Update: Divorced, moved to better neighborhood. New g/f. She said Yes.
05-09-2016, 03:33 PM
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As am I. For both of you. Best of luck!
05-10-2016, 10:08 AM
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05-10-2016, 01:15 PM
#43
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This can apply to both of you. Getting divorced worked out for the better for the both of us. The kids have adjusted great and like both of our new significant others. Also both of our personal lifestyles have improved. Not knocking my ex but personally mentally, emotionally, physically, financially I have vastly improved. I don't miss anything about myself those years ago.
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05-10-2016, 06:55 PM
#44
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Do either of you feel as though the children had a negative impact that influenced it? I know it sounds horrible at face value, but I have seen kids change my wife and I more than anything else, and a lot of that change has pushed us apart. We were together 8 years before kids/marriage and survived a reasonable amount of turmoil, so it wasn't like kids were the first challenge we faced.
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05-11-2016, 07:13 AM
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Yes absolutely. Children can disrupt a relationship for many reasons. Plus your attention to each other is divided. It turns your marriage more into a partnership of raising a separate person and a lot of times it makes and breaks relationships.
08-03-2016, 09:33 AM
#46
I may be heading towards a divorce too. Wife has wanted one for some time but doesn't want to pull the trigger until I consent.
As of now it's hard for me to decide what to do. We have a young child which makes it difficult.
As of now it's hard for me to decide what to do. We have a young child which makes it difficult.
to all of you!
08-03-2016, 12:20 PM
#48
best of luck with this...
08-03-2016, 03:00 PM
#49
Fk no!TheyldstroyEvrthing
08-03-2016, 03:39 PM
#51
Fk no!TheyldstroyEvrthing
Didn't wanna scare him off 
05-15-2017, 04:30 AM
#53
God damn.. why would you want to stay with a woman telling you she wants to leave you..? Get a lawyer and sack up, get custody of your kid before you come home to your wife fucking some dude in your bed so you get the point.. she's DONE with you bro... shes BEEN DONE... stop trying to save the dusmpter fire that is your marriage... abort mission.. deal with it... don't let your kid see you being a weak little bitch like that seriously... horrible example you are setting... SMH...😡😡😡
05-15-2017, 04:37 AM
#54
Man Im so FUCKING ECSTATIC all you motherfuckers got divorced!! FUCK YEA!!! Marriage is fucking BULLSHIT nowadays anyways!!FUCK THAT SHIT!! You know why Divorces are expensive!?!? BECAUSE THEY ARE FUCKING WORTH IT!!!!!
Now learn your Fucking lessons, and don't get married again... don't be such cuckolds!
Now learn your Fucking lessons, and don't get married again... don't be such cuckolds!
05-15-2017, 07:27 AM
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Wow, now there's an attitude; @aomechmarine, in the words of Eddy Murphy, "I'd like to meet the bitch who fucked you up."
To @TLstylin, my wife and I went through a separation after nearly 20 years of marriage, and for over a year I tried forestalling a divorce; finally on Mother's Day 2014 she told me she'd contacted her attorney and would have everything done and finalized by the end of June that year. Then she said the fatal words, "So then we can be friends again and still date every now and again, right?"
My shocked response was, "Uhhh, no, I'm still your loyal husband until the judge says we're divorced, but once you pull that trigger, it can't be unpulled."
Two weeks later while I was visiting our son, then stationed at NAS Pensacola, I had shared with him his mother and I would be divorced within about a month, and while he and I were out eating at a nice harbor front restaurant, she called, in tears, and said, "I can't do it; are you still willing to get back together?"
The good news is we unseparated, and now get along and have more fun than pretty much any time since we first met.
Long story short, give your wife the room she needs to figure out what she wants; you may well end up getting back together.
To @TLstylin, my wife and I went through a separation after nearly 20 years of marriage, and for over a year I tried forestalling a divorce; finally on Mother's Day 2014 she told me she'd contacted her attorney and would have everything done and finalized by the end of June that year. Then she said the fatal words, "So then we can be friends again and still date every now and again, right?"
My shocked response was, "Uhhh, no, I'm still your loyal husband until the judge says we're divorced, but once you pull that trigger, it can't be unpulled."
Two weeks later while I was visiting our son, then stationed at NAS Pensacola, I had shared with him his mother and I would be divorced within about a month, and while he and I were out eating at a nice harbor front restaurant, she called, in tears, and said, "I can't do it; are you still willing to get back together?"
The good news is we unseparated, and now get along and have more fun than pretty much any time since we first met.
Long story short, give your wife the room she needs to figure out what she wants; you may well end up getting back together.
05-15-2017, 07:47 AM
#56
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Originally Posted by horseshoez
Wow, now there's an attitude; @aomechmarine, in the words of Eddy Murphy, "I'd like to meet the bitch who fucked you up."
because she did one hell of a job...
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05-15-2017, 08:48 AM
#58
Never been burned by any girl. not stupid enough to. i grew up on Tom Leykis and I just pump and dump women in general. The average woman has nothing to offer a man. Just wants to use up your resources, time, money, energy and effort. not my fault some of you guys need a mommy to wipe your ass.
My mom was a great and loyal wife to my dad, shes not perfect, just like no one is. but she knew her role and she played it. Women nowadays aren't interested in being feminine. They are social justice warriors, feminists and entitled cunts in general. i don't need that bullshit in my life.
Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married
MOST young men now realize marriage is bullshit, it's a worldwide reality. Ever heard of the grass eater men in Japan? herbivore men? THey don't want to get married and Japan's population is shrinking.
This is acurazine ramblings not a some pussy Doctor Phil shit... fuck all that... lets keep it real... a lot of guys are in unhappy marriages and thats a GREAT thing they are getting divorced, not sad.. WTF? Break the fuck up, and move on.. have some pride in your self... thats why women walk all over a lot of men, motherfuckers have no backbone or self respect...
Ding dong the bitch is gone, the bitch is gone.
My mom was a great and loyal wife to my dad, shes not perfect, just like no one is. but she knew her role and she played it. Women nowadays aren't interested in being feminine. They are social justice warriors, feminists and entitled cunts in general. i don't need that bullshit in my life.
Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married
MOST young men now realize marriage is bullshit, it's a worldwide reality. Ever heard of the grass eater men in Japan? herbivore men? THey don't want to get married and Japan's population is shrinking.
This is acurazine ramblings not a some pussy Doctor Phil shit... fuck all that... lets keep it real... a lot of guys are in unhappy marriages and thats a GREAT thing they are getting divorced, not sad.. WTF? Break the fuck up, and move on.. have some pride in your self... thats why women walk all over a lot of men, motherfuckers have no backbone or self respect...
Ding dong the bitch is gone, the bitch is gone.
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05-15-2017, 08:57 AM
#59
the guys that get the most butthurt about this type of subject are the pussy beggars and the manginas and cuck traditionalists that can't stand the fact that the world is changing around them. 60% of marriages end in Divorce. 80% are initiated by women. It's even worse in some states. California has an 80% divorce rate, and again 80% initiated by women. California has lifetime alimony after 10 years of marriage. If you get married at 20, and divorced at 30, legally you will have to pay until she remarries or you die. Now why would a women who mow hates you choose to relieve you of thos burden..? And all she has to do is wait until you miss one payment, call the cops on you, and your ass is going to jail. Fuck all of that. Not worth it. You wouldn't cross a certain street if half the time you would get your ass run over. These are FACTS. If you don't like them FUCK YOUR FEELINGS. Facts over feelings.
if all you can provide are bullshit ass personal attacks, then that just proves you have no logical reasoning against what I'm saying. Only your pussy ass fee fee's that are getting hurt over the subject matter.
if all you can provide are bullshit ass personal attacks, then that just proves you have no logical reasoning against what I'm saying. Only your pussy ass fee fee's that are getting hurt over the subject matter.
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05-15-2017, 09:19 AM
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Forgot about this thread...
just got divorced...
initiated by my ex-wife, but once she said it, I took it more as a reflection of something wrong with her, not me...I went straight to clean up mode, eating well, jogging, feeling good about myself and the possibility for the unknown.
I tried for a little while but her reaction and demeanor made it easy to not wallow too long. Once I knew the nail was in the coffin, came to some realizations...including that I'd be happy to find someone I had more in common with and that she was probably seeing someone else...I was done and divorced within 6 weeks, house sold within 8...life moved on. Used some equity leverage to get her to agree to leave my toys and savings intact...no child support, no alimony, now have a gorgeous daughter, a sweet bachelor pad and stunning girlfriend...about 5 months from the initial conversation. I have nothing to complain about.
Only thing I disagree with is that I might be stupid enough to re-marry one day.
just got divorced...
initiated by my ex-wife, but once she said it, I took it more as a reflection of something wrong with her, not me...I went straight to clean up mode, eating well, jogging, feeling good about myself and the possibility for the unknown.
I tried for a little while but her reaction and demeanor made it easy to not wallow too long. Once I knew the nail was in the coffin, came to some realizations...including that I'd be happy to find someone I had more in common with and that she was probably seeing someone else...I was done and divorced within 6 weeks, house sold within 8...life moved on. Used some equity leverage to get her to agree to leave my toys and savings intact...no child support, no alimony, now have a gorgeous daughter, a sweet bachelor pad and stunning girlfriend...about 5 months from the initial conversation. I have nothing to complain about.
Only thing I disagree with is that I might be stupid enough to re-marry one day.
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05-15-2017, 09:24 AM
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Dude you REALLY lucked out, glad to hear you didn't get fucked in the divorce as thats pretty common place. Don't do it again man.. serious... you made a clean getaway... Don't return to the scene of the crime... just DON'T
05-15-2017, 09:28 AM
#62
LOL...
no doubt, man...
I'm not as open to it as I was previously but I'm getting old enough to not make absolute statements.
Curious, if your parents are married and happy...what made you so against it? Like, what actually gave you that point of view and pushed you toward that frame of mind?
no doubt, man...
I'm not as open to it as I was previously but I'm getting old enough to not make absolute statements.
Curious, if your parents are married and happy...what made you so against it? Like, what actually gave you that point of view and pushed you toward that frame of mind?
05-15-2017, 09:35 AM
#63
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the guys that get the most butthurt about this type of subject are the pussy beggars and the manginas and cuck traditionalists that can't stand the fact that the world is changing around them. 60% of marriages end in Divorce. 80% are initiated by women. It's even worse in some states. California has an 80% divorce rate, and again 80% initiated by women. California has lifetime alimony after 10 years of marriage. If you get married at 20, and divorced at 30, legally you will have to pay until she remarries or you die. Now why would a women who mow hates you choose to relieve you of thos burden..? And all she has to do is wait until you miss one payment, call the cops on you, and your ass is going to jail. Fuck all of that. Not worth it. You wouldn't cross a certain street if half the time you would get your ass run over. These are FACTS. If you don't like them FUCK YOUR FEELINGS. Facts over feelings.
if all you can provide are bullshit ass personal attacks, then that just proves you have no logical reasoning against what I'm saying. Only your pussy ass fee fee's that are getting hurt over the subject matter.
if all you can provide are bullshit ass personal attacks, then that just proves you have no logical reasoning against what I'm saying. Only your pussy ass fee fee's that are getting hurt over the subject matter.
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05-15-2017, 09:40 AM
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Forgot about this thread...
just got divorced...
initiated by my ex-wife, but once she said it, I took it more as a reflection of something wrong with her, not me...I went straight to clean up mode, eating well, jogging, feeling good about myself and the possibility for the unknown.
I tried for a little while but her reaction and demeanor made it easy to not wallow too long. Once I knew the nail was in the coffin, came to some realizations...including that I'd be happy to find someone I had more in common with and that she was probably seeing someone else...I was done and divorced within 6 weeks, house sold within 8...life moved on. Used some equity leverage to get her to agree to leave my toys and savings intact...no child support, no alimony, now have a gorgeous daughter, a sweet bachelor pad and stunning girlfriend...about 5 months from the initial conversation. I have nothing to complain about.
Only thing I disagree with is that I might be stupid enough to re-marry one day.
just got divorced...
initiated by my ex-wife, but once she said it, I took it more as a reflection of something wrong with her, not me...I went straight to clean up mode, eating well, jogging, feeling good about myself and the possibility for the unknown.
I tried for a little while but her reaction and demeanor made it easy to not wallow too long. Once I knew the nail was in the coffin, came to some realizations...including that I'd be happy to find someone I had more in common with and that she was probably seeing someone else...I was done and divorced within 6 weeks, house sold within 8...life moved on. Used some equity leverage to get her to agree to leave my toys and savings intact...no child support, no alimony, now have a gorgeous daughter, a sweet bachelor pad and stunning girlfriend...about 5 months from the initial conversation. I have nothing to complain about.
Only thing I disagree with is that I might be stupid enough to re-marry one day.
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05-15-2017, 10:20 AM
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AOmechs mom forgot to swallow... and now he's in here being a stupid asshole 
05-15-2017, 10:22 AM
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Only an insecure man that has been really badly burned by a woman in the past talks like AOmech now. Sorry, mang.
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05-15-2017, 11:57 AM
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I don't feel bad for rockstar...I've seen his girlfriend :hot:
aomech "grew up" on Tom Lykis. In others words he's a virgin.
aomech "grew up" on Tom Lykis. In others words he's a virgin.
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05-15-2017, 12:40 PM
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...Just wants to use up your resources, time, money, energy and effort. not my fault some of you guys need a mommy to wipe your ass.
My mom was a great and loyal wife to my dad, shes not perfect, just like no one is. but she knew her role and she played it. Women nowadays aren't interested in being feminine. They are social justice warriors, feminists and entitled cunts in general. i don't need that bullshit in my life.
My mom was a great and loyal wife to my dad, shes not perfect, just like no one is. but she knew her role and she played it. Women nowadays aren't interested in being feminine. They are social justice warriors, feminists and entitled cunts in general. i don't need that bullshit in my life.
I think I should send this quote to your mom.
#proudmama
#mothersday
I heard it was Lykdis, Richard
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05-15-2017, 01:06 PM
#73
Forgot about this thread...
just got divorced...
initiated by my ex-wife, but once she said it, I took it more as a reflection of something wrong with her, not me...I went straight to clean up mode, eating well, jogging, feeling good about myself and the possibility for the unknown.
I tried for a little while but her reaction and demeanor made it easy to not wallow too long. Once I knew the nail was in the coffin, came to some realizations...including that I'd be happy to find someone I had more in common with and that she was probably seeing someone else...I was done and divorced within 6 weeks, house sold within 8...life moved on. Used some equity leverage to get her to agree to leave my toys and savings intact...no child support, no alimony, now have a gorgeous daughter, a sweet bachelor pad and stunning girlfriend...about 5 months from the initial conversation. I have nothing to complain about.
Only thing I disagree with is that I might be stupid enough to re-marry one day.
just got divorced...
initiated by my ex-wife, but once she said it, I took it more as a reflection of something wrong with her, not me...I went straight to clean up mode, eating well, jogging, feeling good about myself and the possibility for the unknown.
I tried for a little while but her reaction and demeanor made it easy to not wallow too long. Once I knew the nail was in the coffin, came to some realizations...including that I'd be happy to find someone I had more in common with and that she was probably seeing someone else...I was done and divorced within 6 weeks, house sold within 8...life moved on. Used some equity leverage to get her to agree to leave my toys and savings intact...no child support, no alimony, now have a gorgeous daughter, a sweet bachelor pad and stunning girlfriend...about 5 months from the initial conversation. I have nothing to complain about.
Only thing I disagree with is that I might be stupid enough to re-marry one day.
05-15-2017, 01:10 PM
#74
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Oh she hot mang.. I have pics.
And I don't like to share.
And I don't like to share.
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05-15-2017, 01:12 PM
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Let's just say I'd go un-:ghey: for her...
Look at what she did to him
Look at what she did to him
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05-15-2017, 05:42 PM
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05-15-2017, 05:50 PM
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LOL...
no doubt, man...
I'm not as open to it as I was previously but I'm getting old enough to not make absolute statements.
Curious, if your parents are married and happy...what made you so against it? Like, what actually gave you that point of view and pushed you toward that frame of mind?
no doubt, man...
I'm not as open to it as I was previously but I'm getting old enough to not make absolute statements.
Curious, if your parents are married and happy...what made you so against it? Like, what actually gave you that point of view and pushed you toward that frame of mind?
ZERO BENEFITS. i challange ANYONE to list the benfits of marriage to a man. Specifically TO a MAN. There are many. many, benefits for a woman... If Im wrong, prove it. none of you have rebuked what i've said. All of you that responded emotionally can't think logically. Fuck your previous fee fee's. Facts over feelings
as well my typos are numerous, and will continue Its a god damn nightmare interface from this iPhone 7 plus..
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05-15-2017, 05:54 PM
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