99TL_sIcknIng

hey wassup guys..this is my third acura..i've had two integras..one crashed one stolen..no luck so i got a TL now..its a Black 99 tl w/navi stock...108k miles..runs good no problems..pretty fast too..i wanna go 19" chrome..that luxary look..but some shops been tellin me 18's are betta..but the bigger the betta..wats the right offset to get? wats the right tire size to get? i dont want it to rub..and im also thinkin about a 1.5 drop later on..im orderin the type-s tails..the oem spoiler..and the oem lip kit..soon too..if i put in the aem cai how much horsepower will that give me?..i also wanna know if there's any special foglights for the 99tl, bcuz i wanna put hid's in those too..where can i get all this shit for a good price?...help me out please