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Originally Posted by nicholbr
to be honest I don't think he ever really posted that much during the day. We'll probably have to wait until dusk after he's done plowing his new ex girlfriend in the cornfield.
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Oh the lies just keep coming.
He was never married
He doesn't own a home, he lives with his parents
He has no money
Pretty obvious this is him. Yes I verified his email address
http://www.divorcesupport.com/ubbthr...age/0#Post7690
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Got a few questions.
okay here's the deal. My and my kind of ex fiancee(spelling) dated about 3 years. we had a great little baby girl about a year ago. the thing was she was still in college when she had our little girl. so I REALLY wanted her to finish college. so I made a deal with her if she'd live at my parents house for a little while i'd pay for everything(this was June of 2005) when she agreed to it. so basically I watched our daughter, put food on the table, did everything, while she was at college. I told her that if she finished college and got a good job we could move out( we couldn't do it on a single income) so She said "okay." so I paid for books,lunches at school, gas(which was 60 miles one way to school) and other misc project expenses. She never did any house keeping(any laundry,any dishes, any mopping, any cooking(she cooked maybe 4 times in 11 monthes)anything that involved labor) all she'd want to do is #1. Watch TV #2. Watch our daughter. Don't get me wrong I like to play with our daughter but when dishes need done I'd sit her in her high chair and let her watch me while i'd do them. well the final thing that finished me off was. I worked a 12 hour the night before(I work 2nd shift) and I got up at 8 o clock because chores had to be done after getting off at about 2 am(and going to bed at 3 am) I told her "Look can you do 2 loads of dishes, I don't care when it gets done as long as it's done when I get home.I got home at noon. not a single dish was touched. I was very upset. I went off. She hadn't moved off the sofa. keep in mind in the course of 11 months between food,fuel, clothing and other misc expenses I've probably sank about 20 grand in a year into her. all I expected her to do was help a little around the house. She said "Fine I'll move in with my mother." well she did that in mid April of 06. We agreed to "shared parenting" where she'll have our daughter one week and one the next week. since then she filed for welfare. today I got a letter in the mail to be summoned to appear court on 6/21/06 I don't really have the money to pay a lawyer his fees. What do I do?
I'm just really confused and hurt. She wants me back but yet I called her cell phone probably 10 times today she refuses to answer her phone.
my question is what do I do next?
Oh the lies just keep coming.
He was never married
He doesn't own a home, he lives with his parents
He has no money
Pretty obvious this is him. Yes I verified his email address
http://www.divorcesupport.com/ubbthr...age/0#Post7690
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Got a few questions.
okay here's the deal. My and my kind of ex fiancee(spelling) dated about 3 years. we had a great little baby girl about a year ago. the thing was she was still in college when she had our little girl. so I REALLY wanted her to finish college. so I made a deal with her if she'd live at my parents house for a little while i'd pay for everything(this was June of 2005) when she agreed to it. so basically I watched our daughter, put food on the table, did everything, while she was at college. I told her that if she finished college and got a good job we could move out( we couldn't do it on a single income) so She said "okay." so I paid for books,lunches at school, gas(which was 60 miles one way to school) and other misc project expenses. She never did any house keeping(any laundry,any dishes, any mopping, any cooking(she cooked maybe 4 times in 11 monthes)anything that involved labor) all she'd want to do is #1. Watch TV #2. Watch our daughter. Don't get me wrong I like to play with our daughter but when dishes need done I'd sit her in her high chair and let her watch me while i'd do them. well the final thing that finished me off was. I worked a 12 hour the night before(I work 2nd shift) and I got up at 8 o clock because chores had to be done after getting off at about 2 am(and going to bed at 3 am) I told her "Look can you do 2 loads of dishes, I don't care when it gets done as long as it's done when I get home.I got home at noon. not a single dish was touched. I was very upset. I went off. She hadn't moved off the sofa. keep in mind in the course of 11 months between food,fuel, clothing and other misc expenses I've probably sank about 20 grand in a year into her. all I expected her to do was help a little around the house. She said "Fine I'll move in with my mother." well she did that in mid April of 06. We agreed to "shared parenting" where she'll have our daughter one week and one the next week. since then she filed for welfare. today I got a letter in the mail to be summoned to appear court on 6/21/06 I don't really have the money to pay a lawyer his fees. What do I do?
I'm just really confused and hurt. She wants me back but yet I called her cell phone probably 10 times today she refuses to answer her phone.
my question is what do I do next?
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Whoa...nice sleuthing, NSXNEXT!
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@ the internet sleuthing
#176
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Mind you, I do now feel bad for Water-S...If that's indeed this story, he does deserve some pity and not this sort of climb-on ridicule...
The guy needs to lie to make himself feel better, right? It sounds like he's in a screwed up situation.
The guy needs to lie to make himself feel better, right? It sounds like he's in a screwed up situation.
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We've got at least one other member from western Ohio (Dayton).
Will someone please volunteer to replace Water-S? We really need to REPRESENT
true Buckeyedom.
Will someone please volunteer to replace Water-S? We really need to REPRESENT
true Buckeyedom.
#178
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Originally Posted by Yumchah
Mind you, I do now feel bad for Water-S...If that's indeed this story, he does deserve some pity and not this sort of climb-on ridicule...
The guy needs to lie to make himself feel better, right? It sounds like he's in a screwed up situation.
The guy needs to lie to make himself feel better, right? It sounds like he's in a screwed up situation.
#180
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The only person I feel sorry for is his daughter. She was brought into this world by two fucked up delusional people... and there's nothing she can do about it.
I have no pity for someone like him who has to lie on the internet to make himself feel better. It's just pathetic...
I have no pity for someone like him who has to lie on the internet to make himself feel better. It's just pathetic...
#182
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Originally Posted by Yumchah
Mind you, I do now feel bad for Water-S...If that's indeed this story, he does deserve some pity and not this sort of climb-on ridicule...
The guy needs to lie to make himself feel better, right? It sounds like he's in a screwed up situation.
The guy needs to lie to make himself feel better, right? It sounds like he's in a screwed up situation.
His life is in shambles, so he needs to fantasize on here. Pretty sad.
#184
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Originally Posted by NSXNEXT
MUST READ THIS
Oh the lies just keep coming.
He was never married
He doesn't own a home, he lives with his parents
He has no money
Pretty obvious this is him. Yes I verified his email address
http://www.divorcesupport.com/ubbthr...age/0#Post7690
Honda-Lover
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Reged: 05/20/06
Posts: 1
Got a few questions.
okay here's the deal. My and my kind of ex fiancee(spelling) dated about 3 years. we had a great little baby girl about a year ago. the thing was she was still in college when she had our little girl. so I REALLY wanted her to finish college. so I made a deal with her if she'd live at my parents house for a little while i'd pay for everything(this was June of 2005) when she agreed to it. so basically I watched our daughter, put food on the table, did everything, while she was at college. I told her that if she finished college and got a good job we could move out( we couldn't do it on a single income) so She said "okay." so I paid for books,lunches at school, gas(which was 60 miles one way to school) and other misc project expenses. She never did any house keeping(any laundry,any dishes, any mopping, any cooking(she cooked maybe 4 times in 11 monthes)anything that involved labor) all she'd want to do is #1. Watch TV #2. Watch our daughter. Don't get me wrong I like to play with our daughter but when dishes need done I'd sit her in her high chair and let her watch me while i'd do them. well the final thing that finished me off was. I worked a 12 hour the night before(I work 2nd shift) and I got up at 8 o clock because chores had to be done after getting off at about 2 am(and going to bed at 3 am) I told her "Look can you do 2 loads of dishes, I don't care when it gets done as long as it's done when I get home.I got home at noon. not a single dish was touched. I was very upset. I went off. She hadn't moved off the sofa. keep in mind in the course of 11 months between food,fuel, clothing and other misc expenses I've probably sank about 20 grand in a year into her. all I expected her to do was help a little around the house. She said "Fine I'll move in with my mother." well she did that in mid April of 06. We agreed to "shared parenting" where she'll have our daughter one week and one the next week. since then she filed for welfare. today I got a letter in the mail to be summoned to appear court on 6/21/06 I don't really have the money to pay a lawyer his fees. What do I do?
I'm just really confused and hurt. She wants me back but yet I called her cell phone probably 10 times today she refuses to answer her phone.
my question is what do I do next?
Oh the lies just keep coming.
He was never married
He doesn't own a home, he lives with his parents
He has no money
Pretty obvious this is him. Yes I verified his email address
http://www.divorcesupport.com/ubbthr...age/0#Post7690
Honda-Lover
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Reged: 05/20/06
Posts: 1
Got a few questions.
okay here's the deal. My and my kind of ex fiancee(spelling) dated about 3 years. we had a great little baby girl about a year ago. the thing was she was still in college when she had our little girl. so I REALLY wanted her to finish college. so I made a deal with her if she'd live at my parents house for a little while i'd pay for everything(this was June of 2005) when she agreed to it. so basically I watched our daughter, put food on the table, did everything, while she was at college. I told her that if she finished college and got a good job we could move out( we couldn't do it on a single income) so She said "okay." so I paid for books,lunches at school, gas(which was 60 miles one way to school) and other misc project expenses. She never did any house keeping(any laundry,any dishes, any mopping, any cooking(she cooked maybe 4 times in 11 monthes)anything that involved labor) all she'd want to do is #1. Watch TV #2. Watch our daughter. Don't get me wrong I like to play with our daughter but when dishes need done I'd sit her in her high chair and let her watch me while i'd do them. well the final thing that finished me off was. I worked a 12 hour the night before(I work 2nd shift) and I got up at 8 o clock because chores had to be done after getting off at about 2 am(and going to bed at 3 am) I told her "Look can you do 2 loads of dishes, I don't care when it gets done as long as it's done when I get home.I got home at noon. not a single dish was touched. I was very upset. I went off. She hadn't moved off the sofa. keep in mind in the course of 11 months between food,fuel, clothing and other misc expenses I've probably sank about 20 grand in a year into her. all I expected her to do was help a little around the house. She said "Fine I'll move in with my mother." well she did that in mid April of 06. We agreed to "shared parenting" where she'll have our daughter one week and one the next week. since then she filed for welfare. today I got a letter in the mail to be summoned to appear court on 6/21/06 I don't really have the money to pay a lawyer his fees. What do I do?
I'm just really confused and hurt. She wants me back but yet I called her cell phone probably 10 times today she refuses to answer her phone.
my question is what do I do next?
ALF'D!!!!
#185
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Originally Posted by juniorbean
The only person I feel sorry for is his daughter. She was brought into this world by two fucked up delusional people... and there's nothing she can do about it.
I have no pity for someone like him who has to lie on the internet to make himself feel better. It's just pathetic...
I have no pity for someone like him who has to lie on the internet to make himself feel better. It's just pathetic...
Hopefully she makes her way on to AZ once she hits the ripe age of 14
#186
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Originally Posted by juniorbean
The only person I feel sorry for is his daughter. She was brought into this world by two fucked up delusional people... and there's nothing she can do about it.
I have no pity for someone like him who has to lie on the internet to make himself feel better. It's just pathetic...
I have no pity for someone like him who has to lie on the internet to make himself feel better. It's just pathetic...
Eh, I'm just saying I'm done going about him. That's all.
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NSX next = pure genius!!! Nice find!
#193
Originally Posted by fdl
You've gotta feel a bit sorry for the guy Or at least feel sorry for his daughter. She's going to turn out just fine