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Old Apr 7, 2010 | 01:20 PM
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Old Apr 7, 2010 | 01:20 PM
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So you break up with the father of your child and you are worried about changing your relationship status on Facebook?? God people are fucking stupid.
Tight panties much?.. I mean he did call her a whore and a bitch online and said she was the drain of his happiness. She works full time, school full time, baby full time.. She has a right to put his shit out just as much as he did to her.
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Old Apr 7, 2010 | 01:22 PM
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Old Apr 7, 2010 | 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Majofo
Tight panties much?.. I mean he did call her a whore and a bitch online and said she was the drain of his happiness. She works full time, school full time, baby full time.. She has a right to put his shit out just as much as he did to her.
Nah, not really. Just having a hard time believing this "story" is all. I find it hard to believe how it all fell into place and how she joined here and posted that letter. Just sounds staged. Meh, whatever.
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 01:42 PM
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It's not.. I'm not going to post their personal info up but it's for real.. this guy has great pics of him and his daughter and with Rachel.. then his next album he has several pictures of a car meet with stickers on the cars that say:

"2 LOW 4 FAT HOES"



1Louder & Terry were spot on.. follow their advice if you truly want to be happy and have hope for a future with your family and check the attitude as well.. How are you going to explain to Elena why daddy has sticker's on his ride that says "2 Low 4 Fat Hoes!"





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Old Apr 7, 2010 | 01:54 PM
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Old Apr 7, 2010 | 03:43 PM
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Awesome.

GL Rachel.

OP, at least your TL loves you.
Too bad it's her car, in her name, I sense a part out coming soon.

Rachel, props to you for being a dedicated mother, breadwinner, and student. G'luck to you. OP, grow up
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 04:46 PM
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I was wondering how this thread got 2 pages added to it so quickly. we defiantly only got some of the story with some embellishments against Rachel.

TL's are a helluva drug
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 05:27 PM
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Wow @ this thread.

I do have to ask though, Rachel, WTF were you thinking getting knocked up by such a loser? You seem a hell of a lot smarter than that.
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
Wow @ this thread.

I do have to ask though, Rachel, WTF were you thinking getting knocked up by such a loser? You seem a hell of a lot smarter than that.
I've seen it a few times.... people change. Whether its after getting married, whether its after having a kid or two, or if they just change over time. According to my old boss, his ex-wife turned into a different person once they got married.
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 05:50 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
Wow @ this thread.

I do have to ask though, Rachel, WTF were you thinking getting knocked up by such a loser? You seem a hell of a lot smarter than that.
And hotter...
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 06:28 PM
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Well that will teach you let your browser auto login to AZ.
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 06:35 PM
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Well that will teach you let your browser auto login to AZ.


Clearing cooking could have saved this marriage...
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 06:38 PM
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If this is real, then, wow, what a dumbfock.
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted by doopstr
Well that will teach you let your browser auto login to AZ.
Originally Posted by Whiskers


Clearing cooking could have saved this marriage...
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 06:46 PM
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Wow I didn't see this coming.

Rachel, my girlfriend and I wish you the best of luck! (her and I just read through the thread together )
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 06:48 PM
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Old Apr 7, 2010 | 06:59 PM
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WOW! this was awesome! AZ for Forum of the year!

Good Luck to you Rachel.
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 07:21 PM
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fuk it let umm talkkkk
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 08:35 PM
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wow, just....wow
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 08:40 PM
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Thread of the fucking month.
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 08:54 PM
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Kudos to you Rachel!
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 10:51 PM
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wow rachel. its so funny how everything is one sided. i rescind my previous comment considering that he doesnt make enough money to call his own.

you really were a mother of two it seems and im sorry you had to find out this way. you can do better, trust me. hopefully he kicks it in gear. far too many kids without real father figures these days but i ask you to continue being the best you can be for your daughter.

even if that means moving on from someone you love
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 10:55 PM
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op. youre a fucking loser coming on here and bashing someone who clearly cares so much about you and you have no rebuttal for that. now that all your biz is on front street i think its time you tuck your dick between your legs and cluck for forgiveness.

god im so pissed now
Old Apr 7, 2010 | 10:59 PM
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Wow, this is clearly ownage to the MAX! OP, what a retard, get your priorities straight.
Old Apr 8, 2010 | 12:11 AM
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first of all the only reason the car is on her name couse she total my 06 maxima and i couldn't get another loan at the time to buy another car......next she can tell you this sob story about how i am a dead beat but the real story is that my doughter loves me and i care for her and love her every second of the day..............she is talking out of her ass couse the bottom line is she hates that she can control me but it ok she won the fight of words and that is what females do best...............

i do love my my girl with all my heart

and i am sorry that i put this post out there like i did so i am sorry babes.....


you really KO ME ON THIS ONE .................................................. .........
Old Apr 8, 2010 | 12:47 AM
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Originally Posted by billz1109
the real story is that my doughter loves me
Just because your daughter loves you doesn't not make you a deadbeat. Not providing for her does.

Originally Posted by billz1109
she won the fight of words and that is what females do best
That right there shows your immaturity. If what she said truly was bullshit, you'd have a rebuttal, but you don't so you know it's true.

Im not going to go any further then that because I dont know the full story and I don't want to jump to conclusions, but what has been posted is not exactly going in your favor.
Old Apr 8, 2010 | 01:52 AM
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at first i wanted to requote this

Originally Posted by svtmike
Your TL is an eminently replaceable mass production inaninimate object that doesn't give a fuck about you
then as i continued reading, i realized that i stumbled upon thread of the year
Old Apr 8, 2010 | 08:38 AM
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Originally Posted by billz1109
first of all the only reason the car is on her name couse she total my 06 maxima and i couldn't get another loan at the time to buy another car......next she can tell you this sob story about how i am a dead beat but the real story is that my doughter loves me and i care for her and love her every second of the day..............she is talking out of her ass couse the bottom line is she hates that she can control me but it ok she won the fight of words and that is what females do best...............

i do love my my girl with all my heart

and i am sorry that i put this post out there like i did so i am sorry babes.....


you really KO ME ON THIS ONE .................................................. .........
Sooooooooo........... you gonna change your location or you just gonna leave it like that
Old Apr 8, 2010 | 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted by billz1109
first of all the only reason the car is on her name couse she total my 06 maxima and i couldn't get another loan at the time to buy another car......next she can tell you this sob story about how i am a dead beat but the real story is that my doughter loves me and i care for her and love her every second of the day..............she is talking out of her ass couse the bottom line is she hates that she can control me but it ok she won the fight of words and that is what females do best...............

i do love my my girl with all my heart

and i am sorry that i put this post out there like i did so i am sorry babes.....


you really KO ME ON THIS ONE .................................................. .........

Apparently she can't control you but she controls the title to your car Besides, you are a father now, your baby should be the one controling your "movements"

Here is my Instead of your immature response and wasting time on AZINE, maybe you should focus your energy on bocoming a citizen that can get a "real" job and provide to your family dynamic... if there is any dynamic left. Once again, Racheal... keep up the good work
Old Apr 8, 2010 | 10:17 AM
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Two kids?
Old Apr 8, 2010 | 10:25 AM
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Old Apr 8, 2010 | 10:45 AM
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Wow. Many years on Azine and I've only heard of threads like this. This should be a hall of fame nominee. I can't recall anyone being this owned.

Rachel: That was an articulate and thoughtful reply. Good for you providing for your daughter like that. Best wishes for you and your daughter.

OP: Your attempt at a reply in #108 leads me to believe everything Rachel said was true. You say you love your daughter. Here's what that means. Love is not a feeling or an idea. Love is not something you just say. Love is not the right word to describe how you feel about your car and your daughter.

Love is something you do. Its an action. Its a decision you make. At the very heart of it, love is deciding to put the interests of someone else ahead of your own. Your actions speak more than anything that could possibly come out of your mouth.

So since I don't know you I won't further critize what you wrote. But I would take a hard look at what you think you do, and what you actually do. Love without action is an empty phrase. If you say you love your daughter, and you are not following that up with a lifestyle devoted to supporting her with both your time and resources, then she's really no different to you than your favorite food or a new exhaust system.
Old Apr 8, 2010 | 12:48 PM
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Wow. Many years on Azine and I've only heard of threads like this. This should be a hall of fame nominee. I can't recall anyone being this owned.

Rachel: That was an articulate and thoughtful reply. Good for you providing for your daughter like that. Best wishes for you and your daughter.

OP: Your attempt at a reply in #108 leads me to believe everything Rachel said was true. You say you love your daughter. Here's what that means. Love is not a feeling or an idea. Love is not something you just say. Love is not the right word to describe how you feel about your car and your daughter.

Love is something you do. Its an action. Its a decision you make. At the very heart of it, love is deciding to put the interests of someone else ahead of your own. Your actions speak more than anything that could possibly come out of your mouth.

So since I don't know you I won't further critize what you wrote. But I would take a hard look at what you think you do, and what you actually do. Love without action is an empty phrase. If you say you love your daughter, and you are not following that up with a lifestyle devoted to supporting her with both your time and resources, then she's really no different to you than your favorite food or a new exhaust system.
Well said.

I'd love to have wildly expensive cars, a serious projection home theater, trips to Europe, Egypt etc bi yearly, instead?

I am putting three kids through college, give my Wife the things she deserves, I support my Mom.

I say this only to illustrate what love is to me.
Old Apr 8, 2010 | 01:25 PM
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Serious OWNAGE!!

Definitely man up with that much responsibility.

I know I'm not the most responsible guy right now, but if I was in his situation with a kid, everything beside family can take a back seat.
Old Apr 9, 2010 | 08:30 AM
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I can't believe what this thread has become.

Nominated for #1 FTW!!!
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this is crazy i will be laughingstock of azine for the next year wow how did i fuck up this bad........................

and by the way just to make it clear i do provide for my doughter before i do anything with my money i make sure that the baby's need are taking care of.....it took me 3 years just to get thet things that i wanted for my car but it is ok she won this battle............................................ ..
Old Apr 9, 2010 | 11:50 AM
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Buy her a purse.
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Originally Posted by billz1109
this is crazy i will be laughingstock of azine for the next year wow how did i fuck up this bad........................

and by the way just to make it clear i do provide for my doughter before i do anything with my money i make sure that the baby's need are taking care of.....it took me 3 years just to get thet things that i wanted for my car but it is ok she won this battle............................................ ..
You will be lucky if it is only a year.

It will depend largely on if you continue to come across poorly I suspect.

So she did not boot you?



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