How do you get a girl to break up with you?
08-13-2012, 01:14 PM
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How do you get a girl to break up with you?
basically what the title says but not to the point where her parents hate you because they are family friends 
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08-13-2012, 01:25 PM
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Why can't you break up with her?
08-13-2012, 02:23 PM
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hahaha I just did this with my last relationship, I just pushed her to do it because I didn't want to break her heart and be the bad guy. Just tell her you're not interested anymore, or fuck her sister and/or best friend, whichever works better.
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08-13-2012, 02:42 PM
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spot on Justin !!!
OP from my past experience, just bite the bullet and break up with her....tell her its not working anymore and that you would still want to be friends if she wants to....be upfront with her....
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But if for whatever reason you can't, just act bored and mindless around her.
08-13-2012, 03:05 PM
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Just tell her that in the past few months (or whatever timeframe works with how long you've been in the relationship) you've started to see her as being more as a friend than someone you want to be in a relationship with.
This leaves you open to continue a friendship if you want to.
This leaves you open to continue a friendship if you want to.
08-13-2012, 03:17 PM
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give her my number.
08-13-2012, 03:24 PM
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Show her this thread.
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08-13-2012, 04:12 PM
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^^^ THIS
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why do u want to break up with her?
08-13-2012, 09:03 PM
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^ that's earning your red wings, son
08-14-2012, 08:39 AM
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It's never a good idea to "get someone" to break up with you. If you are worried about what her family thinks, this is a bad idea because that plan involves you behaving like a jerk.
Being the father of an almost 17 year old girl, I would take a dim view of any kid who treats her poorly - especially if he's playing games.
There is no perfect way to do this, only varying degrees of bad. But the plan with the least amount of long-term damage is to just be straight with her. Do it in person, and don't draw it out. If you take more than five or six sentences you're saying too much. Focus on the situation, don't make it personal. That's about all you can do to minimize the fallout.
Being the father of an almost 17 year old girl, I would take a dim view of any kid who treats her poorly - especially if he's playing games.
There is no perfect way to do this, only varying degrees of bad. But the plan with the least amount of long-term damage is to just be straight with her. Do it in person, and don't draw it out. If you take more than five or six sentences you're saying too much. Focus on the situation, don't make it personal. That's about all you can do to minimize the fallout.
08-14-2012, 09:17 AM
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08-14-2012, 10:23 AM
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What the hell is wrong with these kids today?
OP, your 17, there is sooo much pussy out there just waiting to be poked in the back seat of your parents car (insert, "When I was your age..."). For god sake young man, grow a fucking pair and tell her you want to see other biscuits. Who gives a shit what her parents feel like. They probably don't like you fucking their daughter anyhow.
OP, your 17, there is sooo much pussy out there just waiting to be poked in the back seat of your parents car (insert, "When I was your age..."). For god sake young man, grow a fucking pair and tell her you want to see other biscuits. Who gives a shit what her parents feel like. They probably don't like you fucking their daughter anyhow.
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08-14-2012, 10:45 AM
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What the hell is wrong with these kids today?
OP, your 17, there is sooo much pussy out there just waiting to be poked in the back seat of your parents car (insert, "When I was your age..."). For god sake young man, grow a fucking pair and tell her you want to see other biscuits. Who gives a shit what her parents feel like. They probably don't like you fucking their daughter anyhow.
OP, your 17, there is sooo much pussy out there just waiting to be poked in the back seat of your parents car (insert, "When I was your age..."). For god sake young man, grow a fucking pair and tell her you want to see other biscuits. Who gives a shit what her parents feel like. They probably don't like you fucking their daughter anyhow.
08-14-2012, 11:32 AM
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Tell her you have crabs, and got them from a guy named Justin...
Problem solved, and the parents can't hate you for being who you really are
Problem solved, and the parents can't hate you for being who you really are
08-14-2012, 12:01 PM
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08-14-2012, 09:57 PM
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ok ok but now this is the problem i was kinda seeing two chicks before dating her so i wasnt really cheating you can say. then i chose her and now im talking to one of the other girls again and just want everything like any other guy.. only one thing im not willing to cheat and other girl wont do anything with me until i break up with current gf what to do what to do
08-14-2012, 10:15 PM
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Break up with her and get with the other girl? You're 17, no sense in getting in a serious relationship. Go out and have fun so you'll have stories to tell when you're older.
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08-15-2012, 08:34 AM
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ok ok but now this is the problem i was kinda seeing two chicks before dating her so i wasnt really cheating you can say. then i chose her and now im talking to one of the other girls again and just want everything like any other guy.. only one thing im not willing to cheat and other girl wont do anything with me until i break up with current gf what to do what to do
So what's up with girl #1 that's keeping this from being a painfully obvious choice?