
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I think it's cheating if she wants more from this than just an innocent kiss. If it bothers you then talk to her.
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What kind of thread is this? Title makes no sense..
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What kind of thread is this? Title makes no sense..


Which word is confusing you?

Is is cheating if your significant other kisses a gay guy?

Nothing confusing about that.
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Should have wrote significant other in title.... lol....The SO threw me off.....
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He speaks Italian
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No Whiskers option, no care. Thread fail
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He speaks Italian
he also thinks he is batman
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Such a dumb comment^^^^
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^you got called out; so the only logical thing to do is call me out.
you got it batman.
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Sure thing Crabby Patty...
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
I think it's cheating if she wants more from this than just an innocent kiss. If it bothers you then talk to her.
Just out of curiousity...what deems a kiss (lips to lips) innocent?
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Sure thing Crabby Patty...
go back to the 3g section
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go back to the 3g section
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I used to date a girl who's sister was a major fg hag (as they're affectionately called). Used to piss me off when the guys would be allowed to stay in the room while they're all trying on shirts/bras. Maybe I was just jealous I wasn't invited to stick around as her sister had glorious ones.

A guy is a guy...and IMO there's no such thing as a bisectual man. I have a theory about that that I can elaborate on if need be. Maybe casual college relationships, I'd feel differently, but at this point...I'd not be ok with my girlfriend/fiancee/wife/SO (pronounced 'significant other', in Italian) kissing ANYONE on the lips. We don't live in Russia.
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^Chris must be that gay guy.
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^Chris must be that gay guy.
That's you ROBIN....
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that implies you want him to be your "partner". Which is fine, Justin is good looking and has glorious lips. No lie.
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What the ghey is going on in here?
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^^^That is a great find!
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and it all started because of a joker.
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LOL...well, this has been riveting, but I'll suggest it since I know it's coming soon. BACK ON TOPIC!

Would you let your girl/guy kiss a home o sect shawl?
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Originally Posted by L's TL
Just out of curiousity...what deems a kiss (lips to lips) innocent?
I've had friends that were girls and I had absolutely no romantic feelings for. I've kissed them on the lips and never thought anything of it.

I will admit that was when I was younger and my s.o. was girl friends not a wife.
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Why would a gay dude be kissing a straight chick on the lips in the first place?
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^^^exactly my point. It's not like it's tradition...there's no need for it. I'm not saying I'd take it personally or that it would bother me because of sexually driven motives...I'm just saying there's no need for it.
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I'll call yes, its cheating (if you view that kind of thing as cheating). Because even if he's not getting anything out of it, she is. From her perspective, it's no different kissing a gay or straight guy. A kiss is a kiss. Just because the gay guy isn't likely to follow up with more, doesn't mean it wasn't a kiss.

Basically, I'd treat it just as if she kissed a straight guy.
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that implies you want him to be your "partner". Which is fine, Justin is good looking and has glorious lips. No lie.
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they denied my claim, said that i got what i had ordered.
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Originally Posted by 97BlackAckCL
Why would a gay dude be kissing a straight chick on the lips in the first place?
cus he's not gay...

He may act gay in front of you

...but when your girl undresses infront of her token gay friend...the tables will turn.
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cus he's not gay...

He may act gay in front of you

...but when your girl undresses infront of her token gay friend...the tables will turn.
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