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Old Apr 5, 2010 | 01:16 AM
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My wife and my side chick aka my tl

I Love my GIRL and i take care of all of my responsibilities but everytime i save the money to buy something for the car is a problem. Even when i ask her and tell her what i am going to do in advance and at first she is ok with it then out of no where!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY YOU GOT THAT SHIT IT DOESNT LOOK GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WHY DOES THE CAR GET ALL THAT ATTENTION AND I DONT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BITCH COUSE ALL THAT CARS DOES IS GIVE ME PLEASURE AND ALL YOU DO IS FUCKING COMPLAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!

I SWEAR SOMETIMES I WISH I WAS SINGLE BUT IT IS NOT ALWAYS BAD AT TIMES SHE CAN BE THE RIDE OR DIE CHICK THAT I NEED AN SHE GAVE ME MY GREATEST LOVE IN LIFE WHICH IS MY BABY GIRL "Elena"


Do any of you guys have this same problem or is it just me being too into my car?
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 01:19 AM
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Well, many people on here are "too into their cars".

But, I think this belongs in "Ramblings".
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 01:20 AM
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Old Apr 5, 2010 | 01:28 AM
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Old Apr 5, 2010 | 01:37 AM
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Here's some advice.... never share a bank account.
Problem solved.

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Old Apr 5, 2010 | 02:03 AM
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Old Apr 5, 2010 | 02:08 AM
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haha i get it from my girl all the time "why do you have to do another thing to your car, its fine liek this wah wah"


they just dont understand us man
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 02:13 AM
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Dude, If someone leads her on to this thread, I don't think you'll have to worry about it anymore. lol
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 11:21 AM
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Old Apr 5, 2010 | 12:14 PM
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How does she feel about you being off your meds?
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 02:01 PM
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Anytime I want to get something for my ride, even for standard maintenance, she complains.. next thing u know she's buying ANOTHER pair of shoes, or ANOTHER outfit... her drawers and closets are overflowing with this crap!! After i make the discovery of her purchases I buy a few things I need/want for my car

She can't say shit now! lol
its as horrible as it sounds

We have our thing about cars as "most" women have about shoes/clothes. It's our/their nature (not trying to be sexest or anything but just truthful )
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 02:27 PM
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tell her buying things for your car is like her picking out outfits or shoes.

whenever my wife complains about me getting something for my car its becuase she wants things for her car. i been thinking about getting her a bodykit for christmas
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 02:35 PM
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^
Lol. Try that and report back.
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 02:42 PM
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at least the car is the side chick and not "pinky" from next friday

"dont kill me man, i got a girfreind, i got a wife on the side..."
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 02:43 PM
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Old Apr 5, 2010 | 02:50 PM
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<--- Never sharing a bank account
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 03:01 PM
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Mine's been kinda doing the same thing lately. In the last 2 months I got the ATLP V2 quads, Jpipe, HFC, tints, a Passport Escort, tranny drain, new car wash stuff & a nice detail job....so I could kinda see where she's coming from but she also got a $1,400 puppy last year and we went on a cruise. I'll probably lay low for bit besides CAI and a pulley...until next year when I do my drop & wheels Women will never understand.
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 05:01 PM
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my lady encourages me to mod our cars. whenever we get a new car she always asks if i'm gonna drop it and get some rims/tint/exhaust etc...
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 07:28 PM
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Don't have any children.







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Old Apr 5, 2010 | 07:45 PM
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Old Apr 5, 2010 | 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted by teranfon
Don't have any children.
It appears to already be too late.
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted by RJANACONDA
i been thinking about getting her a bodykit for christmas
Boob job or tummy tuck?
Old Apr 5, 2010 | 11:42 PM
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Originally Posted by svtmike
It appears to already be too late.
Ahhhhhh........

So it is. I never got past the second line of yelling.



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Old Apr 5, 2010 | 11:49 PM
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And the thing is i dont buy shit for my self couse i am just a jeans tshirt kind of guy dont give too fuck about fashion and my girl is the opposite she is a fashion hore..........the most expensive thing i own is my 500 dollar suit.........my girl got at least 15k in her closet and that is a understatement......

so you figure that one out and i dont give too fuck about what she buys for herself or the baby...................................to me it is just the attention that i give the car but fuck it that is never going to change

I LOVE MY TL N SHE LOVES ME
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 12:41 AM
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u failed when u told her what you were going to do in advance.

my money means i buy what i want wth it.
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 07:36 AM
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Originally Posted by billz1109
I LOVE MY TL N SHE LOVES ME
Your TL is an eminently replaceable mass production inaninimate object that doesn't give a fuck about you.

Your wife and daughter are not, but you could certainly behave your way into them not caring about you if that's what you're looking for. Sounds like you're most of the way there with your wife.
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 10:36 AM
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haha i get it from my girl all the time "why do you have to do another thing to your car, its fine liek this wah wah"


they just dont understand us man

lol i've heard that too many times
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 11:35 AM
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I see this marriage ending sooner than later.
The sad part is they have a kid.

You married way too young.
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by billz1109
I LOVE MY TL N SHE LOVES ME
The mistake you're making is thinking this is about your car. It's not. You could be mowing the lawn and if she thinks that activity is getting more attention than her, she'd be complaining about that.

When people complain about objects, the true objection is rarely about the object itself, but an underlying issue. The object is just more easily identifiable.

You should not be asking why she's after you about your car, you should be asking yourself why she is feeling unappreciated. Fix that problem, and the car becomes a non issue.
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 04:26 PM
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He can't even spell "two" correctly

There's no point in giving advice here, this guy's just plain retarded.
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 05:25 PM
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My girlfriend has no problems at all with me blowing money on my car. For my birthday and for Christmas she always gets me a few Polo shirts and some shit for my car.

Me and modding my car = my girlfriend and her clothes

But then again we don't share a bank account
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 07:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Souljah
Here's some advice.... never share a bank account.
Problem solved.

^Had to learn that the hard way

+1, the wife and I shared an account for 7 years. We finally moved to seperate accounts and couldn't be happier.

Doesn't anyone save for their future anymore? Put that shit in a mutual fund!
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted by teranfon
Ahhhhhh........

So it is. I never got past the second line of yelling.



Terry
I can't get past the 1st...
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted by billz1109
And the thing is i dont buy shit for my self couse i am just a jeans tshirt kind of guy dont give too fuck about fashion and my girl is the opposite she is a fashion hore..........the most expensive thing i own is my 500 dollar suit.........my girl got at least 15k in her closet and that is a understatement......

so you figure that one out and i dont give too fuck about what she buys for herself or the baby...................................to me it is just the attention that i give the car but fuck it that is never going to change

I LOVE MY TL N SHE LOVES ME
my girl walks around with a 13k fendi bag. pretty sure i got u beat



anyway. my girl is into cars, she absolutely loves my car. in a month or so we are lowering her car, and getting an intake and exhaust
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 07:58 PM
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Boob job or tummy tuck?

i was thinking more along the line of toung removal
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 08:15 PM
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i am in the same boat

good luck
Old Apr 6, 2010 | 08:21 PM
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Originally Posted by 1Louder
The mistake you're making is thinking this is about your car. It's not. You could be mowing the lawn and if she thinks that activity is getting more attention than her, she'd be complaining about that.

When people complain about objects, the true objection is rarely about the object itself, but an underlying issue. The object is just more easily identifiable.

You should not be asking why she's after you about your car, you should be asking yourself why she is feeling unappreciated. Fix that problem, and the car becomes a non issue.
Well said.
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 03:51 AM
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i am not insulting no one hear so please keep it respectful couse i bet my car you wont talk like that in person
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 03:55 AM
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Originally Posted by 1Louder
The mistake you're making is thinking this is about your car. It's not. You could be mowing the lawn and if she thinks that activity is getting more attention than her, she'd be complaining about that.

When people complain about objects, the true objection is rarely about the object itself, but an underlying issue. The object is just more easily identifiable.

You should not be asking why she's after you about your car, you should be asking yourself why she is feeling unappreciated. Fix that problem, and the car becomes a non issue.
Well said +1
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted by billz1109
i am not insulting no one hear so please keep it respectful couse i bet my car you wont talk like that in person
So much for loving your car, you'd give her up in a bet

Originally Posted by svtmike
Your TL is an eminently replaceable mass production inaninimate object that doesn't give a fuck about you.
That's fucking hysterical and sig worth material right there

Originally Posted by SOCAL BRO!!!
noodz Bro?
Who is this really? Come on



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