V12 Inspire

We've been dating on and off for 6 years already. Officially, only 3(age differences. We met when I was 17, and she was 14. Tbh, I thought she was older, plus she lied about her age, but that's not what I'm getting at here). We probably broke up and got back together more times than any young couple ever has(i counted at least 10 break-ups and make-ups, she says there's more), because we both admit to having some emotional, social, behavioural, and mental issues/baggage. So, she texted me yesterday. Turns out, the reason why I haven't heard from her the last few weeks is because she went back to rehab. When we first met, she was a cutter, but has since stopped. I called and asked her why she was back in rehab, and she says it's because she was doing heroin. I damn nearly dropped my phone in shock. I asked her where she was, but she said the doctors won't let me near her, because they think I got her into it. Her parents won't talk to me, her friends hate my guts, and the doctors in the hospital where she is won't let me see her. I don't know what to do, guys. We decided a while back to really try and stay together, and things were going great, and then I get this emotional nuke.

TIA(Thanks In Advance)

justnspace

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ummmm, run fool.
dont look back.


this is a blessing! as it shows that she still has lots of growing up to do.

p.s. why would you want to be with some one who does heroin anyway? she also sounds like she lied to Doc and family to pin it on you.

Flipster23

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Inb4someoneasksfornudes

Flipster23

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Run forest.


That's what you do.

thoiboi

On and off for 6 years says something. As much as you feel some sort of obligation to help her, it'll probably hurt more than help now. If all signs are pointing to you not being able to help her, then maybe she doesn't need your help. The rehab is going to do her more good than you are.


Water under the bridge, you'll probably hear from her in a few months or years but highly suggest you move on. This bitch b cray..

justnspace

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"where did you get the heroin from"

"V12inspire"

she threw you under the bus, man.

ulrblitzer

<p>Walk away, you don't even have to make up a reason anymore, it's been provided for you.</p>

1killercls

thoiboi

we need to make an educated decision..

TacoBello

If you can't see the errors in your relationship as is, there is no helping you.

TacoBello

If it didn't work the first time, it won't work the second. Or third. Or fourth. Or fifth. Or sixth. Or seventh. Or eighth. Or ninth. Or tenth. Or eleventh.

Her family hates you, her friends hate you, she's got issues, why the fuck do you even want to be in such a spot? She's not the only one for you. In fact, she sounds like she should be the very last one for you.

Cut your losses and move on, my man.

thoiboi

Twelfth time's the charm.. is that the saying?

Mr. Maker

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<p>Pics of the gash </p>

Flipster23

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Ninja gon' mess around and she going to cut him.

TacoBello

Looks like an open axe wound

Jakes_tl

Don't hang around her too long or you might end up on heroin. I guess in your case the saying "love is blind" is true.

Will Y.

Did you get her into the heroin, or any other non-prescription drugs?

If affirmative, you need to either stop cold turkey or get into rehab yourself, before even thinking about getting back together with her.

If not, take everyone else's advice and run.
You mentioned that you've got issues and baggage as well-- you need to deal with your own before you can deal with those of the GF.

G/L.


Oh, and put me in the line for pics (of the GF, not you) via PM.

doopstr

Is this Fear the Walking Dead?

stogie1020

V12,

What you really ought to consider right now is looking inward, not outward.

Time for some deep, honest thought about yourself.

-What attracted you to her initially?
-What keeps you attracted to her?
-What is it about how you see yourself that makes you think other women with those traits will not be attracted to you?

Being loyal to someone is noble and honorable, and she should be very glad you are as committed as you present here. However, you need to be loyal to yourself before you can ever be to someone else.

Honestly, if this is the kind of person you envisioned yourself getting back together with, you need to take some time off from the "we" and get the "you" straightened out.

Once you are a clear headed, happy and confident person (in a year, two?), see if she is as well. If not, YOU deserve better and will be in a good place to attract someone who will be a positive and supportive partner.

Whiskers

(does the math....carry the 4)....


yes, go for it.

ttribe

I sat in on a presentation by a law enforcement officer assigned to the drug enforcement task force in his department. He made a point of discussing the difficulties in overcoming heroin addictions stating, essentially, that he had dealt with hundreds of heroin addicts in his career and had only seen 2 get themselves clean and stay clean. All the others ended up dead or incarcerated for a very long time.

In other words, if you hadn't mentioned all the other issues, my advice would be to get away just on the heroin issue alone. Everything else you've mentioned just adds to the resolve of my advice - Move on. Don't look back.

Rapture

"They think you got me into it" can be translated to "I told them you got me into it" IMO the fact she blamed you for her abuse is more than enough reason to ditch her. You most likely will never convince her family + friends you were innocent.


Think about it. If she's capable of doing that without any regard, what's to stop her from doing something equally shitty if you decide to stick with her? As backwards as this sounds, being addicted to heroin is one thing, but putting the blame solely on you is another. I guarantee if/when she relapses you'll get cops knocking on your door.

NBP04TL4ME

She's your GF and you haven't heard from her in weeks?? I agree with all that already been posted in this thread - move on. There is definitely more to the story here and it's likely not good.
Too many other fish in the sea and especially at your age...........

Majofo

<p>nudes bro?</p>

Mr. Maker

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<p>Tell tell her to cut it out.. </p>

imj0257

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97BlackAckCL

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So many issues here...

Majofo

<p>$5&nbsp;footlong says OP is m'lady reddit bruh who is in a long distance internet relationship with a female beta he met on MLP reddit board.. Everybody knows pegasisters can't resist the H. It's the only way&nbsp;bronys get their Ds wet.. by trading hits of H for oratio copulatio.&nbsp;</p>

Flipster23

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I'll take your offer and throw in a bag of iceberg lettuce.

TacoBello

i prefer cucumbers

Majofo

<p>can a ninja get a few slices of tomato?&nbsp;</p>

TacoBello

And den?

Majofo

<p>catsup</p>

97BlackAckCL

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stogie1020

She sounds Dan.

oo7spy

You're what, 23? Perhaps you have not learned of the hot/crazy matrix yet, so let's take a look.

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You are dealing with a 10 crazy. Even if she were truly a 10 hot (which I highly, highly doubt regardless of your standards), she would still be dancing on the fine line between danger zone and date zone. The fact is, there is just about no way in hell that this can work out well for you.

TacoBello

OP is looooong gone.


Had to find another source for the H

TacoBello

I was referring to Preparation H, just for the record.

thoiboi

Uh...Khakis?

thoiboi

Crazy gf got to him.. probably found this thread



OP