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Old 08-06-2005, 01:45 AM
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what can i do in this situation??

i'll try to make this short and to the point
My fiance flew down to Miami today cause she is almost 99% buying our car tomorrow (i couldnt go cause of a big job at work)
now before you say you shouldn't send a woman to negotiate the price...we have been in contact with the dealer for 2 weeks, both of us, and have worked out a price, and put a deposit. shes not a noob when it comes to this stuff
anyway, she stopped at the dealer to look at the car, and let them know she was down there
the salesman, now keep in mind that this is a very high end car, asks her if he could buy her dinner, but doesn't offer to take her sister too(she flew down with her). so obviously he was trying to pick her up
she said no i have a fiance, you know that, i'm not interested, and was going to let it slide
then at 10:30 PM, he calls her cell phone and asks her to come out, he'll buy her a drink!!
this to me is totally unprofessional and uncalled for
i know she is good looking and guys will hit on her, that doesn't bother me.
but now i have every intention to get up tomorrow morning before she goes and signs the papers, to call the dealer manager and have this guy fired. i also want them to do something about the already inflated price of the car, if not we intend to press charges for harassment(if its even possible)

what is your guys take on this and how would you handle it??

please no smart ass remarks, cause i need to decide by 10:00 AM eastern time
i'm pissed at how unprofessional this a-hole is acting and think that whether you are buying a ford focus or a $280,000 car it shouldnt matter, they are a business and should act accordingly
since i know someone will ask, its a 05 F430 spider

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Old 08-06-2005, 02:06 AM
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I guess you can simply ask that guy to stop hitting on your fiance and if he continues, just report him to the head guy in that dealer.

What car are you two buying anyway?
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its a 05 F430 spider
Old 08-06-2005, 03:04 AM
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WOW! Nice and Congrats on your lives together.
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shit you better post pix... of both
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the new 430s are hot as fuck....especially in that midnight blue color

i would ask one more time for him to stop...if not complain....
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Wait a second... did he say F430?
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You must be doing something right
Old 08-06-2005, 08:44 AM
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thanks guys. ^ thats the car, in silver with black interior, black top, 6 speed.

called there this morning and talked to the manager and told him that i didnt appreciate her being harassed, he said she would not have to deal with him again, neither will anyone else. apparently he has a track record.

hopefully the papers are sigmed this morning, and we will take delivery wed. or thurs.(they are shipping it by train)

i may have some showroom pics in a few hours
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if you arent happy with the price of the car, then report the guy.

if you are, take the car. if he persists after purchase, report him.
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Originally Posted by m&b6speed
thanks guys. ^ thats the car, in silver with black interior, black top, 6 speed.

called there this morning and talked to the manager and told him that i didnt appreciate her being harassed, he said she would not have to deal with him again, neither will anyone else. apparently he has a track record.

hopefully the papers are sigmed this morning, and we will take delivery wed. or thurs.(they are shipping it by train)

i may have some showroom pics in a few hours
That was probably the best thing to do. Sucks to have to deal with such treatemnt, especially when your talking about Exotic vehicles.

Good luck, and hopefully everything works out.
Old 08-06-2005, 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted by mclarenf3387
That was probably the best thing to do. Sucks to have to deal with such treatemnt, especially when your talking about Exotic vehicles.

Good luck, and hopefully everything works out.

thanks,
my point to the sales manager was that i dont care if she was at wal mart buying things, no one should be harassing her( or any women for that matter), but you would think that at a place like that they would be kissing her ass.
now if it was complimentary and customary to ask the buyer out to dinner ON THE COMPANY, that would be a different story

well she's there now, so we'll see what happens
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i guess i replied too late. best of luck.
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^ thanks

she just called me they are going to compensate her, but she doesn't know to what extent
Old 08-06-2005, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted by ali.ahmed
if you arent happy with the price of the car, then report the guy.

if you are, take the car. if he persists after purchase, report him.

it will be $1200 over invoice, thats good considering its one of the last "new" ones in the country
they sold very quickly and arent making anymore this model year
there is a ferrari dealer 20 min from our house, but they couldnt get us one in a 6 speed brand new
Old 08-06-2005, 10:39 AM
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i would follow up to make sure that ass was fired. he probably had a very nice gig working at an exotics dealership with high profile clients and hefty sales commissions to boot. maybe that perv will learn or someday piss the wrong guy off and get his ass beat down badly. good luck on the new car and man am i envious of that ride, it is sick! you must have a great job to afford such a prized trophy.
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Originally Posted by m&b6speed
^ thanks

she just called me they are going to compensate her, but she doesn't know to what extent
MAybe they give her a nice pearl necklace





















j/k


Good luck and post some pics of your new ride
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Woh Woh Woh, I thought you said she didn't have a sister?
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Well first off, to my knowledge, it's not against the law to "harass" a woman or a man in the manner in which you described. If you see an attactive lady and try to pick her up and keep at it a little, you're not breaking any laws. Stalking or getting physically aggressive is an entirely different matter and does come in the realm of illegality. The business, on the other hand, has a very real interest in not wanting their employees to push a customer in this way. So you probably handled it right by telling the manager about your displeasure.


Good luck.
Old 08-06-2005, 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted by mclarenf3387
Woh Woh Woh, I thought you said she didn't have a sister?

she does have a sister, 26 yrs old and hott!!


anyway here is the update,

they gave $7500 off the price, 2 ferrari leather jackets(which she said were beautifull(worth $1200 each), ferrari luggage set(worth $2500), keychains, tee shirts, towels etc...

pics to come tomorrow hopefully, delivery on friday
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Originally Posted by SouthernBoy
Well first off, to my knowledge, it's not against the law to "harass" a woman or a man in the manner in which you described. If you see an attactive lady and try to pick her up and keep at it a little, you're not breaking any laws. Stalking or getting physically aggressive is an entirely different matter and does come in the realm of illegality. The business, on the other hand, has a very real interest in not wanting their employees to push a customer in this way. So you probably handled it right by telling the manager about your displeasure.




Good luck.

yeah your right about the harassment in a legal way, there was none there. but from the business point of view, its not illegal, just not appropriate.
he was let go, she is dealing with a new sales guy, but who knows, if he is good, she leaves and maybe they take him back
i'm happy that they compensated us a little
although i know most of those things are given out upon purchase anyway
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Originally Posted by m&b6speed
she does have a sister, 26 yrs old and hott!!


anyway here is the update,

they gave $7500 off the price, 2 ferrari leather jackets(which she said were beautifull(worth $1200 each), ferrari luggage set(worth $2500), keychains, tee shirts, towels etc...

pics to come tomorrow hopefully, delivery on friday
Dude, hook me up Just don't tell her my age, no believes I'm that young anyway.

And its good that the dealer made right on the situation (as long as the idiot got fired somewhere in there).

Post pics when you get it, and I want a ride
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May I ask what your fiance does for a living?

Your fiance > Ferrari chick that washes teh car after she beats up on it


( but the only way to prove this theory is to show us a pic of both her and the car )












Pictures sir... where are the PICTURES?


You should have told the dealership they lost the "sale" due to one of their salesmans harassing your fiance. He def. would have gotten fired.

That is a great gesture... what they did to make up for it. Goes to show Ferrari has GREAT CUSTOMER SERVICE LOL.
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May I have a keychain?
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Originally Posted by Minch00
May I have a keychain?

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Originally Posted by m&b6speed
she does have a sister, 26 yrs old and hott!!


anyway here is the update,

they gave $7500 off the price, 2 ferrari leather jackets(which she said were beautifull(worth $1200 each), ferrari luggage set(worth $2500), keychains, tee shirts, towels etc...

pics to come tomorrow hopefully, delivery on friday

wait better yet, hook me up!!

Anyways congrats on the victory and have fun driving the Ferrari!!
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Originally Posted by mclarenf3387
Dude, hook me up Just don't tell her my age, no believes I'm that young anyway.

And its good that the dealer made right on the situation (as long as the idiot got fired somewhere in there).

Post pics when you get it, and I want a ride

when the next meet is arranged i'll bring it, and give you a ride.

the dealership is supposed to send the pics to me today, he told them they work on sundays at that dealership, but i still never got them. she goesnt have access to a computer to send me any.

here are some pics of her, some of them are her modeling pics, the one where the girl is holding the coors light is her and her sister. the first one is a shitty ass camera phone pic.

http://www.piczs.com/is.php?i=4237&img=brookmiami.JPG
http://www.piczs.com/is.php?i=4238&img=brooke11.jpg
http://www.piczs.com/is.php?i=4239&img=brooke12.jpg
http://www.piczs.com/is.php?i=4240&img=brooke21.jpg
http://www.piczs.com/is.php?i=4241&img=brooke_31.jpg
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Quite a lucky man you are.......................
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thanks, i think i am too
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that girl in an F430 = HOTTTTTT

Also-- what do you do??? I honestly want to know... You certainly are a sucessful guy...
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that girl in an F430 = HOTTTTTT

Also-- what do you do??? I honestly want to know... You certainly are a sucessful guy...
i'm part owner of a landscape/construction/everything company

ill get pics of her and the car together, i'll keep some censored to allow it to be posted here!
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damn... care to steer me in the right way of a good major to pick in college??
shouldnt you be on the exotic boards right now instead?
congrats on the ride and woman.
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No offense, but if I was a salesman, I'd be trying to hit that too! J/k!

Better keep an eye on her!

Pics of her in the new car would be awesome, and congrats on the purchase! Glad you got that dude canned.
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