New owner - Semi regretful
#161
Funny world we live in. I would never believe it because all the places I have been at nobody cares. (I see everything from both sides after my lady talks about it)
My lady comes home and talks about if there's ever a new car in parking lot they all try and figure out who owns it. There was a young gal who bought a model 3 (cheapest model) she lived at home, no kids and no bills... All the women there that had multiple kids and couldn't afford the car were all pissed at her... Haters gonna hate I guess
p.s. I'm in management and LOVE to see my employees being able to afford nice things
My lady comes home and talks about if there's ever a new car in parking lot they all try and figure out who owns it. There was a young gal who bought a model 3 (cheapest model) she lived at home, no kids and no bills... All the women there that had multiple kids and couldn't afford the car were all pissed at her... Haters gonna hate I guess
p.s. I'm in management and LOVE to see my employees being able to afford nice things
For anyone who hasn't experienced these types of behaviors before, that's great, I'm happy for you. But just because YOU haven't seen these types of things does not mean that it doesn't exist and that these concerns are unfounded.
#162
Suzuka Master
Oh those things exist, but I just dont give a crap about it. I go to my work to do my job well, I could care less who and what thinks what. They need me to get the job done. Those people that 'talk' can go all f.... themselves
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#163
Good for you, but not everyone is in a such a meritocratic situation, so frankly what you say has absolutely no relevance to other people's situations. I might as well be telling some gay guy in Alabama not worry about being discriminated against because I've never seen it happen here in San Francisco.
#164
Suzuka Master
Good for you, but not everyone is in a such a meritocratic situation, so frankly what you say has absolutely no relevance to other people's situations. I might as well be telling some gay guy in Alabama not worry about being discriminated against because I've never seen it happen here in San Francisco.
I think some people are way paranoid about perception by others. If you are a valuable employee, all of it makes no difference. Have some self respect.
#165
In a professional environment, if you are good worker, your expensive or cheap car will make zero difference if they fire you or not.
I think some people are way paranoid about perception by others. If you are a valuable employee, all of it makes no difference. Have some self respect.
I think some people are way paranoid about perception by others. If you are a valuable employee, all of it makes no difference. Have some self respect.
I guess kudos to you for figuring out how to stop caring what other people think, and I mean that sincerely: https://acurazine.com/forums/first-g...people-408996/
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#167
Again, this isn't about YOU. Stop trying to generalize YOUR situation and YOUR experience and projecting it onto everyone else.
#168
Suzuka Master
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#169
Are you saying that your experience is reflection of how corporate world works for most of the people, and I am the outlier in the statistics? And I can repeat myself, that in corporate world it does not matter what car you drive, its not about me. We heard a lot about you doing well, and being able to buy Bentley. Well, guess what, I am not going to get into dick measuring contest.
I'm not sure how I can say this any clearer: just because YOUR experience isn't consistent with this doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. Clearly other people have experienced this, so I'm not sure why you're so adamant about it not being a thing.
#170
Burning Brakes
Wow, you really aren't helping to quell the stereotype of Eastern Europeans having an arrogant "I'm always right, I know everything" outlook. Bravo.
I'm not sure how I can say this any clearer: just because YOUR experience isn't consistent with this doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. Clearly other people have experienced this, so I'm not sure why you're so adamant about it not being a thing.
I'm not sure how I can say this any clearer: just because YOUR experience isn't consistent with this doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. Clearly other people have experienced this, so I'm not sure why you're so adamant about it not being a thing.
#171
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I have friend in Germany who owns several apartment buildings. Many are a couple of hours away. He normally drives a Mercedes S class, but when he goes to some of the "lower rent" houses, he drives his son's VW Passat because he doesn't want to come across like a slumlord - so yes, it is a thing, although I never thought twice about what my boss thinks about what I drive.
How did we get here from "I'm not sure I'm happy with my car?"
How did we get here from "I'm not sure I'm happy with my car?"
like, hey, I'm not rich either, paisan!
And please no brick through the window!
#172
2020 RDX White/Espresso
#173
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My experience is that when you work with professionals, you get a very wide range. One person might be raising a family on that 6 figure salary with a wife with a part time job, while the one next to him may be a single mom on the same salary. At the next dest is a woman, at the same salary, married to an attorney. Across from her is a single person paying off student loans.
And this is just the professional staff. There can be resentment, yes, but in my experience, the people have merely recognized the difference in circumstance. (TBH, the one who got the most resentment was the one married to an attorney, and she didn’t do anything to garner that. Her car was always a new model, low level Merc C, and she didn’t brag, but she took better vacations, always saw the latest plays, and lived the life you would expect from a family pulling down almost half a mil a year. But she was damn good at her job, and helpful to others.)
And this is just the professional staff. There can be resentment, yes, but in my experience, the people have merely recognized the difference in circumstance. (TBH, the one who got the most resentment was the one married to an attorney, and she didn’t do anything to garner that. Her car was always a new model, low level Merc C, and she didn’t brag, but she took better vacations, always saw the latest plays, and lived the life you would expect from a family pulling down almost half a mil a year. But she was damn good at her job, and helpful to others.)
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#174
Suzuka Master
My experience is that when you work with professionals, you get a very wide range. One person might be raising a family on that 6 figure salary with a wife with a part time job, while the one next to him may be a single mom on the same salary. At the next dest is a woman, at the same salary, married to an attorney. Across from her is a single person paying off student loans.
And this is just the professional staff. There can be resentment, yes, but in my experience, the people have merely recognized the difference in circumstance. (TBH, the one who got the most resentment was the one married to an attorney, and she didn’t do anything to garner that. Her car was always a new model, low level Merc C, and she didn’t brag, but she took better vacations, always saw the latest plays, and lived the life you would expect from a family pulling down almost half a mil a year. But she was damn good at her job, and helpful to others.)
And this is just the professional staff. There can be resentment, yes, but in my experience, the people have merely recognized the difference in circumstance. (TBH, the one who got the most resentment was the one married to an attorney, and she didn’t do anything to garner that. Her car was always a new model, low level Merc C, and she didn’t brag, but she took better vacations, always saw the latest plays, and lived the life you would expect from a family pulling down almost half a mil a year. But she was damn good at her job, and helpful to others.)
Agree, people generally dont like when you brag about things. But if you drive your car to work(professional environment), park it, and never talk about it -- you will be fine. Any half decent management is going evaluate you based on your performance rather than the car you get into parking lot. People with brains know that car means nothing, some people are single with no kids, others have kids and wife with no jobs, others dont care about car at all and just need something to get them from point A to point B, others are stupid and spend every last penny they have on a car they can't afford, so over all, any of those things mean nothing. Resentment, sure, maybe from some misearable people, but who cares?
#175
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I like nice things but I don't think I'm awesome because of them. At car meats I usually just park far away and don't like to sweat my rides even if people say they are nice.
I think that has a lot more to do with the person than the car though.
I think that has a lot more to do with the person than the car though.
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#176
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This is probably my biggest gripe with the RDX. Starting the engine in the morning and putting it into reverse always results in a herky-jerky lurch backwards that forces you to modulate the brake pedal in an attempt to smooth it out. I've never owned a vehicle that did this. It's super annoying.
#178
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#182
...well I have to agree... I guess it’s just me but I like the reverse..shift.. lurch.. feature.
Each morning coming out of the garage I put it in reverse take my foot off the break and wait… then the car goes through it’s unique TWO-second ritual and smoothly rolls into reverse as if on hydraulics…
Not a problem for me
#184
I had that brake noise once in awhile under certain conditions, but only when cold. Funny thing, I took it to my dealer, they replaced the front rotors and its never made a peep since. And I must add, Damn this car has great brakes!
#185
Suzuka Master
#186
The problem often is that a bunch of little annoyances add up to an unpleasant ownership experience.
My mom has a 2002 RX300. You can't kill that car and it still looks like new (garaged when not driven. I don't think it has ever spent a night outdoors). My mom (at 95) doesn't drive much so I drive it periodically to put some miles on it. I hate that car and mostly for little things. The things I hated when she bought it in 2002 are the things I still hate.
Only one thing is of any importance - the supertanker like turning radius (44 feet although it was initially advertised at 41). The other minor things are that my knee touches the center console just at the bone that pokes out a bit unless I set the seat just so. Finally, and this is actually my biggest gripe (but in the big scheme of things very minor) is that the cup holders are so shallow that everything falls over. Oddly enough, they put a lot of engineering in them with adjustable arms and whatnot, but they are useless - and there are 4 of them in the front. Actually, the amount of engineering that went into that center console is quite incredible with two sliding drawers and those stupid cupholders that look as if they were designed for 6 ounce cups.
I hate the thing because of the turning radius around town and I hate it on longer trips because of the cupholders. I can usually shift around in the seat to keep my knee away from the center console.
Anybody want to buy a near new 2002 Lexus RX300?
My mom has a 2002 RX300. You can't kill that car and it still looks like new (garaged when not driven. I don't think it has ever spent a night outdoors). My mom (at 95) doesn't drive much so I drive it periodically to put some miles on it. I hate that car and mostly for little things. The things I hated when she bought it in 2002 are the things I still hate.
Only one thing is of any importance - the supertanker like turning radius (44 feet although it was initially advertised at 41). The other minor things are that my knee touches the center console just at the bone that pokes out a bit unless I set the seat just so. Finally, and this is actually my biggest gripe (but in the big scheme of things very minor) is that the cup holders are so shallow that everything falls over. Oddly enough, they put a lot of engineering in them with adjustable arms and whatnot, but they are useless - and there are 4 of them in the front. Actually, the amount of engineering that went into that center console is quite incredible with two sliding drawers and those stupid cupholders that look as if they were designed for 6 ounce cups.
I hate the thing because of the turning radius around town and I hate it on longer trips because of the cupholders. I can usually shift around in the seat to keep my knee away from the center console.
Anybody want to buy a near new 2002 Lexus RX300?
#187
Yup. Today I started noticing a rattle from the passenger door and then while driving using carplay the Voice of Siri went from being able to perfectly hear it to not being able to hear her (really faint) so I almost missed my exit. Fumbling with the trackpad+carplay on this stupid thing while driving is a deathwish in this car on top of that. Never thought I would miss a touch screen, guess I was wrong again.
#188
Yup. Today I started noticing a rattle from the passenger door and then while driving using carplay the Voice of Siri went from being able to perfectly hear it to not being able to hear her (really faint) so I almost missed my exit. Fumbling with the trackpad+carplay on this stupid thing while driving is a deathwish in this car on top of that. Never thought I would miss a touch screen, guess I was wrong again.
1) One should 'review' their route before beginning a trip. As a pilot using GPS for decades I long ago learned that GPS is just an aid, no more. Never depend on it to guide you.
2) Touch screens really draw ones attention away from the road. Many cars, especially higher end ones, get away from touch screens for a reason. They use track balls, joy sticks, etc.
AND:
3) Why did you buy such a "terrible" car? Clearly you hate this thing.
#189
Three Wheelin'
Not sure I agree with this. Many that used to be controlled via external devices have also recently made their screen touch capable (e.g. BMW & MB). Volvo, JLR, Tesla are all high end too and all use touchscreen. I think a touchscreen is much less distracting than Acura's touchpad because I find myself hunting for the right place to click, whereas with a touchscreen there would be no such problem.
#190
Intermediate
Not sure I agree with this. Many that used to be controlled via external devices have also recently made their screen touch capable (e.g. BMW & MB). Volvo, JLR, Tesla are all high end too and all use touchscreen. I think a touchscreen is much less distracting than Acura's touchpad because I find myself hunting for the right place to click, whereas with a touchscreen there would be no such problem.
#193
#194
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Like most people, reverse is how you start your day. You know, reversing out of the garage. It's just annoying and something that I'd never get used to. Lucky for me, my two main vehicles are an Audi and a Jeep, so I guess I can't complain too much about a car I don't actually drive every day. But I do drive it enough to be annoyed because it's something that shouldn't happen in the first place. There's no good reason for it.
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#195
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Admittedly, it isn't a major problem and I never claimed it to be. I said it was an annoyance. The little things like that matter, but no, it's not the end of the world. I also find the engine sound mostly annoying when accelerating anything more than about 25% pedal. It just sounds so unrefined. The ride is also a bit too stiff for a small SUV that doesn't really handle particularly well. See? Those are nitpicks. If I were going to complain about more serious things, I'd mention the noisy and pulsating brake issues. Or I'd mention the crappy infotainment system with the world's worst navigation. No address book? Are you kidding me? That's unforgivable.
#196
Three Wheelin'
Like most people, reverse is how you start your day. You know, reversing out of the garage. It's just annoying and something that I'd never get used to. Lucky for me, my two main vehicles are an Audi and a Jeep, so I guess I can't complain too much about a car I don't actually drive every day. But I do drive it enough to be annoyed because it's something that shouldn't happen in the first place. There's no good reason for it.
(That’s what I do, although it’s just a preference, not to get around the transmission issue.)
#198
I'm planning on buying the Rav4 Prime this summer with my SO and keeping my RDX Advance SH-AWD. I'll do a comparison once we get the Rav4.
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