Crazy EX-Girlfriend
04-29-2008, 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Krazylegs
You should sue Carrie Underwood and the record label for not only condoning but glorifying this type of behavior. It is very unfortunate to know that this woman will be bragging about what she has done to this mans car. $4,000.00 is a small price to pay for what she has done considering the enjoyment that she will have telling all her friends about this for the next 70 years. I would not accept the check. I would find a lawyer and sue. I have worked my but off so I can drive my TL. To me my TL represents more than just a car, it represents all that I have gone through and how hard that I have worked to drive a car like this. I would not be able to live with someone getting away with doing this to my car.
In the old west, if a man stole another mans' horse or did anything to harm a mans' ride, that man would be tried and hung, or justifiably be shot onsite.
In the old west, if a man stole another mans' horse or did anything to harm a mans' ride, that man would be tried and hung, or justifiably be shot onsite.
04-29-2008, 08:54 PM
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still wondering...
WHAT
THE
HELL
could you have done to make her go off like that?
or is she just bipolar?
WHAT
THE
HELL
could you have done to make her go off like that?
or is she just bipolar?
04-29-2008, 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Fyre Man
still wondering...
WHAT
THE
HELL
could you have done to make her go off like that?
or is she just bipolar?
WHAT
THE
HELL
could you have done to make her go off like that?
or is she just bipolar?
Check out my posts on the first page(s)......gives a brief overview lol
04-30-2008, 08:02 AM
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Yay....takin her into the body shop this morning 
POS rental car here I come. It just won't feel right driving around a clean car once its done!
POS rental car here I come. It just won't feel right driving around a clean car once its done!
04-30-2008, 10:08 AM
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Originally Posted by FarSide792
Yay....takin her into the body shop this morning POS rental car here I come. It just won't feel right driving around a clean car once its done!
POS rental car here I come. It just won't feel right driving around a clean car once its done!
04-30-2008, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted by FarSide792
Now is the time I wish Chuck Norris lived in the building next to mine.... 
The situation is a bit shitty...as in her lying to EVERYONE over the past year that I've been with...Finally it came to a point where I decided her EX (who really wasn't her EX afterall...) needed to hear things for himself. When the first question he asked me when I called was "Have you two ever been intimate" I said holy shit...hold on dude...its gonna b a long ride. I wasn't trying to play god or anything, just trying to get the entire story out there for everyone to hear.
As for feelings toward her....LOL....if u go so far as to even glance at my car wrong...FUCK you. I actually saw her scratch one line (the very first one) and I just went back inside....She was obviously turning violent and I'm not about to be pressed with hitting a woman (something I'd NEVER do...regardless of the situation) especially while holding a security clearance and the likes. I was mortified when I saw the event unfold, but like lights said...I can just get money to fix the problem...especially seeing as how her parents just told me to tell them the total and to leave it at that.
soooooooooooooo.......im just waiting for a check now
The situation is a bit shitty...as in her lying to EVERYONE over the past year that I've been with...Finally it came to a point where I decided her EX (who really wasn't her EX afterall...) needed to hear things for himself. When the first question he asked me when I called was "Have you two ever been intimate" I said holy shit...hold on dude...its gonna b a long ride. I wasn't trying to play god or anything, just trying to get the entire story out there for everyone to hear.
As for feelings toward her....LOL....if u go so far as to even glance at my car wrong...FUCK you. I actually saw her scratch one line (the very first one) and I just went back inside....She was obviously turning violent and I'm not about to be pressed with hitting a woman (something I'd NEVER do...regardless of the situation) especially while holding a security clearance and the likes. I was mortified when I saw the event unfold, but like lights said...I can just get money to fix the problem...especially seeing as how her parents just told me to tell them the total and to leave it at that.
soooooooooooooo.......im just waiting for a check now
04-30-2008, 12:57 PM
#171
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wow... I get pissed when people rub up against my car in jeans(scared of the studs by pockets scratching my car) this is why women piss me off, they dont understand a mans love for his car...
mad props for keeping cool, that was prolly the manliest thing you coulda done
mad props for keeping cool, that was prolly the manliest thing you coulda done
05-01-2008, 07:40 AM
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Originally Posted by BackinBlackTL
if that were my girl, the broad would be sitting down to a nice candle lit dinner with lacey peterson...for real
05-01-2008, 06:10 PM
#178
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Originally Posted by BackinBlackTL
if that were my girl, the broad would be sitting down to a nice candle lit dinner with lacey peterson...for real
well i thought this was in good taste....
haha
.... this is making me cringe as i am currently in the process of breaking up with my gf
... my car is in the garage... ugh good luck man... and you should really press charges... this is ridiculous... i would not be able to stand back n watch someone do that to my 2nd gen... at least hit them up for more money and treat yourself to something nice. such as a dinner date for you and a new lady... haha. getting your girls family to pay for u and another womans good time... now thats priceless.
05-01-2008, 06:13 PM
#179
Oh Hullow
Originally Posted by FarSide792
You just dont fuck w/ a man's car...i mean seriously....
And as far as the wording goes.... "RUIN MINE I'LL RUIN YOURS"
I like also how the I in bItch is dotted so nicely.
And as far as the wording goes.... "RUIN MINE I'LL RUIN YOURS"
I like also how the I in bItch is dotted so nicely.
idk if you answered this... but what is it that you ruined anyways?
05-01-2008, 11:38 PM
#183
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Farside, call her up on the phone, call her a bitch, then park my car in your spot with a note on it that says whatever you do, you better not draw on the front of my car! 
I'm trying to get the front re-done and clearbra-ed!
I'm trying to get the front re-done and clearbra-ed!
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05-02-2008, 10:17 AM
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One thought...you now know what she's capable of. I'm sorry to see what happened to your car, but it's a good thing you're no longer with her. What would happen if you ultimately married her or had kids with her? You would be in a permanent hell. Despite what happened to your car (I know I would be really P.O.'d as well), you handled everything admirably. If her parents are paying in full, just be sure to have no further contact with her or her family (someone else posted that their GF did something similar, but they went back with the GF). This action (on the part of the GF) shows how immature and unstable she really is. I'm sure she might have a reason to be mad, but taking it out on another person's property shows mental instability...what's next, arson? She should now be considered permanently written off.
05-02-2008, 10:25 AM
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One more thing...don't forget the restraining order against her. This way, if she comes to where you are (home or work), you can notify the PD and have her taken away.
05-02-2008, 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted by erdoc48
One thought...you now know what she's capable of. I'm sorry to see what happened to your car, but it's a good thing you're no longer with her. What would happen if you ultimately married her or had kids with her? You would be in a permanent hell. Despite what happened to your car (I know I would be really P.O.'d as well), you handled everything admirably. If her parents are paying in full, just be sure to have no further contact with her or her family (someone else posted that their GF did something similar, but they went back with the GF). This action (on the part of the GF) shows how immature and unstable she really is. I'm sure she might have a reason to be mad, but taking it out on another person's property shows mental instability...what's next, arson? She should now be considered permanently written off.
05-02-2008, 11:43 AM
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wow! i mean DAMN!!! i would have lost my mind 
i would have beat her
i would have found her car and did even twice of what she did to your car to her car...
but your a good guy though just get the money from her parents so the quicker you do that you wont have to ever see that b!@$& again...
i would have beat her
i would have found her car and did even twice of what she did to your car to her car...
but your a good guy though just get the money from her parents so the quicker you do that you wont have to ever see that b!@$& again...
05-02-2008, 12:32 PM
#192
Drifting
My girlfriend knows to not even come close to my car with food. If she EVER did that to my car, she'd be serving a life sentence! Good for you for staying calm. Hope the repairs go well.
05-02-2008, 03:07 PM
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Whao dude WTF? I would be majorly pissed if I were you. I feel you though, just 3 days ago a lady backed into my car leaving minor scratches on my bumper and I was upset about that, then my ex-BOYFRIEND ran a key across my back passenger side door LAST NIGHT!!! The scratch is only about a foot long, but it's deep.
I can't believe you are taking this with a grain of salt. I usually have a nice attitude but right now I am livid! To think someone would do something like that just cause they can't handle their own emotions.....I call them losers and haters!!Good to know her parents are paying for it on your behalf....but what kind of woman (or man in my case) does stupid shit like that and then has to have their parents bail them out. Wow, I'm just blown away at how LOW people really are. And to think my ex was trying to get back with me...PLEASE...no chance in hell now. I need a man not a childish little boy. People really need to get a f*king life!
Hope it works out for you.
I can't believe you are taking this with a grain of salt. I usually have a nice attitude but right now I am livid! To think someone would do something like that just cause they can't handle their own emotions.....I call them losers and haters!!Good to know her parents are paying for it on your behalf....but what kind of woman (or man in my case) does stupid shit like that and then has to have their parents bail them out. Wow, I'm just blown away at how LOW people really are. And to think my ex was trying to get back with me...PLEASE...no chance in hell now. I need a man not a childish little boy. People really need to get a f*king life!
Hope it works out for you.
05-02-2008, 03:23 PM
#194
Originally Posted by ChristaKB
Whao dude WTF? I would be majorly pissed if I were you. I feel you though, just 3 days ago a lady backed into my car leaving minor scratches on my bumper and I was upset about that, then my ex-BOYFRIEND ran a key across my back passenger side door LAST NIGHT!!! The scratch is only about a foot long, but it's deep.
I can't believe you are taking this with a grain of salt. I usually have a nice attitude but right now I am livid! To think someone would do something like that just cause they can't handle their own emotions.....I call them losers and haters!!Good to know her parents are paying for it on your behalf....but what kind of woman (or man in my case) does stupid shit like that and then has to have their parents bail them out. Wow, I'm just blown away at how LOW people really are. And to think my ex was trying to get back with me...PLEASE...no chance in hell now. I need a man not a childish little boy. People really need to get a f*king life!
Hope it works out for you.
I can't believe you are taking this with a grain of salt. I usually have a nice attitude but right now I am livid! To think someone would do something like that just cause they can't handle their own emotions.....I call them losers and haters!!Good to know her parents are paying for it on your behalf....but what kind of woman (or man in my case) does stupid shit like that and then has to have their parents bail them out. Wow, I'm just blown away at how LOW people really are. And to think my ex was trying to get back with me...PLEASE...no chance in hell now. I need a man not a childish little boy. People really need to get a f*king life!
Hope it works out for you.
05-02-2008, 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted by FarSide792
Heheh....id say PSYCHO. Not sure what she was thinking (I watched her do most of it...didn't say a word).....And the Acura dealership body shop quoted me a lot cheaper than I though..... They're going to have to grind down and repaint:
All 4 doors
Rear 2 quarter panels
Trunk
Also replace the driver rear window
and retint entire car (I was 'worried' the new tint wouldnt match old
So heres the total damage report:
Car Damages
$3,352.93
Rental Car (4 days)
$340.81
Xbox 360 Elite
$449.99
Nintendo Wii
$249.99
Maui Jim Sunglasses (MJ310-02)
$359.99
Van Heusen Shirt
$36.00
Total
$4,789.71
All 4 doors
Rear 2 quarter panels
Trunk
Also replace the driver rear window
and retint entire car (I was 'worried' the new tint wouldnt match old
So heres the total damage report:
Car Damages
$3,352.93
Rental Car (4 days)
$340.81
Xbox 360 Elite
$449.99
Nintendo Wii
$249.99
Maui Jim Sunglasses (MJ310-02)
$359.99
Van Heusen Shirt
$36.00
Total
$4,789.71
05-02-2008, 07:36 PM
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it would be cool if you could get a restraining order on your car...because she will jus fuck it up AGAIN...and it'll happen when no one is there, probably to the point where she either just sets the car on fire, steals it and drives it off a cloff (you're probably hoping she goes down with it) or just rams it with her car...or all of the above.
05-02-2008, 07:59 PM
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Holy shit, I quite didn't expect what I saw.... I can see where you are coming from by not suing her, but this is serious vandalism. I would have her arrested, then have the charges dropped, or continue on. What she has done is not a very simple act of spraying a tag onto concrete, she ruined a 35,000 dollar car, and as well caused much humiliation, and distress to you, and you are letting her off almost free.
If you decide not to press charges at all, I would at least ask her/parents for the reduced value of the car as well. A repainted car will take a major hit on resale, around 3K maybe.
Just to add on, you said she ripped your shirt off, and broke your sunglasses, that technically is battery. I would take her on charges at least for that, not to punish her, but to "rehabilitate" her in jail to show her that going crazy like that is not acceptable. I know you may still feel that it was a simple mistake, but a simple mistake can turn out into a much bigger one. I say if you do love her and care for her the slightest bit, at least charge her for assault, that will teach her that what she has done is wrong, with the least amount of time in "rehab", and help her from doing acts such as this again, where she may loose everything. Also a misdemeanor offense such as assault will not tarnish her record.
If you decide not to press charges at all, I would at least ask her/parents for the reduced value of the car as well. A repainted car will take a major hit on resale, around 3K maybe.
Just to add on, you said she ripped your shirt off, and broke your sunglasses, that technically is battery. I would take her on charges at least for that, not to punish her, but to "rehabilitate" her in jail to show her that going crazy like that is not acceptable. I know you may still feel that it was a simple mistake, but a simple mistake can turn out into a much bigger one. I say if you do love her and care for her the slightest bit, at least charge her for assault, that will teach her that what she has done is wrong, with the least amount of time in "rehab", and help her from doing acts such as this again, where she may loose everything. Also a misdemeanor offense such as assault will not tarnish her record.
05-02-2008, 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted by FarSide792
Well...I did call the cops and file a report, but I didn't press charges as I'm trying to be nice to the family now.... I feel bad for her mom/dad who are covering her ass financially for this mess and given the career that she wants to pursue, filing charges would completely ruin any chances for her (and the last years in college too). They are paying me for everything and I just want to leave it at that....shes wasted enough of my time and I really dont wanna hafta waste any more with court dates and all that shit.... :-/
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05-02-2008, 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted by csmeance
Holy shit, I quite didn't expect what I saw.... I can see where you are coming from by not suing her, but this is serious vandalism. I would have her arrested, then have the charges dropped, or continue on. What she has done is not a very simple act of spraying a tag onto concrete, she ruined a 35,000 dollar car, and as well caused much humiliation, and distress to you, and you are letting her off almost free.
If you decide not to press charges at all, I would at least ask her/parents for the reduced value of the car as well. A repainted car will take a major hit on resale, around 3K maybe.
Just to add on, you said she ripped your shirt off, and broke your sunglasses, that technically is battery. I would take her on charges at least for that, not to punish her, but to "rehabilitate" her in jail to show her that going crazy like that is not acceptable. I know you may still feel that it was a simple mistake, but a simple mistake can turn out into a much bigger one. I say if you do love her and care for her the slightest bit, at least charge her for assault, that will teach her that what she has done is wrong, with the least amount of time in "rehab", and help her from doing acts such as this again, where she may loose everything. Also a misdemeanor offense such as assault will not tarnish her record.
If you decide not to press charges at all, I would at least ask her/parents for the reduced value of the car as well. A repainted car will take a major hit on resale, around 3K maybe.
Just to add on, you said she ripped your shirt off, and broke your sunglasses, that technically is battery. I would take her on charges at least for that, not to punish her, but to "rehabilitate" her in jail to show her that going crazy like that is not acceptable. I know you may still feel that it was a simple mistake, but a simple mistake can turn out into a much bigger one. I say if you do love her and care for her the slightest bit, at least charge her for assault, that will teach her that what she has done is wrong, with the least amount of time in "rehab", and help her from doing acts such as this again, where she may loose everything. Also a misdemeanor offense such as assault will not tarnish her record.
05-02-2008, 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Fyre Man
I say if he loves her and cares for her the slightest bit after this, hes an idiot.
It's a terrible act of vandalism, but unfortunately people can't just stop loving someone for something they did, regardless of how bad it was.
We can all speculate as to what the OP should do, but it's ultimately his decision and his choice how he feels he needs to move on from this.