AS3.0CL

like the title says, why do girls end up going back to thier physco f**ked up controlling ex bf's when they got someone who actually cares about them and treats them right???? not to happy right now, story to come a lil bit later on......... . for now dicuss, and ladies i want your imput too.

Always Dirty

Because you failed to satisfy her emotional and physical needs?

Doc.Booty

Fixed.

PsychoInDenial

because we enjoy getting slapped around and treated like crap, it makes it more exciting.. duh!

that and the make up sex is probably pretty damn good

btsilver

jlukja

Because he is a physco f**ked up controlling ex bf'.

Street Spirit

Fixed.

PsychoInDenial

You forgot to mention the biting too

Whiskers

There is nobody left to insult......

Wait, AD you are a jerk!!!

AS3.0CL

you guys crack me up, but no the sex was great about a few days ago she wanted to screw me but was that time of month and then he decided to call and yea, it all went to hell again. but i'll the story is coming soon in a few minutes

thatONEguy

Welp you already have the answer bro.. He is the ASSHOLE.... Girls, even though they dont always admit it, seem to go to the ass hole. Girls dont want a guy that gives them what they want, they want what is a challenge to them.....

Whiskers

Awww, few minutes? I want to go home now....

Always Dirty

So you're still with her, banging her and everything, then he just swoops back in and bangs her off her feet while you're standing outside the CVS holding a box of tampons?

03SSMTL-S

sounds about right

btsilver

AkuraCLS

dont even worry about it, go on myspace and find yourself a new fucktoy. u'll be over her in 30 mins.

AS3.0CL

so i started to see this girl back in the beginning of December, we started hanging out and stuff and things where going good and then we started to see each toehr exclusively and then we became a couple. About 2 months before me and her started to talk she recently about two months before broke up with him if u want to say that. her parents hate him with a passion, her mom has a restraining order him because he destroyed her car and abused her.

well since then for about every month he would call her up and either say to her that he loved her or yelled at her. but everytime she would tell him to not to call her and she would talk to me about it and snap back. but this time the day after V-day he called her up bitching her about going out with me. well this call really messed her up, and he basically told her to die and well as she said this got her thinking. Then she decided to break up with me because she says that she was confused and then hanged with him that weekend. well i found out and i confronted her about it and she keeps telling me that she knows she can't be with him and wants to get over him.

well so i talked to her about it, and she's like i know i can't be with him and so yea we started to go on a strait road again. So we do and things started going good, but we weren't technically together. About a week ago she gets a myspace and stuff and he sees it and then he decideds to bitch about her about it. last tuesday we hanged out and she was all over me and we almost did the dirty deed but it was the time of the month. well a few days later he calls her now this would be last thursday, and they have a long talk and now she totally shut down on me again and won't tell me anything, and is like i don't want to hear about me and him from you. All weekend i kind of kept her somewhat off in the distant but she was still calling me wondering what i was doing.

today i decide to go on myspace and see these comments she has left for him saying i love you and crap. Come to find out she has hanged with all weekend and blew me off. Last night i was talking with her for a long time and she was like we should hang out thursday night since we are both free that night. So basically she's playing me. i already bitched at her about this today and she didn't want to hear it. now she is like i love him and all this BS. Her parents love me and they absolutly hate him and yet she's going behind her back and what not.

I have been fed up with this BS for some time and she has been back and forth for the last month. Just this time she has totally shut down on me but won't tell me shit and still wants to be with me or w/e. to me she's been sending mixed signals for the last 3 weeks saying she wanted to be with me and then once he called she would be distant for a few days then want me again.

So basically wh ythe hell does she want to go back to an asshole, that physically and verbally abused her for a number of months and was very controlling of her telling her what she could and could not do. she has called the cops on this kid many times and everyone i know that knows him says he's a messed up. i don't care if she goes out with her friends and i never once was bad to her. So i'm basiclaly done with her, so sick of BS end/

AS3.0CL

sry about the grammar, i'm not to happy about this shit, and feel like crap, even though i've seen this coming for the last few weeks and more recently the last few days.

jlukja

moomaster_99

If you are too nice...you'll lose the bitch...if you are too much of an ass....the sex is probably better from her ex.....


You have to find that fine line of being a man...and not being a total asshole.

Whiskers

You actually read it?

moomaster_99

Hell no.....

Im just stating what I skimmed through.......its all the same with the young guys on this board...they have no game or they try to 'buy' the girl....

JimmyCarter

All I know is the 2 teenagers from Rhode Island on this board seem to have some fucked up broads in their life.

<--- Staying the hell out of Providence from now on

phipark

Just You are too young to put up with the crap. I bet once you leave her and ignore her, she'll come crawling back too. Just drop the slut.

aznkikaz

iTrader: (2)

hmm i like cigarettes too

AS3.0CL

lmfao

ok cliff notes:
-girl gets rid of asshole ex, restraning order, him abusive, controlling and ruined alot of her stuff
-2 months later we start talking
-he calls once a month bitching or crying, she bloes him off and tell him to stop calling
-day after v-day he gets to her, basically telling her the problem was that she was "born" because she was going out with someone else
- we are no more
-she basically back and forth for last 3 weeks between me and him, she would block me out almost completely then wanted me back badly
-he got to her again last thursday
- found out she been chillen with him and being all like i love you and shit, lied to me
-was good to her, but also a lil bit of an ass at times
-shit hit the fan today because of the things i saw and found out, done with the BS

aznkikaz

iTrader: (2)

i dont know why i just posted that sorry


i see that you are 18.... just like me...


we dont know shit!

i know all you hear is blah blah get over her your so young blah blah youll find someone else but its easier said then done. The only thing i've learned so far is that if she is doing this then shes not worth your time. Cut off all contact it really works. Whenever you think about her repeat the following:

her cunt smells
damn that bitch has a hairy pit
she takes big corny shits

as you can see just by THINKING that you can PRETEND shes the nastiest shit in the world even though she might not be.

sorry if i didnt make any sense im kind of tripped out right now

sasha

You should not stay with someone who is unsure about you and has mixed feelings with someone else especially a manipulative ex-boyfriend. Even if you love her, you should not forget to love yourself.

Good to know you have decided to end a doomed relationship. Move on and stand by your decision.

Andrea25

man, it sounds screwed up.....but if you think she's worth it...keep supporting her....

SakiGT

She's justifying his actions b/c she was a bitch to him?

AS3.0CL

yea almost seems like that in a way

Gpump

NO NO NO NO!!!!!!

Drop her like a bad habit. She's pulling this crap - that won't change. And you don't want anything to do with the asshole boyfriend. If she can't see through that, it's her problem, not your's.

Titand19

I almost shit myself when i read this. I'm amazed to find a 18 yr old on this board with balls and a mind to go along with it. Good for you my friend.



Oh and please just forget about this, I'm sure there have been tons of threads exactly like this one.

txathlete

Drop her ass ASAP. If she wants to be treated like shit..then let her. All this psycho crap probably has to do with her daddy issues. Maybe her dad treated her like shit so by being with this (_*_) it's her f*cked up pseudo-way of having a "relationship" with her dad.

Besides, you're 18! Plenty of poon in RI for you to go after.

And if her *sshole ex is a crazy controlling freak like her mom says, do you want him to come over to where you live and fuck up your ACURA? <---That's really the main concern.

evilone

man get out of that situation.. move on. you guys havent been together that long. and if she is hanging out with him she is fucking him espec if she is lying about it to you. there is something she is hiding and you dont need a bitch like that brother.

bx-tls

Damn I read all of that. Lose the bitch, DRAMA QUEEN = NO NO NO . Hey I live in Cranston for 6 month, lots of ass there, so find someone better.

Oh, and some girl are just stupid and like the abuse.

Time For Sleeep

She deserves a good slap session if she's dumb enough to go back to the guy.

In turn, you deserve to be beaten if you ever even think about getting back with her.

If you have a thread within the next month that states that you got back with her for a couple of days, then found out she played you/she decided to end it again/her "ex" went after you/assorted bull shit drama...

I demand a paypal payment of $100.50 U.S currency.

stic2it

iTrader: (1)

Sorry to hijack...

I'm going through a similar situation but my new gf is still talking with her ex...who cheated on her so many times and treated her like shit...I mean this dude hit a girl in her house....I couldn't make it for valentines day but the day after I go over...My flowers are on the table, but a big balloon is sitting next to it and Im like wow who is that from of course her ex and get this a teddy bear is on her bed...I was like She must have been sleeping with it...now she told me she still loves him ie cares about him but its strictly friend ship but it comes out that she is still in love with him but she claims she is in love with me...I broke it off with her despite her pleading I told her to call me when she cuts him out.....she told me after his cousin wedding...I told her to take as long as she needs two weeks-months if needed...I was planning on going on a serious dick swinging retreat until then but she calls me the next day...what the fuck...we have been talking since...I love her but damn I can't take it...any suggestions?

Trojanman750

girls will always ALWAYS hold some kind of emotional attachment to their ex boyfriends. they are consumed by sentimental things and memories and its hard to let them go


personally if i was the ex i would kick the bitch to the curb. break up, go out and fuck some dude, then come crawling back? bitch please

CKcentral

It definitely sounds like both girls are not mature enough to run their own lives.

About a year ago I sort of went through the same thing. This girl i was seeing had a really loser ex. He would not get the hint and beat it. One problem was they were still having sex. I didnt see her exclusively or nething but we just hung out a few times and messed around a little. Her ex finds out and then stalks me. One night when i bring her home, he is waiting at her house and tries to jump me. I get the fuk outta there and call her when i get home. Bitch her out and gave her a piece of my mind. I stop talking to her for about 6 months and out of the blue she messaged me on the computer. SHe moved to go to college and doesnt associate with her ex anymore. She still really likes me and im just going along with it b/c i like her too. This summer she is moving back home, where she will be semi-close to me, and transfering school to be back home too.

I just say get rid of her and if something is meant to be, then it will happen. But do not get involved in all that drama/game bs b/c thats where you will just end up hurting your own feelings.