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Old 08-27-2013, 07:21 PM
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I like that idea Crazyasaintl, except for one part, I'd have to then buy her a pizza if she says yes.
Buy her a slice
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Old 08-27-2013, 07:59 PM
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Maybe I should've used red text. Of course I'd pay for her pizza. Haha
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Old 08-27-2013, 08:13 PM
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No more subtle. Confidently get across what you want without scaring her off. You're dancing on the friend zone fence. She either wants more or doesn't. You need to find that out sooner than later.
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Did you mean no, more subtle or don't be subtle anymore? Lol
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^fine line.


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Old 08-27-2013, 11:58 PM
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Old 08-28-2013, 07:18 AM
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Originally Posted by rossv1
Did you mean no, more subtle or don't be subtle anymore? Lol
Everything I've read points to the fact she's into you and you are into her. I don't think any "obvious" moves are really necessary to clear things up - seems like both of you are on the same page. Now is not to risk a douche bag move.

I think if you want a next move, ask her out and say "just the two of us". Make it clear you want a one-on-one date. That will get the idea across without worrying about which lady part to try and touch next. That will happen soon enough.
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^fine line.


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Keep us posted, don't be a typical thread starter!
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Old 08-28-2013, 08:25 AM
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Keep us posted, don't be a typical thread starter!

That and


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Originally Posted by rossv1
I like that idea Crazyasaintl, except for one part, I'd have to then buy her a pizza if she says yes.
A $5 pizza is a small price to pay.
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Old 08-28-2013, 08:40 AM
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Old 08-28-2013, 08:57 AM
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Well said, Ack!
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Remember... if all else fails......that is if she's into that...
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I could only imagine how bad that shit would smell. Literally.
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Old 08-28-2013, 09:44 AM
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Chances are she's not even into that. I know maybe 2-3 girls that actually like that. You're on your own with making that decision, Jack.
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Originally Posted by rossv1
Did you mean no, more subtle or don't be subtle anymore? Lol
Originally Posted by oo7spy
Confidently get across what you want without scaring her off.
Originally Posted by 1Louder
Make it clear you want a one-on-one date. That will get the idea across...
You need to know what you want between the two of you, and then, you need to make sure she knows that too. Insinuating or leaving room for anything else could lead to the exact opposite of what you want and waste your time.
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Old 08-28-2013, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted by oo7spy
You need to know what you want between the two of you, and then, you need to make sure she knows that too. Insinuating or leaving room for anything else could lead to the exact opposite of what you want and waste your time.
This. Ross just go out on date one-on-one, sit an chat and go from there. It's obvious that you two are into each other.
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Originally Posted by Acura_Dude
Chances are she's not even into that. I know maybe 2-3 girls that actually like that. You're on your own with making that decision, Jack.
Slow down dude, he can't even kiss the girl. He needs to find out if she's DTF and work that in later down the line
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They do give out lube for free at the clinic on campus....
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Originally Posted by 97BlackAckCL
Slow down dude, he can't even kiss the girl. He needs to find out if she's DTF and work that in later down the line
Yeah I know. Ross has pretty much received the same advice about taking it slow and yada yada, so by now he should know what to do. I just decided to throw that it in.

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They do give out lube for free at the clinic on campus....
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Heading there now

Edit:

GGGAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH

I thought we were friends on there!
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Heading there now

Edit:

GGGAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH

I thought we were friends on there!
It's actually pretty amazing what you can find out about people on FB and not be friends with them....

Scary even.
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^^having this guy looking into you on fb is scary.
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Slow down dude, he can't even kiss the girl. He needs to find out if she's DTF and work that in later down the line
They shouldn't even kiss until they are married. I read that somewhere...
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If all else fails Asstroglide
I see what you did there....
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